Seeking Arrangements

**Javazer** · 03-18-18 11:44

Originally Posted by Cpcdman [View Original Post]

I've had 2 arrangements, both lasted over a year. The first was not through SA, I actually met her through CLCE. She was 30, had 2 children. She answered a post of mine. We hit it off and the arrangement happened naturally I guess. The second was through SA. She was a college senior and it lasted about a year and a half. She actually contact me on SA. It ended because she moved out of state for graduate school. It just seems to me that now on SA it's taking a lot more effort to find that "gem" because of all of the fake profiles and game players. I find that when I do meet someone real they have expectations that are really crazy. A friend will tell them about the site and "coach" them on what the should put out there for their expectations. But, the search goes on to find that gem!

I hear you. Surprisingly the real ones have good legit jobs and would be on SA for a specific reason or time. And allowance would be important of course but not at the top of their list as they better understand a working salary in the real world and have realistic expectation.

**Cpcdman** · 03-18-18 11:14

I've had 2 arrangements, both lasted over a year. The first was not through SA, I actually met her through CLCE. She was 30, had 2 children. She answered a post of mine. We hit it off and the arrangement happened naturally I guess. The second was through SA. She was a college senior and it lasted about a year and a half. She actually contact me on SA. It ended because she moved out of state for graduate school. It just seems to me that now on SA it's taking a lot more effort to find that "gem" because of all of the fake profiles and game players. I find that when I do meet someone real they have expectations that are really crazy. A friend will tell them about the site and "coach" them on what the should put out there for their expectations. But, the search goes on to find that gem!

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I stopped using craigslist, BP, EROS and agencies and I am on SA for about a year now. I have met dozens of girls from various age and background. My longest arrangement lasted 6 months and the shortest was a one time thing. I am far from being a player, I am honest upfront with my marital status and what I can afford on allowance and in time. I am not looking for a one or two bang and done but rather a long term arrangement with someone who is looking for just one SD to supplement their legitimate income. It takes time to find the gem, build trust and actually meet. I am starting a new arrangement with a 44 why / o classy young "Candace Bergen" type looking woman who had to go back to work as a nurse after her recent divorce and take care her kids. It took a year to find this ideal arrangement and I am hoping to keep it going for a long time. What you are looking for will determine how you will approach the conversation. Of course I had my share of flakes, it's part of the game. But if you are a gentleman and have patience, you will find that gem. SA is not instant gratification, you have to adjust your expectation.

Javazer.

**Javazer** · 03-18-18 08:48

Originally Posted by Malibu1980 [View Original Post]

I agree with online arrangements being a scam but I'm for me my frustration has reached a new level on the site. So I was browsing and seen a girl who was actually from my town even though she wrote boston as location I knew her from facebook so I figured I'd talk to her and work something out so I can have a thing going with someone literally who lives maybe 6 blocks from me. So we made contact on January 7th and here we are today March 17 and still have not met for what we agreed and talked about. I text her and never hear back or I get excuses when I do get texts back, I mean fuck if I can't get someone whos down the street to meet from the site then I have no faith for girls who might have to travel to me maybe 15-20 miles.

I stopped using craigslist, BP, EROS and agencies and I am on SA for about a year now. I have met dozens of girls from various age and background. My longest arrangement lasted 6 months and the shortest was a one time thing. I am far from being a player, I am honest upfront with my marital status and what I can afford on allowance and in time. I am not looking for a one or two bang and done but rather a long term arrangement with someone who is looking for just one SD to supplement their legitimate income. It takes time to find the gem, build trust and actually meet. I am starting a new arrangement with a 44 why / o classy young "Candace Bergen" type looking woman who had to go back to work as a nurse after her recent divorce and take care her kids. It took a year to find this ideal arrangement and I am hoping to keep it going for a long time. What you are looking for will determine how you will approach the conversation. Of course I had my share of flakes, it's part of the game. But if you are a gentleman and have patience, you will find that gem. SA is not instant gratification, you have to adjust your expectation.

Javazer.

**Malibu1980** · 03-17-18 18:42

Originally Posted by Cpcdman [View Original Post]

SA is getting a little bit frustrating. I've been in contact with 4 girls in the past couple of weeks, all 4 of them want an "online arrangement". Yeah, LMAO!! Most likely scams, but having said that if even one of them is for real, what man in his right mind would accept to pay to not meet someone?? Boggles my mind!!

I agree with online arrangements being a scam but I'm for me my frustration has reached a new level on the site. So I was browsing and seen a girl who was actually from my town even though she wrote boston as location I knew her from facebook so I figured I'd talk to her and work something out so I can have a thing going with someone literally who lives maybe 6 blocks from me. So we made contact on January 7th and here we are today March 17 and still have not met for what we agreed and talked about. I text her and never hear back or I get excuses when I do get texts back, I mean fuck if I can't get someone whos down the street to meet from the site then I have no faith for girls who might have to travel to me maybe 15-20 miles.

**I On Da Street** · 03-17-18 18:06

Originally Posted by Cpcdman [View Original Post]

SA is getting a little bit frustrating. I've been in contact with 4 girls in the past couple of weeks, all 4 of them want an "online arrangement". Yeah, LMAO!! Most likely scams, but having said that if even one of them is for real, what man in his right mind would accept to pay to not meet someone?? Boggles my mind!!

Report them.

Online only is a category you can report them for. Not sure if one does much but if more of us did it they may go away, but I doubt it.

**IinTooDeep** · 03-17-18 13:47

I met a girl from the north shore through SA. Decent face, good body, very pleasant comms, young, eager, wanted to meet. Checked all my boxes. Didn't discuss money upfront, which I mistook as a sign that she might be a genuine gem in the making. Drove an hour to see her. Once I get there, she wants $$$ for the hour, no GFE, everything covered. WTF! I should have just turned around, but little head took over. Besides, I figured if she was charging that much, it's got to be something special, right? Wrong!

Told her I only had $. 5, let's do a hh. Took my money and then said we could do a really quick QV, no CBJ either, just CFS. I am not the kinda guy that makes a scene, and money had already exchanged hands, so I did a quick pump and dump. Blah experience. Lesson learned.

If I'm going to spend $$$ might as well see a proper escort and have some GFE fun. Fock SA with their membership fee and all the time invested in what turn out to be PPS bitches, I'm out.

**EvilTmp** · 03-15-18 10:24

See some of my previous posts. It's all GPS and platonic now. There are a handful of gems but most girls on SA see the guys as a bunch of losers who should be satisfied with just talking to them or by giving very little in return for the support they get. I personally report any profile that mentions "online arrangement" as it's one of the reasons you can pick to report a profile. I suspect it varies by region but around me it's getting more and more lame.

Originally Posted by Cpcdman [View Original Post]

SA is getting a little bit frustrating. I've been in contact with 4 girls in the past couple of weeks, all 4 of them want an "online arrangement". Yeah, LMAO!! Most likely scams, but having said that if even one of them is for real, what man in his right mind would accept to pay to not meet someone?? Boggles my mind!!

**SwimSays** · 03-15-18 09:13

Originally Posted by JackTRipper508 [View Original Post]

What's up, newbie from the 508 area. Been looking for something to get into but I'm not sure where the best catch is.

Somebody please point me in the right direction. Peace & blessings.

Slim pickings in the general area although they are out there on SA. You will have better luck if you are willing to search and travel to the Providence area.

**Javazer** · 03-15-18 07:35

For the Latinas lover. Saw this Curvy Latina from Dominican Republic a few times within the last month, listed in Boston, but from Methuen / Lawrence, "Brownsugaa1". Easy to talk to girl, initial coffee meeting, following visits took place at Hotel room. Bareback and creams easily, all in all, had good time for 300.

Still looking for a gem I would keep seeing over a long period of time, indifferent to age. And status.

Javazer.

**Cpcdman** · 03-14-18 23:35

SA is getting a little bit frustrating. I've been in contact with 4 girls in the past couple of weeks, all 4 of them want an "online arrangement". Yeah, LMAO!! Most likely scams, but having said that if even one of them is for real, what man in his right mind would accept to pay to not meet someone?? Boggles my mind!!

**JackTRipper508** · 03-14-18 17:33

What's up, newbie from the 508 area. Been looking for something to get into but I'm not sure where the best catch is.

Somebody please point me in the right direction. Peace & blessings.

**Jafo101** · 03-13-18 21:10

Originally Posted by SwimSays [View Original Post]

She was posting to BP under Sky / Sierrah / Bianca over the last couple of years but recently moved to SA. She wasn't worth $80 (super lackluster / poor performance / dead fish), nevermind the $$ or $$$ she's asking for now on SA. She has delivered on service in the past but looks like she's moved on to new tricks and scams. Definitely STAY away.

I've seen her 3 or 4 times all at her place and never a problem and good service. I will be on guard if I see her again. THANKS.

**Javazer** · 03-13-18 14:48

Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]

I couldn't find her profile using SA's primitive search feature so she probably deactivated her account.

Too bad, non-pro (from the impression she left on me) are far and between in the area I am interested in, NH / MA line.

**RWarNmsn69** · 03-13-18 13:52

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I exchanged a few messages with SexyFemale01,44 and single from Bedford, MA. Suddenly her profile disappear. Just want to know if she shutted me down or removed her profile. Could one of you search her profile?

I couldn't find her profile using SA's primitive search feature so she probably deactivated her account.

**Javazer** · 03-13-18 07:15

I exchanged a few messages with SexyFemale01,44 and single from Bedford, MA. Suddenly her profile disappear. Just want to know if she shutted me down or removed her profile. Could one of you search her profile?