"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[StudMonquie]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-b1b5c803d49b

Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.

We set up a time to meet time Friday for coffee and she wants $$ just to show up. She says nothing physical until she's comfortable, well heck. I could be in for $1 k before she's comfortable. Ghosted her replies.

[FarFarAway]

Their credit card processing is done in The Netherlands, several dating / meetup type sites all being run by the same parent company. The zip code and name you use for the prepaid card and to register for SA should match. So use your secret cool code name and fake or real ZIP across the board, I use my legit ZIP code and a partially fake name. Also need to make sure your prepaid can be used for International buying, that's a common limitation to prevent fraud.

This is widely discussed on the master resource thread, the Richmond VA sugarbabies thread. There is a key to using a prepaid like onevanilla on the SA site. You must check a little box at the bottom of the payment page that it is a prepaid debit card. Those most often go through, but I haven't done that in the last 6 months, so IDK. If you have a problem you can email customer service, give them the card #, and they can put it through successfully.

[Ozymandias]

She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.

An old stripper trick with a lot of variations.

You want to fuck a stripper, and they act all interested and turned on, "but I have to trust you first". This involves a few visits at the club, maybe some low mileage VIP room sessions ("so we can get to know each other" and after you drop a grand or so "building trust", the meet just never quite happens. You set up a UTR meeting, but she loses her phone, or her friend needed her, or ninjas attacked, or whatever.

If they're really smart, they can string you along so you wind up doing another round of "trust building": "oh, I didn't answer your call because I got scared. I'd love to try another VIP?

O.

[ReaperGuy]

She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.

Interesting, I told her I don't pay for first meetups as well, I will provide an uber and cover lunch / coffee / whatever we do and she has kept talking to me. Definitely feels more like a semi-pro / UTR, not sure I'm game at the rates we're talking about.

[Pau Ford]

She was in Chicago not long ago. $150 for platonic meet and greet. Has a GF she does doubles with, want d to bring her too for an additional $150. Gave her the routine that paying for a M&G was a fools game and it's a mutual investment of time, etc, she went silent after that.

So, I think it's a M&G scam with no chance of it going anywhere after she's got her $150.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-b1b5c803d49b

Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.

[Airmantroy]

From this chick and her excuses of why she's having trouble getting to my place. LOL.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-5527d66220c9

First, today was her errand running day. Translation: to go get her fix, Second, She's having trouble getting her friend to take her back to her car (damn groceries are going to be thawed out). Translation: She's too fucked up to drive and her dealer / handler won't turn her loose yet. Third, Could I get her an Uber. ROTFLMAO I don't have Uber, and I'm not going to go pick her up.

She tried the old, "Didn't we agree to $300" . Uhhhh NOPE. Can I make a one time deal. Uhhhhmm NO. Can I give her $40 extra so she can get her "friend" to take her to her car. NO.

So I'll sit here and screw with her for a couple of hours, call my dependable SB to come swallow some kids and play hide the salami tomorrow. Sometimes it's just too damn funny when you have all the time in the world to "wait".

If and that's a huge IF, she actually makes it to my place, I'll pop 25 mg of V and give her the railing of her life. Pure old sport fucking at it's finest. LOL.

[ReaperGuy]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-b1b5c803d49b

Anyone talk to this one? I get a UTR vibe from her from our messaging, when I asked about her financial expectations she straight up said $$ per meetup and she didn't have sex on the first date.

[ReaperGuy]

Something screwy like that happened to me, too. I sent an e-mail to customer service, I got a response back 2 days (I think) later. If memory serves correct, they said I had a lot of logins and logouts and some algorithm "picked" me. I actually created a second profile because I had received a response from someone I thought would be "special" and I didn't want to wait to see how long it took, if ever, to get my other account back. I've let both lapse.

BTW, I have a prepaid debit card I got at WalMart (I think the max is $500), but since the company apparently is not in the US, I haven't been able to use it. I've used it for other things, but not the SA membership. I've tried different names (not just Prepaid Cardholder that's on the card), used the zip code I used when I set the code up, etc. But it hasn't worked the 4-5 times I tried. Any idea what I'm doing wrong? I've got 17 messages on there, some close to a month old, but I'm antsy about using a regular credit card with my name.

Thanks.

Their credit card processing is done in The Netherlands, several dating / meetup type sites all being run by the same parent company. The zip code and name you use for the prepaid card and to register for SA should match. So use your secret cool code name and fake or real ZIP across the board, I use my legit ZIP code and a partially fake name. Also need to make sure your prepaid can be used for International buying, that's a common limitation to prevent fraud.

[George GA]

Something similar to this has happened to me twice in the last two years, though it may not apply here. I use a VPN to log into the site and a prepaid VISA for the fee. On two occasions after paying my fee, I logged in to find that my account was suspended and "under review" for suspicious activity or something similar. What I did was to contact SA customer support from my "sugar" email account and explain that I had not done any of the things they outlined in their possible reasons list and asked them to reinstate my account immediately. In both cases, they reinstated my account within a couple of days.

Something screwy like that happened to me, too. I sent an e-mail to customer service, I got a response back 2 days (I think) later. If memory serves correct, they said I had a lot of logins and logouts and some algorithm "picked" me. I actually created a second profile because I had received a response from someone I thought would be "special" and I didn't want to wait to see how long it took, if ever, to get my other account back. I've let both lapse.

BTW, I have a prepaid debit card I got at WalMart (I think the max is $500), but since the company apparently is not in the US, I haven't been able to use it. I've used it for other things, but not the SA membership. I've tried different names (not just Prepaid Cardholder that's on the card), used the zip code I used when I set the code up, etc. But it hasn't worked the 4-5 times I tried. Any idea what I'm doing wrong? I've got 17 messages on there, some close to a month old, but I'm antsy about using a regular credit card with my name.

Thanks.

[Svenson]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

Something similar to this has happened to me twice in the last two years, though it may not apply here. I use a VPN to log into the site and a prepaid VISA for the fee. On two occasions after paying my fee, I logged in to find that my account was suspended and "under review" for suspicious activity or something similar. What I did was to contact SA customer support from my "sugar" email account and explain that I had not done any of the things they outlined in their possible reasons list and asked them to reinstate my account immediately. In both cases, they reinstated my account within a couple of days.

[Zipper34]

They have a no refund policy so if you got money back you was extremely lucky. Not sure how you got 320 back for a few months when 80 is the monthly payment but usually one is out the $$.

They had logged every single complaint about me for those few months but didn't do anything until my last month on there. We did some talking and they just decided to give me a refund for all the months I'd been on there since they thought I was right.

[GA400]

Has anyone dealt with Skyler out of Kennesaw?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-dc004bbda7bd

She's got a bit of a professional attitude about things. Makes me wonder if she might be on BP or somewhere else.

I had set up for her to come to my place but I had a conflict and never followed up. Seems OK to me.

[Harley32]

Has anyone dealt with Skyler out of Kennesaw?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-dc004bbda7bd

She's got a bit of a professional attitude about things. Makes me wonder if she might be on BP or somewhere else.

[2me4Looking2]

I'm sorry but if you are trying to keep your identity on SA a secret you might as well just not be on there. You are looking at wasting 80 bucks because SA will most likely kick you off if they do see something they don't like.

I've never had an issue with that. I use prepaid visa with completely fake info. I had one girl recently get very explicit on SA and I kept asking her to text because I was afraid my account would get suspended, but nothing ever happened. She was most definitely breaking the rules.

[Zipper34]

Has anyone had their SA SD account suspended? I had a free one and hadn't ever gotten to paying and converting mine to a paid one yet. I was still trying to figure out how to do that without giving away any personal info such as CC.

I mostly used it to check out the profiles around me and the ones mentioned on here to keep track of the ones I liked and were recommended, so that when I did convert to a paid one I could easily start the ball rolling. Whenever I browse a profile, I would always make sure to request access to private pics to see what they are really like. I don't think I have even tried to contact anyone on there because I can't read anything they send me with my free profile.

Suddenly last week when I login I get a message saying that my account is under review and lists the possible reasons. I don't remember the exact reasons (shouldn't be underage, no bullying, no soliciting, etc.) but I wasn't doing any of that. Just browsing around profiles and checking out the ones who view and like my profile. And a few days after that, when I try to login it says my account is now suspended.

Since I want to maintain my anonymity, I haven't contacted their customer care to get more info. But I was wondering if anyone else has been through something similar?

Get a prepaid visa and register it online using any zip code you want. Then when you sign up on SA use the same zip code and make up a name and phone number. The only thing that matters is that you use the same zip code you used to register your prepaid credit card. No need to give them anything remotely identifying.

I'm sorry but if you are trying to keep your identity on SA a secret you might as well just not be on there. You are looking at wasting 80 bucks because SA will most likely kick you off if they do see something they don't like.