"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Leep12]

No, there's a wide variety of expectations on SA, everything from 10 k / month to 100 per meeting. The more you're willing to pay, the easier it is to get what you're looking for. Want a young coed, no problem. But you can still find lots of desirable SBs at more reasonable rates if you're willing to do a little more work. And there's really no comparison between a true SB and BP.

Thanks for the info and input here. I'm just getting started on this, but I think its going to be fun. From the one girl I've gotten with so far. I know she was DTF and wold have gone till the next morning. Most the BP girls just want to you to nut quick and get to the next guy.

[MrMalik750]

We were supposed to meet say 2 days ago but trying to be cautious, I asked if I could hear her voice to rule out any possibility that she could be a TS. She made an excuse that she couldn't talk about our arrangement because she was with her friend, whom she later let me know was a female and the fact that her friend won't be watching or joining in. I asked her to still call and we can talk about food or some other random topic just so I could put a voice to her pics.

Bad timing on my part, she called when I was at home with the game warden so of course I didn't answer. She called 3 more times and all I could do was watch it ring in silent mode. I made the lame excuse via text that my phone wouldn't allow me to swipe over and answer.

The next day I apologized on behalf of my phone and our conversation went like this after my apology and her notifying me that it wasn't going to work anyway because her car broke down.

Me: What's wrong with your car?

Her: It's one of my axles messing up my transmission won't go into gearover $400 fix that I just don't have. I just replaced my alternator, battery and tires last week. If I don't figure something out going to have to quit working and idk if I told you but I have a daughter. I can't go without a job I'm so frustrated.

Me: Wow!.

I know her personally she is a good girl she use to live in Atlanta. Met her off of CL few years ago she will take care if you. She actually came to my house and was waiting for on some guy to call her back. She fell asleep in my driveway LOL. I don't post on her I'm a big time lurker but there are some people on here that know me.

[2me4Looking2]

I have been chatting with her and I was fairly certain based on her pictures that she was a BP girl. She sent me some pics and I can confirm she is / was, but I don't think she still posts. She was based on Conyers. She has had numerous SA profiles and I actually contacted her when I first signed up a couple of years ago and she went off on me when I wanted to first meet her in public and called me all kinds of names. She has changed her tune and is adhering more to the conduct of a sugar baby, but once we started talking money she was all business. Wanted a $400 allowance and is only available in the evenings. When I countered with 150, she said OK, but only sex, no oral and no kissing on the mouth. She was however fine with bare. Since I can get that on BP without having to get a room I'm passing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-a06bdcc9e674

I actually don't have an issue with BP girls being on there, but I'm not going to pay triple the price just because I contacted them on SA rather than their BP add.

[Harley32]

Maybe you look for the older and ugly ones for a deal. But you might as well go back to CL or BP at that point.

No, there's a wide variety of expectations on SA, everything from 10 k / month to 100 per meeting. The more you're willing to pay, the easier it is to get what you're looking for. Want a young coed, no problem. But you can still find lots of desirable SBs at more reasonable rates if you're willing to do a little more work. And there's really no comparison between a true SB and BP.

[LaidLow17]

So I just saw the "Shelby" that a couple others have posted about. It was a weird one for me. Communication was a little spotty when I went to pick her up. Gave me an address then texts me from a different number saying she's in an Uber on the way to some other place. Definitely sketchy I think, but I roll with it because I'm horny. I get to the chick fil a she said to meet her at, and it's definitely her. She's the same girl in the pics, looks just as good. Get in the car and start talking, she's buzzed a little but still coherent (though she kept trying to ask me the same questions and tell me the same stories all night). On the way to the room she's rubbing my dick through my pants, and talks dirty. We get there and she starts feeling up on me and undressing immediately. She's definitely hot, and definitely energetic, but I just didn't click sexually with her. I'd describe her as thinking she's better than she is. Not in a GPS way, more like she and I just weren't on the same page. Anyway it was BBBJ, cfs, little daty, hit it, cum and I'm done. She gave me another BBBJ after, and I could have gone again I just didn't want to tbh. Drop her back at her place and I'm done. All told 1 hr 1. 5, down from 2. Idk whether to recommend or not. She's hot, fair, energetic, and not a rusher I just didn't click. Give her a shot if you want.

[AtlGent]

This one has the best sexting game I have met so far. I haven't gotten to the negotiations yet, but if you are into sexting, check her out.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...1-c2b21c9442fd

[Leep12]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-92b519ae95c8

I talked with this lovely lady a few days ago and she was just out of the range I'm comfortable in. I always discuss support expectation before getting into other details so I can't tell you what all is or isn't' on the table service wise. She initially asked for 400 per meet but was willing to accept 200. I know that many of you wouldn't balk at that.

I new on SA also, but this seems to be a hybrid cross between true dating and escort service. You were lucky to get that price from her upfront, she was cute and at least you know if you showed up with 2 bones you likely get laid. Most of these girls aren't going to discuss money and for what I gather $200 or so is pretty standard but no one size fits all.

I'm thinking you work your way in and if they like you and your dick game you put some package deals together and you take care of each other in time of need. But you have to put in some Schooze time so they don't feel like working girls and you have a relationship of sorts.

Maybe you look for the older and ugly ones for a deal. But you might as well go back to CL or BP at that point.

[John HandCock]

Does anyone have the details on how SA works from the other end?

I've always figured it was totally free for the women. Is that true?

If I message them, are they able to respond with a free account? Do they only have a certain number of messages they can respond to before having to pay themselves?

Just trying to understand what limitations SBs may have in responding to my interest.

For the guys, once your paid membership runs out, you can't even view responses to previously sent messages, their contact information for instance.

Go to SA and check the info section. Click on sb and it will tell you everything that a sb or premium sb can do. Its explained just like the sd section.

[Harley32]

It is free, and they get premium if they give a university email address.

Look, all you newbies need to spend some time on the Richmond Virginia Sugar thread, and their archive of the most important posts. For reasons unknown, it has become the de facto national thread on the sugar bowl. All of your questions will be answered there.

I've used SA, etc for years. But I have noticed that it's rare to get a response back after someone has been off the site for a while. I'm in a more rural location so that's something I probably run into more than most. I just wondered if there were any limitations on SB's message privileges. Thanks for answering that.

[Harley32]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-92b519ae95c8

I talked with this lovely lady a few days ago and she was just out of the range I'm comfortable in. I always discuss support expectation before getting into other details so I can't tell you what all is or isn't' on the table service wise. She initially asked for 400 per meet but was willing to accept 200. I know that many of you wouldn't balk at that.

[FarFarAway]

Does anyone have the details on how SA works from the other end?

I've always figured it was totally free for the women. Is that true?

If I message them, are they able to respond with a free account? Do they only have a certain number of messages they can respond to before having to pay themselves?

Just trying to understand what limitations SBs may have in responding to my interest.

For the guys, once your paid membership runs out, you can't even view responses to previously sent messages, their contact information for instance.

It is free, and they get premium if they give a university email address.

Look, all you newbies need to spend some time on the Richmond Virginia Sugar thread, and their archive of the most important posts. For reasons unknown, it has become the de facto national thread on the sugar bowl. All of your questions will be answered there.

[Airmantroy]

Does anyone have the details on how SA works from the other end?

I've always figured it was totally free for the women. Is that true?

If I message them, are they able to respond with a free account? Do they only have a certain number of messages they can respond to before having to pay themselves?

Just trying to understand what limitations SBs may have in responding to my interest.

For the guys, once your paid membership runs out, you can't even view responses to previously sent messages, their contact information for instance.

I have a SB that showed me their side of the coin. They can reply to messages with the free account, no limit. They can do basic searches as well. If they upgrade to premium they can do more comprehensive searches. I didn't inquire how much premium was for them.

[Harley32]

Does anyone have the details on how SA works from the other end?

I've always figured it was totally free for the women. Is that true?

If I message them, are they able to respond with a free account? Do they only have a certain number of messages they can respond to before having to pay themselves?

Just trying to understand what limitations SBs may have in responding to my interest.

For the guys, once your paid membership runs out, you can't even view responses to previously sent messages, their contact information for instance.

[LoriTruck]

This might be a scam. Just a few days ago her location was listed in TN. We had a meet planned but she disappeared at the last minute. We discussed trying again but again she disappeared when it came time to make final plans. She didn't ask for money to be sent or anything, maybe she gets off on wasting people's time. Has anyone actually seen her? She was sure worth trying to see based on her pics.

We were supposed to meet say 2 days ago but trying to be cautious, I asked if I could hear her voice to rule out any possibility that she could be a TS. She made an excuse that she couldn't talk about our arrangement because she was with her friend, whom she later let me know was a female and the fact that her friend won't be watching or joining in. I asked her to still call and we can talk about food or some other random topic just so I could put a voice to her pics.

Bad timing on my part, she called when I was at home with the game warden so of course I didn't answer. She called 3 more times and all I could do was watch it ring in silent mode. I made the lame excuse via text that my phone wouldn't allow me to swipe over and answer.

The next day I apologized on behalf of my phone and our conversation went like this after my apology and her notifying me that it wasn't going to work anyway because her car broke down.

Me: What's wrong with your car?

Her: It's one of my axles messing up my transmission won't go into gearover $400 fix that I just don't have. I just replaced my alternator, battery and tires last week. If I don't figure something out going to have to quit working and idk if I told you but I have a daughter. I can't go without a job I'm so frustrated.

Me: Wow!

Her: And I'm not even in Atlanta I drove here to TN yesterday to visit my grandma in the ER now I'm stuck in Chattanooga with my daughter smh. Right. Know I've been crying I'm so frustrated.

I end up calling her and she answers. From her tone, I could tell she had been crying. Maybe she is a good actress, maybe it was legit but she sounds like her pictures.

Her: Sorry again didn't mean for you to hear me that way LOL.

Me: No worries. It's a lot happening for you all at once. How's your grandma doing?

Her: She's ok her pacemaker stopped working and she passed out and fell. So she's a little bruised up. Going through surgery right now having her pacemaker. Replaced so we're just hoping for a good recovery. She's 84. So she has a lot going on with her. But she's like my best friend and I'm always here when she gets sick.

There it is gentleman. Take this and build on it. This may explain why her location is in TN at times, to check on nana.

All I know is in the details, she said that while at the amusement park, she licks her lollipops without the wrapper and she likes the rides that require her to be on all fours.

[Airmantroy]

With the free account you can only send 10 messages then they will force you to upgrade. But regardless you won't be able to read the messages they send you with the free account.

If you try and send contact info, the system changes your message to "Hi! Would you like to start an arrangement" or something similar.

Pay the $80, read the Richmond, VA Sugar Baby thread and thank us later.