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[Member #5810]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

I avoid thinking about it to be honest. I quit thinking about it when I did a quick mental math and found out I spent 30 k in 18 months. WTF! It's like a drug and hard to quit. Especially when you. Hook up with some special girls. And things are fabulous. It's easy for me. To take a break if I get a couple sucky sessions but when I have those perfect sessions. . man o man the rush and pleasure. Life is short got to enjoy while. We can eh?!

[RdPuerco]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

I dunno, I've spent at least 60 K over 20+ years – probably much more if you adjust for inflation – and I don't know if I regret it. I had some great experiences and several interesting ones, and that amount was spread over a LONG time. I wouldn't mind having all that money in one chunk, but I was only able to spend that much because I never did have it in one chunk.

[Lucky808]

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

Before I ventured into mongering I was pre warned about the money that will be "wasted". I have 2 uncles (brothers), one rich and the other not so rich. Both made the same amount of income from work but the rich one was very frugal (invested in the stock market and real estate) with his money while the other liked to "play". At every new years party the same subject comes up between them about how the uncle that likes to play wasted his chance to become a millionare. Guess which uncle I have more betta time with talking stories, haha.

[Newbee201]

Do you recommend Fleshlight to increase stamina? For some reason I'm good with everyone else except my SO. This is really putting a undue strain on our relationship. Any info will help. I've tried V and C pills, masturbation but nothing is working. Thanks Brothers for any help you can provide.

I've found edging to work for me.

[H Mobius]

Not sure if this is the right place to ask, if not please move or delete.

I am a well endowed man and I am having trouble finding a provider who doesn't mind someone of my "size. ".

I have never been denied service, but always have to be very gentle and usually only missionary.

Does anyone know of a good girl for me?

Thanks in advance from the help.

If Yoko from Kison ever comes back, see her. She'll easily handle you any which way and up her butt too.

In the meantime, have you tried any CHM women?

Yuki at Blue Star (on Kalakaua Avenue near Philip Street) is a heavy-built girl; perhaps she would welcome a horse. Good luck.

[KidFarian]

So I came across a provider that turned me onto a trick, I mentioned in a couple of my posts prior, but for other members that may have an issue with a cover and popping, especially my fellow larger sword members. Try and have the provider put just one drop of lube in the tip of the cover before putting it on. The lube gets isolated to the top part of the cover and creates a very bareback feeling. For this instance, best to have a standard size as it is a bit tighter and holds on better. Cannot speak for how that works for average or smaller guys, but I am sure it works similar.

I fucking curse the fleshlight for building my stamina too much and can last the whole hour with a cover (and without), but this trick helps a lot!

Your welcome.

Or you can just rub that lube on the top half of your cock. Same effect.

A2

Do you recommend Fleshlight to increase stamina? For some reason I'm good with everyone else except my SO. This is really putting a undue strain on our relationship. Any info will help. I've tried V and C pills, masturbation but nothing is working. Thanks Brothers for any help you can provide.

[AVeryGoodnight]

Hello everyone. Not sure if this is in the right thread but I have been mongering all over Asia and Polynesia for the past few years but I've never been with a Hawaiian girl. Last time I visited Waikiki I spent most of my time and money in the strip clubs on American girls. I will be visiting again at the end of March. Can anyone recommend a quality Hawaiian Provider? I would love to scratch that off my bucket list. Mahalo.

[Luvnsex2]

Fairly reasonable in my opinion: 200 times 150 equals $30,000. Many cars cost as much, and considering all the years you've been on the forum, I bet the total pleasure you've received from mongering is more than the pleasure you would have received from using the money to buy a car of that price.

Yes, I think that can be one of the benefits of this hobby, freedom from being under the control of "civilian" women and needing to conform to their requirements in order to receive sex.

I don't know guys. I mean I've had awesome experiences and have met many awesome girls. Pretty and much younger than me. But still, at least $30 K. Somehow I think I could have used that $$ in better ways. But can I quit? I've tried before.

[TigerAma]

This website about reforming Hawaii's laws has been circulated. https://decrimhawaii.wordpress.com/.

[RedRaze]

Not sure if this is the right place to ask, if not please move or delete.

I am a well endowed man and I am having trouble finding a provider who doesn't mind someone of my "size. ".

I have never been denied service, but always have to be very gentle and usually only missionary.

Does anyone know of a good girl for me?

Thanks in advance from the help.

I have found to try to be the first in line for most providers, or if you can, monger in day time. The girls seem to be less tense in the earlier part of the days and seem to handle bigger, easier. But as always YMMV and our curse is to typically start out nice, easy and in mish.

Give Hoshi at rejuve or Sophie at alohe me spa a try as well.

[RedRaze]

I agree, Rebecca is a really good choice. Decent looking, great service and will occasionally squirt if you're DATY is on point. I don't know why she looks surprised when she squirts, she acts like it's her first doing it. But anyway, she can definitely take larger guys, and actually likes it, as long as you start slow and use some lube. I would also recommend bringing your own covers, as many providers only have the standard size and it acts like a cock ring. It's great if you're trying to keep from popping but a bummer when you can't pop besides BBBJ or HJ. I also don't like the ring they leave around the shaft, not easy to hide if you catch my drift. But be gentle with Rebecca and you will be graciously rewarded.

So I came across a provider that turned me onto a trick, I mentioned in a couple of my posts prior, but for other members that may have an issue with a cover and popping, especially my fellow larger sword members. Try and have the provider put just one drop of lube in the tip of the cover before putting it on. The lube gets isolated to the top part of the cover and creates a very bareback feeling. For this instance, best to have a standard size as it is a bit tighter and holds on better. Cannot speak for how that works for average or smaller guys, but I am sure it works similar.

I fucking curse the fleshlight for building my stamina too much and can last the whole hour with a cover (and without), but this trick helps a lot!

Your welcome.

Or you can just rub that lube on the top half of your cock. Same effect.

A2

[Member #5367]

Curious if any providers allow a session to be video taped? Anyone ever ask if it would be acceptable during their visit? If so who, where etc. PM with your experience please.

[Incogfilipino]

I'm sure this has been discussed before but anyone ever consider how much this Hobby reallt costs? I have over 400 posts and I think most of my posts are actual encounters. Anyway being conservative let's say that 200 were. And of course there are the ones I did not do a report. Let's just say average $150. Well you do the math. Scary!!

Thankfully most of my mongering is overseas, so it doesn't cost as much.

[Kumuman]

I'm sure this has been discussed before but anyone ever consider how much this Hobby reallt costs? I have over 400 posts and I think most of my posts are actual encounters. Anyway being conservative let's say that 200 were. And of course there are the ones I did not do a report. Let's just say average $150. Well you do the math. Scary!!

About 4 grand a month.

[Redneck 1]

I'm sure this has been discussed before but anyone ever consider how much this Hobby really costs? I have over 400 posts and I think most of my posts are actual encounters. Anyway being conservative let's say that 200 were. And of course there are the ones I did not do a report. Let's just say average $150. Well you do the math. Scary!!

Fairly reasonable in my opinion: 200 times 150 equals $30,000. Many cars cost as much, and considering all the years you've been on the forum, I bet the total pleasure you've received from mongering is more than the pleasure you would have received from using the money to buy a car of that price.

Joking aside it is worth every penny like you said. Including giving you the ability to have healthy relationships outside of mongering. The ability to drop a SO who is unhealthy for me because I didn't need her for the sex is liberating.

Yes, I think that can be one of the benefits of this hobby, freedom from being under the control of "civilian" women and needing to conform to their requirements in order to receive sex.