"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[SouthShoreAlex]

Bought my sa subscription on Monday and the messaging action has been off the chart.

First m&g Friday with a sweet looking singel mom newbie, No car so yea I had to pick her up.

Right away I was thinking really cute face, but to much to love on the regular. Not get out of car bad, but just in the last 5 days my bandwidth has narrowed considerably. (There are hot young bitches to be had in the bowl).

Anyway drove around for a while, her first encounter in the bowl as well. We found a very nice out of the way bar and in we went.

We had some preliminary lfk in the car before we went in so I knew things would progress as planned.

After a bite and a couple of drinks back in the car to leave, the action heated up. She agreed to the FC but I didn't want to throw down for a room so I told her not enough time.

I had her unbutton her pants so I could do some clam digging and put her hand on my unit. After a bit I asked her if she wanted to see it. Mind you its broad daylight. So I stop the action and pull the car around back of the bar.

My pants slide down and down she goes. I figure this is one and done so I try for the full paint can* She wasn't fulling embarrassing that but hung in there.

Until I dropped my load. She spit it out the window and chuckled when I said " I told you I liked it rough" I gave her 80 when I dropped her off, and she's all about getting together again.

Not really going to happen unless she drops 25 lbs or so. Anyway so ends my first encounter in the bowl.

* Imaging shaking a full paint can in your lap.

[Falar]

Had an interesting M&G. She was a 25 year old Asian. We met at a local Italian restaurant. Her profile on SA led me to believe she was a pro but I will let you decide. She arrived early at the bar and we had a glass of wine. I cleared the tab and we went to our table on the patio. After a while there was mutual caressing on the arms, shoulder and back. She had a strong Asian accent that required her to repeat her sentences. Maybe I'm just deaf. Toward the end of our dinner she started asking about the arrangement. Frequency, time, and amount. We settled on an allowance for a few times a month. At the end of our dinner she started talking about how she likes to do oral and other things. The little head was getting very excited, I asked her if she liked to use toys and she said yes. I offered to buy her a toy at a local store and she agreed. As we were heading to the toy store she pulled my hand over her thigh so I could stroke her leg. She pulled up her skirt up and was going commando. It was nice rubbing that sweet clam as I was driving down Broad Street. It was weird walking into the store with a hot Asian women to pick out a dildo. She selected a jack rabbit that I had suggested and we went to the counter to make sure it worked OK. After we got in the car she pulled the toy out and started to look at it. She wanted to use it right away so I pulled into an alley. Once in the alley she started to use the jack rabbit while I caressed her nice tits and had some DFK. After she came I asked her if she wanted to come to my house. She politely said that she did not want to come to my place on the first date because it would it seem like she was a * We are scheduled to meet next Saturday. I was fortunate to find a young lady from my mongering side to take the pressure off later that evening.

I don't know if she's a pro due to limited about information within your post. But I've been battling the though that I maybe dealing with a pro myself. I usually only participate in the bowl when I'm traveling. But I travel to the same areas regularly. I've been talking to this 20 year old college student through texting mainly. I call her once when she ask, when will we talked on the phone. I replied we could speak now but she suggested we speak she took a bath. She never called, a few days later I set her a message and she text back and she said we could talk now. The conversation was short. Now I text her a few days later again and she was telling how her house was broken into and thieves took her TV set, red bottoms and a few other material things according to her. She even mentioned how you really know whose down for you when things are bad. Now, through our communication I was told she's a full time student taking online courses. She recent move to my target area and she don't anyone in area. She wants to move to another state and that she plans to go shopping for either a condo or apartment. I don't know how a full-time online student manage to do all this. I know you could rent but really believe she's pro or she could just be telling a lie. I get random pictures from sometimes, her profile have few professionals looking photos.

[Bowtie]

She definitly knows the game, maby a utr? Clearly not a lost young innocent soul! Since you are an experienced monger, roll with it and see how it unfolds (pun intended).

I'm 3 weeks into my SA account, ton of chatting, several m&g's, several pro's from VERY low level to high end, but pro non the less. A couple strong possibilities. Damn this is getting interesting. Should have done the SA thing from the start.

Had an interesting M&G. She was a 25 year old Asian. We met at a local Italian restaurant. Her profile on SA led me to believe she was a pro but I will let you decide. She arrived early at the bar and we had a glass of wine. I cleared the tab and we went to our table on the patio. After a while there was mutual caressing on the arms, shoulder and back. She had a strong Asian accent that required her to repeat her sentences. Maybe I'm just deaf. Toward the end of our dinner she started asking about the arrangement. Frequency, time, and amount. We settled on an allowance for a few times a month. At the end of our dinner she started talking about how she likes to do oral and other things. The little head was getting very excited, I asked her if she liked to use toys and she said yes. I offered to buy her a toy at a local store and she agreed. As we were heading to the toy store she pulled my hand over her thigh so I could stroke her leg. She pulled up her skirt up and was going commando. It was nice rubbing that sweet clam as I was driving down Broad Street. It was weird walking into the store with a hot Asian women to pick out a dildo. She selected a jack rabbit that I had suggested and we went to the counter to make sure it worked OK. After we got in the car she pulled the toy out and started to look at it. She wanted to use it right away so I pulled into an alley. Once in the alley she started to use the jack rabbit while I caressed her nice tits and had some DFK. After she came I asked her if she wanted to come to my house. She politely said that she did not want to come to my place on the first date because it would it seem like she was a * We are scheduled to meet next Saturday. I was fortunate to find a young lady from my mongering side to take the pressure off later that evening.

[MulchMan]

Had an interesting M&G. She was a 25 year old Asian. We met at a local Italian restaurant. Her profile on SA led me to believe she was a pro but I will let you decide. She arrived early at the bar and we had a glass of wine. I cleared the tab and we went to our table on the patio. After a while there was mutual caressing on the arms, shoulder and back. She had a strong Asian accent that required her to repeat her sentences. Maybe I'm just deaf. Toward the end of our dinner she started asking about the arrangement. Frequency, time, and amount. We settled on an allowance for a few times a month. At the end of our dinner she started talking about how she likes to do oral and other things. The little head was getting very excited, I asked her if she liked to use toys and she said yes. I offered to buy her a toy at a local store and she agreed. As we were heading to the toy store she pulled my hand over her thigh so I could stroke her leg. She pulled up her skirt up and was going commando. It was nice rubbing that sweet clam as I was driving down Broad Street. It was weird walking into the store with a hot Asian women to pick out a dildo. She selected a jack rabbit that I had suggested and we went to the counter to make sure it worked OK. After we got in the car she pulled the toy out and started to look at it. She wanted to use it right away so I pulled into an alley. Once in the alley she started to use the jack rabbit while I caressed her nice tits and had some DFK. After she came I asked her if she wanted to come to my house. She politely said that she did not want to come to my place on the first date because it would it seem like she was a * We are scheduled to meet next Saturday. I was fortunate to find a young lady from my mongering side to take the pressure off later that evening.

[ChinaIst]

So while we are on the subject of where to go to meet a POT, I am extremely uncomforatble picking a young one up at a parent's house. Today, a very hot early 20's POT told me she currently is without car, and I would have to come pick her up at Mom and Dads. It's pretty weird for me. Any wisdom on this topic? She tried to reassure me they would not be coming out to meet me or anything but still.
Norm!!

That is just a BAD idea. I like the young ones so I have this kind of scenario a lot. I won't do it. She can meet me one subway stop away from home or at an intersection 3 - 4 blocks away.

Let's list the problems:

1. You have not yet verified her age. Say she is just 17 and the parents call law enforcement when they see how old you are and that their daughter just got in your car?

2. Even if she is 18, say her parents call law enforcement? Are you sure they won't try and find you?

3. Violence. Maybe against you, maybe against her. Do you need this kind of risk?

4. And probably the most likely issue. That if the parents see her getting in a car with you they will give her the third degree and any potential arrangement will be nipped in the bud.

Man I gotta agree with the new guy here, picking up at mommy and daddies would be a HUGE no fucking way for me.

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[HollywoodGuy]

I am 56. I initially got shots at doctor's office in December 2011. Weighed 227 lbs. Once every 4 weeks, then once every 3 weeks. Then began to commute out of town and needed to find a doctor to give me the shot. The guy I found convinced me to give myself a shot every 3. 5 days at a lower dose.

I am at 195 lbs now. I get night-time erections like a high school kid. I workout and cycle regularly. I still do need Levitra for consistency. A couple of nights ago, I met a SB and we went at it for a solid hour. Longest I have ever done, even when I was younger. I had self prepped 36 hours earlier to keep from finishing with her too quickly.

My total testosterone is right at 600. Right in the middle of the range.

I am pre-diabetic, so even if there is some risk to the T therapy. I weigh that risk against other health concerns. I feel very good about what I am doing.

Good results. Especially the weight loss. The big thing I changed after a while in the bowl was the type of girl I would see. At first I got all these hotties with no regard to thier personality. But once I realized the over abundance of girls available I started focusing more on personality and very specific body type as well. If I have that its like an extra dose of meds. LOL. At this point and for a the last few years it has been my biggest qualifier. Real man pleasers. So even if all the drugs don't give me an instant erection the girl will. I suppose with the drugs you can get it up for any girl on some level. But for the right type girl + the therapy its a real win win. I like a hottie as much as the next guy but I really try to see where their head is at before meeting them. And reducing my sugar also pushed me in that direction.

[HollywoodGuy]

I looked into them, but so far newipnow.com seems to be doing the trick.

Just bookmarked that one. Thanks.

[FotoGuy1970]

This is a good one. I think they have a free trial version.

https://www.hidemyass.com/

I looked into them, but so far newipnow.com seems to be doing the trick.

[HollywoodGuy]

Signed up with SA for the first time in a couple of months. They had banned my IP address from *ALL* of their sites, claiming I was doing something I wasn't. So I used an IP proxy and have crafted a new profile using a new e-mail addy. It isn't background verified like I used to be, but I'm sure as hell not forking over that kind of money again if SA can just ban people for no good reason and not refund the money.

I've had a promising POT respond to my initial messages. Says she's tired of other guys on the site giving her promises and not being able to follow through. Luckily for her, I can promise and deliver, especially since her needs seems pretty small in comparison to my past SBs for the most part.

Another POT was responding to messages but seems to think she can call the shots. Sorry, but I've got the cash so I call the shots. Going to have to let her realize that daddy doesn't play by the baby's rules, it's vice versa.

Lots of other messages sent out. The game is on.

This is a good one. I think they have a free trial version.

https://www.hidemyass.com/

[ToeLover57]

Thanks to the helpful posts here and to member Falcon, I've got more Pots than I can handle. Three 19-22 in Richmond and two 19-28 in Norfolk area. Also have one 19 y / o under under a monthly allowance already.

I'm 58 and very average with my looks and build. Once I put up private photos showing I wasn't a beer gut guy, the interest really went up.

I've got m&g on Monday and Tuesday, a FC with my original SB on Wednesday. Thank goodness for Cialis. Works better than Viagra for me.

I have had better success with AA women than white. Age doesn't seem to matter as much. And so far they kiss a lot more passionately.

[FotoGuy1970]

Signed up with SA for the first time in a couple of months. They had banned my IP address from *ALL* of their sites, claiming I was doing something I wasn't. So I used an IP proxy and have crafted a new profile using a new e-mail addy. It isn't background verified like I used to be, but I'm sure as hell not forking over that kind of money again if SA can just ban people for no good reason and not refund the money.

I've had a promising POT respond to my initial messages. Says she's tired of other guys on the site giving her promises and not being able to follow through. Luckily for her, I can promise and deliver, especially since her needs seems pretty small in comparison to my past SBs for the most part.

Another POT was responding to messages but seems to think she can call the shots. Sorry, but I've got the cash so I call the shots. Going to have to let her realize that daddy doesn't play by the baby's rules, it's vice versa.

Lots of other messages sent out. The game is on.

[FotoGuy1970]

After a Pot express that she's not interested, how many have you followed up after a few months? Or you don't follow up unless the Pot follows up.

I've tried to occasionally follow up with a POT, but I usually find the waters are still just as frigid as they were before. I've had one POT get back to me months later, which led to a fun one night stand.

[FotoGuy1970]

I don't do it but I am curious.

Did anyone actually pay for her time to meet? Did that really go anywhere with that pot?

I feel like doing this is feeding an ego and is a waste.

I had a couple of hotties ask and I said no, of course.

Pay for her coffee, drinks, dinner, or whatever, but never, ever just hand her cash for a M&G, that just sets a bad precedent for any future arrangement with the POT. *UNLESS* a POT is driving a fair distance to come see you, I personally feel it is fair to reimburse her gas money. I will give a POT gas money if she is driving a half-hour or more.

[FTP1999]

I don't do it but I am curious.

Did anyone actually pay for her time to meet? Did that really go anywhere with that pot?

I feel like doing this is feeding an ego and is a waste.

I had a couple of hotties ask and I said no, of course.

[Falar]

After a Pot express that she's not interested, how many have you followed up after a few months? Or you don't follow up unless the Pot follows up.