The Massholes

[Ho Hunter 328]

5-7 girls a WEEK for the last 15 years?? Fuck, man. I wish I had your budget.

A lot of girls give me frequent flyer discounts, others I do little favors for here and there, and they repay my kindness. A few just actually seem to enjoy hanging out with me, and give me substantial discounts. I know a couple who charge $300/hour, but they'll spend the whole night with me for under $100. Even taking that into account though, my "entertainment expenses" are over $10k a year.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[Deb4512]

Someone has been texting me today, claiming he's a member of this site. He said that he did a background check on me, including a criminal background check. He knows where my parents live, has their phone numbers and address, knows where I grew up, that I lived in Vermont, has my current street address, knows about my facebook sex workers site, and has access to all kinds of personal information about me. He said he's going to contact my parents to out me and to other people who know me. I feel very violated today. Thanks for letting me vent.

Debbie xoxo.

[Mark IV]

THE BUSINESS:

Have a game plan for your business. When do you want to stop escorting? Set an end date. Establish a savings account with a financial goal. Revisit your goals on a regular basis.

Do your research! A popular read is "The Internet Escorts Guide" by Amanda Brooks, but there are many books out there. I highly recommend "Escort Aristocracy" by Erin Ann Meyer.

If you look at the work as a hustle, you will have a hard time maintaining regular clients and only attract hagglers. If you approach the work like a business, your clients will respect you as a businesswoman and come back for more.

Get a website. It looks professional and increases your credibility. Don't use those ugly escortsite or rare-escort templates. Cuties-tools, Highheel design, and Moonfruit all have very reasonable rates.

You should have a website with professional pictures, regardless of what you charge. It shows you care about your business. If you want to attract a classier client base, your pictures should be tasteful, flattering poses in a variety of outfits. Leave the full nude, spread eagle stuff to the porn stars; they do it better anyway. If you can't afford a photographer, check out modeling websites for photogs who will work for trade. Or grab any digital camera and ask a friend to photograph you in bright, natural light.

Charge what you charge and leave it be. Don't know what to charge? Look up ladies in your city who are your age, body type, hair color, race & education level. Note what they charge and match it. You don't need to run specials to get clientele. Discounts should be for the loyal clients. Not the cheapskates.

Pay your taxes. The IRS doesn't care how you make a living. They just want a cut of the action.

THE WORK:

A provider who takes 15 min and 30 min appointments or charges by the sex act is NOT an escort. An escort accompanies her clients to places or visits him wherever he is and charges by the hour / hourly blocks / day / week. If they get along and find each other attractive, sex isn't out of the question. But the escort can't charge for the sex.

Your health is paramount! Get bloodwork on monthly basis. Work out, eat right, stay away from drugs. See a counselor if you have no one to commiserate with about the work. The better your overall health, the better you can meet your client's needs.

You will meet all kinds of men. Some are handsome, ugly, short, tall, fat, skinny, black, white, poor, rich, shy, chatty, married, single. If you cannot see at least one thing attractive about any man, this business isn't for you! The most important thing is that they are clean, respectful, trustworthy and pay without being goaded.

Your client's satisfaction is #1. Do your best to make him happy; offer him a massage, fix him a drink. Don't ***** to him about your babydaddy, your bills or how slow it is. He comes to you to relax. Not to hear your problems.

All clients have an expiration date. Don't assume they will be around forever. Don't demand tips. Treat them with respect!

Don't let a client push your personal boundaries. If he threatens you for not going out of your comfort zone. Politely end the date. If he asks too personal of a question. Lie. They don't care what you tell them, they just want the experience of intimacy. These men are not your friends- no matter how sweet and kind they may be.

Escorting can fun; going to places you've never been, getting expensive presents. However, escorting can also be socially isolating, messy, frustrating and boring.

NEVER, EVER work on days when you are feeling vulnerable, angry or depressed. You give so much to your clients already. No need to give them your last bit of energy / sanity.

SAFETY:

Prostitution is illegal in most US states. No matter where you are on the ladder of sex work, it is foolish to openly advertise sex acts for money. Buzzwords in your advertising like "GFE" "greek" "CBJ" "BBBJ" do not fool police and looks tacky.

Putting a "I'm not a hooker" disclaimer on your site / ads screams "Actually, I'm a hooker. " Furthermore, calling your fees a "donation," "diamonds," "kisses," or any other childish name screams, "I'm a cheap (and stupid) hooker. " If you're not a hooker, don't advertise like one!

Besides, what will you do if a client shows up with 250 yellow roses? Awkward.

If an inquirer ask about your sex acts, "menu" or acronyms, don't answer the question. Tell them you don't know what they are talking about and end the conversation. If he is in the room with you and pushes the question, end contact, leave, ask him to leave. PERIOD.

Have a lawyer on retainer and pick his brain for intel. You never know what could happen.

Never see a client who is rude, pushy, demanding or asks for discounts the first time they contact you. It's asking for trouble.

Give thought to where your boundaries lay. Your boundaries will adjust as you get more comfortable with your escort persona, but remain true to them. You must be able to walk away from this business with your mental & physical health intact!

If you aren't screening your clients before meeting them, you are taking a big safety risk. Why screen? Because the more you know about a client, the less likely he is to misbehave. You also are better equipped you if he robs or attacks you. If you discover something unnerving about him. Pass. If you don't feel like dealing with the screening headache. Get a booker.

[GlacierBear]

Every time she posts the ripoff report will go up. And there have been several other ripoff reports on her. She'll get every guy she gets the opportunity. And that's why, never a rest!

I been seeing for 6 months, with great times every time, try not slapping her around. Then she won't have run.

[ThatGuy23]

I've seen 5 to 7 girls a week for the last 15 years. Even considering there were quite a few repeats in there, my number of individual girls is definitely over 1000. So to answer your question, around 100 definitely does not seem like a lot to me.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

5-7 girls a WEEK for the last 15 years?? Fuck, man. I wish I had your budget.

[Ho Hunter 328]

For some reason I recently decided to make a list of all the places / escorts I could remember visiting around the world over the last 15 years or more. When I got done, it was a little over 50 massage parlors, some with multiple visits and some with different girls. I also have seen about 50 girls in apartments, motel rooms, and brothels. I think the total number of sessions (MP and escorts) is around 150, but it's hard to remember exactly how many repeats I had at some places or with some girls. Most of my action has been at the lower end of the scale (HJ & CBJ) since I'm big on safety, but I've done the whole range up to anal.

To be honest, I was a little surprised when I put the numbers together like that. 100+ girls is way, way, way beyond my personal amateur numbers. Now I'm wondering if this seems like a lot to you guys, or if I'm just getting started in the hobby. If I'm just getting started, I'll need to start putting a little more money aside for all this!

Thanks, and stay safe out there guys.

NoRush.

I've seen 5 to 7 girls a week for the last 15 years. Even considering there were quite a few repeats in there, my number of individual girls is definitely over 1000. So to answer your question, around 100 definitely does not seem like a lot to me.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[BikeZappa]

For some reason I recently decided to make a list of all the places / escorts I could remember visiting around the world over the last 15 years or more. When I got done, it was a little over 50 massage parlors, some with multiple visits and some with different girls. I also have seen about 50 girls in apartments, motel rooms, and brothels. I think the total number of sessions (MP and escorts) is around 150, but it's hard to remember exactly how many repeats I had at some places or with some girls. Most of my action has been at the lower end of the scale (HJ & CBJ) since I'm big on safety, but I've done the whole range up to anal.

To be honest, I was a little surprised when I put the numbers together like that. 100+ girls is way, way, way beyond my personal amateur numbers. Now I'm wondering if this seems like a lot to you guys, or if I'm just getting started in the hobby. If I'm just getting started, I'll need to start putting a little more money aside for all this!

Thanks, and stay safe out there guys.

NoRush.

I wonder what your estimated total and yearly cost would be?

[Nrlmus]

For some reason I recently decided to make a list of all the places / escorts I could remember visiting around the world over the last 15 years or more. When I got done, it was a little over 50 massage parlors, some with multiple visits and some with different girls. I also have seen about 50 girls in apartments, motel rooms, and brothels. I think the total number of sessions (MP and escorts) is around 150, but it's hard to remember exactly how many repeats I had at some places or with some girls. Most of my action has been at the lower end of the scale (HJ & CBJ) since I'm big on safety, but I've done the whole range up to anal.

To be honest, I was a little surprised when I put the numbers together like that. 100+ girls is way, way, way beyond my personal amateur numbers. Now I'm wondering if this seems like a lot to you guys, or if I'm just getting started in the hobby. If I'm just getting started, I'll need to start putting a little more money aside for all this!

Thanks, and stay safe out there guys.

NoRush.

Come on NoRush you got to slow down in-a-hurry-type-o-dog, you LOL. 150 events in the course of 15 years is really doing it in a leisurely manner, just like your alias professes. So no worry about it dude. At NoRush pace you're going about right.

[NoRush]

For some reason I recently decided to make a list of all the places / escorts I could remember visiting around the world over the last 15 years or more. When I got done, it was a little over 50 massage parlors, some with multiple visits and some with different girls. I also have seen about 50 girls in apartments, motel rooms, and brothels. I think the total number of sessions (MP and escorts) is around 150, but it's hard to remember exactly how many repeats I had at some places or with some girls. Most of my action has been at the lower end of the scale (HJ & CBJ) since I'm big on safety, but I've done the whole range up to anal.

To be honest, I was a little surprised when I put the numbers together like that. 100+ girls is way, way, way beyond my personal amateur numbers. Now I'm wondering if this seems like a lot to you guys, or if I'm just getting started in the hobby. If I'm just getting started, I'll need to start putting a little more money aside for all this!

Thanks, and stay safe out there guys.

NoRush.

[Member #5013]

Eh, whatever. I shouldn't have said that.

Your paranoia is misplaced, is all. But always go with your gut to stay safe.

Now you're not leading by a good example. That's not letting people be nice to people. If you're going to let people tip what they want. Then you should let people feel and act as they want. And the name calling?! Shameful.

BB.

[Jolem]

Dammit. Now I want to change my board handle to "Sketchy Weirdo".

It helps identify you as kind of a sketchy weirdo.

[Mr Bao]

Oh, that explains a lot of your post's.

It was only this post http://boston.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...ncall/28026111.

That I stayed in.

[Woody32]

Well I've never been called a sketchy weirdo before. I'm well aware of the language difference, I speak a touch of mandarin and a lot of Hangul. Knee Ming bye? Yes I found her text" I'll text you the room #.

Now" a little odd. My point was if she could text that? Just text the # as far as the poor girls getting stood up! Please ole wise one, you've never been stood up? I wait 15-20 min. Then went and.

Got a massage. I can say with no Paranoi, that if you were in shin kicking distance, you would be limping right now! Eh I shouldn't have said that. Good day.

[Member #5037]

I trolled and made the call in bed LOL!

Oh, that explains a lot of your post's.

[Herow]

Eh, whatever. I shouldn't have said that.

Your paranoia is misplaced, is all. But always go with your gut to stay safe.

It helps identify you as kind of a sketchy weirdo.

They don't speak english well, all they are trained to do is send txts, and they get lots of calls, no shows and weirdos hitting them up. What you experienced wasn't even moderately strange.