"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[JZLizard]

Totally NOT amature. The girls are all paid and all sign releases but it is a neat little gonzo porn production operation.

Yeah I think that's the one. But these days the girls are all paid one way or another, there isn't a lot of true amateur porn out there unless you count badly filmed phone vids of a guys girlfriend blowing him or whatever.

I don't see what the casting couch guy does any differently than the vids I've seen for the entry level porn girls like the former miss Delaware teenusa or the Duke university girl. The first time they did their shoots they gave honest info about who they were and what they had done non-porn wise in their interview. So, while I don't doubt at all that they are getting paid for their intro shoots, they do appear to be legitimate first timers to me. Nobody with intention of posting porn to a site is dumb enough to do it without a legal release and probably no girl is going to fuck him on camera for free.

Whether or not he really met them on sponsorforme or is secretly shilling for the site may be a different story, but if you look at how many films he's done and how few of them involve sugar babies at all, much less mutter the name of that website, it doesn't make much sense as an advertising strategy.

[BigLick90]

I need a little advice from the guys on this one. I've got one who's really young and hot (20 yo, latina) who has now cancelled on me for the M&G just prior to it the past 3 times. I really want to meet this one but suspect she's shy and nervous about it. She sends me plenty of pics to keep me going but every time I'm about to head out the door to meet her, something comes up and she cancels. How long do you allow one to miss appointments before deciding they're a lost cause?

[JoeBlowDC]

Anyone had any experience with the site sponsorforme.com? They actually pay the girls to join. Ordinarily it might not catch my attention, but there is a guy on PornHub that "auditions" girls for a job in the adult film industry by banging them on the couch in his office, and during the intro conversation he talks about where he met them, etc. , and a couple of them he said are sugarbabies he met on the sponsorforme site. I thought to myself maybe there is some under-the-covers site promoting going on here, but I really doubt it because he produces a lot of videos and I've only heard him talk about sugarbabies or that site in those two vids, and they were six months apart. Did not smell of an ad plug to me.

Just wondered if anyone of you guys had tried it.

Totally NOT amature. The girls are all paid and all sign releases but it is a neat little gonzo porn production operation.

[AzMagic]

I gave it a try. Signed up for the limited free membership. About half the girls in my area are repeats from SA so I doubt I will sign up for the paid subscription.

Same in New England whole bunch of repeats.

[JZLizard]

Re: Sponsorforme. I know the website you're speaking of, and I heard dude mention it in one of his vids, which led me to check it out. I'm not at all impressed, at least not with the selection in my area. May vary in other locales, but girls on the site looks less than ideal.

I gave it a try. Signed up for the limited free membership. About half the girls in my area are repeats from SA so I doubt I will sign up for the paid subscription.

I'm tempted to try some of these off-the-beaten path sites the next time my "play season" comes around and I get a break from the SO, even despite the negative feedback. My reasoning is this: back in the early days of online dating, before match became the dominant dating site, there used to be a lot of smaller / struggling sites trying to gain traction. They often had a much smaller selection of prospects, but ultimately that became their biggest asset. Because they were not flooded with hot women, they struggled to get paying male members -- what this meant is that I had much less competition for pussy on them, and because of that I found some real gems there -- gems that at the time had not even thought to try Match. Why? Just because they happened upon the smaller site first, and they didn't care to learn to navigate two different sites or didn't want to pay for two sites, or some of them preferred the manageability of lower traffic.

I'm curious whether the same would be true about these more obscure sites. Less selection and also less competition, ultimately resulting in less time spent on the site (a good thing for us busy folks), but perhaps finding a rare diamond or two that is an easy pickup simply because they don't have lots of others knocking on their door. The downside of course is that it usually takes paying for at least a month to find out, but since I assume all of us have above average expendable income (or we wouldn't be SDs), those fees are relatively insignificant.

The biggest negative I see of lesser-traveled sites are the technical implementation of the site itself. Some of them are not particularly well-designed or tested with regard to producing search results within a geographical area (which of course is critical, if she doesn't show up in your search, it makes it hard to know she's there), or at least learning to get around the user-experience limitations or quirks can take a lot of time.

As far as sponsorforme specifically -- it's interesting to me that the pornhub guy seems to get his girls from there. The two that I've seen were both hot. One of them said she is a student at ASU so I'm he is operating out of southern Cali or somewhere there in HollywoodGuy's neck of the woods.

[IluvSmellyFish]

It is interesting to hear the different takes, and I think the one lesson that is constant, is that everyone is going to be different. I guess that's also what makes the bowl interesting since the game is tailored to individual needs, wants, and taste.

Like fotoguy, the only coffee m&g that I have had that didn't lead to the FC, were because I chose not to take them there. I like the coffee m&g because like him, my target audience tends to be younger, and for me, because I use hotels, I'd rather not sink much into my upfront costs. Dropping $30 on a first at a restaurant or activity, would be better spent on going towards the hotel, if there is a decsision by both parties to go there. If the girl is 20 lbs heavier than her pics, spending that initial $30 hurts a lot more since it could have gone towards a date with one of my regular sbs. Plus, IMHO, the coffee m&g allows for more options. Coffee at ten, can turn into lunch, which can turn into drinks (if she is of age) which can turn into. You get the point. But if the pot isn't what I expected or as pictured, or we don't click, spending 15 minutes and $2. 75 is a time and cash committment that I feel comfortable spending.

As for the FC location, sorry if my last post implied that one shouldn't bring an sb to ones house. What I was trying to convey was that it is just not for me. Right now. Who knows, talk to me in a year and that might change. Right now, because of my SO, my neighbors, my location, and my job, bringing an sb back to my house isn't in the cards. Being new to the sb world also means that I am paranoid about having a girl, her boyfriend, her husband, her parents, or her kid that she might later claim is mine, showing up on my doorstep while I'm hosting a family get together or a work event with my colleagues. Who knows though. In a year from now I may not have a SO, might have a different job, might live in a different place, and might have established more trust with my current sbs?

At this point, the risk reward tradeoff doesn't work for me. Besides, I tend to gravitate towards sbs that are younger, and are looking more for different experiences that they want to talk to their friends about. If I find a hotel deal at the 4 seasons for $200 and give my sb a $50 gift, and she is happier for it, then I'm happy and also got to enjoy a nice room for the night as well. If the next week, she needs $150 to pay her cell phone bill, and doesn't mind staying at a Super 8 for $40, then I'm happy, saved a few dollars and added another night to my rewards points that will go towards a freee night.

I have also found that for some of the the younger girls I have met, they have ideas in there head that aren't grounded in reality. So for example, in my market, a million dollar home isn't the kind of mansion that you see in the movies or on tv, but because they've always lived in an apartment growing up and then a dorm, they imagine that I live a lifestyle that isn't as "normal" as it really is, and that's a big part of why they are attracted to me. If I brought them home and they met my dog, looked at the pictures hanging on the wall, and saw that I don't have a butler or an indoor pool in my house (and no, I don't tell them that I do, but some of these girls think that being a senior executive in a large organization means something like they see in the movies), part of that "magic" that attracted them to me in the first place would be gone.

I suspect there are some guys who think that using a hotel is crazy because of the credit card paper trail it leaves and the cost. Moreover, there may be some guys who won't date an sb, unless she has the ability to host.

At the end of the day, what I think is great about this board is the fact that others are willing to share their strategies, and we can all incorporate what works best for each individulal situation and specific target audience.

I'm seeing a few brothers report that M&G for coffee isn't working for them. I personally can only think of one coffee date that I've had that didn't lead to the FC on the next date. I rarely drink, so meeting at a bar isn't really my thing. And my target audience are the girls who either aren't old enough to drink or are barely old enough. And I've found that meeting for lunch or dinner isn't really ideal for a M&G date for multiple reasons.

Re: Sponsorforme. I know the website you're speaking of, and I heard dude mention it in one of his vids, which led me to check it out. I'm not at all impressed, at least not with the selection in my area. May vary in other locales, but girls on the site looks less than ideal.

[FotoGuy1970]

I'm seeing a few brothers report that M&G for coffee isn't working for them. I personally can only think of one coffee date that I've had that didn't lead to the FC on the next date. I rarely drink, so meeting at a bar isn't really my thing. And my target audience are the girls who either aren't old enough to drink or are barely old enough. And I've found that meeting for lunch or dinner isn't really ideal for a M&G date for multiple reasons.

Re: Sponsorforme. I know the website you're speaking of, and I heard dude mention it in one of his vids, which led me to check it out. I'm not at all impressed, at least not with the selection in my area. May vary in other locales, but girls on the site looks less than ideal.

[VaSD1]

Anyone had any experience with the site sponsorforme.com? They actually pay the girls to join. Ordinarily it might not catch my attention, but there is a guy on PornHub that "auditions" girls for a job in the adult film industry by banging them on the couch in his office, and during the intro conversation he talks about where he met them, etc. , and a couple of them he said are sugarbabies he met on the sponsorforme site. I thought to myself maybe there is some under-the-covers site promoting going on here, but I really doubt it because he produces a lot of videos and I've only heard him talk about sugarbabies or that site in those two vids, and they were six months apart. Did not smell of an ad plug to me.

Just wondered if anyone of you guys had tried it.

I gave it a try. Signed up for the limited free membership. About half the girls in my area are repeats from SA so I doubt I will sign up for the paid subscription.

[JZLizard]

Anyone had any experience with the site sponsorforme.com? They actually pay the girls to join. Ordinarily it might not catch my attention, but there is a guy on PornHub that "auditions" girls for a job in the adult film industry by banging them on the couch in his office, and during the intro conversation he talks about where he met them, etc. , and a couple of them he said are sugarbabies he met on the sponsorforme site. I thought to myself maybe there is some under-the-covers site promoting going on here, but I really doubt it because he produces a lot of videos and I've only heard him talk about sugarbabies or that site in those two vids, and they were six months apart. Did not smell of an ad plug to me.

Just wondered if anyone of you guys had tried it.

[TacoLover23]

Thanks to those who have directly or indirectly responded. Much obliged, gents. I'm actually getting excited about this and partly because it seems there is some chemistry involved and I like sharing, within reason, my minor success in life. Paying it forward to kind people if you will. Kind people that are female and hot haha.

I'm single, live alone and have great insurance. And I'm also a no-bullsh#t guy, so I rarely have problems with crazies. Had one ex that was a dancer that was batsh#t psycho and of course the best lay of my life on the reg for a few years. So I'm experienced with handling crazy and have a good sense when it comes to that and more importantly, the point in the relationship when the crazy starts peeking out. I don't plan on seeing any of the gals for more than 3-4 months, no matter how great the chemistry is.

Because of the advice, I'd probably forego the coffee too. I've dated off and on using match (a lot of the advice is eerily the same as match) and the coffee dates suck on that too. It's not a fun environment. Feels too much like a business meeting rather than just hanging out. With the younger gals, drinks are an issue. When I come up with something creative (thinking a round of miniature golf or arcade because then I could have fun and check her out bending over) I'll letchya know.

Because it's fun to read my current list of potsis:

20 yr old, light skinned mixed gal. A few extra pounds than I would prefer, but at 20 still hourglass-ish. With huge tits. We traded some messages. Seems pretty innocent and sweet. She likes to drink. Puts it right in her profile. I told her I would be uncomfortable because of liability issues in providing any alcohol to a minor which she responded she'd bring her own. Pretty sure supervision of a minor consuming is no bueno. She is on SA (so she claims) because she cannot get a decent paying job at her underage status (she thinks waitress) and just wants a little help. Only asking 2-3 a month in help and some dinners and good times. I went silent on her for a week. Wasn't ready and she sent me a message 'still want an arrangement with me?' I told her that I was waiting until after the holidays to decide anything (which is true and the hell I was going to feel obligated to buy a Christmas present) and she was cool with that. I'm sure she is trying to line up a few SDs but I get the sense I could probably make her car payment and treat her decent without doling out any additional cash except going out and she'd be on-call. Only problem is it seems to good to be true. Question for the pros. Do a lot of the younger gals have phone #s that don't match the area code? Is that a straight sign of a pro or could that be a sign of still on the parent's or abusive-from-another-state ex?

Early 30's middle eastern. Honestly, she doesn't have a good pic of her face. Body looks bangin. This gal put $10 k a month and hit me up and I gave her a lecture on unrealistic expectaions. To which she replied she put it to weed out people and wanted to choose instead of getting hit up with 100's of messages. We still haven't got to the point where I'm laying it down at maybe $2 per meeting (I'm in a market like that and also would prefer a few less meets and higher quality), but it's a possibility. The banter is there. This one seems pretty bright, so I'll probably save my expectations for a M&G? Having dabbled on this site, I see this as a trend. Where ladies get on SA or the like, ask for the world, figure out it's not going to happen, and then become more realistic. I'm starting to not even look at the desired arrangement finances unless the gal is crazy hot and crazy specific.

I have a few other but had my first pro or UTC email me. 8 nice, normal pics. She allowed me to see her private pic of her naked. Crazy good body. It's tempting!! Profile was something along the likes of liking to fulfill mens fantasies and be taken care of in return. A few red flags went up, so I just sent her a message that I had my hands full but in the event that I had a free weekend, I knew where to find her.

Anyway, thanks again for the advice and happy holidays to all of ya! I'll be (and am) reading this thread as religon!

[HollywoodGuy]

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[HollywoodGuy]

I guess POF isn't filtering out the obvious pros. LOL.

Creampiekim_2: I love to get a deep creampie.

Don't hit me up if you are not ready to go.

I love to suck*and ball and ride a big*until it cum to book me its 15 before I leave my house and 50 dollar when I get to your house its for 1 hour please have your address and cell # ready if your not bookin me today do not message me please don not message me for convo you will get no reply thanks now let me come milk you.

[Orbits]

I have not, nor will I ever bring a sb home. I know more seasoned veterans like hwg have the ability to pull this off. For me, I have had too many experiences where a jilted past girlfriend end up showing up randomly at my doorstep at the most inappropriate time. Besides my SO probably wouldn't approve.
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Hey everyone, long time reader, first time poster in this thread. I'm not much of a SA veteran, only about a year and a half of experience there. But my take on bringing them home is that it can work just fine. I have no problem doing that myself, have been for about a year now without trouble of any kind. Being single helps though, and so does a rather "spartan" lifestyle (I'm really not worth robbing, not for anyone with even a milligram of common sense. No easy to sell valuable stuff around my place. Heck, if anyone steals my TV, I'll give them a bonus for hauling that POS out of here so I can finally justify getting a new one to myself). Risk factors vary though, so it's best to use your own judgement. And I always do a very thorough "sanity screening" before meeting them. If there is drama of any kind, or she sounds weird, or crazy, or just really stupid, I pass and move on to the next prospect.

[FredMoore]

I have more success taking a girl to dinner, drinks, then back to my crib. I 've had no success doing the Starbucks dance (except once) . It is impossible for them to resist once I get them in my locked and gated apartment which they had to enter by walking past the hot tub and heated pool in the garden. If they are of age it doesn't hurt to get a few drinks into them to loosen their resistance a bit. In my FC I have found most teens do not want a drink anyway, which suits me. Soft music, a slow dance around the room, and a hand or leg massage while sitting on the sofa talking about -well -homework and english class -LOL-does wonders. It is cheaper and less risk of an angry parent tracking you down for feeding their baby alcohol. The girls don't seem to be inclined to tell the parents about taking money for sex but etoh on the breath is a tell tale. Semen is a lot harder to whiff on their kid.

A downer re: teens. In my area a lot of the 18 to 20 yr olds state "no sex" on their profile and aothers have taken their profiles down fairly quickly after some promising texting. BAM! Out of the blue they are gone. Maybe one of my brothers locked them down and the star struck SB took herself off the market. Or more likely, they found they just couldn't do it.

[HollywoodGuy]

Their email filter expires after a week or so. Or maybe it's after you send a certain number of messages? I'm not sure, but it's in place to combat spam and it will be lifted soon if you stay on the site. Are you doing this for sugar dating or "normal" dating?

Sugar Dating. I already found 3 girls from SD4 M on there. One is a girl I dated and one is a very expensive pro that turned me down in the past. But there are a lot of cute girls. Well maybe not as many as SD4 M but some. I just want to see if I can get an NP first timer off of there.