"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[IluvSmellyFish]

GPS means "Golden Pussy Syndrome. " It refers to a woman who thinks she is worth above-market amounts of money. Usually an older woman but not always. The only time I might pick up an SB in my car is if we are going to dinner and not always then. More often, we are meeting at a hotel or her apartment. In both cases, we arrive separately and she never needs to know what my car is. If I ever give a ride to an SB, I make sure my glove box is locked. I am lucky enough to have more than one car and most of them are fairly anonymous (e. G. Camry.) To protect your identity, you should follow the normal practice of leaving real phone, wallet, etc locked in the trunk. Take only what you need to the meeting.

RB.

Appreciate the info.

[BeardedMan67]

I had read about SD needing variety, but never thought that would be me. I have had one steady SB for several months now that is awesome. She recently got a boyfriend and told me about it and I thought that might be the end of the arrangement. She said I keep that part of my life separate from him!! It did get me thinking about what I would do if she had stopped seeing me, so I rejoined SA and found another one that I am to see on Monday. We have already agreed on the amount of sugar and to go to her place after the M&G. I like that she has her own apartment!! Then I got a message on SA from a gal that lives 30 minutes from me in a town where I used to live. Her location listed on SA is 5 hours away. I have chatted with her and am tempted, but fear discovery with her being so close. The others are hours away and I see them when I travel. The one close is 31 and looks stunning in her facial photos and clothed, but has had several children and I am worried it might have damaged her lower section. 2 weeks ago I was happy with one and now have the possibility of three! Am I just a dirty old man??

[BamBam]

Gents, been a while since I posted to Jackson's site. Been busy enjoying the hobby but decided to take a break from the oThER one. Found myself pulled into SA because of numerous recent emails that got sent to my hobby email account. The bowl is unreal. Sorry to the rest of the SDs in the mid Atlantic region. One more SD hopefully won't skew the law of supply and demand. Besides my budget is limited and I'm in the busy sesason for work.

Already have three m&g's set up after one week of being a member. Actually double booked, but the later request was much hotter. No sugar discussed up front for any of the three m&g's. Thank goodness for Jackson and this forum. Still trying to figure out if other cities have similar forums, but based on my search and the varied location of some of our friends who contribute, it appears that isn't the case.

I know I need to rtff (made it to pg. 20 so far), but I had a few quick and innocuous questions. What does Gps stand for? Also any concerns about picking up an sb in your car? I have all precautions in place that transfer easily from my other hobby. E. g. Burner phone, separate email, etc, but my fear is encountering a crazy sb who then has my plates. Probably paranoid, and easy ways to deal with the situation (e. G. Pick a date spot she can walk or mass transit to, offer to pay for taxi, etc.) But just wondering what the forums thoughts are on this.

And as another contributor put so well, now that I have checked in, I fear that it may not be possible to check out.

Time will only tell. Happy hunting fellahs and happy holidays.

The fish.

GPS means "Golden Pussy Syndrome. " It refers to a woman who thinks she is worth above-market amounts of money. Usually an older woman but not always. The only time I might pick up an SB in my car is if we are going to dinner and not always then. More often, we are meeting at a hotel or her apartment. In both cases, we arrive separately and she never needs to know what my car is. If I ever give a ride to an SB, I make sure my glove box is locked. I am lucky enough to have more than one car and most of them are fairly anonymous (e. G. Camry.) To protect your identity, you should follow the normal practice of leaving real phone, wallet, etc locked in the trunk. Take only what you need to the meeting.

RB.

[BigLick90]

So, I've got my regular SB and also had a couple on the hook for M&Gs. One was a 19 year old college student (tennis player) who kept pushing me out until finals were done late last week. The other POT was a 29 yr old who works as a dancer (I can hear the groaning. You don't have to tell me to watch out on this one. I know) but wants to get out of that life. All 3, including the SB have suddenly gone completely silent. I'm not pushing but there's almost a part of me that's now paranoid that somehow they all found out about each other or like there's a flag now on my account from a jilted past SB ratting me out. I know I'm just being silly but do any of you ever get that feeling that somehow your info is now out there and they're all steering clear? LOL.

[IluvSmellyFish]

Gents, been a while since I posted to Jackson's site. Been busy enjoying the hobby but decided to take a break from the oThER one. Found myself pulled into SA because of numerous recent emails that got sent to my hobby email account. The bowl is unreal. Sorry to the rest of the SDs in the mid Atlantic region. One more SD hopefully won't skew the law of supply and demand. Besides my budget is limited and I'm in the busy sesason for work.

Already have three m&g's set up after one week of being a member. Actually double booked, but the later request was much hotter. No sugar discussed up front for any of the three m&g's. Thank goodness for Jackson and this forum. Still trying to figure out if other cities have similar forums, but based on my search and the varied location of some of our friends who contribute, it appears that isn't the case.

I know I need to rtff (made it to pg. 20 so far), but I had a few quick and innocuous questions. What does Gps stand for? Also any concerns about picking up an sb in your car? I have all precautions in place that transfer easily from my other hobby. E. g. Burner phone, separate email, etc, but my fear is encountering a crazy sb who then has my plates. Probably paranoid, and easy ways to deal with the situation (e. G. Pick a date spot she can walk or mass transit to, offer to pay for taxi, etc.) But just wondering what the forums thoughts are on this.

And as another contributor put so well, now that I have checked in, I fear that it may not be possible to check out.

Time will only tell. Happy hunting fellahs and happy holidays.

The fish.

[JZLizard]

I absolutely hate a blowjob with a condom. In 30 years of picking up strange women on the street, bars, internet etc. And getting a blow job (I insist on no condom) I have yet to pick up any kind of disease. Blow jobs are relatively safe. Plus I like cumming in a womans mouth. Then I usually get rid of them until next time. Don't want them hanging around or getting too close. On the other hand if it does get to full sex I will use a condom. I don't know where these broads have been and most of the time they are seeing many partners especially the hookers. I'll never fuck a SW, only if I happen to find a drunk at a bar or just an easy score then I will wear a condom. That's the personal safety side. Plus I don't like the idea of abortions or other terrible things that happen with unwanted pregnancies. So that's why I wear a condom. I'm just saying my opinion and not judging anyone. Plus I don't want my past haunting me neither.

I'm not interested in hookers at all. If I did have sex with hookers I would use a condom, but I just don't like condoms or high volume sex pros.

So just for the record I wasn't suggesting anyone should have sex with pros unprotected. That's a high-risk activity to be sure. The girls I've been with are usually not angels, but not high risk / high volume girls either.

[GetLost]

Having inordinately promiscuous habits since my early teens, including some seriously wild bar hopping years, I've only used condoms maybe 10% of the time and still not had any STD problems. Many of those girls I wouldn't have been able to tell you their first name 48 hours after banging them, much less now. I have gone through the unwanted pregnancy scare though, and fortunately in the most severe case (where it was confirmed positive), there was also a confirmed abortion. The pregnancy thing worries me more than STDs.

I absolutely hate a blowjob with a condom. In 30 years of picking up strange women on the street, bars, internet etc. And getting a blow job (I insist on no condom) I have yet to pick up any kind of disease. Blow jobs are relatively safe. Plus I like cumming in a womans mouth. Then I usually get rid of them until next time. Don't want them hanging around or getting too close. On the other hand if it does get to full sex I will use a condom. I don't know where these broads have been and most of the time they are seeing many partners especially the hookers. I'll never fuck a SW, only if I happen to find a drunk at a bar or just an easy score then I will wear a condom. That's the personal safety side. Plus I don't like the idea of abortions or other terrible things that happen with unwanted pregnancies. So that's why I wear a condom. I'm just saying my opinion and not judging anyone. Plus I don't want my past haunting me neither.

[JZLizard]

Anyone tried the Pass the Sugar website yet? I just saw it mentioned on TV and wondered if anyone here had tried it.

[JZLizard]

Question for the guys having unprotected sex with their sb's. Do all of you have vasectomies, or are you just praying that she's telling the truth about being on birth control? I hate condoms, and usually need to be finished off orally, but I think I would be a nervous wreck after each unprotected encounter.

Having inordinately promiscuous habits since my early teens, including some seriously wild bar hopping years, I've only used condoms maybe 10% of the time and still not had any STD problems. Many of those girls I wouldn't have been able to tell you their first name 48 hours after banging them, much less now. I have gone through the unwanted pregnancy scare though, and fortunately in the most severe case (where it was confirmed positive), there was also a confirmed abortion. The pregnancy thing worries me more than STDs.

[Rouleur]

Question for the guys having unprotected sex with their sb's. Do all of you have vasectomies, or are you just praying that she's telling the truth about being on birth control? I hate condoms, and usually need to be finished off orally, but I think I would be a nervous wreck after each unprotected encounter.

I can't do PIV. Or anywhere else. With a condom. I didn't start to play until after my divorce and have found most SB's very receptive to BB after I've shown them my paperwork.

[FreeFallin]

Got one about 6 years ago. Changed my life.

Really I had a second one after a small problem with the sutures on one side. 1st was in office the second under the gas and I would gladly get two more then deal with babies. Strange that I have had 2 different SB's tell me that we were having a BABY! Needless to say, surgery records ruined it.

[FredMoore]

Question for the guys having unprotected sex with their sb's. Do all of you have vasectomies, or are you just praying that she's telling the truth about being on birth control? I hate condoms, and usually need to be finished off orally, but I think I would be a nervous wreck after each unprotected encounter.

I don't worry about it. The key is anonymity. If they can't find you all is good. Having said that, STDs are a risk but most are treatable. The sniff test rules out a lot as discussed thoroughly in past entries. I always thoroughly inspect all my babies in the FC visually and orally before FS. Any suspicious aromas or bumps lead me to rethink diving in. I also have a convo about their periods, what time of the month it is, and encourage them to get on Birth Control. If they aren't on anything and the time of the month is worrysome I will pull out and paint their titties (sometimes it will reach their face if I am excited enough) I am old enough to have great control without the dreaded precum. There are Apps that if you plug in their period and normal cycle length you get a "at risk" range from low to high. That isn't perfect but it beats the heck out of condoms.

Young boys probably like condoms to prolong their finish but for me I can't finish at all sometimes.

[Dsprdo]

Got one about 6 years ago. Changed my life.

I'm scheduled for 12/24. Merry Christmas and an even happier New Year!

[HollywoodGuy]

Question for the guys having unprotected sex with their sb's. Do all of you have vasectomies, or are you just praying that she's telling the truth about being on birth control? I hate condoms, and usually need to be finished off orally, but I think I would be a nervous wreck after each unprotected encounter.

Got one about 6 years ago. Changed my life.

[DogSun]

Question for the guys having unprotected sex with their sb's. Do all of you have vasectomies, or are you just praying that she's telling the truth about being on birth control? I hate condoms, and usually need to be finished off orally, but I think I would be a nervous wreck after each unprotected encounter.