"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Dsprdo]

First of all, are there really guys who are paying these girls to be their platonic friend? I mean, seriously? I can't begin to imagine who is so lonely but has so much disposable income that he's throwing money at some girl just to be his platonic friend. I have plenty of platonic friends (some of which look way hotter than some of these girls on SA) and I don't need to throw a dime at them. If you have to pay someone money for their friendship, it's not genuine friendship and isn't worth having.

For a couple of weeks now I've been emailing a cute 18 yo Pot. It started out good, she was very friendly, in her emails was open to the idea of a physical realtionship, and seemed eager to meet. BUT every time I suggested coffee, or lunch or whatever, she was too busy. Earlier today I decided I was wasting my time and decided to write her off. I sent her a nice not saying she seemed to have a lot going on, and if in the future things calmed down and she wanted to meet to get in touch. I wasn't planning on pursuing her any further. A couple of hours later I get this:

"Hello good afternoon. Hope your having a good day. Hope to see you next week, I need a phone asap and I can't get it because I have not been working since I'm out of the state with family. But I have been looking online on virgin mobile and they have a little discount and iPhone 5's 16 gb is 495.99 & iPhone 5 c 16 gb is 404.99 $. Maybe you can do me a favor and help me out, Ii would really appriciate it! ".

So she doesn't even want to bother with the platonic friendship, wants to go straight to the pay window! I politely explained that the sugar budget is for sugar babies, and don't expect to hear from her again.

[Dolato]

So the above leads me to a question for your guys. The last two times we had sex, she did not reciprocate oral. And I'm a huge oral fan. Night before last, I went down on her twice, both times giving her a nice O. She gets very sensitive and is not a "back to back" girl with the orgasms. After she has one, she has to have time before I can even touch her clit. Actually a means for me to tease her as she squirms around the bed giggling while I continue to try and lick her. Haha. So anyhow, I lie back thinking it's my turn and she just lays there. Nada. My dick is rock hard up against, obviously seeking some attention and she does not even touch it. I chalked it up to being young and inexperienced. Now this girl is attracted to me and has convinced me she likes older men. I'm not bragging, but I'm in good shape, clean, keep junior well groomed and he's no ugly dick. But this girl does not go there. A side of me wanted to just tell, her, "hey someone needs some attention, but given her "tender" personality, I don't want to come across as wrong.

I'm sure she'd say something if you came up short in what she expects from you. Along those lines, if you enjoy oral and she's not up for it, then she's not fully meeting your needs. Either she should return the oral favor after you've talked to her, you accept that there will be no oral from her, or you put up with that until you find someone else to take her place.

[JZLizard]

So the above leads me to a question for your guys. The last two times we had sex, she did not reciprocate oral. And I'm a huge oral fan. Night before last, I went down on her twice, both times giving her a nice O. She gets very sensitive and is not a "back to back" girl with the orgasms. After she has one, she has to have time before I can even touch her clit. Actually a means for me to tease her as she squirms around the bed giggling while I continue to try and lick her. Haha. So anyhow, I lie back thinking it's my turn and she just lays there. Nada. My dick is rock hard up against, obviously seeking some attention and she does not even touch it. I chalked it up to being young and inexperienced. Now this girl is attracted to me and has convinced me she likes older men. I'm not bragging, but I'm in good shape, clean, keep junior well groomed and he's no ugly dick. But this girl does not go there. A side of me wanted to just tell, her, "hey someone needs some attention, but given her "tender" personality, I don't want to come across as wrong.

I like oral too, and sometimes if I'm not getting satisfied orally I will do something like position her on the bed or couch (sometimes kneeling while I stand next to the bed, or maybe laying on their side and me on my knees) and just sort of fuck her face for lack of a better term, telling her what I want along the way. Not forcefully or anything but assertively. I'd rather be able to just sit back and have them exhibit some skill and enthusiasm, but sometimes you have to take charge of the situation and truthfully most of them like it when you do.

I used to have a GF with an aversion to semen. She would suck it but she didn't like for me to cum in her mouth. Too bad, because when I go down on them I want them to be satisfied, I could care less if they piss uncontrollably while I'm doing it --you're either committed to giving someone pleasure or you're not. So her trick was to suck me part of the way then climb on or get me in her vag. I think she was trying to get pregnant by me. Sometimes I would do things her way and go ahead and finish by pulling out and spraying her tits instead of in the mouth. Well one time I got fed up with her games, when she teased my cock to the point of almost coming then laid back as if to say she was finished with the mouth action, I pushed her knees back over her head and went for the anus. As she was adamantly telling me "no", I proceeded on my mission. I put it in only about half way (she was a small girl) and pumped with gentle strokes -- she stopped complaining and I came in her ass. She later talked about how surprised she was that she liked that and how we should do it more often. They are very out of touch with what they think they want.

[DirtyDeeds38]

Both have their unique qualities and offset one from the other. Which I like. SB #1. Is nice and sweet, age 20, prefers a more gentle and sensual approach. She always goes for sex and rather early on with our dates, but as an experienced older man, I still notice and maintain there is a slight degree of "faking" going on. Although she does always have an O or two from DATY.

So the above leads me to a question for your guys. The last two times we had sex, she did not reciprocate oral. And I'm a huge oral fan. Night before last, I went down on her twice, both times giving her a nice O. She gets very sensitive and is not a "back to back" girl with the orgasms. After she has one, she has to have time before I can even touch her clit. Actually a means for me to tease her as she squirms around the bed giggling while I continue to try and lick her. Haha. So anyhow, I lie back thinking it's my turn and she just lays there. Nada. My dick is rock hard up against, obviously seeking some attention and she does not even touch it. I chalked it up to being young and inexperienced. Now this girl is attracted to me and has convinced me she likes older men. I'm not bragging, but I'm in good shape, clean, keep junior well groomed and he's no ugly dick. But this girl does not go there. A side of me wanted to just tell, her, "hey someone needs some attention, but given her "tender" personality, I don't want to come across as wrong.

SB#2 age 24 who I clasiify as a nympho who is not seeking payment, just total dominate sex...holly fuck she was wild. I wasn't at her place thirty minues and she brings out handcuffs, tosses them at me, and tells me to take her away. Next think I know, I find myself at this girl apartment with her on her knees, handcuffed as she desperately tries to suck my dick, insisting a slap her face with my cock and then face fuck her. Incredible and reality from that night has not quite sunk in yet. This girl is indeed a rare find. She is a working professiona, college grad with a model's face, a touch of baby fat, and the pinkest tightest pussy you have ever seen. If you met her in public you would not guess in ten thousand years she was the way she is sexually. We fucked until I had pain in my chest.

So with the above said, something is amiss about her. Can't quite put my finger on it. And that can be scary for those who have been there before, you know what I mean. She is a great fuck, but not someone I could fall for. SB#1 is less sexually, but her sweet innocent nature is winning me over fast.

[JZLizard]

First of all, are there really guys who are paying these girls to be their platonic friend? I mean, seriously? I can't begin to imagine who is so lonely but has so much disposable income that he's throwing money at some girl just to be his platonic friend.

Possible theories. Note these are guesswork at best, since I've only had brief passing encounters with SBs that say this on their site.

1. Some of these girls are taking a very cautious approach, and the platonic nonsense is mostly a CYA move in case someone they know sees their profile online. It's well known that there have been many an escort throughout history who claimed all her clients just want "companionship, dinner date etc.", and while some of them might have been using that as an excuse to escape a creeper or someone they just couldn't stomach having sex with, the bottom line is that they probably fucked most of their dates.

2. Maybe they are just dreamers hoping for something that's out there but doesn't really exist. The market will correct itself soon enough.

3. They know full well they want a "real" arrangement but they are trying to scare off the type of guys who will solicit a sex transaction right away. I've met lots of girls who gushed at the fact that I did not even talk about sexual expectations until we were already in the bed. I had one 18 year old send me copies of these weirdo e-mails she would get, and would say "now do you see what we girls put up with from this site"? Some girls actually want that kind of directness while others are repulsed by it, so I think by saying "platonic only" it's a pre-emptive move on their part. Similar theory to #1.

Sometimes women say one thing and do another. Wait, not sometimes, often. In civy dating, I've seen so many women establish un-passable sexual boundaries only to cave in shortly thereafter.

Case #1: One girl told me "no matter what we will hang out just as friends, not with benefits! (because she knew I had a GF and she was not that type of girl... Three hours into the first date she is deep throating me and leaving teethmarks on my balls).

Case #2: Another girl said she joined the dating site just to find friends to hang out with because her fianc was in another state. Fucked her on the first meeting and every date thereafter (about 20 times). Got to the point she was letting middle aged me spend the night in her dorm room, right there in front of her roommate.

You get the idea...I could think of many more where she says her rule is such and such, but it took nothing for the guard to come down and rules to be broken.

So while just as you I do wonder if there are guys out there really paying them for no sex. My experiences with SB have been nothing if not an extension of my civy experiences, and I say women are women when it comes to sex. If anything the fact they are on a SD site in the first place tells me they are more likely to compromise these high moral standards they've portrayed for themselves than a regular civy date would.

One SB contacted me once, and she looked good but I noticed in her profile she said absolutely, positively, NO sex on the first date. I wrote back and said thanks for the wink but with me the mutual attraction is either there on the first date or not, and if I wanted sex and she refused it would just be a waste of our time, and I included a set of photos. She wrote back indicating okay she was open to the possibility of sex on the first date. Hehe.

So if you see something you like, I'd say investigate further even if they have ridiculous boundaries established. Women change their mind at the drop of a hat. I doubt any guy is going to give them money for friendship, and if those type of chumps do exist I'd say they are few and far between, so worst thing that can happen is the unrealistic-minded ones simply dream themselves out of the game entirely.

[FotoGuy1970]

In my conservative area, it is not at all uncommon for me to see a fair number of girls on SA who have in their profile, "only looking for platonic arrangements" or "not looking for anything sexual". When I see those profiles, I'm befuddled and irate at the same time.

First of all, are there really guys who are paying these girls to be their platonic friend? I mean, seriously? I can't begin to imagine who is so lonely but has so much disposable income that he's throwing money at some girl just to be his platonic friend. I have plenty of platonic friends (some of which look way hotter than some of these girls on SA) and I don't need to throw a dime at them. If you have to pay someone money for their friendship, it's not genuine friendship and isn't worth having.

But then, who are these girls who are taking advantage of these poor guys who just want a friend so badly they are giving them money to be one? The girls who are taking money to be a "friend" are the worst for taking advantage of the loneliest of the lonely guys. Seriously. There is nothing mutually beneficial about having a "friend" that must be paid for. There's another term for that, and it sure isn't "friend".

Had to vent about that nonsense after seeing an average of one or two "platonic only" profiles on each page of the first five-six pages of my local search. / rant off.

[CaneBay]

I have been busy with traveling for work and fun. Sorry for the delay with the update. I have 3 current SB's in the stable. All are reliable when I am in their area, but I do not have my long term unicorn yet. Two are college SB's with jobs and are very low cost. Just like the idea of being with an older man that can get the job done multiple times. Third is a single mom aa. She is back up in ATL when a new POT no-shows or I didn't set anything up with college SB. I am working two new POTS, both in college. One 21 and the other 25 with 2 kids. I have not had a SB with kids yet so this will be a learning curve. She is new to the scene, has a bf and needs some help each month to keep her bills paid. She wants to be more discrete then me. MG at a hotel parking lot tomorrow. This one could be promising. Working another POT for a couple weeks now about 4 hours from me. I do not travel there often but she has been great with texts and pics. MG next Tuesday. I have been fishing on SDT and WYP exclusively with good success. It is important to hit early and have a great intro letter. Next best time is after a week or two after all the "wierdos" contact them..

I have been debating putting out a CL ad and joining SA, but to be honest I have my hands full with SDT and WYP. SDT is free and I spend about 50 every 4 weeks on WYP. Good Luck brothers. Sun tan time is here. Babies are looking HOT!

[Dsprdo]

Anyone have any knowledge of sites that offer Pregnant SBs looking for a Daddy? I don't know about you guys but there is something sexy about pregnant girls (as long as they are not by you). Boobs are getting big and juicy. Hormones are raging. I investigated some and there are a lot of sites, but you have to sign up to see if there are any girls even on the panels in your area. Also, I would imagine the competition would not be as strong because some guys might not be turned on by preggos. Am I right?

I recently saw an old favorite of mine (who was a low volume pro) on SD4M. I didn't really think she was true SB material but she is a small, tight spinner that was always more into it than any pro, and I had lost track of her number, so I contacted her. We agreed to meet last week, and when I picked her up it was obvious-about 5 months. It's not really my thing, but I was there already, so what the heck. She had been an A cup girl before, and it was amazing how big (and sensitive) her boobs had gotten. She brought a little toy with her that I put to good use to the tune of about 5 O's for her before I took my turn. It was fun, but I probably won't make a habit of it.

[JZLizard]

My only experience with banging a pregnant girl - this was a preggo civy that was only a few weeks in, had recently moved an allegedly "semi-abusive" husband. She was not even close to showing yet, she just told me that she had recently learned she was pregnant, so the one and only time I was able to get her into bed, I enjoyed the luxury of unloading inside her, something I never do anymore (and I remembered what I was missing that time I did). Just my preference, I wouldn't have been interested in screwing her in the first place if her belly was already showing, but it was very nice to have that security of being able to cum inside without worry. She did have that kid and remarried, I can look her up on FB today. And no the kid doesn't look like me. LOL

[KrustyDawg7]

That would actually get responses. Not my thing, but had a few try to sneak it by me. No shortage of pregnant young girls out there. They probably need more help than the no preg variety.

Well, Hollywood, at least you can't get them pregnant. Several years ago I had a short run with little gal who was 4-5 months. Some of the best sex ever, she was so damned horny all the time! My ex wives never wanted to have sex when pregnant so it was a new experience. We kept up for a while after she had the kid, except she had to pump milk from herself before we had sex. Fun times!

[FotoGuy1970]

After a great M&G / FC date with my blonde / blue first-timer, she went radio silent. Didn't reply to any texts the rest of that day or the next day. So I tried texting her using a different number purchased from Hushed and then she responded. I don't know what the deal is, but I'm getting the feeling she's a "One & Done" girl.

My SA membership lapses tomorrow. I was a member all through April, all through May and I'm still no closer to finding a regular SB than I was two months ago. I'll probably keep my CL ads up and around when I can, but the attitudes of the SA girls I've encountered over the past two months has worn me down.

[HollywoodGuy]

Sounds like a good CL post: "Daddie seeks pregnant female for good times " LOL.

Norm!

That would actually get responses. Not my thing, but had a few try to sneak it by me. No shortage of pregnant young girls out there. They probably need more help than the no preg variety.

[Norm Gerd]

I never thought about this and wonder how it came to your mind, but I'm curious about this too.

It seems like such a niche that even if a separate site does exist, there wouldn't be many to pick from.

This may be one of those deals where you'd have to make connections IRL and convert to a SB.

Sounds like a good CL post: "Daddie seeks pregnant female for good times " LOL.

Norm!

[Dolato]

Anyone have any knowledge of sites that offer Pregnant SBs looking for a Daddy? I don't know about you guys but there is something sexy about pregnant girls (as long as they are not by you). Boobs are getting big and juicy. Hormones are raging. I investigated some and there are a lot of sites, but you have to sign up to see if there are any girls even on the panels in your area. Also, I would imagine the competition would not be as strong because some guys might not be turned on by preggos. Am I right?

I never thought about this and wonder how it came to your mind, but I'm curious about this too.

It seems like such a niche that even if a separate site does exist, there wouldn't be many to pick from.

This may be one of those deals where you'd have to make connections IRL and convert to a SB.

[FredMoore]

Anyone have any knowledge of sites that offer Pregnant SBs looking for a Daddy? I don't know about you guys but there is something sexy about pregnant girls (as long as they are not by you). Boobs are getting big and juicy. Hormones are raging. I investigated some and there are a lot of sites, but you have to sign up to see if there are any girls even on the panels in your area. Also, I would imagine the competition would not be as strong because some guys might not be turned on by preggos. Am I right?