"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ltnric** · 03-06-14 16:58

Wow that is an awesome story!! Ok maybe not awesome for you but.

I am constantly amazed at the audacity of some of these SB. I have to believe.

That at one point they were able to get a guy to cough up the money. I do like to see a stuck up ***** fall. Keep them coming guys.

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

This just came in this morning.

If you have read my posts you know I referred to a Latina Pageant Baby. Really just a POT. She is beautiful nice body. Has a boyfriend 19 YO very hot. Works really hard actually does commission sales for a large dept store. And is one of the top sales people. But she kind of fell off the map after our M&G. She was cocky, had an stuck up attitude and I could not break through and had other prospects anyway. So every few days she would text the work "hey" and occasionally would text a little. Could not even get her on the phone or to meet. You can see she was the type to have a real one sided relationship. The kind that I would have put up with a long time ago. But no more.

So yesterday she asks me if I would give her some money for rent. So here is the hot shit begging for money. LOL. I told her that only after we are intimate and we have built trust. She try to argue with me over text and tell me that is how we build trust is for me to send her money. When she asks for it but she cannot even bother to pick up the phone. Besides if she is a top salesperson she should have some money for rent right?

Anyway it degraded and she eventually quit begging. Then this morning I get a text from her. Here is the transcript:

Her: Hey. I know you're probably not happy with the way things went last night. But I need a favor I am literally begging you.

Her: My boyfriend got arrested last night and I need to bail him out can you please help me? I don't know what else to do.

Me: Wow I must say I am surprised that of all people you contact me for help...what was he arrested for?

Her: It's a long story he was sort of set up (I am sure he is totally innocent).

Me: well we can meet at your place this afternoon.

Her: I'm not going to be at my place. I'm going to be trying to get this situation straightened out all day.

My how the mighty have fallen. She has never been really personable or interesting or even polite. I kind of put up with her because she was just there and sent me a text every once in a while.

Funny I think.

Revvo.

**FredMoore** · 03-06-14 15:45

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Her: Hey. I know you're probably not happy with the way things went last night. But I need a favor I am literally begging you.

Her: My boyfriend got arrested last night and I need to bail him out can you please help me? I don't know what else to do.

Funny I think.

Revvo.

Well, now's the time to jail, I mean nail this little GPS. Leave his ass in jail and work out a cash deal to entertain yourself.

Sounds like she is a modified Nando 1. And she must not be doing so well after all. Maybe she is a full on Nando 1.

**ChipandPutt** · 03-06-14 14:51

As I mentioned in my initial post, I had most a lot of expensive mistakes but feel as I have learned from those experiences. I have a current situation which I am trying to salvage (after making some initial mistakes again) and would welcome any suggestions or advice from others:

Using SD4 Me, I received a reply from a 21 blonde in my area whom I had messaged on a couple of occasions. All went well with the first couple of M&G's and she was willing to enter the FC during the first week.

However, things started going downhill the next week. First, she asked for help with her car insurance. I hesitated but she said that could apply to our next 2 dates. Since our visit to the FC was pretty awesome, I gladly agreed. So she gave me her login info and I took care of the initial premium.

Then there were more "emergencies" that seemed to follow thereafter. However, since I had access to her personal info from the insurance login, I was able to perfom some due diligence (facebook, twitter). Based on her twitter account, her stories weren't adding up. For instance, being sick, having a job, etc. In fact, she had agreed to make a visit to the FC this past weekend but backed out to being "sick" Although, his twitter showed that was anything but true as she was going out with friends both nights.

Earlier this week, I said no to another emergency request and she then stood me up on a lunch date. So, I have attempted some efforts to salvage this relationship, since I really to continue visits to the FC with her. I have followed up with an email stating what I am willing to pay per date that ends up in the FC. She never responded to the email, but over text has said that is fine with her.

In the following days, we have texted some back and forth and all seems to be a go at this point for this weekend. In fact, she replied to a text yesterday that she missed me (although it took her 6 hours to return the text) At this point, I am skeptical about things and realize she may just be messing with me with. At this point, I am willing to put up with a certain amount of drama for visits to the FC.

**ICantGetNo** · 03-06-14 14:39

" The kind that I would have put up with a long time ago. But no more."

This is my takeaway from Revvo and what I love about this board. It continues to reinforce that there is a new SB right around the corner.

Be safe out there.

**Revvo** · 03-06-14 14:04

Originally Posted by Ltnric [View Original Post]

So I laugh at some of the things SB tell me. My favorite is when they say they won't do pay for play because they don't want to.

Feel like a hooker! Aww how adorable! I guess when they get paid for having sex it isn't the.

Same as if an escort does it. Ok. Don't get me wrong I do know the differences between.

A SB and an escort but come on! When you boil down to the very.

Core of the matter there isn't that much of a difference. So with that said what is the funniest thing.

A SB has told you?

This just came in this morning.

If you have read my posts you know I referred to a Latina Pageant Baby. Really just a POT. She is beautiful nice body. Has a boyfriend 19 YO very hot. Works really hard actually does commission sales for a large dept store. And is one of the top sales people. But she kind of fell off the map after our M&G. She was cocky, had an stuck up attitude and I could not break through and had other prospects anyway. So every few days she would text the work "hey" and occasionally would text a little. Could not even get her on the phone or to meet. You can see she was the type to have a real one sided relationship. The kind that I would have put up with a long time ago. But no more.

So yesterday she asks me if I would give her some money for rent. So here is the hot shit begging for money. LOL. I told her that only after we are intimate and we have built trust. She try to argue with me over text and tell me that is how we build trust is for me to send her money. When she asks for it but she cannot even bother to pick up the phone. Besides if she is a top salesperson she should have some money for rent right?

Anyway it degraded and she eventually quit begging. Then this morning I get a text from her. Here is the transcript:

Her: Hey. I know you're probably not happy with the way things went last night. But I need a favor I am literally begging you.

Her: My boyfriend got arrested last night and I need to bail him out can you please help me? I don't know what else to do.

Me: Wow I must say I am surprised that of all people you contact me for help...what was he arrested for?

Her: It's a long story he was sort of set up (I am sure he is totally innocent).

Me: well we can meet at your place this afternoon.

Her: I'm not going to be at my place. I'm going to be trying to get this situation straightened out all day.

My how the mighty have fallen. She has never been really personable or interesting or even polite. I kind of put up with her because she was just there and sent me a text every once in a while.

Funny I think.

Revvo.

**WoodSlinger** · 03-06-14 13:41

Originally Posted by Golfcart [View Original Post]

Tell her you are paying in advance and attach a pdf of some money.

LOL, that's funny. Keep in mind though making copies of money is highly illegal.

**Golfcart** · 03-06-14 01:01

Originally Posted by Velroy [View Original Post]

Just had one basically say she wanted to start with sending me nudes for money and after that we could move on to a meet. Anywho, I was like "ok" and I offered a Grant for some and she replied back her last SD paid 4 x that. I politely told her that my Grant was being generous and wished her the best of luck. She views me every day still I guess hoping I will be desperate enough to pay her the $.

Tell her you are paying in advance and attach a pdf of some money.

**Velroy** · 03-05-14 23:28

Originally Posted by Ltnric [View Original Post]

So I laugh at some of the things SB tell me. My favorite is when they say they won't do pay for play because they don't want to.

Feel like a hooker! Aww how adorable! I guess when they get paid for having sex it isn't the.

Same as if an escort does it. Ok. Don't get me wrong I do know the differences between.

A SB and an escort but come on! When you boil down to the very.

Core of the matter there isn't that much of a difference. So with that said what is the funniest thing.

A SB has told you?

Just had one basically say she wanted to start with sending me nudes for money and after that we could move on to a meet. Anywho, I was like "ok" and I offered a Grant for some and she replied back her last SD paid 4 x that. I politely told her that my Grant was being generous and wished her the best of luck. She views me every day still I guess hoping I will be desperate enough to pay her the $.

**Member #4727** · 03-05-14 17:37

Long time lurker checking in here, from central VA mostly sticking to the Richmond area. I've just got a single 23 yo baby from SD4 me. She seems to be mostly sane, and drama has been pretty much non existent. A single mom and self employed who from my perspective seems to be busting her ass to make her way if she can, just in the wrong market for her line of work (she knows she'll have to move at some point). I'm sure she'll trade up if the opportunity presents itself simply because I'm a good distance from her and I've made it clear enough that I'm only going to invest so much in someone who really can't travel to me or that I can't see more than 3-4 times a month. I just try to keep it 'light and airy' and don't mind enjoying a nice dinner or brunch every once in a while and she doesn't seem to mind either. If nothing else, it needs to be at some level edifying, not adding to the stress of our everyday lives.

I'd just take a moment to say thanks to all of those loquacious members who are so willing to share both the good and the bad. Like many of you, I'm not much on the escort scene. I'd rather work to build some sort of connection and I don't mind investing what time I can into cultivating that.

**Dsprdo** · 03-05-14 14:54

It's been a while since I've checked in, mostly because things have been quiet. I still have my one regular girl, who is getting married in May, but just told me the other day she has "feelings" for me. That came on the heels of her finding out I was at dinner with a pot-she actually seemed quite jealous! This despite the fact that she is engaged and I know that has had at least one out of town SD that she still sees intermittently. But she is a cute little spinner and at 500 a month I will keep her around for a while.

I've been really busy worth work and so haven't put too much effort into the bowl lately, though I have been on several M&G's, none of which panned out. I met up with a couple of girls who were significantly heavier than they looked in their pictures, and that's a deal breaker for me. At least one of those was going to be a GPS nightmare, anyway. I have had several girls respond with interest, communicate for a while and then just vanish. I also met with a 36 year old MILF who was looking for more of a relationship than a SD. That's older than I normally go for, but having read several comments about the benefits of maturity on this thread, and being a little tired of the flakes, I thought I would give her a try. After three weeks of texting and emails that grew steadily more flirtatious, we met for lunch. She was tiny, and though not beautiful, very presentable. We chatted and I asked her to a comedy club the next night. She told me she would let me know later in the day-then crickets. A couple of days later I finally I guess that's the nature of the bowl.

I'm really busy until May, so probably won't have any new stories to tell till then. Summer is slow for me, so I will return in full force.

**Ltnric** · 03-05-14 14:01

So I laugh at some of the things SB tell me. My favorite is when they say they won't do pay for play because they don't want to.

Feel like a hooker! Aww how adorable! I guess when they get paid for having sex it isn't the.

Same as if an escort does it. Ok. Don't get me wrong I do know the differences between.

A SB and an escort but come on! When you boil down to the very.

Core of the matter there isn't that much of a difference. So with that said what is the funniest thing.

A SB has told you?

**FredMoore** · 03-05-14 10:57

I had fun reviewing some of the current and past contributors. A few more follow. No disrespect meant leaving anyone out. My intention was to hit the frequent posters. Please speak up if you want to be recognized. Current posters were not necessarily included because we are seeing you on the Blog as we speak. Keep up the good work and fuck on Brothers!

Dog Rice, Varoom, CoolHand, OBX, ChiGuy606 , King Greg, Spitfire, Joes Party, to name a few more.

My current participation has dwindled to one FB I see for $ / pop once / week or so.

ATF#4 went back to her husband and has gone dark. SO has been keeping too close an eye on me to do much Sugaring sadly. I miss those nubile young things and penetrating new pussies.

So yes, I like living vicariously through all you active Mongers. Keep it up (literally!).

**FredMoore** · 03-05-14 10:39

Yes Revvo, these stories keep us all going. It's interesting how the Blog ebbs and flows with significant players coming and going through. Lets' have a moment of silence for the great names who were or are still here. And it's great that so many new names are popping up. You Revvo have risen to the top of the productivity chart with Hollywood.

Remember: Lit (still here and moderating) the king of it all, Golf, F Scott (where are you man?) , Nando, Big Tigg.

BigTigger.

Location Check Results: as of 4/13.

Mr. Strict: I-95 corridor, NOVA to Richmond, west to see'ville.

Fred Moore: Washington, DC with Charlotte, NC to Bethesda, MD and points in betweem.

BigTigg: VA, MD, DC, PA, DE (Travel SBs from: Cali, Atlanta, Buffalo, Alabama).

CantWinLosin: Richmond VA.

AliasSM: Baltimore and North.

Hernando: Richmond, Va to Washington, DC.

DantaKarma: Northern VA, DC, Southern MD.

HighCotton: Richmond VA.

HappyHunter44: Charlottesville, VA.

GuyWoodson: Centreville VA.

SubCmdr. DC, MD, VA Cali (San Diego & Oceanside) and Las Vegas.

HollywoodGuy: Hollywood CA.

Wnde8: Los Angeles CA.

Bondo500: Central Ohio.

TreasureHunter: Los Angeles, CA.

LoriTruck: NC, SC, GA.

Magic Rat: NC, SC.

Kyowa: far-western-Kentucky.

KY Man629: Central Kentucky to Southern Ohio and Southern Indiana.

ATLDrummer: Atlanta.

Joesouncool: GA / TN.

Donwhite: Nashville TN.

PatsFan1: So. NH and No. Mass.

F. Scott: Chicago and surrounding suburbs, OTR (Asheville, NC, and New Orleans).

Golfcart: Indiana.

West Central: Wabash Valley IN / IL, TX, MA, Oz.

Smokarz_XO: CT.

FotoGuy1970: Michigan.

**Revvo** · 03-05-14 10:02

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Naaaah! Don't delude yourself Revvo, you're just in lust right now. Follow Hollywood's lead and keep your collection going.

You damn right I am in lust, and its a lot of lust. LOL.

So you want me to keep collecting huh? Like the stories?

Revvo.

**Reffin2** · 03-04-14 22:30

I wish I had 7 women on my mind ("Take It Easy" Currently, I'm trying to juggle 4 SBs! So far, I've been able to "keep all the balls in the air". But, I think it's time to make "cuts" and maybe add another free agent or two. Currently, the lineup is as follows:

1) Grand Strand dancer- 20's single mom. This one is the neediest and by far the most grateful. The damage has been limited to nice presents (perfume, jewelry, cigarettes...dinner and a movie).

2) SW VA dancer- this one is by far the hottest! Problem: she asks for "a raise" with too much frequency. I've been seeing her for 4+ years and she has a live-in boyfriend that rarely works and it's just a matter of time before there's going to be drama. So, I have put some distance and time between us; so, her response is to beg me to come back with no $ involved. But, as good as it is I'll be dropping this one.

3) 28 yr old Mountain girl- this is one hot and loves to send me kinky pics! We've been together 5 times and all she wants is to get out of WV on occasion. So, far we haven't gone anywhere outside of the state but might try once the weather thaws.

4) VA Beach escort turned SB?: we are still talking about getting together, so far our schedules haven't meshed. She seems to be more of a pro and might be out of my league.

3 and 4 were both discovered on SDtoday! It seems to be hit and miss on that site. I have had conversations with about a dozen that seemed legit. I have found that a few of these have gotten "cold feet" just prior to meeting.

My difficulty is trying to juggle all of these girls. As you can tell, I prefer to have them away from where I live. So, the issue is not $ but time. I appreciate all the wisdom and experiences shared here or else I might have drowned in the bowl!

R2.