"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

There are a lot of girls that are down for whatever. And never underestimate the power of the Benji.

[Spitfire]

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

[HollywoodGuy]

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

If I am reading your posts correctly, you mean the booby call list.

This girl has been on and off the site for months. I see she moved from the L.A. Area down to san diego county.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/profi...rnia-SugarBaby

I,m a slender guy and I like spinners, but I bet this is more the type that gets all the attention from most of you guys.

[BigTigger]

I have family obligations for the weekend, starting tomorrow.

MsBubbly is very unreliable and has some terrible habits that are probably going to be deal breakers. She's always fashionably late...like 30 minutes or so. She says she will call back and doesn't. She doesn't do well with planning. She communicates very sporadically and will disappear in the middle of a text conversation. I ask to confirm by 2 pm, she doesn't confirm and sends a Hello, text at 6 pm.

MsSllimCheerleader, seems to be settling in as my main SB. We'll see each other twice next week. One 3 hour date, one over night date. The week after we are scheduled for dates on Wed, Fri and Sat.

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

Had another nibble (MsTallShapely) that hit me up on SA. 5'11, beautiful, 20 years old, working and in college. 10 for a body! I just love the tall ones. She was not available much today to talk or text. So I expect to pick up on chatting with her next week.

Hit up an old POT who faded away because she was too far away without transportation. Now she's only 20 minutes from the Tiggapad. We talked today and she's all in. Not sure where I can fit her in, but she is 5'2 with plenty of boobs and butt. Beautiful face. We laughed and chatted well today. She's staying at home with mom and taking a few semesters off. So we'll call her MsHomeBody. She cannot do overnights, but she can stay out as late as 2 am. I hope to finally meet her next week.

Emailed with another POT, she has gorgeous in her name. She has been done wrong by a few men and is now a little rough around the edges. Let's call her MsHoodSexy. She's game for a hotel date on the first date, but I don't remember what her price range is. I am going to try and at least meet her and see how things go from there. Not sure I want to hit it the first date, but the body is slim with the right amount of curves, so we'll see.

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

MsHipsnThighs.

MsBigRed.

MsVanity.

MsLilMama.

SBs in Order.

MsSlimCheerleader.

TheDuo.

MsTallShapely.

MsBody.

MsHomeBody.

MsHoodSexy.

I was supposed to be narrowing this down.

BT.

[F Scott]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.

Westie,

Welcome, but I'm afraid you are too cryptic for me. Have you scored any MILFS just by hanging out at Starbucks, or are you merely sharing your hunches?

This is an open, honest thread, my friend, so please don't feel like you need to encrypt your post. Read back to the beginning, and you will see that we are all happy to share.

Please share real details, successes or failures, and help us all to land those sweet little fishes that we so desire.

Scott.

[West Central]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.

[FotoGuy1970]

Earlier today, I received this response to my CL ad. This is completely unedited:

"I'm going to be very blunt with youI'm 21 and I'm ina bad spot I need help paying for school and I want to get my own place ijus need 25,000 and can you help me out with that if ihelp you?

That is one serious case of unrealistic expectations. It turns out she wanted that much as an advance for our visits. I explained there was no way I or any sane daddy would ever advance her that much sugar, so she tried to negotiate for half that instead. I reiterated my offer from my CL ad and made it clear that I wasn't going to negotiate much beyond my initial offer. I didn't hear back from her, which I'm fine with.

[FredMoore]

I'm now living vicariously through you studs out there. I miss the chase terribly.

RE: ATF.

I see her once / week. She is totally game for whatever and now seems like another SO, except she will take it in all 3 holes and deep throat with the best of them. She brags about previous experiences in her wilder days which is a little off putting to me. But she is always available to me so I think for now she is happy with the way things are. She is a 10 across the board so could accelerate her activities if she wants to. I don't think she wants the UTR life though at this point. She was as wild as any of us back in "the day ".

Re: SB#1.

I met her in the FC a while ago and leaves much to be desired. She is a cute white UTR sort, perhaps 7/7/7/7. If she ramps up her involvement a notch she will be a decent Stable addition. She is $ and has a FC, but last time we were there she was rushed and wanted to pop and run for fear that the roommate will return. She is definitely not worth renting a Notel for. I will use her when ATF is out of town for a month. She wants a car date as a fantasy so I might take her up on that. Believe it or not I have never done that even in my HS years. All I need to be arrested for public indecency LOL, so will have to pick a private spot.

RE: Personal FC.

I had a FC last year and it was really nice to be able to take SBs back and wine and dine them there. The good thing about it was the security. No one can get through the entry door into the lobby to even approach the apartment door. So I never worried about an ex-SB showing up at the door. I guess they could always wait for another resident to let them in but it is a layer of security, Also parking is in a gated garage so the car can not be spotted on the street outside the building. Good points to know for you guys looking for one like BT has as well.

Keep up the good work guys, I enjoy reading about your exploits.

[Dsprdo]

I guess I will check in, too. My bohemian and I are done. She was never all that reliable, and I had a hard time getting together with her. The last time I saw her I showed up at her house, planning for POF and then a dinner out. She was hungry, wanted to go out first. OK, I'm flexible. Over dinner I was regaled with a long story about her reconnecting with an ex, and should she move out of state on whim to see if it could work with him. Then an anecdote about another civi date she had last week that didn't go well. After dinner, on the way home I decided that she had thoroughly killed the mood, and told her I needed to get home. The next morning she texted me that she had forgotten to get our "arrangement", could I drop it off? I ignored that for a few hours so that I could answer after the vein was done popping out in my forehead. Before I got around to responding, she texted that we should part ways because I wasn't providing the "stability" she needed. She was incredibly sexy, and I had a lot of fun with her, but see ya!

My wasp ice princess is a gem. She is cute, reliable, and despite trying to project that she is a tough cynical woman, is worried about cooking a meal for me at Christmas after I told her I wouldn't be going back east to visit the family. I am seeing her twice a week and greatly enjoying her company. Last week I saw my booty call baby, who had left mad a few weeks back. We had wine and compared notes on the SB / SD thing, it was quite enlightening. Although its very clear she is UTR, I think she is back in the fold as a fun booty call.

Spicy cubana has canceled on me a couple of times. We are tentatively on for tomorrow afternoon, will see what happens. We have texted back and forth since we visited the FC, and she has seemed fine, still has not mentioned sugar. Assuming I see her in the afternoon, I will have to hustle to meet a new POT for dinner. She is a 22 yo Latina spinner, who already has a couple of kids. We met for lunch last week and she is interested, but wants to be a little more comfortable with me before we spend alone time. She is a free spirit who recently quit her job to write-she believes "it will all work out!" After talking with her I think she meets Scott's "artsy" mold. I really hope that I can land this one, but who knows. Tomorrow could be interesting.

Several nibbles this week, won't report on them until we M&G. I am headed back east for Thanksgiving week and have cast a couple of lines there just to see what happens. Two nibbles so far, so I will at a minimum have something to entertain me between now and then, whether it materializes or not. Bottom line, I am having as much sex as my old bones can handle. I have taken to the treadmill and weights to up my game. Who knew that this could be a fitness program?

[HollywoodGuy]

Not a lot to report. It seems all the hot girls are turning down my offer lately (and there are so many really hot new girls on the site) and about half of them are UTR's but I wouldn't mind a one night stand with a hottie. But not paying $$ again. Seems to be the going rate these days. The last one was beautiful but it didn't rock my boat.

In spite of that I got a reply from a POT on Sat. And saw her on Sunday and Monday. She turned out to be a 24 year old mixed AA / Cuban 6.5/6.5/7/?. We kissed a little and talked a lot. I just wasn't feelin it. So I am done with her. No sugar, so except for one beer the first night, no money spent at all. The only interesting thing about this was we met without ever talking on the phone. Just txting.

Got what looks to be a 22 year old mixed AA / Guatemalan maybe 8/8/8/? HYM. I think she is UTR because she is driving 80 miles RT to see me for $. This is basically a straight to the FC type of date. But you never know. She seems pretty real and knows the score.

Work pressures really just make me want to stick to my regulars. But I feel like if I don't get out there once a week or so I am losing my edge. But I do like the familiarity of my regular girls. No drama, good sex, and no drama. LOL.

[BigTigger]

MsBubbly. Flaking out on me. Can't seem to nail her down for a date. She is communicating, but I think has either cold feet or a better offer.

MsSlimCheerleader. Asked for money for Christmas shopping for kid. I was a little suspect, then she said $45. I eventually gave it over and today she showed me some of the gifts and was very happy that I helped her finish all her shopping. Wow...$45. She is way ahead on this one.

MsVanity. Will not be happy, I cannot meet her Thursday morning, but I have not told her yet. I'm waffling, because I'm supposed to see MsSlimCheerleader and she's assertively trying to make that happen.

MsHipsnThighs. Checked in with me today. Just being nice of course after we decided to part ways. I can definitely see her being open any time I want to stop by and get a great lay!

MsCelibate. Time with her was good. But not quite as magical as the first time. She has some weird ways about her, and her mouth can be a little untamed when she decides she want to pick at a person. Her oral skills were good and her sounds are great. So I'll keep it around for once a week thing. She even offered to pay for the hotel and go 1/2 on food. I did not let her do it, but it was a great offer.

BigTigg.

[BigTigger]

Lots of texts and pics today. I asked them both to give me a list of gifts I can choose from when I want to surprise them. They seemed to really enjoy this exercise, even comparing notes and the like. They both are really excited about meeting. The flirting from both have intensified and of course I've played along. The pics they have sent have allowed me to see more of their bodies, but always with clothes on and nothing to risque, LOL. So I can see the DDs from MsChocolate because she sent it in tight workout clothes. MsCaramel did show a little cleavage, but even that was tame.

Seems to be some sort of sex discussion daily with lots of areas that seem very compatible. Both said they make lots of noises. If it's good... So we'll see. They were very clear, they do not do each other, so this will be interesting to see how this works out.

So we are schedule to meet next week as my schedule is crazy. But I do like the way things seem to be headed.

BT.

[HollywoodGuy]

Has anyone tried this site called Milfaholic? They seem to have a lot of very nice looking MILFs and they are local.

Not sure the sucess rate but there does seem to be a lot of horny MILFs on there. They start out with a lot of rated R or even X pics.

Curious about whether it is any good.

Revvo.

Those sites are scammy.

[BigTigger]

As I'm not 100% sure about this kind of thing, I think it needs its own posts separate from my others as this could end up being a full blown 3 some relationship. Sounds TGTBT. So I'll just update this individually.

So let's start by giving them names. Hm. One is light brown and the other is more dark brown. So we'll just go with MsCaramel and MsChocolate.

So exchanged texts with both today. MsCaramel was supposed to send some additional pics. She had some pressing issues with school and she eventually sent them today. The one thing I've noticed about both is that they seem very genuine. None of the photos come across as super flirty or true SB type of pics. They are all normal 20 year old girls, with conservative looks. Not much skin and not suggestive at all. Just pics they take on campus in daily life smiling.

I actually talked to MsChocolate on the phone for about 15 minutes. During that time, MsCaramel sent me a IM from the library. They claimed not to know the other was communicating, I said "yeah right", then I did get a good laugh because they both said the same thing. If they had planned it, I'm guessing they would have planned to use a different line, LOL.

They both are ready to get the first meeting out the way and have complimented me on how comfortable I made them. I do have the fortune of following a jerk. The first guy they met like this, talked a 1/2 good game, played his cards close to the vest, did not ask a bunch of questions and didn't seem as interested in their lives as me. The first meeting, they get to the room and without any warning, just asks them to get naked, LOL. In the end, they did not get undressed, told him that that is not what they had in mind and decided to leave. He did pay for their travel, but it was awkward and uncomfortable for them both. Mainly because they did not talk about it in advance and he made them feel like prostitutes in stead of SD / SB relationship. (I know..I know..we have had this discussion thousands of times, SB=Prostitute...LOL).

At this point my flirting, joking and seriously being interested in their lives will have them taking their clothes off on the first date without prompting from me. They do both seem eager. I still have my spidey radar up, so we'll see how it goes. They are 2 1/2 hours away from me. So it's taking some coordinating to meet up as I have a busy week this week. They are 2 1/2 hours away in the opposite direction of the TiggaPad. So 4 hours from there, so that's a no go. But they are willing to drive and use public transportation. So once I can get this first meeting out the way, we are on!

BigTigg.

[BigTigger]

So MsBubbly canceled out on me that morning. I had already cut off the second session with MsCelibate in hopes of landing MsBubbly. However, I did not go back and hit MsCelibate again as she has the 38 year old MILF body of the group and my interest sexually was waning some. She's pretty, but after a few hard bodies that I've been around, it's hard for her to compare.

This week is crazy busy for me at work, so not sure how things will shake out. Supposed to have MsVanity, MsBody and MsSlimCheerleader this week. There is not way I'm doing all of them, if any of them really. More than likely it will be MsSlimCheerleader on Thursday night.

I had my breakup email exchange with MsTripleDs. Basically she got uptight with something I said via email. Instead of chatting, she ignored me...for (2 weeks! Then after 2 weeks after she has recovered she wants to chat. She never addressed my original issues and is a self-proclaimed passive-aggressive conflict manager, LOL. I told her that I can't deal with women like that and that her actions just turned me off. She missed 3 dates and in general was annoying. She wished me the best and I did the same.

BT.