"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Member #4103** · 09-25-13 20:11

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott[/QUOTE]My $.02, fwiw. You've got a totally different animal here.

So. You have two options. Option 1, go the "I'm not married route" and see if you can get away with it. You know better than we whether that has a prayer, but does not sound likely.

Option 2. The mistress audition. The only way this is going to happen is to become friends first, then good friends, then at the appropriate time mention the shortcomings of your current situation and see how she reacts. Do it in a way that she can take the bait and off you go, or not and she doesn't view you as a troll.

My gut is it is only going to work out the way you want (e. G. Sneaking off to bang the shit out of her on a regular basis) if you go option 2, and are totally honest with her. She may be totally cool and into the mistress thing, and off you go. Or she may not and you will know early before you do any damage.

Again. Just my $.02.

**BigTigger** · 09-25-13 19:55

I am suddenly feeling the urge for a Yoga class!

BT

**F Scott** · 09-25-13 18:39

My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow ...) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?
On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott

**Happy Lover** · 09-25-13 16:23

Hi Guys,

I started seeing escorts earlier this year and I'm already over that scene. It just doesn't fulfill my needs. No emotional connection. Most young escorts have too many rules. I'm tired of these unappreciative escorts. I've helped out a few of them with barely a thank you.

I noticed this forum on the "Front Page" and it caught my eye. My hat is off to all of you for venturing out into the bowl. It's a fair amount of work to set up with intro letters, finances, emails, pictures, profiles, etc, before the fun even begins, and you have all put forth the effort with some GREAT results. I'm reading through your SD encyclopedia and it is a wealth of knowledge. I'll do my best to learn as much as possible before I start asking questions. I'd hate to be that F. N. G! LOL.

Work has been a bit slow as of late and it's cutting into my discretionary funds. For now I'll set up, learn, and contribute where I can. I'm looking forward to living up to my user name.

Happy Hunting,

HL

**FredMoore** · 09-25-13 15:27

Originally Posted by Beachesnole02 [View Original Post]

He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.

This woman will likely stay married since she takes care of her man in absentia. If only all wives would understand the male mentality and work with it.

ATF #4 Is my only indulgence. I found I couldn't give her up so we just do a few hrs once / week. She's cool about using each other for sexual release. I think she uses me more than the other way around, and that is fine by me. I am limiting my exposure as best I can but am still out there. It's harder to put money aside under increased scrutiny so I can't prospect any more. I miss the game so much! The chase and nailing of a new SB just can't be beat. I envy you guys who are multifucking.

**Beachesnole02** · 09-25-13 14:56

He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road. My wife, back when we were dating would go in my bathroom and count them in the box, had a huge sh+atstorm when my 12 year old and a buddy used them to make water balloons to bomb a friend downstairs at the condo.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.

**Member #5570** · 09-25-13 10:36

Congrats HWG. CL is the bomb when it hits. Most, if not all the CL true civil girls have no idea what or how much to ask for. The ones that give you a number / amount, you should move on.

It is I who always make the initiative, offering to pay their bills or get them gifts, etc.

Keep us posted bud.

**Nostra3** · 09-25-13 08:54

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.

Hell yes! Awesome find. What was the jist of your CL post? I got nothing but disgusting fat chicks and a guy dude from my one attempt.

I am still not sure how anyone read my ad and thought I was looking for a man. Oh well.

**BigTigger** · 09-25-13 07:55

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.

Very Nice, good find. CL can be hit or miss, but it is great when it hits!

**HollywoodGuy** · 09-25-13 00:10

I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9/? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.

**Member #5570** · 09-24-13 22:52

Thanks Revvo, it is quite hard to believe it's true myself sometimes but I am going to ride it as long as I can. But in the back of my mind, I know she's going to disappear as suddenly as she comes. Every dream has an end, just a matter of when.

But it sounds like you're having a blast every week. Keep up the posts, always enjoy reading them

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**Revvo** · 09-24-13 20:59

Originally Posted by Nostra3 [View Original Post]

Hello fellow adventurers. I hope your exploits are going well. Thought I might give a brief update on my short time in this world! I'd love feedback if you have any.

Already "Former" SB: Well this one came and went quickly. She is 20 and really hot; the sex wasn't great and she was a bad kisser. We didn't have great chemistry from the get go. Was giving her $$ each visit. She texted right before our last scheduled meeting and said she had morals and didn't want to be with a married guy and didn't want to have to depend on me for money. Oh well. I felt upset for only a short while.

POT 1: A very cute 21 year old single mom. Super skinny and very pretty. Said she just became unemployed and had to move back in with her family. Wants enough to be able to rent her own place. It's very cheap here to do so. Like 800 a month. Told her she should be able to clear that much each month if we meet up twice a week for "private time". She was cool with that. She seems flakey but had had seemingly legitimate reasons for the need to reschedule a couple of times. Will see if it ever gets anywhere.

POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. Also very attractive. I'm having trouble deciding where to draw the line with these POTs.

There are several pre-pots I am working on as well. I met with one but I think I will cut her loose due to some various issues.

I travel a lot for work so I have been trying to get some out of town pots put together. I haven't had much luck with that so far. Anyone have any advice on that?

Sounds like you are starting to get your feet wet. That is good. It takes a good 3 months to really start making progress with this. It is good to have an abundance mentality with this game. That means have several POTs working and you will be lucky to get one quality baby out of it. Just learn and keep making those minor adjustments to get better and better.

Provide more detail in your reports and we can give you more specific advice on how to adjust. As for the traveling thing. I travel a lot and that is an ideal opportunity to get pussy lined up in a city that you travel to on a regular basis. You have an expense report and nice hotel. Ready made for the traveling SD.

Keep up the good work. Include some ratings also with your reports. It helps flesh things out a bit more. I am constantly adjusting my ratings as I get to know them.

Revvo

**Nostra3** · 09-24-13 20:33

Hello fellow adventurers. I hope your exploits are going well. Thought I might give a brief update on my short time in this world! I'd love feedback if you have any.

Already "Former" SB: Well this one came and went quickly. She is 20 and really hot; the sex wasn't great and she was a bad kisser. We didn't have great chemistry from the get go. Was giving her $$ each visit. She texted right before our last scheduled meeting and said she had morals and didn't want to be with a married guy and didn't want to have to depend on me for money. Oh well. I felt upset for only a short while.

POT 1: A very cute 21 year old single mom. Super skinny and very pretty. Said she just became unemployed and had to move back in with her family. Wants enough to be able to rent her own place. It's very cheap here to do so. Like 800 a month. Told her she should be able to clear that much each month if we meet up twice a week for "private time". She was cool with that. She seems flakey but had had seemingly legitimate reasons for the need to reschedule a couple of times. Will see if it ever gets anywhere.

POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. Also very attractive. I'm having trouble deciding where to draw the line with these POTs.

There are several pre-pots I am working on as well. I met with one but I think I will cut her loose due to some various issues.

I travel a lot for work so I have been trying to get some out of town pots put together. I haven't had much luck with that so far. Anyone have any advice on that?

**Revvo** · 09-24-13 20:16

First I must say. Hats off to the Smoker. Damn brother have you scored a first class piece of ass or what? That sounds too good to be true. Ride that as long as you can. Sounds like you are having a blast. I have a shorter report since I am laying a little low and trying to focus a little more on quality and not so much quantity.

REVVO_SB7. So my little Venezuelan honey is just out of this world. I am making her rating a 7/10/9/10. This chick is totally awesome! I think last Thursday goes down as officially the best sex of my life. We snuggled, we ate, we sucked, I fucked her rugged, and she rode my dick like a thoroughbred jockey. It is hard to put into words how amazing that day was. Smoke you are right about young pussy it can sure take a whooping. I would play with her little pussy when she was laying on her stomach and she would arch her back up so high raising the perfect ass in the air, getting juicier and juicier, literally begging me to fuck that sweet little pussy. It was such a beautiful sight. I am not big on taking pictures. But this looked so fucking good. I wished I had a camera. I did not have enough superlatives to express how I felt. She is so sexual so open, so willing to just do anything I ask and if I do not ask she starts coming up with things herself. I was spent when I left three nuts in a period of about three hours. The orgasms were beyond anything I have ever experienced. I can honestly say that day was worth this entire experience so far. Wow what a ride. I am going to see her this Friday. We are going to do some outside stuff before we head to her apartment FC. Hell she is 150 and I don't even have to pay for hotel.

REVVO_SB6. Well my little girl next door honey I saw on Wednesday last week. Went very well but she was really busy with some work at her apartment FC. She has the cutest little place cozy and private and in a good neighborhood. She gave a very enthusiastic blow job and was really good on my dick. Then I flipped her over and fucked her from behind and spanked her ass hard. Her white skin was so pink when I finished and she did not complain a bit. Only one nutt with her. She was very satisfied or so she said. Just a little too busy to get another one in. And I like to take my time with them. She is also very young and more like a typical young girl she still needs to learn a lot more. But she is very willing to learn. I need to teach her more about being affectionate and how to relax more. But she is such a cool chick and so willing to do what I ask. I have never heard the word no from her. And on the issue of the loan / gift. I visited her for free this time and she was totally cool with it like she said. In fact there has never been an issue with money before or after. I honestly believe I could only pay her intermittently and she would not care. I have been giving her 200 I am thinking of putting her on a 700 month allowance and scheduling in 6 visits a month. We are also planning an overnight work / beach visit next week. But she is very sick right now with bronchitis. Hopefully she will be well by next week. I am giving her a 9/8/9/8 for now. So normal so refreshing both of these girls.

REVVO_SB2. My little Brazilian princess is ready for me and I am scheduled to fuck her on Thursday. She is very ready. Still no sugar just gifts. Any idea on a good gift for a 24 YO sexy bartender? Anyway I will let you know how it goes.

I got calls from two other back burner babies but no go. Just don't have the time. Trying to keep things down to these three max.

Be careful out there.

Revvo

**Member #5570** · 09-24-13 18:21

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Send her my way. LOL

HWG, you're out of luck bro. .

She might ends up in FL someday though. She keeps telling me she's tired of this place and want to get away from here. A fresh start if you will, and FL is her ideal destination. But again, that's an 18 yr old talking so who knows.