"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Fixinit]

Gentlemen,

I am extremely puzzled and vexed to report that since our golden-hued overnight, my ATF has been what I can only call "aloof." There seems to be no spot for me in her schedule, not even for some makin' out in my car. I know this is finals time, which she has told me, but I was in college once, and I know sometimes a study break is what's called for.

Am I being way too sensitive and clingy-old-fossilish? I really need some guidance in how to think of this before I go and do something I will regret later.

I am trusting in your compassion here. If you have rude or snide things to say, please keep them to yourself. No one likes a hater. If I'm being foolish, I'd like to know, but try not to dump on me, my brothers. Your time may come around one day as well.

Scott

Scott,

I would give it some time to see if she changes her attitude. With how much you appreciate her it is the least you can do before doing something you regret that will be irreversible. It is easy for me to say that not being involved but that is what I would try to do.

You are not being too sensitive as it is unfortunately normal to become attached to someone special.

Be patient and she may come right back to you.

Fix

[CantWinLosin]

I've only had a couple of girls query me early and directly about sugar. I always tell them,"I'm sorry, but I never discuss that before meeting someone. It's just not safe, for either person. I'm sure you understand." Neither of them complained. But I didn't try to meet either of them, either; I prefer someone who's a little less mercenary, as I seldom click with that sort of female.

[F Scott]

I had a similar situation when I was first getting into the SB scene. The baby wanted 6x$, which she revealed after lots of teasing and sexy emails back and forth. I assured her she was no doubt worth it, but respectfully declined, saying my comfort level was half that. A few days later, I was contacted by her saying that since my communications with her had been uniformly polite and respectful, she had decided to take me up on my offer. A date was chosen, a location secured, and the deal was consummated. Oddly, the sex was not fantastic, but she was Gorgeous, so there was that. Maybe these babies with GPS aren't all they think they are in more ways than one.

Moral of the story, I guess, is that you can never outguess these creatures, politeness is never a bad thing (even just karma-wise) , and sometimes patience brings unexpected results. Just because she's asking that doesn't mean anyone has ever paid it, despite what she might assert. Back-burner her and keep fishing, Buck. Sooner or later you'll get a hit.

Best,

Scott

Buck,

Just to relate both sides of the story, truthfully I have had several interviews with babies which ended with our inability to come to an agreement on the sugar amount, and nothing more was heard from them. I guess the real moral of the story is that you just never know, so try not to slam the door just in case.

Scott

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

I am extremely puzzled and vexed to report that since our golden-hued overnight, my ATF has been what I can only call "aloof." There seems to be no spot for me in her schedule, not even for some makin' out in my car. I know this is finals time, which she has told me, but I was in college once, and I know sometimes a study break is what's called for.

Am I being way too sensitive and clingy-old-fossilish? I really need some guidance in how to think of this before I go and do something I will regret later.

I am trusting in your compassion here. If you have rude or snide things to say, please keep them to yourself. No one likes a hater. If I'm being foolish, I'd like to know, but try not to dump on me, my brothers. Your time may come around one day as well.

Scott

[Madaboutmax]

There are definitely different types of SB's out there as has been discussed at length on this thread.

I know at least 5 local dancers with profiles on one site. They act much more like escorts with similar rates, all negotiated up front with clear time limits. My current HYB wanted a monthly sugar amount for being exlusive with as many visits as I wanted. I indicated she was clearly woth it, but the sugar amount was too rich for me. I suspected the offer for as many times as I wanted wouldn't pan out logistically. I agreed to half the amount of monthly sugar with sugar spread out over the first few visits.

Its been less than two weeks, but we've already had 5 overnights. We've had a minimum of 4 rounds every night with her initiating most of them. Looking at the sugar / round, I may have one of the best deals going. I don't know how long this will last, but I sure am enjoying the ride.

I've decided she needs a new acronym. HYN (Hot Young Nympho).

[F Scott]

I emailed back and forth with this potential SB and she kept pressing the issue on a number for sugar, I played it cool and kept talking about how I'd like to meet her for coffee and to see if we connected blah, blah, blah. She continued to press, so I said well in your personal ad you mentioned you had done this before and I can't really put a price on beauty so why don't you tell me where you're at. Ready for this. $$$$$$$.5! Yes that's 7 for you guys with the failing eyes. This sugar is on top of dinner and wine being requested mind you, but to be fair she did say she had mostly overnights. I then inquired what dinner, drinks, and a couple hours of fun might entail? Her "oh about the same." Zoinks! Ole Buckdancer may have to go a new route. While this girl definitely is a college freshman, yes freshman, they teach them early at Mr. Jefferson's University and I think I've been priced out of the Sugar Daddy market by some serious heavy hitters in hooville.

I had a similar situation when I was first getting into the SB scene. The baby wanted 6x$, which she revealed after lots of teasing and sexy emails back and forth. I assured her she was no doubt worth it, but respectfully declined, saying my comfort level was half that. A few days later, I was contacted by her saying that since my communications with her had been uniformly polite and respectful, she had decided to take me up on my offer. A date was chosen, a location secured, and the deal was consummated. Oddly, the sex was not fantastic, but she was gorgeous, so there was that. Maybe these babies with GPS aren't all they think they are in more ways than one.

Moral of the story, I guess, is that you can never outguess these creatures, politeness is never a bad thing (even just karma-wise) , and sometimes patience brings unexpected results. Just because she's asking that doesn't mean anyone has ever paid it, despite what she might assert. Back-burner her and keep fishing, Buck. Sooner or later you'll get a hit.

Best,

Scott

[Spitfire]

Found her on SA, and this is the first message she has sent me: "Hey, thanks for the message. I looked at your profile and might be interested, but I guess I'd want to know more specifically what you're looking to get and in exchange for what. I've learned that there a lot of guys on here who will pay a lot of money to be with a girl my age. I'm not saying this to sound like I'm full of myself. I'm really a pretty modest girl in most ways. But I, ahem, don't come cheap. Also, I'm VERY busy with school, and that will always be my #1 priority. I limit my dates to weekends, and only when I feel like my schoolwork allows." Now seems to me she's either very naive or uncle Leo. I have read back through this thread and this seems to be a Sb I want to avoid. Thoughts anyone?

Sounds like she has a classic case of GPS.

[BuckDancer]

I emailed back and forth with this potential SB and she kept pressing the issue on a number for sugar, I played it cool and kept talking about how I'd like to meet her for coffee and to see if we connected blah, blah, blah. She continued to press, so I said well in your personal ad you mentioned you had done this before and I can't really put a price on beauty so why don't you tell me where you're at. Ready for this. $$$$$$$.5! Yes that's 7 for you guys with the failing eyes. This sugar is on top of dinner and wine being requested mind you, but to be fair she did say she had mostly overnights. I then inquired what dinner, drinks, and a couple hours of fun might entail? Her "oh about the same." Zoinks! Ole Buckdancer may have to go a new route. While this girl definitely is a college freshman, yes freshman, they teach them early at Mr. Jefferson's University and I think I've been priced out of the Sugar Daddy market by some serious heavy hitters in hooville.

[F Scott]

Sooo, was it worth it? Probably not.

Point well taken.

[BuckDancer]

Found her on SA, and this is the first message she has sent me: "Hey, thanks for the message. I looked at your profile and might be interested, but I guess I'd want to know more specifically what you're looking to get and in exchange for what. I've learned that there a lot of guys on here who will pay a lot of money to be with a girl my age. I'm not saying this to sound like I'm full of myself. I'm really a pretty modest girl in most ways. But I, ahem, don't come cheap. Also, I'm VERY busy with school, and that will always be my #1 priority. I limit my dates to weekends, and only when I feel like my schoolwork allows." Now seems to me she's either very naive or uncle Leo. I have read back through this thread and this seems to be a Sb I want to avoid. Thoughts anyone?

[Hernando]

Scotty, you seem to be reluctant to stick with your ATF in spite of her being (almost) all you are looking for.

Let me share a recent story. An ATF escort recently came to town and since there was a little gap in my timeline to see my ATF HYB HCB I went to see her. As usual I had a great time dancing the pro dance. These gals really know how to fuck and hit those sex buttons, but afterward I felt a little melancholy since even though she was snuggling with me I wasn't in the mood and went on home. I was also thinking about how I would love to have that $$ back to spend on my ATF instead since my resources are a little tapped out here at Christmas time.

Sooo, was it worth it? Probably not.

[Golfcart]

Gentlemen,

I am heading out of town next week for several days, visiting clients in two different cities where I have previously connected with OTR babies. My current thinking is that I will get back in touch with them and see if they would like to just have drinks with me after a long and tiring day; you know, for old times sake. I think their feelings would be hurt if they found out I had visited their cities and not looked them up, don't you?

I swear I would have no ulterior motive beyond two old friends, getting together to reminisce about the good old days of fucking ourselves silly.

Doesn't this sound like a thoughtful, considerate and sensible plan? I mean, it's not like I can take my ATF with me or anything.

I await your responses,

Scott

I assume the acquaintance, a generation younger, would rather not be asked to a sugar-free encounter of any type, even to a nice dinner. I assume she would have no interest in anything less than their last encounter plus a good reason why it has been so long in coming. Just by asking Scott is forcing her to go and pretend or decline, neither of which would she want to do, secondary to not buying the excuse why Scott is not having a real encounter with her in the first place, given their history together, given he is in town when it always happened before. The suggested approach is asking a lot of her.

Just my view.

[F Scott]

Scott,

It seems thoughtful, considerate and sensible all at the same time. It is best to keep them thinking about you so when you make these trips you have options. If you don't stay in touch you will have to do all the work again finding more babies.

Have Fun.

Fix

Thanks Fix. I like your clear thinking on this. Who in their right mind would want more work, right?

[Fixinit]

Gentlemen,

I am heading out of town next week for several days, visiting clients in two different cities where I have previously connected with OTR babies. My current thinking is that I will get back in touch with them and see if they would like to just have drinks with me after a long and tiring day; you know, for old times sake. I think their feelings would be hurt if they found out I had visited their cities and not looked them up, don't you?

I swear I would have no ulterior motive beyond two old friends, getting together to reminisce about the good old days of fucking ourselves silly.

Doesn't this sound like a thoughtful, considerate and sensible plan? I mean, it's not like I can take my ATF with me or anything.

I await your responses,

Scott

Scott,

It seems thoughtful, considerate and sensible all at the same time. It is best to keep them thinking about you so when you make these trips you have options. If you don't stay in touch you will have to do all the work again finding more babies.

Have Fun.

Fix

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

I am heading out of town next week for several days, visiting clients in two different cities where I have previously connected with OTR babies. My current thinking is that I will get back in touch with them and see if they would like to just have drinks with me after a long and tiring day; you know, for old times sake. I think their feelings would be hurt if they found out I had visited their cities and not looked them up, don't you?

I swear I would have no ulterior motive beyond two old friends, getting together to reminisce about the good old days of fucking ourselves silly.

Doesn't this sound like a thoughtful, considerate and sensible plan? I mean, it's not like I can take my ATF with me or anything.

I await your responses,

Scott