"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BigTigger]

Another Beautiful Latina. She lives many many states away. But that's cool as #10 is keeping me very busy here locally. Conversations have been great. She will replace one of my other far away SB who flaked out on me. I expect to see her within the next 2 months. She's cool with my type of sugar, where I cover expenses and enjoy the weekend.

Of course I'll keep the board updated.

BigTigg

[BigTigger]

Thanks for the report Drock. So what's the sugar damage?

BigTigg.

Long time lurker here. I decided to jump in and have been very successful. I started by rtff. Very good information. Joined SD4me. Used the suggested profile and WOW 15 hits. Met up with the first one this week.

I will call her sb1. 22 year old hot lady. Met for dinner first. Then set up next date. On next date went straight to chamber. What a night. Sb2 is setup for next week. Looks promising. 20 year old student. I will let you know. Sb3 is set up for the first week of Oct.

Thank you very much for the advice. Happy hunting.

[Drock1234]

Long time lurker here. I decided to jump in and have been very successful. I started by rtff. Very good information. Joined SD4me. Used the suggested profile and WOW 15 hits. Met up with the first one this week.

I will call her sb1. 22 year old hot lady. Met for dinner first. Then set up next date. On next date went straight to chamber. What a night. Sb2 is setup for next week. Looks promising. 20 year old student. I will let you know. Sb3 is set up for the first week of Oct.

Thank you very much for the advice. Happy hunting.

[Golfcart]

Now comes the moment of truth when she had to go. What to do about the sugar? It was not her fault that I was late. It was not her fault that I could not get a room. She came prepared to give up the pussy and had allocated sufficient time to do so. I was reluctant, but I slipped the full amount of the sugar into her pocket. Off she went on those stilts that served for legs and I'm left with a woodie and a empty wallet. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. She said she was glad to see I was a honorable man. That she felt good about her decision and she was thinking of all the things we could do when we met again. To be honest, I'm not sure if I did the right thing. Time will tell.

That was clearly a no-brainer. Cool did the right thing for the right reason. CSB12 saying she was glad to see Cool was an honorable man and she felt good about her decision gives a lot of insight into her.

[BigTigger]

TB#3. We keep planning, but something keeps messing up the date.

TB#7. Have only hit it once, but we have a TiggaBounce date set for the first week of the month.

TB#9. Was my main squeeze, but life has put a squeeze on her. I have not seen her about a month now.

TB#10. It's amazing what being around someone so young can do for you. Seeing her at least once a week. Actually it's been twice a week since we got started. She let it slip that before she had her little one, she stripped for about a year. She didn't know how much of a "plus" that was! So for the last TiggaBounce, I got on the edge of the bed and she gave me the best naked_lapdance_fuck I've ever had. {I think it's my first actually} It was like what I'm normally dreaming of when I get a lapdance. Only this time she really was naked and she was working that TiggaStick over like a champ. To the point where she got 2 orgasms and was all sweaty when she was done.

She wants to see me once to twice a week and I'm consistently coming in less than $ each time. I even tested her with a cheaper hotel this last time and it didn't phase her at all. I'm going to ride this one fellas for as long as I can. We have a overnight trip scheduled coming up soon. I'll pick her up and drive to the next state over, hang out all night and come back the next afternoon. Speaking of some of the conversation about talking between. We do talk almost daily. If we don't talk, we definitely email. But we pretty much talk every day. It's been a blast.

I don't think I'm going to need the 12 step plan, we have been very clear with boundaries and limitations. She doesn't want a real boyfriend just yet. She's got a lot going on and this arrangement is really working for her. She gets to go out, have fun and not spend any money. The gas and sitter are always covered. So far so good!

I'm so glad I stumbled on this thread. I hope my reports have been helpful.

BigTigg.

It's been almost a month, here's the latest.

TB #2. Gone, gave some lame excuse. Just too flaky, I never got to taste the goodies.

TB #3. Still no luck yet, she had BF drama the night we were supposed to meet. I have some great photos, but have not tasted the goodies yet.

TB #4. Done.

TB #5. All Star! . Flew in, looked way better than pictures, banging body (especially if you like big butts!) The sex was off the charts. If she were closer, it would be in so much trouble. I tried to do as advised and give her a little sugar to go. But once she paid for the lunch on Saturday, I knew it would not go over well. She stated that since I paid for everything else, it's the least she could do. (I'm sitting there stunned). So she's more of a MILF / SB. I can't wait to get at it again. Even the cost of the hotel and flight $$$$ was worth the over 20 hours of time together. It was pretty much, whatever I could get in, during that time, so it was on when we were together.

TB#6. Have not heard from her. No time to follow up with her now. (I still have the Airline gift cards ready for use)

TB#7. Linked up with her for Dinner and Hotel date. Very nice, great body and great attitude. The sexy was very good, will get better each time I'm sure. She communicates daily and we are trying to link up again next week. Not sure if it's going to work. TB#9 has been taking up a lot of my time.

TB#8. She went out of town and didn't get in lots of contact when she came back. She's juggling a number of SDs. Not a high priority anymore.

TB#9. 32 Year old, beautiful African-American. Great Body, great attitude. She's more of the affair type as opposed to straight SD / SB. Works for me, nobody has asked for exclusivity. She's by far the one I've spent the most time with and enjoy the most. Mainly pay for gas, and a I've thrown in a little extra. Have yet to have any amount over $. So far. 4 Hotel dates (including 2 over-nighters) , multiple pops and 2 non-hotel dates. (One of the non hotel dates ended in HJ, so even that was surprisingly successful!)

So currently,

TB#9 is the main squeeze. Averaging once a week.

TB#7 is my main pay to play. Averaging once a month. Sugar was not negotiated, but the $, seems to be suffice.

TB#5 is my top choice, will probably see once a quarter.

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Still have my normal two MILFs that I see once a month or every other month.

BigTigg.

[BigTigger]

All my experiences have come from "Sugardaddie", lots of hotties and lots of areas covered.

BigTigg.

Gentlemen,

Expanding a bit on Nando's observations, I have found, personally, that SA is the best producer of hot, high-quality babies in my area. I have had paid, all-access memberships on three other sites, SD4Me (2nd best, but fewer babies in my area) , Sugarsugar (nothing of real value there, and very few babies) and AM, which I agree is a sucky, total rip-off. All the contacts that came from there turned out to be shills for pay webcam sites. I believe every "sb"on that site is actually an Eastern European dude, just looking to get your credit card number. Nando, I'm surprised you even got as far as a meet with anyone.

Golf, you may be right. I wasted two hours in total yesterday checking my SD email account for a message from her, which of course did not come. She's just so hot, and the fucking is mind-blowing. I need to take a page from Lit's gamebook and fuck one or two of my other babies to get my mind off her. If that doesn't work, an intervention seems inevitable.

Keep up the good work,

Scott

[F Scott]

I concur with Spit. Your observation that she came prepared to uphold her end of the arrangement is the thing to keep in mind. Also, she has two-thirds of the promised sugar still to go, so that will be incentive to her to come back and fulfill the deal. If for some reason it all falls apart, consider the lost sugar as the price of a lesson learned. Next time plan ahead for negative contingencies as much as is possible.

Keep up the good work,

Scott

[Spitfire]

Gentleman;

Now comes the moment of truth when she had to go. What to do about the sugar? It was not her fault that I was late. It was not her fault that I could not get a room. She came prepared to give up the pussy and had allocated sufficient time to do so. I was reluctant, but I slipped the full amount of the sugar into her pocket. Off she went on those stilts that served for legs and I'm left with a woodie and a empty wallet. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. She said she was glad to see I was a honorable man. That she felt good about her decision and she was thinking of all the things we could do when we met again. To be honest, I'm not sure if I did the right thing. Time will tell.

I think you did the right thing here. If you hadn't provided the sugar, it's doubtful you would see her again. Then you would miss out on those long legs. At least this way, you still have a shot! If there is a next time, then you'll know for certain. But if next time it doesn't work out, walk away.

[Hernando]

Well, because of the fine advice I got from a few of you gents I entered a 12 step program for sex addicts. And only made one step. I was released when I hit on the hot counselor and offered her a paid position in my menage-erie LOL. Seriously, I know getting emotionally involved isn't good, cause I do know this cutie is a little embarassed to be seen in public with me.at least showing emotion in a loverly way. I can't blame her.but in private she couldn't be better.

Cool.glad to hear from you again! My take on your encounter is that you did the right thing.and it will reap benefits in the future if she liked you. If she didn't like you enough you wouldn't have seen her again anyway. Too bad about the lateness issues. Shit happens though.

Scott.it sounds like you and Cool are working the same 6 footer.

Fling.my two new friends are both responding in the affirmative re: a "meat" and greet. I do not have as much free time to court these ladies overnight so I don't know how and when I'm going to work them in.but I will.

BP.After cancelling the other day is hot to re enter the FC so I will give her one more chance. And she is local so I can work her into the rotation without needing all night, and will do soon. She is a little chunky but acts appreciative and has a clit the size of a quarter. I can almost give her a hand job.

[Coolhand2]

Gentleman;

It's been awhile since I posted but I have been following all of your exploits with a lot of interest. I wanted to share a situation that happened a couple of weeks ago and I invite your comments. Good hunting.

Coolhand.

CSB12 (21 yr old. 6'0, lean with gorgeous breasts) and I communicated for at least 2 months breaking off communication at least once. She insisted that I should be willing to provide sugar just to be in her presence. I insisted that without pussy there would be no sugar. I even agreed to a meet and great (which I have not done before) but without pussy, no sugar. I have to admit that the vision of those legs that went on forever wrapped around me was why I was willing to bend even that much. She finally accepted that if she wanted the sugar she was going to have to give up the pussy. The fact that I would not provide a picture became a stumbling block but my assurance that if I did not match my description that she was free to leave finally got past that.

After her acceptance that the pussy would have to be given up she insisted on knowing the amount of sugar. I wouldn't because I was afraid of the GP syndrome. I asked her to say what she wanted, but she refused saying "I can't put a price on my body." (Classic I am not a working girl) What she finally did was lay out what her bills were, the amount and when they had to be payed by. I then proposed 3 visits with equal amounts on each visit, which would cover her bills in time. She agreed. The amounts were what I would have provided so for me no harm no foul.

We agreed to meet at a fucking chamber I had used before, and visions of sugar plums danced in my head. First snafu was that I was 30 minutes late, which I informed her was going to happen about a hour before time.

Second snafu (and biggest) was they had no rooms ready. I was before check-in time but this had not been a problem in the past. They told be it would be 10 minutes. She arrives, in all her six foot glory, and I'm standing in the lobby with my thumb in my ass. Awkward! The 10 minutes turned into almost an hour and we finally get to the room. Now, I'm pressed for time and it turns out she's pressed for time. With it being our first meeting even I was not comfortable trying to jump immediately into bed. So we dis basically a meet and great with some very light petting, emphasis on the light.

Now comes the moment of truth when she had to go. What to do about the sugar? It was not her fault that I was late. It was not her fault that I could not get a room. She came prepared to give up the pussy and had allocated sufficient time to do so. I was reluctant, but I slipped the full amount of the sugar into her pocket. Off she went on those stilts that served for legs and I'm left with a woodie and a empty wallet. She sent me a very nice email afterwards. She said she was glad to see I was a honorable man. That she felt good about her decision and she was thinking of all the things we could do when we met again. To be honest, I'm not sure if I did the right thing. Time will tell.

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

As promised, I am submitting a to-date summary, over several posts, of my SD activity in the hopes that it will provide some assistance, insights, and a couple of chuckles along the way. This is by no means going to be an exhaustive narrative of every thrust and counter-thrust. I am only commenting on the babies that were interesting or unusual in some way. Also, I number them only when they have been fucked. Coffee doesn't count.

SB3 – A gorgeous, tall (6') thin, athletic Irish amazon. What's not to like, right? After a few emails, we meet and find we have many interests in common, not the least of which is an overriding interest in sex. We part with the promise of looking at our respective calendars with an eye towards finding a mutually-workable day and time to get to it.

Well, it turns out, among her many and wide-ranging hobbies, she is involved in the 'modern burlesque movement. ' If some of you are scratching your heads now and saying to yourselves 'what the heck is that? ' let me tell you it is a hotbed of potential babies. These are young women who have a healthy obsession with sex, have no problem taking their clothes completely off, and in fact view both as a mark of power. They are not strippers, as you and I might cassify them, in any sense of the word, however. They view what they do as an art form, reviving the glory days of burlesque and such luminaries as Sally Rand and others that I was not paying attention to so can't give you their names. Whatever.

A day and time is agreed upon, and I appear, pumped full of V, my pockets bulging with raincoats, and a jaunty tune running through my head. After some small talk, during which she asked if I were LEO, which I must admit put a speed bump in my otherwise open freeway for a moment or two, we started to get focused on the task at hand. Long story short, I make her cum via oral, slap on a cover, and bang that pussy for all I'm worth. Things reaching their inevitable conclusion, I reach down to remove the condom, at which point she freaks and shouts 'did you just cum? ' I kinda thought that was the objective here, right? When I replied in the affirmative, she jumped up and started yelling at me about stds and the need for proper 'protocol'. WTF? I'm a horny old fart, not a diplomat! After a longer-than-necessary lecture on the biological, medical and whatever need for sterile procedure when having sex, I pulled up my boxers, gave little Scottie, who by now is wisely hiding, a silent apology for getting him mixed up in such a debacle, and beat a hasty retreat. The strange denouement to this episode is that two weeks later she contacts me again through my SD email to see if I'm still thinking about her. Well, yes, in fact, I am. I'm thinking how lucky I was to get out of there with soul still connected to body.

I will continue to post up relevant experiences, and encourage my fellow Daddies to do the same. Knowledge is power.

Keep up the good work,

Scott

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

Expanding a bit on Nando's observations, I have found, personally, that SA is the best producer of hot, high-quality babies in my area. I have had paid, all-access memberships on three other sites, SD4Me (2nd best, but fewer babies in my area) , Sugarsugar (nothing of real value there, and very few babies) and AM, which I agree is a sucky, total rip-off. All the contacts that came from there turned out to be shills for pay webcam sites. I believe every "sb"on that site is actually an Eastern European dude, just looking to get your credit card number. Nando, I'm surprised you even got as far as a meet with anyone.

Golf, you may be right. I wasted two hours in total yesterday checking my SD email account for a message from her, which of course did not come. She's just so hot, and the fucking is mind-blowing. I need to take a page from Lit's gamebook and fuck one or two of my other babies to get my mind off her. If that doesn't work, an intervention seems inevitable.

Keep up the good work,

Scott

[Varoom]

* edit delete* the 4th is my SO. And is superb. But even she does not want any emotional connection beyond romantic FC activities. No Honey, sweetie, darlings at all. No texting or calling between visits. I'm finding that random sex for most people is just that (and Do-Re. Me of course) Most of you are saying." what's wrong with that?" But I do like that part without the obsession. Hookers act like that. I want a SB to act the girlfriend part in between visits.

Scott, more power to you if you're a 22 year old college student cut from the same bolt of cloth.

If not the intervention is 9:00 pm Eastern Time tomorrow.

Sounds like Nando may soon need the 12 step SD treatment since he is yearning for that emotional attachment from the SB.

This may be all well and good until the SB takes the bait; hook, line and sinker. And demands more Nando than Nando can or will deliver.

Can you say playing with fire, or at least fanning the flames a bit too much here, IMO?

GC, plan on two attendees for tomorrow night.

[Golfcart]

(edit delete) My current SB, a 21 year old college student, is coming dangerously close to making me fall in love. Help! Keep up the good work, Scott

Scott, more power to you if you're a 22 year old college student cut from the same bolt of cloth.

If not the intervention is 9:00 pm Eastern Time tomorrow.

[Hernando]

Where has everybody gone? I know there are a few Mongers working the Board but we don't hear as much anymore. Is it just that the active reporters have taken a break like Lit? Or have we overworked the system and run out of raw materiel?

Nando report :

SBSO (SB sig other) is still my #1 focus and I still see her 1 to 2 X / week. She is everything I want in a SB (almost) and my only complaint is she moved to North Carolina and is less available to me. We are still managing to keep up weekly visits though, but I am a little insecure about her ongoing availability and committment to me. We have a no ask / no tell policy about our sexual activities so I choose to think that she is only seeing me. Which is my preference. I, on the other hand, am exploring other sites and vaginas trying to assure that I get my 2-3 nuts / week. In my culture we believe in the double standard-period!

Fling- Is a renewed source lately and I have two girls primed and ready for the FC. One is on the books for this week already. Both are size 12's though, and I am not truly happy unless they are 2's to 4's. One is an athletic girl in her 30's who looks like she can work me over pretty well, and the other is a softer looking girl also 30's. But the worst fuck I have ever had has been great, so I will at least give them an opportunity to thrill me and see where to go from there. The young hot Fling girls are not interested in older guys. Or probably anyone. I think many are lurkers and get their jollies from being in print, or are shills. These two added to the lover I had earlier this year who was also Fluffy, but loved to fuck and was wild! I couldn't get interested in more than every 2-3 weeks with her but when we got together it was entertaining. We met 3 times before she got the guilts for cheating on her hubby, and bailed.

DPS (BP). Remember my discount pussy (syndrome) new 20 yr old? She gave a very servicable fuck for our first visit, but cancelled on round 2 leaving me with a serious SRH (Sperm Retention Headache ). I was pissed! We will try one more appointment and if she is not reliable I will pass her on to the board players. I cannot tolerate unreliability! We all have to schedule out the time, make our excuses, get ourselves excited, etc. So girls. Don't fuck with us! I will continue to glance at BP, but the quality and number of real girls looking for a hookup is pretty low.

AM. Sucks! I think the girls there are looking for young boys. I have had 4 tries. 3 meets, and only one taker but she is a size 20 ergo no invite to the FC. There were 2 outright rejections. A 50 yr old and a 30. Both very hot looking. The 30 I get but the 50?

SD4U. Is the gold standard. But you do run through the existing data base pretty quickly, and new sign ups in your geographical area are low. I met 4 hot girls pretty quickly and failed at two of them-1 broke stripper mother and 1 30 yr old fox. I think money and emotional detatchment were responsible for both. I wanted a regular connection and they definitely did not. The third was a 50 ish yr old decent fuck for the night but turned into a fatal attraction, and the 4th is my SO. And is superb. But even she does not want any emotional connection beyond romantic FC activities. No Honey, sweetie, darlings at all. No texting or calling between visits. I'm finding that random sex for most people is just that (and Do-Re. Me of course) Most of you are saying." what's wrong with that?" But I do like that part without the obsession. Hookers act like that. I want a SB to act the girlfriend part in between visits.

Others : Diamonddaddy, sugarsugar, a million others. Anybody have any luck with these? I have signed on but have not paid money, and you can't sample the goods until you pay. How about Adultfriendfinder, hookup, etc? Any leads?

WEll, thats it for now. Let's hear from you other Mongers. Make Lit proud!