"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BigTigger]

Greetings all, I'm not sure how I stumbled upon this thread, but I'm so glad I did. I'm transitioning from the AMP scene. After reading many many reports and a little guidance from another Senior member. I've decided I'll try this out for a few and see how I like it.

So I took the plunge and signed up for one of the sites, I think it's the cheaper of the main 2. Not as professionally made but effective none the less. In less than 24 hours of paid membership, I have a 29 year old SB #1 on deck. Money hasn't been discussed, but I've been given examples of previous SD behavior.

I'll update you all after the first conquest. For a reference point, this will be in the DC / MD / VA area and I'm going to try to keep my gifts in reasonable range.

[Hernando]

I am ultimately a one girl guy.it is just so hard to find that right girl who is emotionally in tune with me. I have found that girl.college girl.but I am also practical enough to realize that the party might end (and will end) some time down the road, and I will be back on the prowl.

I have thoughts about three mentalities of girls re:SB motivation and would be interested in knowing your opinion as well :

1) Young girls 18-30 .tend to be less personal about sex.the "hook up " mentality we read about that did not exist when I went to college (Damn it!) They are less likely to get emotionally invested and just enjoy fucking on a lark and out of curiosity .more like men.with as many as they can, and therefore are less likely to stick with one partner. ;

2) middle youth #1-39 . Tend to be survival oriented.usually have kids, and usually fall into my cat. 1 and / or 3.

And will line up as many SDs as possible for the income; and

3) MILFs 40 plus.who frequently want a partner to play with.usually one at a time-and not always into the money.

This is sort of a modification of my experience SBs to date.

[Magic Rat]

I think Hernando has it down pat.

I met up with my current favorite sb recently for an extended session. With a lot of coaxing, sexiness, and talent she was able to coax pop #3 out of me as I collapsed into a sweaty heap on the bed. At this point, I've decided to make her the sole recipient of my sd talents and gifts as I'm not much of a multitasker like you guys are. Of course that could change with one text / email as we all know.

[Literal2]

Great work Hernando, keep it up. You get much better bang for the buck than I do and some of your babes sound like prime rib to me.

So far this week I've received three requests for extra money and two requests for another good fucking from previous sugarbabes. Unfortunately I just want to get back inside my 23 year old student and shoot some more sperm into her. Call me crazy.

[Hernando]

But who's counting?

Met a 21 yr old spinner last night for a night of mind blowing, wall banging, screaming her brains out soprano sex.no pre-meet references, drinks, or courting of any kind required. The damage was $$.5 including room. I was actually afraid that the notel keeper was going to call the police since we were right near the reception desk. She is a college girl and no discussion was had about $ before or afterwards. We spent hours together and multiple pops were available.the only limits were my inability to perform for round 3. I wish I started in my 30's, I'd be up to SB # 2000 by now LOL. With all of these tasty morsels available to us, why in the world would any of us ever get married? She is my ATF and I will concentrate on her unless she runs.

SB #10 continues to be a pain in the azz. I am talking her down since I don't want to do to her what these low lifes have done to me.that is.disappear.

SB #9 was a 5'10" slavic beauty who I beaned for 2 visits to the notel for $$ plus room. She just wanted to fuck and refused cuddling after-just fuck and go. I usually like more intimate contact but I told her I could do that. It didn't seem to matter how long it took before orgasm, but once I popped.that was it. She up and left.I'm sure she got a better offer, cause I seemed to take care of her business pretty well according to the decible level.

SB # 8 Stripper spinner from catagory 1 and 3.fucked her 3 times with a lot of non sex dates in between. She had a super hot body. 7 face, but was very nonreactive during sex. I could tell she was enjoying the sensation since I heard little grunts and groans and watched her facial expressions, but she was emotionally closed and disappeared after expending a lot of effort trying to prep her for a long term affair. I think she ran because she did not want emotional involvement. Damage was $$ plus room. Could have been money too but I don't see her as a $$$ plus performer.

[Hernando]

One of my MILFS fell deeply in "love" with me after one date and texted, called, and emailed me constantly. It was pretty scary and I had to let her down softly since she had some identifying stats on me and took multiple calls, reassurances that she is attractive, etc.

This goes to the point made before about revealing personal info about yourself. If you are going to have a longer term relationship with them.it will be hard not to share personal tidbits. If you are into a one hour fuck.and pay enough.they don't care who you are (see classification # 1 in my previous post about the types of girls I see)

It did give me perspective on some of my girls who dumped me.remember.by just disappearing. I wanted an explanation and texted them, called.a few times anyway. Now I know not to do that anymore. Many do not have manners at all but you can not force them to communicate with you. When they are done with you.they are done.

[Hernando]

Lit seems to have dominated the market for sex appeal without pics.I think I remember correctly. I must not be as good a writer of romantic prose to lure these babes in without a picture.

Therefore I started using pictures selected by an escort friend that look incredibly like me (she says.as well as all of my meets) I know fake pics are not well thought of but our (monger's) biggest complaint is not that the pics are fake, but that they do not look at all like the person in real life. Therefore I have been very successful so far and have had compliments on my photos. So my advice.unless you feel comfortable putting your real self out there on the world wide web (see Anthony Wiener and how well that worked out for him) get a girl friend to do the same for you. After all, we want the girls to "know" how we look without exposing ourselves to discovery by The Warden, The Boss, or your Mother.depending on your priority.

[Hernando]

I had one drink with an AM girl.incredibly hot 33 yr old spinner (I am considerably older) and we got along beautifully, but she blew me off the next day. I was probably too old for her liking even though I am told I can pass for 40ish. Since then I haven't had any luck. But.I only invested $$ to communicate with them, and did not display a face pic. I think these girls want a fuck buddy and aren't into the money.so they need to be attracted to you in some way. I might try again with pics (see the next post)

[Magic Rat]

The classifications sound about right although there are variations. Personally, I've had the best luck with the MILF's who need the sugar for various reasons. My favs have had jobs, but either they don't make enough $ or they have unusual expenses they can't cover with their paycheck. They're generally not getting enough / any, are appreciative, separated or divorced, and ready to fuck your brains out. The danger is that they want to latch on to you and maybe want something more than what we met them for, so one must always be aware of that. Hasn't been an issue for me so far but one has to be careful.

[Golfcart]

My mistake.

[Literal2]

Good analysis, Hernando. Your report shows the wide variety of females that can be accessed as sugarbabes. I haven't tried other dating sites much, so I really don't know, but my belief is that the amateur females just looking for a NSA fuck are primarily looking for physical attraction. Now that I think of it, this is exactly what I was told on the AM site (the one that advertises "life is short, have an affair") by a woman who was trying to get my photo. At the time, I wasn't giving out my photo and I tried acquiring pussy through am For a while. I didn't have any luck. So I concluded that on the NSA sex sites, the girls are looking for hot guys. Which I'm not. On the sb sites, the girl is there for sugar and wants a photo to see if you are revolting. If you aren't she is likely to be willing to fuck you in expectation of the sugar if you play your cards right.

In some people's view, this makes all the sbs hookers. The word used this way is really a moral judgment and not an occupational description. Fine with me, but in my case, I'm looking for the honeypots who do not consider themselves to be in the business of hooking. They are fresher, juicier and more into fucking for pleasure than girls who know that fucking is their daily work.

As for your categories, I've only opened pussy from girsl in 1 and 3. Most have been a combination of 1 and 3. I did waste a lot of email time with a Eurobabe who wanted $1k for 90 minutes (so she was obviously category 2) because she was so damn hot but then sb4 (category 1) came along with her perfect ass and drained off enough semen so I could think straight and I dumped the Eurobabe.

My current sb is a 23 year old student with a lot going for her. She seems to be like one of Golf's girls or maybe the one you are currently in lust with. Oddly enough, I don't think she's desperate for sugar and somehow I have no problem staying emotionally detached from her although I do love to try to get my face up her vagina while my dick is way down her throat.

[Hernando]

Hey guys, I am new to the area and have enjoyed your entertaining reports. Thanks for your extensive research and development.

Historically I am a Monger of the E. Com variety but am leery of the risk of busts which are happening too often.

Therefore I started exploring the SD site because of you all.

I have seen about 10 SBs in the area from Richmond to Va Beach, and have had mixed experiences. All of which are listed here by you contributors.

I too have met four (4) types of girls :

1) The Desperate Poor. These chicas are a little step up from SWs. Desperate, either drug addicted or single mom poor with no support and unable to get child care and go to work. They have no money, no benefits, no support from anyone and earn what they can selling their one and only marketable asset. These few I've seen are monumentally poor planners and can not (will not) think beyond the next cash infusion. They have all hit me up for money in between visits and I. Being a nice guy and sucker. Gave them some with the promise that they will pay me back with services. And they have all (100%) robbed me when I advance them money by not putting out and disappearing. The interesting thing is they just disappear- they stop answering texts, calls, etc. Never to be heard from again. Often their profile disappears from SD also, to pop up under a new name. I know this because their pics are the same. I might be dumb but I'm not stupid. This has been said before by Lit or Cool I believe, but DO NOT GIVE THESE TYPES OF GIRLS ADVANCE PAYMENT. Or just consider it a gift and your cost / fuck is just higher. A teaser advance has failed for me too. I gave a girl 50 with the promise to discount the date. Well you all know what happened. I had three successes in this catagory. Success defined by a repeat fucking of more than 6 visits. But in the end they all screwed me and disappeared.

2) Escorts. These girls are self explanatory and when I find out they are advertising. Particularly on BP, I leave them, because the risk is the same. What if a bust is set up and you happen to meet her during that time? Also they seem to have an inflated sense of worth. One girl offered me a deal (because I have a cute accent). Of only $700 / hour instead of her usual $1000. I LOL ed, I don't know what kind of rates you guys are paying but I try to stay around the BP hourly rate. Maybe a little more for a longer session if she is willing to hang out for the evening or spend the night. Several in this catagory were one timers. If I want an escort I will see her off of a reputable site. I used to like E. Com but.

3) The Sportster. These usually are the young girls. Some in school, but many working salon jobs, waitressing, stripping. Who need some extra spending money to make ends meet or buy the frills. I met two in this group. One was a stripper and she was a crossover between cat 1 and 3. SHe was hot, fucked my brains out, but then vamoosed without an adios. Nada! My feelings were hurt! . Guess she found a more generous donor. The second is ongoing and she is draining my bank account because I am seriously in lust with her. She is off the site and exclusive for now.

And 4) The MILF. This group are generally 30-50 yr olds who want / need a lover and are not concerned about the money. The first one answered my question.". What do you expect from our time together?" by answering. Nothing but a good lay. I was stunned! Three of these women have attended my fucking chambers (thanks lit or cool. Whoever coined that phrase) , and all were wild fuckers, not real experienced, but GRATEFUL LOL. It is true! These older girls don't get the attention from their partners, and the younger guys are not interested either. Unfortunately, all three were moms, a little chubby. Which I don't like, and I just wasnt into them. Free or not. So they each lasted from 1 to 3 dates and I let them go. I will no longer pursue this group I was curious but I like the young hard body hotties myself.

So, there you have it! I look forward to reading more about the exploits of all you fuckers on here, and learning about the game.

As a final note. I promise my future entries won't be quite so long- I have found that escorts are cheaper and easier. But. There is an attraction and thrill to the chase that this sport brings to the table.

[Literal2]

More great reports by Cool. Obviously he is becoming very skilfull at our hobby. Practice makes perfect and he's getting lots of pratice.

As for me, my pace has slowed as I've been enjoying the heck out of repeatedly fucking SB18.

[Coolhand2]

Well I've had a Lit kind of week. Two new SB's to report on.

CSB8 is my 41 yr old nurse MILF.

We had been texting and emailing for a couple of weeks but I had been unable to schedule anything which would have allowed me to see her. She had a off day Monday so I proposed she drive here to spend the afternoon with me. I offered to take care of her child care and transportation expenses. There had not been any discussion of sugar at anytime. Much to my surprise, she agreed. She did voice concern the morning of that I would get her here and leave her hanging. Assured her that I only wanted to be with her. I procured a fucking chamber and a bottle of champagne and proceeded to wait for her arrival. She arrived right on time and we proceeded to talk and drink the bottle. She was exactly like her pictures; attractive with a lean body and really nice breasts. What was obvious as we proceeded was that she was more then ready. By the time the panties came off I could have wrung them out and filled a glass with her fluids. I believe that wanting a good NSA fuck was as high on her agenda as the sugar. Proceeded to have a fun afternoon of hot wet steamy sex. I slipped a envelope in her purse as we said our goodbyes. I'm sure her drive back was not as comfortable as her drive down. She later told me that she felt I had been genereous and she appreciated it very much.

Next day met CSB9, my 27 yr old Navy girl. She's far enough away not to be local but close enough that I don't have to use one of my meeting excuses to get a pass from the warden. Again no discussion of sugar before the meeting. She arrived at the FC and was not interested in a lot of preamble. She was short with a tight body. Not a beauty, but presentable. Very aggressive sexually. It was like she wanted to make sure that when we were done I had nothing left. She was successful; I had nothing left. Slipped the envelope with the sugar into her purse; said good-bye and crawled back to my car. All in all, the best SB week I've had.

[Coolhand2]

I've been unable to contact CSB7 since our meeting. She no longer answers email's and has not been on the SB site since the day we went to the fucking chamber. Before that she had been very active there. The only phone number I had for her was at the house where she lived with her friend and the friend's mother. I called and the mother answered the phone (first time that happened) and asked me not to call back.

My theory is that she is suffering from "buyers remorse,". Since she has not been on the SB site I'm assuming that she is not looking for other SD's. I believe this condition has been brought about based on two things or a combination of both. One is coming to grips with the idea that she had sex for money. (I'm a HO). The second is that the mother knew she had no money, goes out with a man and comes back with cash. (You're a HO). She then gives CSB7 a fair amount of grief which causes the realization that she just had sex for money and causes her to reject the whole scene. Either way, it's a shame.