"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Literal2]

Age wise I'm in the exact same position as you. Mid sixties, look 50+. I had listed my age as 62 on the site but after reading your post I changed it to 55. I have not posted any pics, still to nervous about that. When asked I do give a accurate description of myself. Maybe that's something I'll have to rethink.

If you're getting sbs to meet without showing your pic, you must be mighty persuasive.

[Spitfire]

I've had zero luck there. All these sites "pad their rosters" with shills and / or profiles for non-existent people, but the site you mentioned does seem to be pretty blatant.

My best luck was on CL before they closed the "adult jobs" section. There are some SB types in the "casual encounters" section, but you have to do a LOT of weeding to find the real blades of grass. I re-wrote my profile on the SD4Me site and I'm finally getting some responses to emails, though not from the ones I would prefer. And I got my first actual rejection email last night, where someone I had written on the site replied to say no thanks. That's a rare one.

Another thing that you'll notice the more you're in this game. When your subscription expires, within a day or 2 you'll get an email from someone with a profile that fits everything you're seeking. But since your subscription has expired, you can't contact them. So, you re-subscribe, email that person and never hear anything else. A 'fake' ad that I believe is created by the site itself. It's a tactic these sites use to keep you on the hook.

[CantWinLosin]

Has anyone had any luck with the Sugarbaby4U site. I signed up but have not paid. So far I've seen mainly out of state and what looks like TGTBT.

I've had zero luck there. All these sites "pad their rosters" with shills and / or profiles for non-existent people, but the site you mentioned does seem to be pretty blatant.

My best luck was on CL before they closed the "adult jobs" section. There are some SB types in the "casual encounters" section, but you have to do a LOT of weeding to find the real blades of grass. I re-wrote my profile on the SD4Me site and I'm finally getting some responses to emails, though not from the ones I would prefer. And I got my first actual rejection email last night, where someone I had written on the site replied to say no thanks. That's a rare one.

[Spitfire]

Has anyone had any luck with the Sugarbaby4U site. I signed up but have not paid. So far I've seen mainly out of state and what looks like TGTBT.

I met 1 woman from that site, but most of my luck has been from seeking arrangement.

[Coolhand2]

Has anyone had any luck with the Sugarbaby4U site. I signed up but have not paid. So far I've seen mainly out of state and what looks like TGTBT.

[Spitfire]

My hat to all of you guys. Seems like I just cannot even get one bite.

Stay positive, things will turn your way.

[Richmond Mas]

The fact that you've hung in there for three years, even with all the work, gives me hope. My first two experiences were good, which is why I've kept plugging at it the last four months. Hopefully patience will have some tangible rewards.

My hat to all of you guys. Seems like I just cannot even get one bite.

[Golfcart]

I had a SB for 2 ½ years. She was the hottest woman I've ever been around, the smartest and the woman with the biggest heart. The lesser considerations, she frucked like a mink, most often cried after the 'O', particularly the second one and was only the second woman I have ever had, when her hips rocked, her puzzy “crawled” inside like a snake. I did not want more and fortunately for me she was 24 years younger and could make no assumptions. I was pretty sure she had others which didn't bother me. We got together monthly, enjoyed our time and I put a gift in her purse on the ride down the elevator. So she was a SB or she was an UTR escort. The last two times I noticed she wasn't able to stay as long, but that happened to me a couple of times also. Then it was getting to be about that time again and we were texting to arrange our next get together and the following day I saw her wedding mentioned on a girlfriends social network site. So that was the end of that. A husband creates a whole different risk. He's a lucky man, but on full time duty. I doubt I'll find another her.

[Coolhand2]

I've been on the SB kick for over 3 years now and it's hard work but when you find a good one for a long-term it makes it worth it. At least to me.

The fact that you've hung in there for three years, even with all the work, gives me hope. My first two experiences were good, which is why I've kept plugging at it the last four months. Hopefully patience will have some tangible rewards.

[Coolhand2]

You got that right. I've never had so much pussy in my life but I wouldn't have paid for it when I was 30.

Mid-fifties (I'm really mid-sixties). My photos in my private gallery are real and recent. A lot of girls don't bother to reply to me after they look at them.

That's just what I suspected, that at 30 the weird one is the guy on the SB site. When I was 30 I would have fell out laughing if anyone had suggested that I do such a thing. It makes me wonder what are these women thinking. The ones who are really nuts are the ones who sign up for the site looking for husbands. What are they thinking?

Age wise I'm in the exact same position as you. Mid sixties, look 50+. I had listed my age as 62 on the site but after reading your post I changed it to 55. I have not posted any pics, still to nervous about that. When asked I do give a accurate description of myself. Maybe that's something I'll have to rethink.

[Coolhand2]

Did you make firm appointments with these ladies or just keep them in mind as a backup?

I had observed them on the sites but they weren't in my usual area. With the bad run of luck I had been having with SB's when I knew I would at least be in striking distance, I kept them in mind. When the SB no-shows materialized, I called and it was easy to make the appointment. The hardest thing was for me to get over my reluctance to get a room in my name. Once I had crossed the Rubicon the first time, the second was easy.

[Spitfire]

Well you obviously have a lot more experience at this sb game than I do. I feel kind of presumptuous for commenting on your technique.

We are definitely looking for different kinds of pussy. The last thing I want is a long term mistress. My ideal is a constantly changing reliable stable of sbs I can have whenever I want, like a harem. But a lot of the sb girls want to be a long term mistress. I bet you find what you're looking for.

No need to feel presumptuous! I'm always open to new ideas. I have a lot more strike outs than home runs, that's for certain. Besides, I'm not sure any one approach will work on any woman, so I tend to try different ways for each one. Anything to improve my batting average is welcome. .

[Literal2]

Everyone has something different that they're looking for in this game. Me, I'm in it to find a long term mistress type deal. The first SB I ever met when I started has become the gold standard for me. She was a college student at a local university, smart, funny, pretty and turned on by the age difference. She always joked that her friends told her she had an old-man fetish. We lasted for nearly a year and a half before she graduated and moved away. We still exchange emails every now and then. That's why I'm still in this game, chasing after that same great experience. But until I do, I'll fill my time with short-termers or one-timers.

Well you obviously have a lot more experience at this sb game than I do. I feel kind of presumptuous for commenting on your technique.

We are definitely looking for different kinds of pussy. The last thing I want is a long term mistress. My ideal is a constantly changing reliable stable of sbs I can have whenever I want, like a harem. But a lot of the sb girls want to be a long term mistress. I bet you find what you're looking for.

[Spitfire]

In both cases they came off escort boards. One was from e. Com, the other from avenue-x. I had set up the trips to meet with SB's in their area and I did not want the trips to go to waste (see previous comments on warden restrictions.) I had seen both for a while on their respective boards so I contacted them based on that. It was only in hindsight that I realized the similarities that I noted in my post. I believe the key is that neither toured and only did outcall. No incall means less chance of a production line and leads to my assumption of low volume. It could just be karma paying me back for the bad luck I've had lately with SB's.

Did you make firm appointments with these ladies or just keep them in mind as a backup?

[Spitfire]

I'm probably more sensitive to the no-show issue because of my travel situation. Not the 5 hour drive that Spitfire made but at least 2. There are some SB's in my local area but I don't want the risk of running into them at the mall afterward. There's one local one who messages me about every five days but I continue to ignore her. At least I don't make a date and then don't show up.

My last no-show (21 year old, looks 15) has now apologized and says she wants to meet. I won't be able to til mid next week at the earliest, which leaves lots of room for shit to happen between now and then.

I'm with you on the no-show issue. My travel situation is similar. The 5 hour drive I made over the weekend is unusual. I had 2 meetings lined up, but they were in opposite directions. The first one I had to drive 2 hours one way, then the next day turn around and drive the opposite direction. So it made it much longer than it would normally be. I don't think I could deal with travel long term as my work keeps me busy and I'd rather not spend all of my free time on the road. Especially for no joy at the end.