"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Coolhand2** · 04-05-11 00:08

Originally Posted by Richmond Mas [View Original Post]

Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

Things have been sort of quiet on the SB front but I have something I wanted to pass on. It's been mentioned how you really have to work at sorting through the SB's. Here's an example. I had been messaging back and forth with what seemed to be a very interesting prospect. Mid 20's. 5'7, and a nice body based on her pics. She gave me her number and asked me to call. In our conversation she proceeds to tell me about her recent divorce and she's only on the site because she needs financial help with her 5 year old son. She wants to have a dinner meeting so we can see if we will hit it off. After the call I decided to google the phone number and what should turn up; a BP ad. Not only a BP ad but the ad used the same pictures as she used on the SB site. Hell, she looked good enough that with a couple of good reviews I would have seen her as an escort. It's not only the men who misrepresent themselves on the SB / SD site.

**Literal2** · 04-03-11 16:27

Originally Posted by Mrjlg10 [View Original Post]

I recently joined this one.

www.sugardaddyforme.com

Has a lot of potential. I've gotton a lot of e-mails from the sugar-babies. I'm filtering through them and replying to the one's I think have the potential to be something. I'll keep you posted if anything good happens.

There are lots of phonies and flakes plus a whole lot of girls who don't really seem to know what they want. Plus chemistry is much more important than it is with an escort. If she doesn't like the way you look or talk or describe yourself or your pix she isn't going to see you (unless she really is a pro and there are a few of these on the site). I find the most exciting part to be sorting through the different girls and wondering whether this one or that one is going to really take off her panties for me, just like dating except that the girls don't expect a permanent relationship. You can have a lot of fun with these girls. I have settled on two for now and I fuck them both whenever I can, which is about every two weeks. This is very satisfying for me, but I miss the chase and I will resume trolling for new girls in a few more weeks I think.

**Spitfire** · 03-31-11 17:34

It's very hit or miss. Another site I frequent has women who list themselves as having 'modeled' for these sites, so I believe the sites load some 'fakes' or 'ringers'. Whatever you want to call it to generate interest. With that said, there are genuine women worth meeting. It's just effort to wade through the scams and time wasters.

**Mrjlg10** · 03-31-11 10:21

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

Yes it's hit or miss. Try googling sugardaddy / sugarbaby or seeking arrangements.

I recently joined this one. www.sugardaddyforme.com Has a lot of potential. I've gotton a lot of e-mails from the sugar-babies. I'm filtering through them and replying to the one's I think have the potential to be something. I'll keep you posted if anything good happens.

**Literal2** · 03-30-11 17:17

Originally Posted by Richmond Mas [View Original Post]

How do you go about finding these sugar babies? Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

Yes it's hit or miss. Try googling sugardaddy / sugarbaby or seeking arrangements.

**Richmond Mas** · 03-29-11 20:43

How do you go about finding these sugar babies? Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

**Literal2** · 03-29-11 14:22

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

You may be aware of all this but here goes. First of all my Doc writes the script for double the dosage that I need. I split the pills so they go twice as far. I discovered a little while back that the script was for ten but my insurance would only pay for six. I started paying for the other four which gives me eight more doses. This has helped me from running out. The downside is I noticed it now takes 3/4 of a pill for the same effect so they're not going as far. (Getting old sucks!).

Hope this helps.

Thanks. I know what you mean about using more over time. I used up my supply faster than I anticipated.

**Literal2** · 03-29-11 14:18

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

Your question is a valid one. What was stopping me was the 30 minutes and I had no leeway. I was afraid that if I started something and she was receptive the little head would take control from the big head and I would have a lot of explaining to do. Trust me, I more then you wish I had an answer. It would help me decide if I want to pursue this further. Come on April!

Yeah, that probably made sense. I still think about girls I nearly fucked but didn't. A long time ago a beauty I didn't know asked me over to her place to put suntan lotion on her back and took off her blouse. I just did what she asked and then left.

**Literal2** · 03-28-11 10:52

Originally Posted by Jw Themax [View Original Post]

I've had 1 nice sb before but lost her. Went to meet one tonight and I'm in a wheelchair which makes it tough. 30 min drive I find STEPS! She came out and was sexy as hell. My luck!

Bad luck JW! Damn steps! Oh well, there are plenty more girls to try. Never give up. It's great that you're in the game.

**Coolhand2** · 03-28-11 01:11

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

Now I am totally out of my little blue pills and have to get the prescription renewed, which will take some time, so I doubt much is going to happen for a while. This is a shame because in addition to SB4 and SB9 another girl who looks hot and is a college student keeps trying to get together with me. She tried calling me through the sb website's anonymous calling service about 10 times yesterday. I have asked her for a more revealing photo though and she hasn't given me one yet. So I'm worried she's chunky or something.

You may be aware of all this but here goes. First of all my Doc writes the script for double the dosage that I need. I split the pills so they go twice as far. I discovered a little while back that the script was for ten but my insurance would only pay for six. I started paying for the other four which gives me eight more doses. This has helped me from running out. The downside is I noticed it now takes 3/4 of a pill for the same effect so they're not going as far. (Getting old sucks!).

Hope this helps.

**Coolhand2** · 03-28-11 01:00

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

Amen to April.

Let me ask you something. OK, you only had 30 minutes, but you were alone with her right? So what did you think would happen if while she was chatting away, after five minutes or so, you just picked up her hand and kept listening to her and when she stopped you said,"You have such pretty hands," or something like that? Or what if you just stroked her hair, her back, upper arms, etc, while she was talking, just to get her warmed up. This would leave you 20 minutes or so to complete, minus five to put your pants back on, etc. Or was her body language telling you not to try it?

30 minutes is cutting it close though, I agree.

Your question is a valid one. What was stopping me was the 30 minutes and I had no leeway. I was afraid that if I started something and she was receptive the little head would take control from the big head and I would have a lot of explaining to do. Trust me, I more then you wish I had an answer. It would help me decide if I want to pursue this further. Come on April!

**Jw Themax** · 03-27-11 19:21

I've had 1 nice sb before but lost her. Went to meet one tonight and I'm in a wheelchair which makes it tough. 30 min drive I find STEPS! She came out and was sexy as hell. My luck!

**Tdog69** · 03-27-11 18:11

SM's only, I need some help on any white 21-40 lady thats secure, no drama and not over $150 for a visit. Prefer one who does massages.

**Literal2** · 03-27-11 10:14

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

Well CSB5 was a partial bust which was not her fault. As it turned out I only had 30 minutes to meet. I met her at her home where we sit and chatted for the time I had.

Amen to April.

Let me ask you something. OK, you only had 30 minutes, but you were alone with her right? So what did you think would happen if while she was chatting away, after five minutes or so, you just picked up her hand and kept listening to her and when she stopped you said,"You have such pretty hands," or something like that? Or what if you just stroked her hair, her back, upper arms, etc, while she was talking, just to get her warmed up. This would leave you 20 minutes or so to complete, minus five to put your pants back on, etc. Or was her body language telling you not to try it?

30 minutes is cutting it close though, I agree.

**Literal2** · 03-27-11 07:22

Thanks for updating, Cool. This stuff can be frustrating. I had a long dry stretch that seemed to go on for ever a while back. You just have to keep at it. At the same time you can't let security slip.

My second session SB9 yesterday was very satisfying. The session was rushed because I didn't have much time. She says she likes girls too and hinted at us possibly getting together with her hot friends. That would be a fantasy of mine come true but the security would be a nightmare so even if she's serious it will never happen. But I can dream.

Now I am totally out of my little blue pills and have to get the prescription renewed, which will take some time, so I doubt much is going to happen for a while. This is a shame because in addition to SB4 and SB9 another girl who looks hot and is a college student keeps trying to get together with me. She tried calling me through the sb website's anonymous calling service about 10 times yesterday. I have asked her for a more revealing photo though and she hasn't given me one yet. So I'm worried she's chunky or something.