Strip Club Reports

[QUOTE=DataTl;6921532]Dances are a little strange as there are cameras and sometimes staff says something over the speakers in the room.[/QUOTE]That's the DJ. He is calling the girls by name so they know who is up next for stage. Some Friday and Saturday nights both stages open, the backstage is a bit more intimate. Much smaller but a different experience if you want to toss 1's at a girl up close.

This works for me because after a while, I know which girls I like and which I don't. There are some girls I like to look at but they don't give me a good vibe for getting a dance, so I show up to their stage only to tip them as they wave their parts at me.

So listen carefully when the DJ talks over the speakers. If there are 2 stages, he might say "X to front, why to back. " meaning the front stage and back stage. Some girls have very similar names so if I sit down at a stage for a girl and a different girl shows up because she has a rhyming name (Tia vs Gia), I politely get up and leave before she sees me. Weekdays are slow, which some guys prefer.

Cheetah's is the best we've got here in SD, which is sad, but it's not that bad. LA / COI and TJ are each an hour away. You can get all FS and extras you want in those places. South FL had the best strip clubs I've ever been to. Miami strip clubs in particular. Full bar, fully nude women in every color of the rainbow but Asian, and extras as far as the eye could see. Loved that place, get there if you ever can!

Since I've got a lot of time on my hands and want to take a trip down memory lane. Here's what I've learned over the last 20+ years of clubbing in SD. I'm sure some may have changed since I've last been, but in general this is what you'll get at each:

City of Industry:

-Rhino. Very private booths are available in the back, anything could be had, but not all dancers will. Kind of cold in the place (they jack up the AC), and I'm not a fan of the intimate dining layout they've got going with tables and chairs.

-Synn. Close to 100% of the girls offer affordable FS and in the back rooms you can hear the ball-slapping and moaning from 2-3 different nearby booths at the same time. But you got to be into Latina Bbw, because that's pretty much all they have.

-Paradise. More range on looks and ethnicities, some absolute 10's occasionally. You can get FS and extras here, but lots of GPS and you'll pay through the nose. One girl quoted me $$ for FS. She got pissy when I started laughing really hard. Said she gets 1. 5 k for it sometimes. LOL hey more power to you!

San Diego:

- Cheetah's. Best looking girls, as people have said, and day shift is the best for the most part. I actually prefer the late afternoon, especially when it's slow. I tend to get more bang for my buck then (but not always). Nights, especially weekend ones, girls are grinding for the $ and don't have time for my rizz. That said, I've had girls DFK / LFK, HJ, FIV, P2P. My favorite was this thicc Latina girl (named Yaelly or something like that) who I've never even seen before just started DFKing right off the bat. Hadn't even completely sat down yet. Then about 20 seconds into the first song, she just pulled down my waistband, whipped Jr out and DT'd me for about 15 seconds while staring into my soul with the sexiest look I've ever seen. Was the best first 30 seconds of any dance I've ever had and I've been searching for that same girl ever since! Alas, I never saw her again.

If you make sure the girl is down for some fun, you can at least get some heavy groping and some tits in your face. Not all girls will, but I found most are ok with it. No need to ever upcharge to the Icebox, it's a rip off. If you're really lucky you might get a HJ. Though YMMV. Single dances rarely get you much either. The $ for 5 dances is your best bet, just talk with them a bit more to make sure you're going to get what you're looking for. I normally spend more time next door at the Bullpen simping for Rose the bartender nowadays. She's perfect. Please don't try and tell me any stories of her that would shatter my illusion. I'm enjoying my blissful ignorance.

- Expose. As was stated earlier, a weird place. Not as open with the groping as Cheetah's, girls are generally more strict and the cameras are numerous. Girls are not as hot, unless you're into tats and alt girls or older milfy types. Single dance couches are not as private, and the little booths have the money machine that they make you pre-pay into. I hate those more than just about anything.

- Goldfingers. Smaller club, and you'll get very little if anything in the single dance couch section. But the back room (weird set up, kinda like Arabian nights with sheer curtains everywhere and the lights are a bit brighter than you'd expect (I haven't been in a while, so this might have changed). Even still, I was able to get LFK, FIV and an HJ there from a couple different dancers. Madison was one, though this was a good while back and I doubt she's still there.

Pt Loma / Midway:

- Pure Platinum. Other than you can have a beer while you watch, this place is not worth going to. Girls are old and mid and you can barely touch a butt check before they start whining about "that's no allowed".

- Pacers. Very much like PP above, but a bit more of a weird vibe. Half the club was decorated like some cheap hula party cabana. And I've gone there and sat watching tv and drinking beer for over an hour before a single girl so much as introduced herself.

- Deja Vu. Way hotter girls and a much larger number of younger girls in general than the other two. However, they charge a hefty cover sometimes, even during a week day ($20+). Also, it's usually the first place that the marine / naval base grunts go, so they tend to cater to that crowd. Like Expose, they have those machines I hate. Also, extras are almost non-existent. Some even make you sit on your hands. WTF? Most I've ever gotten was some LFK (years ago when I was young and better looking) and some stick shifting over the pants. Or just dry-hump you until you die of blue-balls or run out of money, whichever comes first (so far it's always been the latter).

[QUOTE=Zaitzev;6957191] Pure Platinum. Other than you can have a beer while you watch, this place is not worth going to. Girls are old and mid and you can barely touch a butt check before they start whining about "that's no allowed".[/QUOTE]I've been treated very well.

Located in Kearny Mesa just off the 163. It's been Candy Shop for at least 12 months.

It's def long since had new management since it was Pure Platinum.

A lot of the girls are young, in fact many of them bop back and forth from DeJa Vu.

I've been straddled many times while sitting in a bar chair and manager is fine with us doing some groping. Of course they want you to take it to the backroom if it gets too obvious.

Dk what does or does not go on in the back but I tend to believe any prudery / rip off air dances are not happening. Several of the girls seem very down.

Synn and Paradise kinda swapped:

Paradise: In 2003-2005 had some absolute dime pieces. Now it's all BBW.

Synn: Had some dime pieces from 2014-2019. Still hear the noises from the other booths. Hotties to be had.

SRCOI: You can hear noises at times, but doesn't echo like Synn.

IMHO: Nothing beats Cheetahs (outside of Vegas) in terms of looks for girls.

[QUOTE=Zaitzev;6957191]Cheetah's is the best we've got here in SD, which is sad, but it's not that bad. LA / COI and TJ are each an hour away. You can get all FS and extras you want in those places. South FL had the best strip clubs I've ever been to. Miami strip clubs in particular. Full bar, fully nude women in every color of the rainbow but Asian, and extras as far as the eye could see. Loved that place, get there if you ever can!

Since I've got a lot of time on my hands and want to take a trip down memory lane. Here's what I've learned over the last 20+ years of clubbing in SD. I'm sure some may have changed since I've last been, but in general this is what you'll get at each:

City of Industry:

-Rhino. Very private booths are available in the back, anything could be had, but not all dancers will. Kind of cold in the place (they jack up the AC), and I'm not a fan of the intimate dining layout they've got going with tables and chairs.

-Synn. Close to 100% of the girls offer affordable FS and in the back rooms you can hear the ball-slapping and moaning from 2-3 different nearby booths at the same time. But you got to be into Latina Bbw, because that's pretty much all they have.

-Paradise. More range on looks and ethnicities, some absolute 10's occasionally. You can get FS and extras here, but lots of GPS and you'll pay through the nose. One girl quoted me $$ for FS. She got pissy when I started laughing really hard. Said she gets 1. 5 k for it sometimes. LOL hey more power to you!

San Diego:

- Cheetah's. Best looking girls, as people have said, and day shift is the best for the most part. I actually prefer the late afternoon, especially when it's slow. I tend to get more bang for my buck then (but not always). Nights, especially weekend ones, girls are grinding for the $ and don't have time for my rizz. That said, I've had girls DFK / LFK, HJ, FIV, P2P. My favorite was this thicc Latina girl (named Yaelly or something like that) who I've never even seen before just started DFKing right off the bat. Hadn't even completely sat down yet. Then about 20 seconds into the first song, she just pulled down my waistband, whipped Jr out and DT'd me for about 15 seconds while staring into my soul with the sexiest look I've ever seen. Was the best first 30 seconds of any dance I've ever had and I've been searching for that same girl ever since! Alas, I never saw her again.

If you make sure the girl is down for some fun, you can at least get some heavy groping and some tits in your face. Not all girls will, but I found most are ok with it. No need to ever upcharge to the Icebox, it's a rip off. If you're really lucky you might get a HJ. Though YMMV. Single dances rarely get you much either. The $ for 5 dances is your best bet, just talk with them a bit more to make sure you're going to get what you're looking for. I normally spend more time next door at the Bullpen simping for Rose the bartender nowadays. She's perfect. Please don't try and tell me any stories of her that would shatter my illusion. I'm enjoying my blissful ignorance.

- Expose. As was stated earlier, a weird place. Not as open with the groping as Cheetah's, girls are generally more strict and the cameras are numerous. Girls are not as hot, unless you're into tats and alt girls or older milfy types. Single dance couches are not as private, and the little booths have the money machine that they make you pre-pay into. I hate those more than just about anything.

- Goldfingers. Smaller club, and you'll get very little if anything in the single dance couch section. But the back room (weird set up, kinda like Arabian nights with sheer curtains everywhere and the lights are a bit brighter than you'd expect (I haven't been in a while, so this might have changed). Even still, I was able to get LFK, FIV and an HJ there from a couple different dancers. Madison was one, though this was a good while back and I doubt she's still there.

Pt Loma / Midway:

- Pure Platinum. Other than you can have a beer while you watch, this place is not worth going to. Girls are old and mid and you can barely touch a butt check before they start whining about "that's no allowed".

- Pacers. Very much like PP above, but a bit more of a weird vibe. Half the club was decorated like some cheap hula party cabana. And I've gone there and sat watching tv and drinking beer for over an hour before a single girl so much as introduced herself.

- Deja Vu. Way hotter girls and a much larger number of younger girls in general than the other two. However, they charge a hefty cover sometimes, even during a week day ($20+). Also, it's usually the first place that the marine / naval base grunts go, so they tend to cater to that crowd. Like Expose, they have those machines I hate. Also, extras are almost non-existent. Some even make you sit on your hands. WTF? Most I've ever gotten was some LFK (years ago when I was young and better looking) and some stick shifting over the pants. Or just dry-hump you until you die of blue-balls or run out of money, whichever comes first (so far it's always been the latter).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RickJamesB;6957746]IMHO: Nothing beats Cheetahs (outside of Vegas) in terms of looks for girls.[/QUOTE]Any thoughts on why doesn't LA have at least one place with absolute dimes that would trump Cheetahs?

Would think with the population it would easily be supported, even if it had a high entry fee.

Is that Jet Set or whatever it's called near SoFi stadium, not having dimes? Again, why the hell not?

[QUOTE=RickJamesB;6957746]Synn and Paradise kinda swapped:

Paradise: In 2003-2005 had some absolute dime pieces. Now it's all BBW.

Synn: Had some dime pieces from 2014-2019. Still hear the noises from the other booths. Hotties to be had.

SRCOI: You can hear noises at times, but doesn't echo like Synn.

IMHO: Nothing beats Cheetahs (outside of Vegas) in terms of looks for girls.[/QUOTE]I haven't been to either Synn or Paradise since pre-covid, so I'll defer to you there. Used to be up there all the time with work, but nowadays I'm riding a desk at work instead of on the road. Most of the time I can only get out locally here in SD.

RE: Cheetah's girls, I agree, nothing in SoCal comes close to talent levels. Which is surprising considering how much talent is in LA, pr0 n star and otherwise. But if you're taking in the whole country, I would say South FL (Tootsie's, etc) and a few places in Houston, TX (Ritz, Polekatz) both easily match the level of dancer quality and services provided. Even some of the seedier clubs in Miami / FtLaud get some dimes willing to do whatever in the CR, particularly Latina ones, who're coming from the Caribbean and Central and South Americas.

Top LA clubs for looks is 4 Play and Bare Elegance. Pre Pandemic, their girls were ALOT hotter.

Now, they are on par with Cheetahs.

[QUOTE=Muncher8888;6958351]Any thoughts on why doesn't LA have at least one place with absolute dimes that would trump Cheetahs?

Would think with the population it would easily be supported, even if it had a high entry fee.

Is that Jet Set or whatever it's called near SoFi stadium, not having dimes? Again, why the hell not?[/QUOTE]

IMO all the strip clubs here suck. I've had plenty of great times throughout the years in VIP rooms located in strip clubs in Vegas and SF. Even brought a few back to the hotel at times. But here with the air dance rules and weak venues? LOL it's a waste of money.

[QUOTE=ToddRichards12;6958940]IMO all the strip clubs here suck. I've had plenty of great times throughout the years in VIP rooms located in strip clubs in Vegas and SF. Even brought a few back to the hotel at times. But here with the air dance rules and weak venues? LOL it's a waste of money.[/QUOTE]Unless you like spending a lot or money for a raging case of blue balls, or your spending someone else's money for a raging case of blue balls.

Much better options to get much more, maybe even for much less.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6961822]Unless you like spending a lot or money for a raging case of blue balls, or your spending someone else's money for a raging case of blue balls.

Much better options to get much more, maybe even for much less.[/QUOTE]There may be better options, but sometimes they are not convenient. Scheduling a session with a provider can be a pain in the ass. The benefit of a club is you can walk in with no advance planning and if you've got any game whatsoever you can usually get enough mileage to satisfy your immediate needs. It might cost you money, but it doesn't cost you a lot of time or headaches dealing with flaky providers.

[QUOTE=RickJamesB;6957746]Synn and Paradise kinda swapped:

Paradise: In 2003-2005 had some absolute dime pieces. Now it's all BBW.

Synn: Had some dime pieces from 2014-2019. Still hear the noises from the other booths. Hotties to be had.

SRCOI: You can hear noises at times, but doesn't echo like Synn.

IMHO: Nothing beats Cheetahs (outside of Vegas) in terms of looks for girls.[/QUOTE]I've only been Paradise and Synn post-Covid and agree Paradise is BBW. I posted a review of Pardise to TUSCL 1 year ago. When I walked in, the very first stripper was at least 350 pounds. I saw a really cute Asian girl and tried talking to her. She was the bartender.

I like SRCOI but the problem is at slow times there are so few girls. It's 2 or 3 girls at slow times, then 12-18 girls on Thursday nights (SRCOI and Synn have deeply discounted VIP specials on Thursday). Synn has action however if you don't want fs there's no point. I posted my experience 1 year ago to the thread where I tipped this beautiful Asian named Safari on stage, so she stops by after and hops on my lap. I'm trying to talk her into a room at the same time she's talking me into a room, so easy right. But then she stops me and says I am going to tip her to fuck right. And I say actually I just want a dance (I just started the night and want to enjoy a whole night). She hops right off me and says "I don't do dances". WTF. I went SRCOI after where yes many girls fuck but every one of them gives dances.

I later found out Safari is a straight up escort and that Synn was her side job, not the other way around. I want to get dances because I don't want my night to be over right when it started, maybe I'll try something later but it's not what I'm there for.

There are girls who give good dances at Synn like Diamond, but after meeting enough girls I found it's the exception there. I am in the extreme minority though most guys there are happy to just watch or partake. At SRCOI when I took girls like Stormy to VIP every guy just stared at her in awe like a piece of meat as she walked me all the way past the bar. I wondered, why didn't any of you guys just ask her, I literally talked to her only 60 seconds. Then I realized. They paid $12 admission to watch but don't have a dollar to spend on VIP. Huh. Thursday nights are fully of looky-loos, which I totally understand I've been there but it's a bit intense when guys know a young girl is about to fuck as she walks past them.

In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

The clubs can be very fun for bachelor events, and when hanging out with visiting business men with expense accounts to abuse.

And even though I did, and still do enjoy the show, and may still go now and then, so far I've never left feeling I got a good bang for my buck. Again, all is just in my humble opinion. If they work for you enjoy!

[QUOTE=Sd1213;6962024]There may be better options, but sometimes they are not convenient. Scheduling a session with a provider can be a pain in the ass. The benefit of a club is you can walk in with no advance planning and if you've got any game whatsoever you can usually get enough mileage to satisfy your immediate needs. It might cost you money, but it doesn't cost you a lot of time or headaches dealing with flaky providers.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6964702]In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

The clubs can be very fun for bachelor events, and when hanging out with visiting business men with expense accounts to abuse.[/QUOTE]Try going on a weekday early in the afternoon. Your opinion might quickly change!

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6964702]Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

And even though I did, and still do enjoy the show, and may still go now and then, so far I've never left feeling I got a good bang for my buck. Again, all is just in my humble opinion. If they work for you enjoy![/QUOTE]Granted, this link is extreme. But the principles (or lack thereof LOL) and tactics of said dancer are spot on.

[URL]https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13624985/Las-Vegas-stripper-tricked-lonely-tycoon-boyfriend-conning-millions.html[/URL]

BTW, has anyone ever gotten a dance from this Melanie Sterling, dancing in Vegas since at least 2014 and whose birth name is....you can't make this up....drumroll

"Eventually Sterling, born Melanie Slutzky, convinced him to buy them a $720,000 house in Las Vegas where they could live together, and split the proceeds if they broke up."

[QUOTE=Sd1213;6964986]Try going on a weekday early in the afternoon. Your opinion might quickly change![/QUOTE]Not so sure I want to be the only patron in a strip club on an early Wednesday afternoon, but if you can vector me in to a good thing, maybe I'll give your advice a try.

In Private Message can you let me know the Strip Club you recommend, where I can get laid or blown, and suggest the performer (s) who I should look for?

And if you can share your Tips, I can be sure to be prepared. I'm looking forward to maybe getting an attitude adjustment. Thanks in advance. MxK.

I agree with you 95%. But there are some times where the girl is just so hot that I don't care. Every now and then comes a girl so hot, I'm happy to spend money just for her attention. Ironically, from my experience, girls who have hit this threshold where I don't care, for some reason, have been amongst the nicest and have given me the best clean lap dances.

Most of the worst lap dances are from 7-8's. Not saying all 7-8 gives bad dances, but it's just that the worst I've had are 7-8. They 8-9 are hit and miss for me. Not the worst, but the best. However, the 9-10's have been amongst the best normally. That's said, haven't see. A 9-10 at Cheetahs. Plenty of 8-9's so that's why I go.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6964702]In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

The clubs can be very fun for bachelor events, and when hanging out with visiting business men with expense accounts to abuse.

And even though I did, and still do enjoy the show, and may still go now and then, so far I've never left feeling I got a good bang for my buck. Again, all is just in my humble opinion. If they work for you enjoy![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RickJamesB;6966358]I agree with you 95%. But there are some times where the girl is just so hot that I don't care. Every now and then comes a girl so hot, I'm happy to spend money just for her attention. Ironically, from my experience, girls who have hit this threshold where I don't care, for some reason, have been amongst the nicest and have given me the best clean lap dances.

Most of the worst lap dances are from 7-8's. Not saying all 7-8 gives bad dances, but it's just that the worst I've had are 7-8. They 8-9 are hit and miss for me. Not the worst, but the best. However, the 9-10's have been amongst the best normally. That's said, haven't see. A 9-10 at Cheetahs. Plenty of 8-9's so that's why I go.[/QUOTE]I have seen this also. The 9-10 gives a better dance. As for extras, usually the less attractive women are more likely to offer. But I have gotten cfs and BBBJ then later BBFS from a 9-10 I kept seeing from Follies in Atlanta.

Sometimes the less hot girls are a shit deal and I don't get it, it seems like an inversion of economics.

[QUOTE=Habeed;6966615]I have seen this also. The 9-10 gives a better dance. As for extras, usually the less attractive women are more likely to offer. But I have gotten cfs and BBBJ then later BBFS from a 9-10 I kept seeing from Follies in Atlanta.

Sometimes the less hot girls are a shit deal and I don't get it, it seems like an inversion of economics.[/QUOTE]The best looking girls succeed by giving dances, to everyone. Almost everybody loves them, no problem. They repeat and get paid. They know their job is to treat everyone well, no matter how old, ugly, or out of shape we are. It's not hard for them because they were nice people to start and their daddies actually loved them. They don't even have to work often, I know one girl is traveling the world more than she's at Cheetah's. She's the nicest girl. Think about it, less time at the club is less stress, hotter looks is less complaints, she can keep being who she really was when she started. I was a bit intimidated because of her looks but she's just a normal person. There's a couple of girls who average a day a week (sometimes taking weeks off and working extra days to catch up) and just enjoy their normal, wholesome lives.

And then there's the other girls. I won't get into that much often but some of them started out rough and got rougher with time from working at the club. Moms that have to work like it or not, women who consider the strip club a step up, etc.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6964702]In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.
[/QUOTE]Be grateful. At some places every girl will ask you for sex. I just told my story of how Safari from Synn COI hopped right off of me when she found out I wanted a just dance in the VIP. It was my very first time and I was just taking things slow, didn't want to end my night by starting my first girl with sex. Diamond otoh will give you a real dance. Or fuck, up to you. When you have that choice you might not be so shy.

I know your feeling about the money aspect of it, I felt that way when I was young. So maybe it's not too hard too hard for you to imagine that as you get much older, you might just want young women and you know you're paying them well so you don't care anymore. Cut to the chase and both of you get what you want, it's a win win. But when most of us are young, our ego and confidence is perhaps more in need than our enjoyment of women. So we care about things like "Did this stripper really like me or not" rather than just enjoying it for what it is.

When you order a Starbucks and pay the lady, do you ask yourself "I wonder if she would be making me a coffee if I didn't give her this money. " I don't. Hope that sums up my answer to your dilemma.

Unfortunately, I do not have a good solution for you here other than to say that there is still some hope and fun for you. When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't. I will never forget the look of utter confusion and disgust on the bouncer at Cheetah's face as he was making his rounds and saw her deep kissing me and tapped her and said "What the fuck you doing?" Sigh. She had just brought up hanging out and that set me back.

Now I'm smart, I don't have long enough to live to waste time on them. But you are young so go ahead.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;6966795] ...When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't.[/QUOTE]It's like you're writing my memoirs for me. LOL!

I feel the same way. Once was young and in shape and with no family to support, I had a ton of discretionary income. I was getting plenty of extra action from dancers who I hit it off with. Went on dates, was even times where I was the one being asked out by them not the other way around. Got a ton of both ITC and OTC action, at times for no additional charge. Experienced that all through my 20's and 30's.

Now I've passed 50, I'm fat and out of shape, and I don't have enough consistent free time where I could be a regular at a SC, even if I wanted to be one. But occasionally I have a few benjamin's in my pocket that are just dying to be shoved into the G-string of the nearest hot stripper, and who am I to resist that urge?

Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?

I also need to ask where in the club are you getting Full Service? How do you get by the bouncers checking in, or other customers showing up?

It seems to me because the strip clubs business model is not that effective any more. Many have not recovered and opened up after covid. And we know many are closing down for good. This leads me to suggest that many mongers no longer go because they to don't get enough bang for their buck.

There is another key point that several have mentioned either directly or in passing. Being a regular. We all know being a regular, who of course is spending money and getting to know the girls well usually gets special attention. I confess, I've never gone enough to be a regular. I don't go to talk to pretty girls or to enjoy their company, so with that understanding, I'm just a new fish passing thru, which contributes to my impression of the business.

Going back to my question. Where are these Full Service Strip Clubs? And please be specific, because I can assure you, if I can fuck a 10, or a 9 for $$$ or maybe $$ I'd see the clubs in a whole new light. Right now, I've only spent too much cash for a hard on. If I can get laid and satisfied, then I'd be happy to endorse strip clubs as a fun place to get some. Right now they are just a place to spend a lot of money looking at naked women and leaving hard and horny. Which is not enough bang for my buck. To put it simply, I have other more satisfying options to get FS that are less expensive.



If you don't want to share all the great information in the open forum, feel free to PM me with specifics.

To all you mongers who love the clubs, I say enjoy them, and be grateful, I'm one less monger between you and your time with the girls.


[QUOTE=FreeWally;6966795]Be grateful. At some places every girl will ask you for sex. I just told my story of how Safari from Synn COI hopped right off of me when she found out I wanted a just dance in the VIP. It was my very first time and I was just taking things slow, didn't want to end my night by starting my first girl with sex. Diamond otoh will give you a real dance. Or fuck, up to you. When you have that choice you might not be so shy.

I know your feeling about the money aspect of it, I felt that way when I was young. So maybe it's not too hard too hard for you to imagine that as you get much older, you might just want young women and you know you're paying them well so you don't care anymore. Cut to the chase and both of you get what you want, it's a win win. But when most of us are young, our ego and confidence is perhaps more in need than our enjoyment of women. So we care about things like "Did this stripper really like me or not" rather than just enjoying it for what it is.

When you order a Starbucks and pay the lady, do you ask yourself "I wonder if she would be making me a coffee if I didn't give her this money. " I don't. Hope that sums up my answer to your dilemma.

Unfortunately, I do not have a good solution for you here other than to say that there is still some hope and fun for you. When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't. I will never forget the look of utter confusion and disgust on the bouncer at Cheetah's face as he was making his rounds and saw her deep kissing me and tapped her and said "What the fuck you doing?" Sigh. She had just brought up hanging out and that set me back.

Now I'm smart, I don't have long enough to live to waste time on them. But you are young so go ahead.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?[/QUOTE]They don't exist. I think that guy was referring to some clubs up in LA, where I have zero knowledge. I have frequented the strip clubs in San Diego since I moved here in 1986, sometimes to excess (when I made good money in tech and got occasional bonuses to burn), and I have never had actual sex in any of the clubs, nor do I know anyone who has. From before the time I moved here, the city has had it in for the clubs, often spending a lot of resources with various stings and harassments. And once you lose a license, fat chance of getting a new one. So the clubs have far too much at risk to let it happen. You've got "eyes" everywhere. Maybe the owner or manager is getting laid in a back room, but customers are not.

Confirming what Lobstro says about SD except back in the 2000's there was a hot little Brazilian who would do BBBJ cfs in the private dance area of Goldfingers or whatever it was called at that time. No extra charge either. My only regret is I only got to see her twice before she moved back to Brazil.

[QUOTE=Lobstro;6968481]They don't exist. I think that guy was referring to some clubs up in LA, where I have zero knowledge. I have frequented the strip clubs in San Diego since I moved here in 1986, sometimes to excess (when I made good money in tech and got occasional bonuses to burn), and I have never had actual sex in any of the clubs, nor do I know anyone who has. From before the time I moved here, the city has had it in for the clubs, often spending a lot of resources with various stings and harassments. And once you lose a license, fat chance of getting a new one. So the clubs have far too much at risk to let it happen. You've got "eyes" everywhere. Maybe the owner or manager is getting laid in a back room, but customers are not.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?[/QUOTE]COI means City of Industry. It has its own thread in the LA section. I used to be a regular contributor to that thread until I switched back to kgirls and jgirls. The nice thing about COI clubs is there are a lot of young girls, including many young white girls. If you want a classy upscale club, go Spearmint Rhino. If you want lots of girls to choose from and just want to get straight to it, Synn. Thursday is the busiest day because of VIP deals and gives you a good idea of what's possible, though you will have to park far from Synn and walk there due to everyone else doing the same. It's not for everyone, personally I liked Spearmint more but if you want just FS go to Synn.

About being a regular, it only makes sense if you are retired with too much money and too little life left to live, and don't mind being in the club all the time. It is not worth it for anyone else, but if that described someone then I think it is a good fit. Not a bad way to spend your last years if you have everything else in order. Once I was a regular girls no longer approached me like someone new, which honestly is more fun in my opinion. There is no point in competing, there is always someone willing to spend too much on a girl. So have your fun but don't overspend.

When I went to Cheetah's often it was quite enjoyable for what it was, but after a point I got nothing new out of it and then being a regular was a disadvantage for complicated reasons. I don't regret it but there is a time limit and budget limit where you had your fun and have to move on. Same with COI too. Don't get sucked in.

Looks like a new club is opening August 11th.

[URL]https://wickedwestsd.com/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lascivious;6971015]Looks like a new club is opening August 11th.

[URL]https://wickedwestsd.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]This doesn't look like a strip club. Heck, it's not even a club at all it's a venue you can rent to throw your own party.

[QUOTE=ToddRichards12;6971035]This doesn't look like a strip club. Heck, it's not even a club at all it's a venue you can rent to throw your own party.[/QUOTE]I was doom scrolling IG and an ad for it came up. It said new gentlemen's club.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?


Going back to my question. Where are these Full Service Strip Clubs? And please be specific, because I can assure you, if I can fuck a 10, or a 9 for $$$ or maybe $$ I'd see the clubs in a whole new light.[/QUOTE]Can we conclude the purported 9's and 10's giving FS in the strip clubs do not exist in the real world of SD? LOL.

I thought maybe a plant / shill from one of the clubs would post but looks like a big fat zero.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?[/QUOTE]Nowhere, as I've said. I wouldn't be driving to COI and writing guides about those clubs if I could just do it in SD. Other people wouldn't either.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]I also need to ask where in the club are you getting Full Service? How do you get by the bouncers checking in, or other customers showing up?[/QUOTE]I've had it offered at several clubs, but it's the exception and never a hot girl. Hot girls only offer light extras that nobody cares about. Girls that offer medium extras like handjobs, FIV, etc. Know the blind spots of the cameras. Who cares if the bouncer comes in, they just stop. I can't even see the customer across from me get extras clearly unless I stare. I know about the blind spots because those girls will always go to the same spot, or if a girl thinks I'm cool she will move me to that spot. I've had other girls even say so.

As I've said, I have even pointed out to people the security feeds that are in plain sight. One monitor shows all around the club so security can see if customers are following or harassing girls, or coming into the club looking for trouble by their behavior. That's in color. The other black and white monitor you can see me getting dances and waving. It's important to make sure dancers are safe and nobody is being stupid. Nobody cares if a girl's bra falls off for the entire dance. There were some years bouncers got strict about not straddling or being topless but this was just for show they didn't care that they did these things they just did not want the club to get caught allowing it. Cheetah's used to be raided all the time until they won a huge lawsuit over it (made national headlines).

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]It seems to me because the strip clubs business model is not that effective any more. Many have not recovered and opened up after covid. And we know many are closing down for good. This leads me to suggest that many mongers no longer go because they to don't get enough bang for their buck.[/QUOTE]Every club is different. COI clubs are non-stop fuck fests where girls will look at you funny for asking for just a no-tip dance for the official rate. I had Safari hop off me the moment I said I wanted just a dance.

The majority of clubs are now franchises, which makes them soulless and exploit the dancers more than even the customers, forcing dancers to take funny money as payment (Deja Vu franchises) or taking almost all the dance money (Kim Clubs in COI) so that dancers make money mostly on tips. Forcing them to do extras.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6968229]There is another key point that several have mentioned either directly or in passing. Being a regular. We all know being a regular, who of course is spending money and getting to know the girls well usually gets special attention. I confess, I've never gone enough to be a regular. I don't go to talk to pretty girls or to enjoy their company, so with that understanding, I'm just a new fish passing thru, which contributes to my impression of the business.[/QUOTE]There are two types of regulars. A person who is a regular. The girl knows him, goes up to him right away. That is mostly the only special attention they get. Then there is the whale simp regular who gives ten times as much to girls. He doesn't even have to be a real regular and girls will give him special attention. Typically older retirees who have more money than they could spend at a strip club anyways. I've always been the first type, and it was a lot of fun. But I never much real special attention. Girls were very nice to me and were happy to chat for a bit, that's all. Not the same as I could describe to the guys spending thousands each visit. When people say regulars, they do not mean the latter normally. But you'll hear wild stories attributed to the latter even though that's not normal at all. If it were, girls wouldn't even bother giving dances to anyone else.

I've said in every post that full service clubs don't really exist. There are some strippers that will escort out of the club that is different and not in the club. And there are FS girls at clubs but they aren't the norm and the higher the service I got offered the uglier they were. I always ignored them because I would not even get a dance with them let alone extras. I named the one exception in my previous post but I'm going to avoid naming girls anymore. If someone says full service clubs in SD (whether hot girls or it being the norm) then at the same time they are lying but also I would like to know. If you want to believe the shills go ahead and go to their club. Be my guest.

[QUOTE=Muncher8888;7012229]Can we conclude the purported 9's and 10's giving FS in the strip clubs do not exist in the real world of SD? LOL.

I thought maybe a plant / shill from one of the clubs would post but looks like a big fat zero.[/QUOTE]I used to go SC in both San Diego and LA (City of Industry, Hacienda Heights) around 2010 era. Even that time, LAs one are more fun, and cheaper. You can get single dances / special like 4 dances for price of two. I like the Deja Vu on Gale and another one on Gale past the USPS. I forgot the name but they shut it down. I would expect that it was due to FS offered. Many girls offered FS and it was about $1. 2 for a quick like 3 songs duration. Of because, everything is covered. I remember a girl named Robyn. She's tall, nice body, very pretty and horny. But it was dark and the girls were very strict. You can rub their p* or even spread and look at it. But it's good. Once I had a FS with a girl with pretty face and with like JLO booty (natural).

Deja Vu is also closed now (after covid I stopped by once). A lot of pretty girls, 18+ club so fully nude and lots of lights on the stage. It's my thing that before I got a dance, I want to see naked dancing spreading on the stage and it turned on my so much when I actually got the dance. I never had FS at Deja Vu but lots of sucking tits. I don't remember getting FIV in a regular dance rooms. Only one time I had a private dance for 30 minutes. But Deja Vu I had touch and sucked beautiful tits (all natural as I am strictly natural boobs / ass guys). The only girl I remembered was the girl from Iran. Her friend / partner also a dancer and both are hot. But the girl from Iran was so hot, very beautiful tits and very young. I sucked her tits so much. I later got the dance from the gf of the Iran's girl, and I told her that I sucker her tits. She's not really happy. LOL. Lots of young girls (white / Latina / Asia) and I truly missed those. And the waitress would clean the stage by crawling in four. There is one girl (Latina) with nice ass, she turned on me so much. I always tips her and admired her ass. And whey they announced Balloon dance (you get a Red Bull) and get a dance from the waitress to pop a ballon on your lap (no clothing came off) I approached her to get one from her but some reason she never wanted to give me a dance. But one time I had a dance from waitress (she's mixed Asian and white). Her breasts revealed so much and I got to touch it from outside. She would grab my hands and rub all over her breast from outside. She's like 10/10 and would be the girl at the college so hot everyone knows her.

For San Diego, the SC are bored compared to LA. Goldfinger and Cheetah are the most fun. I have only been to other clubs once and never visited. I used to visit Goldfinger before covid and there are a few girls (like 8/9) on Friday / Sat nights. I usually get nude dances. Some bouncers caught you touching (even girls allowed) they would warn you. Cheetah is expensive. You got to buy 5 songs.

I visited Cheetah last week and this is my experience. Five songs minimum ($1) and nothing came off. But they have ICE box that 30 minutes for $4. Tops off but not the bottom. During my visit, I saw three beautiful girls (Gia (Latina), Princess (Persian) and I don't remember the last one. Young Latina with very perky tits and a tattoo between her tits. Nice butt and beautiful kitty). I saw Gia and the other Latina on stage (back stage has better view as it's closed and can see the girls better). I was going to get a dance from Gia before closing time and she got a customer doing 30 minutes dance and she said "NO" it will be a while when I asked her to get me after giving dance to the customer. And I have been eyeing on Princess (beautiful Persian with very smooth skin and bra showing her boobs). I was able to grab Princess 30 minutes to closing time and started with 5 songs. I was able to touch her and I wanted to see her breast and more private. So I upgraded to ICE box. Her breast were MM but done very nicely. Most areas of the breasts felt real and once small area, I could feel silicon. And of because, I saw the stiches and for sure I know it's MM. But they really felt natural for the most part. I wanted to see her p* and asked her to slide the panty to show me but she didn't show it to me. She is a coversationalist and didn't really give me a dance for the last half of the time. Just rubbing here and I am mostly grabbing her tits. I still wanted to get dances from Gia so I hanged out near the ladies room. Girls are leaving and saw Gia in a street clothes and she can't give me a dance anymore. (I felt Gia thought I was bluffing when I asked her to get me for a dance. But we run into each other from the regular dance rooms when Princess and I upgraded to ICE and me handing out Benajamin to the bouncer). But somehow I still wanted to experience Gia. Why there is no escorts like Gia or Pricess?

Anyone you know those two girls? If you have better experiences from those two girls (other than roaming all over their breasts), please share or let me know. (I was hesitated when I was asking Gia about the dances and what she offered before she disappeared with the last customer on that night, she offered me that I could touch down there inside the panty I think. But she won't take off the panty). Gia's face is sexy, I like her natural tits and her butt is very nice. Not too curvy but very beautiful when she is nude and standing up.

[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;7021740]For San Diego, the SC are bored compared to LA. Goldfinger and Cheetah are the most fun. I have only been to other clubs once and never visited. I used to visit Goldfinger before covid and there are a few girls (like 8/9) on Friday / Sat nights. I usually get nude dances. Some bouncers caught you touching (even girls allowed) they would warn you. Cheetah is expensive. You got to buy 5 songs.[/QUOTE]The bouncer warnings at Goldfingers sound just like Cheetah used to be before Covid. After Covid nobody cared anymore. Remember, Cheetah's girls just won a huge lawsuit against the police who raided them. It made national news paying the girls a settlement with a ruling by the judge forbidding police from raiding in that fashion again. I lucked out at Goldfinger's when I went, I met Katana who is beautiful. But I didn't want to go because I knew a Cheetah's girl who had to quit Goldfingers because the manager was sexually harassing her and other girls. So if you're reading this, please stop.

[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;7021740]I visited Cheetah last week and this is my experience.[/QUOTE]I visited Cheetah a few weeks ago and this is my experience. I took a kgirl out on a date there and all of you guys stared at her instead of the dancers. Then I got a couples dance with her where I watched that kgir that I just double-fucked put her hands all over a dancer I liked, exploring her sexuality. A tear to my eye at the beauty, a treasured memory I will hold dear. Then we got tacos at the stand outside and she said I was the best tour guide she's had. Our next date was even better.

I never knew this but if you bring a girl to Cheetah's, it's $10 for both of you even if you don't have VIP cards (I forgot mine). But if your girl is hot guys will stare at her all night long instead of the dancers. Reminds me of SRCOI days when I took Stormy to bang and every guy just stared at her walking knowing she was a few minutes away from fucking in the room nearby. Why don't you just pay for it if you're that thirsty I thought. But then I understood that most guys who show up just want to look and don't have that money. Like going to a steakhouse to smell other people's steak when you only order a side of fries I guess.

[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;7021740]Anyone you know those two girls? If you have better experiences from those two girls (other than roaming all over their breasts), please share or let me know. (I was hesitated when I was asking Gia about the dances and what she offered before she disappeared with the last customer on that night, she offered me that I could touch down there inside the panty I think. But she won't take off the panty). Gia's face is sexy, I like her natural tits and her butt is very nice. Not too curvy but very beautiful when she is nude and standing up.[/QUOTE]I'm not exactly sure what you want with your question but Gia and Princess are both long-time regulars at Cheetah's. Gia is not my type but Princess is amazing. I always thought she was Indian but never asked. Always gave a great dance. Huge milk tits. I've had her many times and would highly recommend for a legit dance. But what do you expect, you are not going to take her out if that's what you're asking. Some girls you can take out but other girls you can't for a reason. Better you keep your sweet thoughts than shatter that fantasy. Enjoy her or find the next girl, be happy.

And I have liked it. Will you get as much mileage as COI? Obviously not even close. But the girls skew younger, and they seem more like college girls than COI, there's less hustle from them and the staff and less expectation of tipping.

And the mileage can be ok depending on the girl.

Maybe I'm just tired of synn for a bit, we'll see how I feel in a couple months.

[QUOTE=Ezlyfer;7025868]And I have liked it. Will you get as much mileage as COI? Obviously not even close. But the girls skew younger, and they seem more like college girls than COI, there's less hustle from them and the staff and less expectation of tipping.[/QUOTE]Same, I go COI when I need it but Cheetah's is lowkey relaxing. A girl does 2 songs on stage and then walks around to collect a dollar tip, most guys give it. The $20 admission comes with a card you bring back to get $10 admission next time. It comes with 2 free drinks. I think they now have a steak dinner special for certain hours, though not my thing. Most dancers do a set of 5 dances for $100, it's a decent straight dance. Girls are willing to sit and talk with new guys to introduce themselves, everyone has a great attitude. Even the customers are pretty chill. Other than the stage walk-around there is no expectation of tips, always been that way.

[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;7021740]I used to go SC in both San Diego and LA (City of Industry, Hacienda Heights) around 2010 era. Even that time, LAs one are more fun, and cheaper. You can get single dances / special like 4 dances for price of two. I like the Deja Vu on Gale and another one on Gale past the USPS. I forgot the name but they shut it down. I would expect that it was due to FS offered. Many girls offered FS and it was about $1. 2 for a quick like 3 songs duration. Of because, everything is covered. I remember a girl named Robyn. She's tall, nice body, very pretty and horny. But it was dark and the girls were very strict. You can rub their p* or even spread and look at it. But it's good. Once I had a FS with a girl with pretty face and with like JLO booty (natural).

Deja Vu is also closed now (after covid I stopped by once). A lot of pretty girls, 18+ club so fully nude and lots of lights on the stage. It's my thing that before I got a dance, I want to see naked dancing spreading on the stage and it turned on my so much when I actually got the dance. I never had FS at Deja Vu but lots of sucking tits. I don't remember getting FIV in a regular dance rooms. Only one time I had a private dance for 30 minutes. But Deja Vu I had touch and sucked beautiful tits (all natural as I am strictly natural boobs / ass guys). The only girl I remembered was the girl from Iran. Her friend / partner also a dancer and both are hot. But the girl from Iran was so hot, very beautiful tits and very young. I sucked her tits so much. I later got the dance from the gf of the Iran's girl, and I told her that I sucker her tits. She's not really happy. LOL. Lots of young girls (white / Latina / Asia) and I truly missed those.[/QUOTE]I could not pass for not seeing Gia on that night. So, I went back on two weeks ago on Saturday night. I was waiting for her to go on stage. Around 12:30, she danced on the back. I got some nice view. And then I waited for her to go on the front stage. When DJ announced, I learned that she's not Gia but Vanessa. When she was dancing on the front stage, there was a woman customer raining her with dollar bill and Vanessa did quite showing. Unfortunately I was not sitting that side of the stage and almost did not see Vanessa beauty under the lights. I told her that I wanted a dance. I went to restroom and when I returned, Vanessa already got a customer. They did 30 minutes and this time I waited. When she came out, it's my turn and we started our 30 minutes dances. $4 for the dance is quit expensive especially only the top came off. As she took off her bra I felt her breast. They felt amazing. She let me touch from outside of the panty. (I am sure that she did say I could touch inside but she would not take it off. But she said "no, only from outside). She insist to touch gently and she said it hurts as guys touch so hard and panty is rubbing her V. For some reason, she's very attractive to me (her Latina look). Her dance was ok. Nothing special. She would sit on me and rub her butt against me from time to time. I eventually politely asked her to see if she offers any extra (inside the club or outside). She said "No" and it's dangerous. If anyone ever get extra from Vanessa, please PM me.

Why there is no Latina like Vanessa not available in SD scenes?

[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;7082406]I eventually politely asked her to see if she offers any extra (inside the club or outside). She said "No" and it's dangerous. If anyone ever get extra from Vanessa, please PM me.

Why there is no Latina like Vanessa not available in SD scenes?[/QUOTE]SD is one of the few cities in the world where a stripper has to pay $500 for a license. Most cities do not, even LV it's like $100. It also has pretty strict strip club rules specific to just this city. One reason Little Darlings existed just outside the city limits. Some clubs are better than others, but you are going to get a lot less offers for full extras. I've gotten them but it's just not the norm.

You will find more latinas in certain clubs, but again the licensing issue is a big barrier. If a SD latina wants to ho, she goes up to OC or LA.

If you want full service, some korgs offer Latinas. But Humaniplex is probably the best resource.

My GF and I are planning a visit to SD. We like hitting up the clubs and bringing home a girl or two. What clubs do you think might be best suitable for this, or perhaps extras available in the clubs for attractive couples? Thanks!

I'll be honest, this just sounds next level creepy.

[QUOTE=TheArchitect;7101311]My GF and I are planning a visit to SD. We like hitting up the clubs and bringing home a girl or two. What clubs do you think might be best suitable for this, or perhaps extras available in the clubs for attractive couples? Thanks![/QUOTE]

I'm making this post because after 20 years of going to strip clubs hundreds of times, I'm satisfied. I only see kgirls at korgs now. See my guides in the SD 'Asian Providers' and OC 'Korean BB' forums for intel on that. Strip clubs are fun for looking at nude women, chatting with them, and getting dances with them. But no more blueballs for me.

I will summarize general things about SD strip clubs for those who are going. In general, if you are looking for high mileage you need to go the next county over at least. At least OC, if not to City of Industry where you can get fs. Just to be clear, let me summarize the cities:

[B]Cities[/B]
San Diego - Extremely strict licensing for dancers with mostly clean strip clubs. Clubs are the lowest mileage in all of Socal, so either you find beautiful women for straight dances with grind or watch the stage shows for cheap. Some dancers are quite young and beautiful but there are all types.

Orange County - A lot more mileage in strip clubs, including Vietnamese coffee shops. Yes, that's right. Some beautiful women, but not as many as SD.

City of Industry - Highest mileage. No point in saying any more for common sense, if you want that go to that thread. I am not going to persuade or drag someone over to a fun time, why don't you do that work instead of me. Just letting people know where to go if that's what they want, so they can stop going to SD clubs asking for it. I've done it for years and wrote guides in the past.

Now let me summarize the clubs, keeping in mind my main intel is on Cheetah's and only night shift, I will not bother describing dayshift. Note that Cheetah's, Candy Shop, and Expose are all very close to each other, making it easy for you to hop clubs. Very convenient and the three are very different vibes.

[B]Clubs[/B]
Cheetah's - The best goto club to recommend to anyone in SD, by far. A place you can take your best friend, cousin, girlfriend, even recommend to your sister to go with her friends. Literally family friendly for those 18+. The girls there are by far the most beautiful and friendly. They do not serve alcohol. $20 to enter first time but you will get a VIP card you can use on future visits. Comes with 2 drinks so save your receipt. Make sure to get 1s for example by giving 40 or 50 and asking it back in 1s. Stages are 2 songs and it is customary for girls to collect $1 after stage from each guy seated, that is super cheap btw. Songs are about 2 mins 15 seconds but that varies. Most girls will take you for 'VIP dance' which is just a normal dance for 5 songs, $100 total. There is an 'ice box' which is what every other club on the planet calls VIP and is $400 for 30 mins, would not recommend unless you literally want to show off.

If you find yourself in the ice box it means a girl has hypnotized you, so snap out of it. Go bang a beautiful kgirl for 320 - 60 minutes including a shower with her before and after the private play. The young and good looking ones we label HYAs in reviews. Ahem, so these are bikini dances (not nude) and it varies by the girl but you can touch with common sense just avoid her privates. Friday and Saturday's can be packed especially 10pm, the back 2nd stage might open up. Other days are slower and chill, you will get more girls talking to you and saying hi.

Candy Shop - This is a club that actually serves alcohol. It used to be Paradise but got rebranded. You can just hang around and talk to girls, girls will do stage shows. If you talk with girls, you buy them drinks, it is chill and fun if you're into that. Or you can take them back for dances like normal. I am not a drinker so this isn't my thing, but I think for other people who are it's a way to have fun.

Expose - This club is really unique, on Fridays and Saturdays they host guest star performers, often either porn stars or famous strippers. They offer hookah, slushies, cigars, snacks, all kinds of other stuff. They will hire almost any dancer, it is really anything goes. For example, one dancer will dance with a dildo up her butt. Just saying, that's the vibe, anything goes. I think one great thing is the girls give solid $20 individual dances. It is actually a great place to get dances except that only a few girls are my type, whereas at Cheetah's a lot more are. But Cheetah's girls don't do $20 dances generally. See my two posts about it in the COI thread:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?4826-Strip-Club-Reports&p=7102751&viewfull=1#post7102751[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?4826-Strip-Club-Reports&p=7101818#post7101818[/URL]

Goldfingers - This club is really different and has a higher entry fee. Although I would not actually recommend it, they have had a few special dancers who will do good dances. Like Katana. Reminds me of Candy Shop layout and system in some ways, but the vibe doesn't suit me as someone who wants to see a combination of stage shows and pick a hot girl for dances. They don't have enough girls to do back-to-back stages. Same as Candy Shop.

Every other SD club - I would not recommend, same as Goldfingers. They are almost tourist traps and a lot rely on tourists and "first-timers". If you are a tourist, go a little further to Cheetah's at least. I know first-timers can be shy, but I highly recommend going strip clubs by yourself. 99% of the time I do. The one exception is introducing a friend or cousin to strip clubs, I'll take them one time to get them started. Or maybe, to take a girl on a date if she wants to explore her sexuality. Second paragraph in this post sounds like just my thing:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?5030-Strip-Club-Reports&p=7022430&viewfull=1#post7022430[/URL]

I will next show some example girls. I've met hundreds of strippers, but just want to give a general idea with random examples. Only a few girls will put photos on Cheetah's official social media or their own, so I am pulling from that. As I mentioned, Cheetah's is the most 'family friendly' club there is. It's a place you can take your girlfriend (I have), take your best friend, take your classmates. I literally once saw a bus pull up and 20 18-year old Catholic high school boys show up. They were literally all still wearing their school uniforms, everyone of them, as if they were on a field trip. And they very clearly were 18. They Sat up close at the 2nd stage and stared with mouths open at women, their first time seeing a woman's boobs since their mom breastfed them (it is a boys only school after all). Just their posture with both elbows on the rail sitting upright and motionless was quite moving to me. I almost wish I could experience a strip club for the first time in my life again, like them. Almost.

[B]Girls[/B]
Attached are 8 Cheetah's photos and 2 Expose photos, with 2 exceptions girls I find beautiful. 2 may still have an OF but out of respect I won't link them, if you meet the girls they are usually open about it and happy to share but I won't speak for them since things can change. One girl I show twice, see her ass in jeans. I don't even like big round ass, she's not my type, but I'm still amazed. I figure other guys would appreciate it more than me.

One girl Angel from Expose is super skinny but quite beautiful (last photo). Another blonde girl Sabrina is blonde and super petite, she has the most amazing petite figure. She's since lost weight from the photo. Jhene is an Asian girl with an amazing figure, one of a kind. Sadie is an exotic mixed girl, she gives really amazing dances with the perfect grind. Allie is a sweet girl next door type, also very petite. The girl with the big round ass is a Persian girl with an amazing body. The whole point is to highlight some random examples of above average girls at clubs. I do see a few girls like these in OC and COI but the ratio is waaaaay lower. So OC and LA girls tend to make up for it with more manmade upgrades, which is fair and smart.

This is just an intro guide, don't have time to talk about dances, getting value, how to talk with and pick girls, etc.. I've written almost a hundred pages about all that years ago already. Most of it in the City of Industry forum. But to sum up, some girls give a great grind in dances, and you can nut from that if you are horny and hard and into the girl and her technique. Others you enjoy touching her body as you like like a gentleman. There's more ways to enjoy but those are the main two, certainly if you are young and virile you can help out a bit with the dance. Obviously, the most experienced girls tend to give much better grind dances, and the more beautiful girls who are also your type are naturally better for the hands on fun. But there is some trial and error since it depends on compatibility of how you fit. I discovered I didn't like heavy girls no matter how much I liked them otherwise, because I can't support them with my body and still enjoy the dance. But you might be totally different. Always feel free to speak up if you want a dance done different.

There are always new girls, plenty of turnover. Recently I saw Natlia at Cheetah's who is a super petite and exotic looking version of Zendaya. B cup, maybe Latina or mixed, clean pussy. Almost all girls are fully shaved btw, but anyone with two eyes could have told you that.

Found myself going to strip clubs on Thursday and Friday nights. After reviewing the reports I went to Expose and Cheetah's. Also drove by Goldfingers on Thurs. But they were closed. Here's my quick and dirty recap.

Expose: Small club with one stage. Had about 12-16 dancers on Thurs. And Friday nights. Seating area in the main room is kinda tight. Dancers were mostly 5's-6's with the occasional 7. Mostly appeared to be all natural, with curves. Lap dances are 1/$20 or 5 for $100. There are also options for 30 minutes for $200 or 1 hr. For $400. Got dances from Ali (hot African American girl), Destiny (thin girl next door), and a mixed MILF. Dances from all of them had high contact and grinding. The first two allowed heavy petting. For the most part they were bikini dances, although the first two allowed me to pull aside their tops to reveal and pet their breasts. If looking for outside the club action, two of them gave me their numbers without me even asking. Destiny was quoting $$ for outside the club. Decided to pass.

Cheetahs: Larger club with a larger main stage and a second back stage if it gets busy. Significantly more seating areas. Dancers here were mostly 7's-8's with a handful of 9's. These were more polished silicone instead of the MILFs at Expose filled dancers but they were absolutely stunning. Was not offered any single dances, but was offered 5 songs for $100 (or $200 topless with touching) or the VIP room for $400-$500. Got the topless 5 dances from two girls-an amazing thin Czech girl and an absolutely beautiful LA girl named Riley. Both were amazing with significant grinding and boob touching.

In my opinion both clubs are worth going to. Depends what you are into. Expose probably more economical and higher likelihood of meeting a girl who will go OTC. But hands down the hotter girls and dances are at Cheetahs. My wallet is in pain.

[QUOTE=RickJamesB;7106022]I'll be honest, this just sounds next level creepy.[/QUOTE]How exactly is this different from what anyone else is asking about here? We're just looking for some extras where no security or bouncers looking to put a damper on the fun and in the comfort of a hotel room.