Buffalo Grove / Wheeling / Arlington heights

**AllInOnHer** · 11-13-23 15:27

Originally Posted by JustAMonger [View Original Post]

Whew, that was a tough read. Sorry to hear about that but it appears even though you feel you were "runner up", that's just the "first loser" as they say in NASCAR. These girls can be master manipulators and make you believe that you are near and dear to their hearts. The reality is that the only thing dear to her heart is your wallet. If she does call, she will be in need of your wallet again which is unlikely since they can make money wherever they go. Prostitution-the worlds oldest profession.

Don't waste your time pining for her and crying in your pillow. Reality check. She would have tried to explain to you what was going on. Love is blind and when their is pussy involved it's worse. Look at the facts. Others have fucked her and cum inside her, she has been reported to be at other spas. Sure, you "felt" something, but the good ones have that power. Yep, it's unethical as hell in a business that is well, unethical.

The Russian guy is probably paying for it now. After a while he will realize she's a prostitute and money is the only thing that matters. You can't trust these girls.

You are right on! These women love to play guys. Act like they are boyfriend and girlfriend. All they want is money. Sometimes they will catch emotions for you if you pay enough. But they can snap out of it the minute they are intimate with the next guy. The only way to get her close to you again is to spend more money and you will find yourself in this roller-coaster ride until she sucks you dry of cash. Her Russian boyfriend was very wealthy. That is why she chose him and he was in good shape. But mostly for the money. He will regret it one day when he realizes she was after his money and it is all gone.

**JustAMonger** · 11-13-23 14:57

Originally Posted by Terrapin911 [View Original Post]

Yeah, unfortunately I know exactly what I am talking about: and how I really wish I did not in this case.

I'm serious when I say I was very close to her, and was the runner up, unfortunately there was one other guy who was a bit closer it turns out. We had a few occasions while talking over the year and a half where we cried together and comforted each other with various situations in life, her family, how badly she missed her mother and son, issues she was having with her ex husband in China etc. We tossed the "L" word back and forth several times over that time, but not every time we saw each other.
Anyway hope she is well wherever she is.

TP.

Whew, that was a tough read. Sorry to hear about that but it appears even though you feel you were "runner up", that's just the "first loser" as they say in NASCAR. These girls can be master manipulators and make you believe that you are near and dear to their hearts. The reality is that the only thing dear to her heart is your wallet. If she does call, she will be in need of your wallet again which is unlikely since they can make money wherever they go. Prostitution-the worlds oldest profession.

Don't waste your time pining for her and crying in your pillow. Reality check. She would have tried to explain to you what was going on. Love is blind and when their is pussy involved it's worse. Look at the facts. Others have fucked her and cum inside her, she has been reported to be at other spas. Sure, you "felt" something, but the good ones have that power. Yep, it's unethical as hell in a business that is well, unethical.

The Russian guy is probably paying for it now. After a while he will realize she's a prostitute and money is the only thing that matters. You can't trust these girls.

**AllInOnHer** · 11-13-23 12:33

Originally Posted by Squat [View Original Post]

Eva sucks. I've had L3 with her twice and both times sucked. I'm a good tipper so no haggling with the dough but her performance just sucks. I am never returning to Sunshine, and I told this to Jennifer on my way out.

Thanks for confirming what I suspected. I will spend my money elsewhere. Anyone good at Refresh for L3?

**Squat** · 11-12-23 23:59

Originally Posted by AllInOnHer [View Original Post]

Has anyone had L3 service with Eva at sunshine? If so is she any good? She seems to have a stuck up attitude. Not very friendly.

Eva sucks. I've had L3 with her twice and both times sucked. I'm a good tipper so no haggling with the dough but her performance just sucks. I am never returning to Sunshine, and I told this to Jennifer on my way out.

**Easita23** · 11-11-23 16:14

Originally Posted by RubLuvr [View Original Post]

I've played around with the boyfriend title while laughing at the absurdity, but most all of the time they still expect their tip. I feel bad for the lonely dudes that actually buy into the "relationship" thing with these women that are sucking some other dudes dick ten minutes after they leave. It is actually pretty cold hearted to play on emotions of obviously lonely, smitten guys like this but no surprise, and I'm sure plenty of them have tough backgrounds that have turned off the emotion on what they are doing. My advice, FWIW, guys, it is ok to play, to have the fantasy of a girlfriend or special relationship, but always stay grounded and realize they will empty your coffers without a thought. Don't let the emotions override your common sense.

I could not have said this any better even if I tried!! Fantastic reminder. Especially the part on what happens even 10 minutes after you're done!! Heheh Very well said!!

**RubLuvr** · 11-11-23 14:37

Originally Posted by SmileySam [View Original Post]

I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.

I've played around with the boyfriend title while laughing at the absurdity, but most all of the time they still expect their tip. I feel bad for the lonely dudes that actually buy into the "relationship" thing with these women that are sucking some other dudes dick ten minutes after they leave. It is actually pretty cold hearted to play on emotions of obviously lonely, smitten guys like this but no surprise, and I'm sure plenty of them have tough backgrounds that have turned off the emotion on what they are doing. My advice, FWIW, guys, it is ok to play, to have the fantasy of a girlfriend or special relationship, but always stay grounded and realize they will empty your coffers without a thought. Don't let the emotions override your common sense.

**AllInOnHer** · 11-11-23 01:05

Has anyone had L3 service with Eva at sunshine? If so is she any good? She seems to have a stuck up attitude. Not very friendly.

**AllInOnHer** · 11-10-23 21:05

Originally Posted by Squareballs [View Original Post]

Is this the same girl that used to wear the flight attendant outfit at sunshine in Buffalo grove the Lina I remember was working there before Covid all holes open and usually bare.

She did used to wear a flight attendant outfit. I had many dreams with her where I deposited in her hehehe.

**Squareballs** · 11-10-23 14:36

Originally Posted by SmileySam [View Original Post]

I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.

Is this the same girl that used to wear the flight attendant outfit at sunshine in Buffalo grove the Lina I remember was working there before Covid all holes open and usually bare.

**SmileySam** · 11-10-23 10:23

Originally Posted by Terrapin911 [View Original Post]

Yeah, unfortunately I know exactly what I am talking about: and how I really wish I did not in this case.

I'm serious when I say I was very close to her, and was the runner up, unfortunately there was one other guy who was a bit closer it turns out. We had a few occasions while talking over the year and a half where we cried together and comforted each other with various situations in life, her family, how badly she missed her mother and son, issues she was having with her ex husband in China etc. We tossed the "L" word back and forth several times over that time, but not every time we saw each other. Our birthdays are only two days apart (although I'm 15 years older) and we celebrated birthdays together. To this day I feel she was genuine with me and meant everything she ever said to me, I never one time caught her in a lie or did not trust what she was saying. …I am guessing she wasn't spotted at any spa and is likely still with her BF as she was very much the type to give careful consideration before making a leap that big into someone’s arms. She very much seemed the type that when she commits to you she commits fully.

Anyway hope she is well wherever she is.

TP.

I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.

**Terrapin911** · 11-10-23 04:17

Originally Posted by Allinonher [View Original Post]

Bella was always great. Great massage and great FS. Here Russian boyfriend was crazy. He tried to follow me in the parking lot after one session with her. LOL. I know here boyfriend lives in BG. You are correct she left the first week of June. She bounced around to a few other shops. I don't know where she is now. Where in BG did you spot her a few weeks ago? At sunshine?

Yeah, unfortunately I know exactly what I am talking about: and how I really wish I did not in this case.

I'm serious when I say I was very close to her, and was the runner up, unfortunately there was one other guy who was a bit closer it turns out. We had a few occasions while talking over the year and a half where we cried together and comforted each other with various situations in life, her family, how badly she missed her mother and son, issues she was having with her ex husband in China etc. We tossed the "L" word back and forth several times over that time, but not every time we saw each other. Our birthdays are only two days apart (although I'm 15 years older) and we celebrated birthdays together. To this day I feel she was genuine with me and meant everything she ever said to me, I never one time caught her in a lie or did not trust what she was saying. I knew that she had another customer she was serious with and I saw him a couple times in passing as well as I know he saw me and had some idea of who I was. In fact two days before she left I popped into the spa unannounced and he was standing there cutting up a pineapple at the front counter. She and I went into the room together closed the door, had a brief conversation, she said she would be right back and start our session, she left the room, came back almost 10 minutes later and told me she was sorry but couldn't see me that day and I would have to come back. First time ever she was not visibly smiling and happy to see me when I walked in. I gave her a hug and kissed her on the cheek and told her I would see her later, and left. That was the last time I laid eyes on her. Up til that day we were the same with each other as any other day for the past year and a half she never denied me nor decreased my "service" until that day. I am guessing he may have asserted himself to her more than I, as I am laid back, not the alpha male type and while I knew she was also serious with him I never pressed her over it. I think she appreciated that I was not going to be the guy to put her in a position to feel like lying to me was her only option. Don't ask don't tell if you will. I knew she had a decision to make at some point. I Just told her and tried to show her how I felt and if she ever wanted to come live with me to call and I would be there to pick her up in an hour, any time of any day no questions asked. I told her she would never have to work again if she didn't want to but if she wanted to keep working I didn't even care if she kept working in a spa doing whatever she wanted if she wanted to. I truly want her to be happy then and now. Her Russian BF is a bit more handsome and about 10 years younger than I am yet probably still about five years older than she is. Sad she didn't pick me, but if she is happy with him that's totally cool too. Just sucks that after she chose we don't get to talk anymore. I get it, most guys and gals would do the same out of respect to their partner if they are giving it a serious go, so I don't take it personally. She has my real number if she kept it maybe some day she will call, maybe not. Not angry for her doing what she thinks is best for her. Just sad she is not in my life as of now.

Not going to say too much about what we did behind closed doors, lets just say we did things that usually only long term lovers do, she seemed to trust me completely with her body. If I wanted to try something 98% of the time she would allow it after our trust had built up over the months. Actually there were only two things she ever said no to when I suggested them.

And I didn't spot her anywhere, but if someone did and wanted to pass along that info either here or in PM I would love to know where and how she is now that it has been almost six months since we last spoke. My last text to her was June 6th with no reply and I decided to leave her be and not insert myself any further into her life so If she still does have her old number I have not texted her even one time since the 6th of June. I'm betting the BF insisted she change her number around the 4th or 5th so she may have never received my last texts. I am guessing she wasn't spotted at any spa and is likely still with her BF as she was very much the type to give careful consideration before making a leap that big into someones arms. She very much seemed the type that when she commits to you she commits fully.

Anyway hope she is well wherever she is.

TP.

**AllInOnHer** · 11-09-23 18:18

Originally Posted by DeepTissue [View Original Post]

I heard the same from Jenny and also she was not allowing FS for the past couple of months before she left. But the guy she was with this time was different from her previous boyfriend and thought she was back to the spa or escort scene.

Bella was always great. Great massage and great FS. Here Russian boyfriend was crazy. He tried to follow me in the parking lot after one session with her. LOL. I know here boyfriend lives in BG. You are correct she left the first week of June. She bounced around to a few other shops. I don't know where she is now. Where in BG did you spot her a few weeks ago? At sunshine?

**DeepTissue** · 11-09-23 14:22

Originally Posted by Terrapin911 [View Original Post]

Bella quit and ran off with her Russian boyfriend the first week of June. Made me very sad. I was the runner up in that contest hahaha Bella and I were very close for almost two years I had texted with her a few days before she quit, something was different with her in that text exchange than the year and a half we had known each other. Dropped in the spa a few days later to see her and was told by Jennifer that she quit the business. Her Russian boyfriend picked her up from the spa yesterday and she no longer worked for the people that own the spa and she would never be back. I texted her from the spa parking lot as I learned of this and crickets. Ghosted. Guessing she has a new phone number and a new life now with her BF. Hope she is well. I do miss her!

TP.

I heard the same from Jenny and also she was not allowing FS for the past couple of months before she left. But the guy she was with this time was different from her previous boyfriend and thought she was back to the spa or escort scene.

**Terrapin911** · 11-09-23 07:36

Originally Posted by DeepTissue [View Original Post]

She went by the name Bella or Lina / Nina and moved out in May / June 2023. She was there in sunshine for more than 2 years.

Bella quit and ran off with her Russian boyfriend the first week of June. Made me very sad. I was the runner up in that contest hahaha Bella and I were very close for almost two years I had texted with her a few days before she quit, something was different with her in that text exchange than the year and a half we had known each other. Dropped in the spa a few days later to see her and was told by Jennifer that she quit the business. Her Russian boyfriend picked her up from the spa yesterday and she no longer worked for the people that own the spa and she would never be back. I texted her from the spa parking lot as I learned of this and crickets. Ghosted. Guessing she has a new phone number and a new life now with her BF. Hope she is well. I do miss her!

TP.

**DeepTissue** · 11-08-23 11:10

Originally Posted by NitroPimp [View Original Post]

That's pretty vague. Most of them there were skinny or at least not fat. Skinny depends on what you think skinny looks like.

Did she at least have a name? One that was there about a month ago has moved on. I wouldn't say she was skinny.

She went by the name Bella or Lina / Nina and moved out in May / June 2023. She was there in sunshine for more than 2 years.