Seeking Arrangements

**Aardvarks** · 05-11-19 12:34

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

I'm still relatively new to this. I don't mind paying more for what I want, but at the same time, I don't want to OVERPAY and be "that guy" that ruins it for everyone else. I'm reading reddit posts about ppm, and they suggest $300. I've read on here that $150 is the number. HALP!

Really depends on what you're looking for. I've paid on average anywhere from $200-300. One girl wanted $350 and I did that a couple of times but then stopped as it wasn't worth it. Another one wanted $400 for first date and then $250 after. That was totally worth it but she moved away. I can usually tell at the first meet up if it's worth it and if I sense it's not I give them a gift and leave (I usually bring a gift card to Amazon or Walgreens or something like that).

Key is to discuss pricing via text or Kik and not on SA messaging. If you have to get a hotel then that eats into the amount too. If you can get a date with intimacy for $150, more power to you my friend. I think $200 is probably the floor though for a lot of them.

Also it's a numbers game so don't get hung up on one. If they want something crazy like 600 or more then kindly thank them and move on.

**Aardvarks** · 05-11-19 11:52

https://www.seeking.com/member/3fdc8...8-756d671e2926

This one is insane. Run away.

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-11-19 08:34

I'm still relatively new to this. I don't mind paying more for what I want, but at the same time, I don't want to OVERPAY and be "that guy" that ruins it for everyone else. I'm reading reddit posts about ppm, and they suggest $300. I've read on here that $150 is the number. HALP!

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-10-19 23:21

Here's a good girl. Wants 300, but will do it for 200. She's a clock watcher, so heads up. She will do car dates. She was high when we did the meet up. Some talk, then gets down to business. Her alarm goes off, I mean her sister calls her, and she's all she has to go now. Didn't finish. Ugh. I don't mind limits; wish I had know it. I would have spent less time talking.

https://www.seeking.com/member/274a6...1-126bf08053c2

**Aardvarks** · 05-10-19 18:48

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

This one is a piece of work, she asked for my number, I give it to work and.

Then my phone started blowing up. Needs $120 for a book. Now. Wants to know do I have cash app? Do I have PayPal, do I have Venmo. Anyway I would stay away gentlemen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/40d71...3-1d9a3d3c697f

Thanks for the heads up! Sounds really crazy!!

**PaulRew** · 05-10-19 14:03

This one is a piece of work, she asked for my number, I give it to work and.

Then my phone started blowing up. Needs $120 for a book. Now. Wants to know do I have cash app? Do I have PayPal, do I have Venmo. Anyway I would stay away gentlemen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/40d71...3-1d9a3d3c697f

**Tdg222** · 05-10-19 11:16

Can someone tell me why I can not get on the seeking arrangements web site it just comes up as a blank white page any way to fix this thanks.

**Aardvarks** · 05-09-19 18:43

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I know this is a longshot, guys, but I am going to be in Boston in a couple of weeks on business, and I will have at least one evening free to play. I was hoping to find a girl to have dinner with (either at a restaurant or room service) and then play afterwards. I've found that when traveling, I have a hard time meeting the kind of person I would want to spend the evening with. There are a lot of young, semi-pros that would be fine for the playing but would not be very good dinner companions, and the ones who would be good dinner companions are usually ones who are looking for something more long-term / regular than a one-off meet with an out-of-towner.

I could just look for someone to warm the bed for a couple of hours, but at home I can only meet people discreetly during the day, and it would be nice to be able to actually have a "dinner date" with a high likelihood of ending up back at my hotel.

If anyone has any ideas, either for particular girls or for promising strategies, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.

I just did what you are trying to do in Vegas and for whatever reason my strategy worked. I picked 20 girls on SA and sent them this message:

"Hi I read your profile and am interested. I'm only in town for a few nights. But if you read my profile and are interested let's talk. I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea but we could have some fun. If you're not interested I totally respect that and wish you luck on the site. ".

Got laid 3 out for 4 nights.

**LoVecchio** · 05-09-19 09:21

I know this is a longshot, guys, but I am going to be in Boston in a couple of weeks on business, and I will have at least one evening free to play. I was hoping to find a girl to have dinner with (either at a restaurant or room service) and then play afterwards. I've found that when traveling, I have a hard time meeting the kind of person I would want to spend the evening with. There are a lot of young, semi-pros that would be fine for the playing but would not be very good dinner companions, and the ones who would be good dinner companions are usually ones who are looking for something more long-term / regular than a one-off meet with an out-of-towner.

I could just look for someone to warm the bed for a couple of hours, but at home I can only meet people discreetly during the day, and it would be nice to be able to actually have a "dinner date" with a high likelihood of ending up back at my hotel.

If anyone has any ideas, either for particular girls or for promising strategies, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.

**Aardvarks** · 05-08-19 18:53

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.

Yeah I get it. But hottest girl I've met off SA. I show up at her place and she's wearing nothing. She's a stripper and we now do it at her club too (for free). We've actually gone out and picked up women at bars and had threesomes so I think it was worth the wait.

**EvilTmp** · 05-08-19 00:15

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Thanks for the heads up on her. In my experience you have to make sure early on you're going to get what you want. I've described my technique of giving half the allowance or PPM until we're having regular sex. I always have the money on me and show it to them. Kind of like an incentive. ****My most recent I went six months at the half rate ***** (but I was getting some action just not FS). She finally caved recently and I now give her the full amount and the sex is nuts.

Using this technique if you're at date 2 or 3 and she flakes out at least you're only down a little bit.

Good luck!

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.

**PaulRew** · 05-07-19 19:38

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cf218...0-2b4adb89e4da

Tried using the "can I get gas money" sent via cashapp or venmo. I told her, hey, we can meet irl, I'll hand over the money. Communication went dark. Avoid this one.

She also has an escort profile linked to her number. Not sure if she blocked me or she quit. Got booted but I can not see her profile any longer. Oh, and I got the gas line by message 3.

https://escortindex.com/ad/washingto...5906/5/1918615

**Aardvarks** · 05-07-19 15:08

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

I believe there is a space for a win-win. It's not about "doing my bidding. " its about getting what I want through what they want. My wants / needs isn't higher than theirs. I may pay more for something like that, but I have more fun that way. Otherwise, it's just simply putting meat stick in meat hole (to each their own, right? And I got strung along because this was done. *in person* after I knew where they lived, after I had met the person, they were like, hey, I need the money now, promise you tomorrow. You know where I live. I had agreed to $200. They were asking half, and the only reason to cancel was a family emergency. And they were all apologetic about it. Next day, we had a date planned. Oh, then it got cut short. Huh. Like honestly, the only reason why I gave in was because I had said it. My word is my bond and all that shit.

This scam is new to me. Like, if I wanted to, I really know where she lives. But I'm not about that. Chalk it up as lesson learned.

I like this money arrangement, because I eventually get bored, and I don't have to maintain pleasantries like I do irl. I like this fantasy I can craft, and in this case, I got caught up in it. I'll be more careful next time.

Thanks for the heads up on her. In my experience you have to make sure early on you're going to get what you want. I've described my technique of giving half the allowance or PPM until we're having regular sex. I always have the money on me and show it to them. Kind of like an incentive. My most recent I went six months at the half rate (but I was getting some action just not FS). She finally caved recently and I now give her the full amount and the sex is nuts.

Using this technique if you're at date 2 or 3 and she flakes out at least you're only down a little bit.

Good luck!

**Ernest Ll** · 05-07-19 12:31

Young, blonde, attractive fit. Texts a good game.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f22eafe9-42ee-463d-a6f7-46d87d1f8f44

Anyone else get anywhere with her?

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-06-19 17:00

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

A sugar baby does your bidding because you are paying, eh, I mean gifting her money.

I believe there is a space for a win-win. It's not about "doing my bidding. " its about getting what I want through what they want. My wants / needs isn't higher than theirs. I may pay more for something like that, but I have more fun that way. Otherwise, it's just simply putting meat stick in meat hole (to each their own, right? And I got strung along because this was done. *in person* after I knew where they lived, after I had met the person, they were like, hey, I need the money now, promise you tomorrow. You know where I live. I had agreed to $200. They were asking half, and the only reason to cancel was a family emergency. And they were all apologetic about it. Next day, we had a date planned. Oh, then it got cut short. Huh. Like honestly, the only reason why I gave in was because I had said it. My word is my bond and all that shit.

This scam is new to me. Like, if I wanted to, I really know where she lives. But I'm not about that. Chalk it up as lesson learned.

I like this money arrangement, because I eventually get bored, and I don't have to maintain pleasantries like I do irl. I like this fantasy I can craft, and in this case, I got caught up in it. I'll be more careful next time.