NoVA SugarBabies

[DickLongwood]

Wants money for her baby before meeting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-1e35060b627d

[Rudy Wellz]

I have a few questions about your SB experience.

Do you recommend SB or is the experience getting worse over time?

Are they typically independent?

Is your experience typical one and done or long term?

What red flags do you look for?

Thanks! I've been curious if a SB worth exploring.

I'll answer your questions. Others may have different opinions.

Yes, I recommend the Sugar Game and have tutored 2 of my good friends who were old school looking for hookups in bars. And yes, the sugar experience is much worse than it was 5-10 years ago. Doesn't mean you can't have fun, it just requires a LOT of work.

Most SB's don't think of themselves as sex workers. And you will see pro's advertising as SB's. One of my best experiences was with a woman who was a SB and transitioned to a pro while we were in an arrangement. There are also bots, fakes, scammers, women seeking platonic and women with GPS.

Currently, I buy and hold. It's too much work to find a good SB. Previously, I dropped SB's for the smallest infractions (real or perceived). As a matter of personal preference, I enjoy the "connection" with a SB and therefore rarely did one-and-done unless the sex was bad.

Red flags? There are many. Read the numerous forums out on the internet and educate yourself before getting in the game. Rule #1: Never pay money up front. Only pay after the bump and grind. Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1.

Currently have a 4 SB rotation (although one has gone MIA). No plans to stop seeing any of them and not actively recruiting.

[RyzenShine]

I have a few questions about your SB experience.

Do you recommend SB or is the experience getting worse over time?

Are they typically independent?

Is your experience typical one and done or long term?

What red flags do you look for?

Thanks! I've been curious if a SB worth exploring.

[EasyeOne]

Hoping to hear some updates on this one, meeting scheduled for next week.

She's upfront and not new to it all. She told me after the hello text that she does ppm and her starting amount. I'm sure you can negotiate but claims 5 is what others give her.

[PRMan12]

What was the damage on virginia you met on seeking?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-b8b8e68262e1

Hoping to hear some updates on this one, meeting scheduled for next week.

[Vamassage Fan]

I don't understand these women. Why are they on seeking for platonic relationships??

My experience is that when they check the platonic option its either (1) just to appear less "escortie" should friends see their profile on there, or (2) it done so to indicate its just one of many ryoe relationships they will do.

[DasHottCalla]

I've been trying to pursue this one SB. We talked on the phone and matched on SA. Definitely pretty but she was not responding for a bit so I gave it another shot. I told her that I got out of an arrangement and how much the arrangement was. Lo and behold she responded. She told me she thought we had a good connection and upfront told me that she deleted her account because the guys on SA were "not for her. " I believed her because I never asked her to delete the account although she was no longer visible on my account. So. Being the cunning sleuth that I am, I logged into my other account and she was visible!! Is this something that girls do to make guys think they are not pros?? Maybe I'm just gullible.

It's all about money. Don't forget that. Whoever proposes the most will be the winner for that day.

[SRH59]

Maybe you're new, but if someone is only willing to take payment via gift cards that's an immediate red flag / scam. I mean why on earth would someone not accept cash or CashApp? And like I said, I asked multiple times if there was any other options besides gift cards but she was not willing to bend or consider any other options. They'll have you buy the gift card before they meet you. Then demand you give them the number off the back before they'll meet you, then you never hear from them again.

So true. It's like they are admitting they're a scam. This one said she only takes venmo or cashapp in our early messages. Cash doesn't work. Ok, LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-bc7d79b58ff5

[ParisT312]

Based in Richmond, going to college, seemed interested at first and then completely ghosted me. Is not looking for more than giftcards, so not sure how legit this one is -

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-7d9f2d4449d7

[NovaNova]

Based upon the age of the profiles, one being inactive, listing an age of 38, I would guess she is a pro trying to pass as a SB.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-47171a186ca0

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-2ead46681fdd

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-e013881e87fd

Two or three profiles of the same girl, similar locations. WTF? Scammers piggybacking on a real account or what?

[FrankCastle6]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-47171a186ca0

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-2ead46681fdd

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-e013881e87fd

Two or three profiles of the same girl, similar locations. WTF? Scammers piggybacking on a real account or what?

[SteveStone123]

So question for you Seeking vets. Out of curiosity yesterday to see these links y'all post here, I created a profile but haven't provided any photos nor do I intend to pay. So the site says my profile is "unsearchable", yet I've got emails notifying me I've been favorites, I've been sent a message, etc. So not sure what's up with that? As seen in screenshot, it says to upload a photo to be able to communicate, is that true? Or even after uploading I'd still have to pay?

Thanks,

Lou.

If you are getting messages and favorites notifications even without a single pic, all those profiles are AI generated fake profiles.

[SaSearch]

I am supposed to meet with her but getting weird vibes. Anyone meet her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-b9ef806f9426

[BugsyInnc]

Yup, as a public service I played along. She insisted on gift cards from uber eats or steam and asked me to confirm when I had them in hand. At lunch I told her I did (of course I didn't really). She then directed me to this website: https://form.jotform.com/241844414257356.

That site is a seeing arrangement reservation site and had a place to enter in gift card numbers. Sophisticated scam. I suspect they are getting plenty of simps to upload gift card numbers..

Ok, 30 minutes before scheduled meet she asked for $25 for taxi. Refused UBER or for me to pay taxi when she arrived. Wanted $25 sent to her cash app. Knew she wouldn't show up, just wanted to find out what the scam was.

[Joe1278]

Hi, were you able to meet Mar? What was your experience?

Mar.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...1-6a84ed0ef44c

Any info. Wants to meet ASAP seems dtf.

Said she's been in the area around 2 months.