Non Pro's

**Mamouna** · 11-16-23 23:58

Originally Posted by MauiGlory [View Original Post]

I was browsing SA earlier and this one popped up: https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-08a9b5972a96.

What is so strange is that when browsing FL I noticed a fried commented on her photo. And I recognized her as the same one in SA: https://fetlife.com/users/15279792.

I mean, most of the seeking women have an addiction to attention. FL is a similar kind of sexualized thrill. It's not easy to search thru fetlife but they're there. I was going to post my collection of links of seeking girls I know on fetlife (esp one selfish idiot who really deserves it) but I've seen what happens when that stuff gets posted. I'm not that petty.

**Maui Glory** · 11-16-23 23:05

I was browsing SA earlier and this one popped up: https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-08a9b5972a96.

What is so strange is that when browsing FL I noticed a fried commented on her photo. And I recognized her as the same one in SA: https://fetlife.com/users/15279792.

**Hypster** · 11-16-23 21:54

She's confirmed then bailed on me a few times, so I just gave up on her. Hot pics, but there's a few flags there. Let me know how it goes.

Originally Posted by PoundVages [View Original Post]

Not sure what to make of females who are premium subscribers on seeking. Have a date set, she's been on seeking a year, hopefully some info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-d202a2eea63a

**LuvMeAbbw** · 11-16-23 17:12

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Yes, I refer to it as Fat Life.

I love it.

**PoundVages** · 11-16-23 17:11

Not sure what to make of females who are premium subscribers on seeking. Have a date set, she's been on seeking a year, hopefully some info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-d202a2eea63a

**Michael1967** · 11-16-23 16:58

Originally Posted by PoonHound1969 [View Original Post]

Whenever I look at fet, I just see fatties.

Yes, I refer to it as Fat Life.

**RunPup67** · 11-16-23 15:23

Originally Posted by Papicho [View Original Post]

She also asked me for money after the restaurant I told her no money until I see you naked, she bailed.

She has borderline personality, probably soon to be homeless.

Yes run! See post #7321. Different handle but definitely the same girl.

**PoonHound1969** · 11-16-23 14:01

Originally Posted by Mamouna [View Original Post]

If he really doesn't want to pay, a lot of the regular SBs on seeking are also on dating apps and fetlife (and on fetlife you get some great NSFW pics). Some are pretty straight up about it. Just got to know what you're looking for. But, let's face it, most regular guys are lazy af haha.

Whenever I look at fet, I just see fatties.

**Mamouna** · 11-15-23 22:50

Originally Posted by HBadger [View Original Post]

The ROI is much better on SA if you have a normal amount of game or just a decent human being in general. I mean sometimes 2+ hours with these girls all holes open and they don't act like complete skanks, (although 99% of pro girls have been great to me LOL) but SA is a numbers game in the messaging. And have boundaries. They know what they're there for, and you do as well.

If he really doesn't want to pay, a lot of the regular SBs on seeking are also on dating apps and fetlife (and on fetlife you get some great NSFW pics). Some are pretty straight up about it. Just got to know what you're looking for. But, let's face it, most regular guys are lazy af haha.

**Irwin18** · 11-15-23 18:50

Pic seller, but claims she'll meet for $300. Don't believe it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-3ca11fc310b4

**Member #6729** · 11-14-23 20:05

Originally Posted by Mcrud56 [View Original Post]

Honestly valid, just didn't think you all were forking out money just to send messages. I don't have a problem dropping cash on these girls, but I definitely would want a return on investment LOL.

The ROI is much better on SA if you have a normal amount of game or just a decent human being in general. I mean sometimes 2+ hours with these girls all holes open and they don't act like complete skanks, (although 99% of pro girls have been great to me LOL) but SA is a numbers game in the messaging. And have boundaries. They know what they're there for, and you do as well.

**PoonHound1969** · 11-14-23 14:47

Originally Posted by Mcrud56 [View Original Post]

Honestly valid, just didn't think you all were forking out money just to send messages. I don't have a problem dropping cash on these girls, but I definitely would want a return on investment LOL.

Yes, the only way to message is through a paid premium.

**Marko Ramius** · 11-14-23 10:50

Originally Posted by Papicho [View Original Post]

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She has borderline personality, probably soon to be homeless.

Probably half to two thirds of the girls I meet off of SA have mental health issues of one sort or another. I don't know if you can extrapolate that to society in general (although a lot of people these days are obviously messed up) or if SA or SB is just where a girl is likely to land if she is too dysfunctional to work at a strip club or escort.

I've been doing the sugaring thing off and on for about fifteen years. It seems to me that there are more girls who are seriously fucked up in the head these days than there were before. But that is a small sample size and there were no shortage of nutjobs when I started doing this in 2008 and 2009.

Recently I was in communications with an (apparently) pretty cute 20 yo off of SB. We were chatting on text and basically it came down to she wasn't willing to meet, or wasn't willing to meet very often, or could only meet for ten or fifteen minutes at a time. She said this was because of her severe anxiety and panic attacks when she was in public. On the other hand she was polite and respectful when I politely explained to her that there was no way any money was going to change hands unless we met in the flesh. Also it was pretty obvious that her expectations for compensation were outside of my comfort zone. Blocked and moved on.

**Papicho** · 11-14-23 02:58

Originally Posted by RomanticIdiot [View Original Post]

She is a scammer, run away from her as far as you can. I met her at a restaurant. After dinner, she wanted to go to QFC to get a oral test kit and requested money. I obliged, gave her 200 (stupid I know) and told her I would be coming with her. However, I couldn't find the parking easily and let her go into the store alone as there were other cars behind honking at me and I was nervous.

By the time I parked my car, I was sure it was a scam. Lo and behold I got this exact message from her after 5 minutes.

I left out the back door, I parked in the qfcparking lot and am on my way home, I'm sorry but I am fleeing from a DV situation and needed the help. I live in south Tacoma and it is going to be a two hour drive, I'm so sorry. I don't want to waste anymore of your time, thank you for the donation. You saved me and my kid.

In hindsight, there were lot of red flags but I ignored as I was new to this experience.

She also asked me for money after the restaurant I told her no money until I see you naked, she bailed.

She has borderline personality, probably soon to be homeless.

**Member #6729** · 11-13-23 19:09

Originally Posted by Mcrud56 [View Original Post]

Hello fellow mongers. I'm trying to get more into the non pro game, but I can't seem to figure out how to use SA without spending my entire paycheck. Do you all really fork out that kinda $$ for sending messages? If anyone could help / pm me some info on how to get started or what I'm doing wrong I'd be willing to trade a few numbers I got from some "pros" in the bb forum.

SA you just pay the one time fee of $ninety to send as many messages as you want per month. If ninety buckets is your entire paycheck, you're shit out of luck. If ninety bones is your entire paycheck, putang should be the last thing on your mind. Look over this forum, new guys always expecting the other dudes to keep repeating the same thing over and over because they're too slow in the brain not go a couple pages back.