Non Pro's

[TnaPorter]

I've been in this situation before. In fact I never understood why men would say the don't pay for sex they pay them to go away, until I found myself in the situation. Just be careful with mixing your two lives. The crazy ones are out there and they definitely don't like letting go when they think they have a good thing going.

This definitely hits home. I hooked up with this girl a few months ago and I was really nice to her. But I wasn't all that into her and I told her this many times. She seemed ok with it, simply texting me every couple weeks to say hi and what not, then all the sudden she got really angry at me for "leading her on" and what not. She messaged every friend, family member, or loose acquaintance she could find to tell them about how I'm a sexual predator or whatever.

What shocked me most is how many women responded to her and actually told her personal information about us. I mean, this woman who they did not know just messaged them out of nowhere and many of them were willing to have discussions with her until they realized she was just obsessed.

Anyway, I'm single and divorced, but all of this just reinforces why paying is such a better deal.

[Madmaxon]

Fetlife is a good place to get ladies desperate for sexual attention, I have been lucky with several hot dates, the only problem with fetlife in my opinion are mainly two.

1- You don't really know if that lady is cheating on her husband and.

2- You won't always find the woman you like willing to fuck with you, so you should fuck what makes it easier for you.

But at least it's free.

I've been in this situation before. In fact I never understood why men would say the don't pay for sex they pay them to go away, until I found myself in the situation. Just be careful with mixing your two lives. The crazy ones are out there and they definitely don't like letting go when they think they have a good thing going.

[DelToro]

100% this. I had an offer in with a potential sugar baby and she upped the amount by $500 per month over what I offered I said Okay but she never found the time so I ended up getting back on the site and found my unicorn sugar baby situation for less money in a monthly allowance than I initially offered the potential one.

It's crazy how one guy will change their view of reality.

And the problem is that many of the guys making crazy promises are new. Eager to get laid, but quickly realize that what they offered is not sustainable, but by then it is too late.

Too bad they do not get to do some research before jumping in. It is a good advice for whenever you join a new group or activity, observe before participating, but well

[MaCross19]

It's crazy. Once they find one sucker to give them money, instead of realizing they basically won the lottery, they think that its normal. It's like the one morning I left my house in West Seattle and drove to Microsoft and got there in about 25 minutes. After that, I expected to always get from home to Microsoft in about 25 minutes. It never came close to happening again.

There is one potential SB that I've been interested in for about 2 years now. We meet up regularly, but she always wants too much and I get "lousy fuck" vibe from her constantly. Last time I saw her she gained about 40-50 lbs but had a SD that was buying her cars, taking her on trips, etc. ,. We spoke last week and she told me her SD was arrested and convicted for stealing investment funds and was using those funds to buy her stuff. She had to testify in court about her relationship with him. After he was put in prison, the people he stole money from went after her for everything he bought her with the stolen money. She gave it back because she didn't want to spend months / years in court fighting for it. So, what do you think her opening bid to me for being her SD? Well, I need to buy her a car and take her on trips regularly as well as provide a monthly allowance. So, I guess I'll hear from her in about 6 months again and we'll have the same worthless conversation.

100% this. I had an offer in with a potential sugar baby and she upped the amount by $500 per month over what I offered I said Okay but she never found the time so I ended up getting back on the site and found my unicorn sugar baby situation for less money in a monthly allowance than I initially offered the potential one.

It's crazy how one guy will change their view of reality.

[Michael1967]

She has been on and off SA for years.

Her original SA username was also sunshineshan.

I fucked the hell out of her when she first join SA, she was in great shape, could host, had a great attitude and a reasonable arrangement, but then she got into cuddling and met a few guys that shower her with money so she became too demanding, apparently a guy made her an offer she could not resist and demanded monogamy and she cut me off.

When later she came back to SA, I contacted her and she said I did not offer enough. She demanded a bit of a crazy monthly arrangement.

It was great while it lasted

It's crazy. Once they find one sucker to give them money, instead of realizing they basically won the lottery, they think that its normal. It's like the one morning I left my house in West Seattle and drove to Microsoft and got there in about 25 minutes. After that, I expected to always get from home to Microsoft in about 25 minutes. It never came close to happening again.

There is one potential SB that I've been interested in for about 2 years now. We meet up regularly, but she always wants too much and I get "lousy fuck" vibe from her constantly. Last time I saw her she gained about 40-50 lbs but had a SD that was buying her cars, taking her on trips, etc. ,. We spoke last week and she told me her SD was arrested and convicted for stealing investment funds and was using those funds to buy her stuff. She had to testify in court about her relationship with him. After he was put in prison, the people he stole money from went after her for everything he bought her with the stolen money. She gave it back because she didn't want to spend months / years in court fighting for it. So, what do you think her opening bid to me for being her SD? Well, I need to buy her a car and take her on trips regularly as well as provide a monthly allowance. So, I guess I'll hear from her in about 6 months again and we'll have the same worthless conversation.

[DelToro]

She is also on a cuddle site and I saw her years ago as a cuddler. I tried for extras but never had success back then. The big mole / skintag on her chest always bugged me.

https://cuddlecompanions.org/cuddler/sunshineshan/

She has been on and off SA for years.

Her original SA username was also sunshineshan.

I fucked the hell out of her when she first join SA, she was in great shape, could host, had a great attitude and a reasonable arrangement, but then she got into cuddling and met a few guys that shower her with money so she became too demanding, apparently a guy made her an offer she could not resist and demanded monogamy and she cut me off.

When later she came back to SA, I contacted her and she said I did not offer enough. She demanded a bit of a crazy monthly arrangement.

It was great while it lasted

[BuckNaked123]

SkyeBlue.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-1b6759714d42

Bigger in person $500 but decent skills. Too high of a price point to make things worth it. Can't host.

She is also on a cuddle site and I saw her years ago as a cuddler. I tried for extras but never had success back then. The big mole / skintag on her chest always bugged me.

https://cuddlecompanions.org/cuddler/sunshineshan/

[Wilier10]

So I have a Fetlife profile. I set it up in early 2020 during covid. I'm pretty honest about it and what I'm looking for, though I do make it sound classy & sincere vs making it sound like I'm a dysfunctional pervert. In that time it's yielded some results, with 2 meet ups that turned into hook ups.

The first involved a lot of enthusiastic BBJ from a woman who could not get enough cum down her throat. It was really awesome and I pretty much made her milk me 2 to 3 times per week and she pretty much did every time when we met. The only drawbacks were:

1) she lived relatively far away. I'm on the eastside, in the Redmond / Bellevue / Issaquah area, and she in West Seattle. This meant that getting together takes time & planning.

2) she traveled frequently and out of town for about 65% of time.

3) she was a large BBW, old (in her 40's), with lots of tattoos, all 3 are my least favorites traits, meaning I was not physically attracted to her, so it took quite a bit of coaxing to get me aroused.

As much as the unlimited and enthusiastic as the BBJs were, I mean despite her hat trick of my least favorite traits she still got me to fill her throat, I eventually let this fade away. I stopped seeing her about 10 months ago, but just last week she texted me asking how I was doing. I'm chatting but I'm not interested in hooking up again.

The most recent contacted me late last week. We chatted over the weekend. On Monday afternoon we hooked up. She's in her 20's, chubby but I wouldn't say she's fat. Average looks, certainly not ugly. Anyway like the other one she cannot suck enough cum from my cock. She's texting me several times a day, asking a lot of questions about me and sexting. It's to the point now that I cannot open her texts at work in case there's a photo of her open pussy lips or tits. Best of all, she lives 10 minutes away from me so meeting up has been very easy.

She is a freak. We hooked up on Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and yesterday (Friday) morning where she feasted on my cock while asking me to finger her clit & starfish. There's so much grool that I keep a towel in the car to wipe off my hands, which by the way smell like pussy all day afterwards. And again she's texting me this morning about when I might have time this weekend.

Anyway I know that this sounds TGTBT. I'm still trying to figure it out myself. But for no $ investment whatsoever I'd say that this has paid off for me.

Fetlife is a good place to get ladies desperate for sexual attention, I have been lucky with several hot dates, the only problem with fetlife in my opinion are mainly two.

1- You don't really know if that lady is cheating on her husband and.

2- You won't always find the woman you like willing to fuck with you, so you should fuck what makes it easier for you.

But at least it's free.

[NYTransplant1]

User 'Mickie' - https://members.seeking.com/member/c...?locale=en_USS.

I missed the now obvious warning sign that this one was a bit unhinged going off of the short novel length profile she has written up and changes most every single day. That said, chatted her up, moved to text, grabbed dinner, dinner turned to drinks at a second spot and had an overall solid meet'and'greet. And then basically straight downhill.

She never stopped texting. And leaving voice chats. Started inviting me to events with her friends. And her birthday getaway next weekend. Just moving at 100 mph without any brakes. Wanted to meet the next day and managed to push her off, but eventually gave in to her asks to come over to my place two days after our first meet. Talked a big game about sex but turns out she's extremely inexperienced. Very limited for acceptable positions, speed, depth, etc. When I say limited. A kneeling missionary with her legs up was 'too much. ' Nothing even remotely kinky. Insisted on being held and cuddled for long stretches of time. When she finally left, the texts began right back up. Got busy with work yesterday and had twenty nine separate minute long voice messages from her along with about two dozen texts. At least handled my polite response that we were not compatible by simply blocking me. Hoping I don't wake up to slashed tires in the near future.

Tl; DR. She's cute and is not looking for direct financial assistance. Just nice dates. But terrible in bed and borderline unhinged levels of clingy.

[Maui Glory]

So I have a Fetlife profile. I set it up in early 2020 during covid. I'm pretty honest about it and what I'm looking for, though I do make it sound classy & sincere vs making it sound like I'm a dysfunctional pervert. In that time it's yielded some results, with 2 meet ups that turned into hook ups.

The first involved a lot of enthusiastic BBJ from a woman who could not get enough cum down her throat. It was really awesome and I pretty much made her milk me 2 to 3 times per week and she pretty much did every time when we met. The only drawbacks were:

1) she lived relatively far away. I'm on the eastside, in the Redmond / Bellevue / Issaquah area, and she in West Seattle. This meant that getting together takes time & planning.

2) she traveled frequently and out of town for about 65% of time.

3) she was a large BBW, old (in her 40's), with lots of tattoos, all 3 are my least favorites traits, meaning I was not physically attracted to her, so it took quite a bit of coaxing to get me aroused.

As much as the unlimited and enthusiastic as the BBJs were, I mean despite her hat trick of my least favorite traits she still got me to fill her throat, I eventually let this fade away. I stopped seeing her about 10 months ago, but just last week she texted me asking how I was doing. I'm chatting but I'm not interested in hooking up again.

The most recent contacted me late last week. We chatted over the weekend. On Monday afternoon we hooked up. She's in her 20's, chubby but I wouldn't say she's fat. Average looks, certainly not ugly. Anyway like the other one she cannot suck enough cum from my cock. She's texting me several times a day, asking a lot of questions about me and sexting. It's to the point now that I cannot open her texts at work in case there's a photo of her open pussy lips or tits. Best of all, she lives 10 minutes away from me so meeting up has been very easy.

She is a freak. We hooked up on Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and yesterday (Friday) morning where she feasted on my cock while asking me to finger her clit & starfish. There's so much grool that I keep a towel in the car to wipe off my hands, which by the way smell like pussy all day afterwards. And again she's texting me this morning about when I might have time this weekend.

Anyway I know that this sounds TGTBT. I'm still trying to figure it out myself. But for no $ investment whatsoever I'd say that this has paid off for me.

[SeattleSwm]

FriendlySeductress.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-b3ece9b44c11

I think she has been mentioned before, she does look familiar and she said she used to live in West Seattle which matches where I think the previous reports came from.

Is her on the pictures, very good looking, we went for lunch, after that we agreed to go to a hotel, she asked to stop at her place to look after her dog. She came back into my car and started with a sob story about the dog being sad and if we could please reschedule. I was of course disappointed but did not try to make her change her mind as I have learned not to push it if I want a good experience, she then started asking for the amount we agreed if we would have gone to the hotel, for her time, I of course said hell no, she got upset, I left before she had the chance to make a scene, she did send me a couple of angry texts afterwards.

The first line of her profile says she is a woman of honestly. Apparently not!

Thanks for the update that's definitely one to avoid.

[DelToro]

FriendlySeductress.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-b3ece9b44c11

I think she has been mentioned before, she does look familiar and she said she used to live in West Seattle which matches where I think the previous reports came from.

Is her on the pictures, very good looking, we went for lunch, after that we agreed to go to a hotel, she asked to stop at her place to look after her dog. She came back into my car and started with a sob story about the dog being sad and if we could please reschedule. I was of course disappointed but did not try to make her change her mind as I have learned not to push it if I want a good experience, she then started asking for the amount we agreed if we would have gone to the hotel, for her time, I of course said hell no, she got upset, I left before she had the chance to make a scene, she did send me a couple of angry texts afterwards.

[DelToro]

I hit her up on site earlier this year and had a good conversation, but when it came to allowance she quoted me a number that was way too high.

I reached out and she never replied.

My profile is a bit graphic and I make sure to mention that I expect several hours so, some of the good references from here do not reply to me, or maybe I am not their type.

[Snooby]

Are you already logged into your Seeking account when you click the link? You can't see anything at all without doing so.

I am. Ant I also searched the Seattle area and couldn't find her.

[KitWalker1967]

I have never once been able to find girls why'all link. I've tried copying the url and clicking. This girl seems fun. I want to meet her!

Are you already logged into your Seeking account when you click the link? You can't see anything at all without doing so.