Stupid Shit In San Diego

[Sudcciv]

ANY time and EVERY time, a "provider" (of an individual "service" or a "party", etc. Asks for a "pre-payment" that does NOT involve giving cash at the door, or when the activity is going to occur, then IT IS A SCAM! EACH AND EVERY TIME!

I guess this is more of an LA thing that a San Diego thing but I've seen a few parties where they say Porn Star X,why, Z will be here. Then when you enquire they say you need to have recent test, be ok with filming and pay some money via CashApp or Venmo. Is this a way to make sure they don't get busted for prostitution? I know many would say never pre pay, but as a few of these events are reoccurring, it doesn't look like they are scamming.

[FO9999]

Put up a post talking about how fucked up we are because we protect the forum against shill accounts and you get to join them.

I tried for months to put an end to that shit and both the MGT at Spa 7 and 108 refused and worse their white nights refused. We believe very strongly in free expression, it's a value we hold dear but shill reports are not free expression, they are advertising.

As far as telling me how fucked up we are because we do something. The members of this forum are not customers, they are guests, very valuable guests who, as long as they behave as guests, are welcomed to come into our home and hang out as long as they want. However when you come into my house and put your dirty fucking feet on my sofa and then have the audacity to complain about the home you are a guest in, just like in the real world you will be shown the fucking door.

Both Spa 7 and 108 were incentivizing guys to post over the fucking top penthouse forum posts in order to advertise their places, they were told dozens of times to stop and refused. So they were shown the fucking door, if you want to tell me how bad a moderator I am for that use a PM but if you want to run down this forum then you can fucking well join them, I don't care if you were the first fucking guy that joined this site, disrespect us in our own fucking house and you have to go.

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Well said!

[Admin2]

Put up a post talking about how fucked up we are because we protect the forum against shill accounts and you get to join them.

I tried for months to put an end to that shit and both the MGT at Spa 7 and 108 refused and worse their white nights refused. We believe very strongly in free expression, it's a value we hold dear but shill reports are not free expression, they are advertising.

As far as telling me how fucked up we are because we do something. The members of this forum are not customers, they are guests, very valuable guests who, as long as they behave as guests, are welcomed to come into our home and hang out as long as they want. However when you come into my house and put your dirty fucking feet on my sofa and then have the audacity to complain about the home you are a guest in, just like in the real world you will be shown the fucking door.

Both Spa 7 and 108 were incentivizing guys to post over the fucking top penthouse forum posts in order to advertise their places, they were told dozens of times to stop and refused. So they were shown the fucking door, if you want to tell me how bad a moderator I am for that use a PM but if you want to run down this forum then you can fucking well join them, I don't care if you were the first fucking guy that joined this site, disrespect us in our own fucking house and you have to go.

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[Member #6293]

[Deleted by Admin]

Greetings Everyone,

DeadAzz posted that he/she will no longer be participating in the forum.

Pursuant to Forum Policy, I have deleted this resignation post and retired his/her membership.

Thanks,

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[NudeBeachPerv]

I guess this is more of an LA thing that a San Diego thing but I've seen a few parties where they say Porn Star X,why, Z will be here. Then when you enquire they say you need to have recent test, be ok with filming and pay some money via CashApp or Venmo. Is this a way to make sure they don't get busted for prostitution? I know many would say never pre pay, but as a few of these events are reoccurring, it doesn't look like they are scamming.

[NudeBeachPerv]

It's YaknowIpoopondicks.

That's hilarious.

I guess since Rogan is no longer in driving distance, that Jocko Willnick guy took over.

[JayLake]

The was a rumor that when famous podcaster Joe Rogan was in LA, he would drive down and get some GH time. Had nothing to do with being "gay" but Milo Yianopolous had told him that giving BJ's was the best way to get free range testosterone. That's why so many gays were so jacked. IDK the veracity but it sure is funny!

It's YaknowIpoopondicks.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Given the number of Gender-Jumpers (Men that "think" they are women-and dress as such! It would not surprise me in the least if they are the "consistent" GH occupiers!

The was a rumor that when famous podcaster Joe Rogan was in LA, he would drive down and get some GH time. Had nothing to do with being "gay" but Milo Yianopolous had told him that giving BJ's was the best way to get free range testosterone. That's why so many gays were so jacked. IDK the veracity but it sure is funny!

[Sudcciv]

Given the number of Gender-Jumpers (Men that "think" they are women-and dress as such! It would not surprise me in the least if they are the "consistent" GH occupiers!

I'm Only interested in Women, but hold no judgment about people's orientation, proclivities, kinks, or perversions.

To go along with your sound advice. You should exercise caution with the GH. Even if you see a woman enter the GH from inside, be aware someone can also enter from outside, so anyone can come in from that direction once the inner door is closed.

So, even if you see a woman go in, there is no guarantee, she won't let one of her male friends come in from the outside.

And don't forget, couples sometimes like to be in the GH together, and you don't always know why. Caution is always advised in a swinger's environment. I appreciate the advice.

[Lascivious]

I hate seeing so many deletions in the Massage forum. I don't get out nearly as much as many other mongers but I've been through the VIP era and now 108.

VIP lived up to the hype in my experience. 108 is great. They don't need any extra BS hype. They let you see a lineup and always have a lot of pretty good to great choices. It would be a shame if they get banned here.

I've joked about them never offering a discount for giving good reviews. These guys getting deleted have given me a lot of good intel.

We don't need another spa go the way of the other lucky number spa.

[MaximusKahn]

I'm Only interested in Women, but hold no judgment about people's orientation, proclivities, kinks, or perversions.

To go along with your sound advice. You should exercise caution with the GH. Even if you see a woman enter the GH from inside, be aware someone can also enter from outside, so anyone can come in from that direction once the inner door is closed.

So, even if you see a woman go in, there is no guarantee, she won't let one of her male friends come in from the outside.

And don't forget, couples sometimes like to be in the GH together, and you don't always know why. Caution is always advised in a swinger's environment. I appreciate the advice.

You may want to avoid the glory hole. I've heard from a reliable source (bartender) it is sometimes a guy there. Personally I never partook because I enjoy the visuals even more than the sensation so a GH wouldn't be enjoyable. But if that doesn't bug you, enjoy!

[NudeBeachPerv]

I just have to respond because your post if funny.

It can be tough to identify some, but once you're in a sexual situation, if you can't tell male from female, then you either like it, don't care, or need to pay closer attention or cut back on the booze.

Personally I like feminine women, so anything that looks masculine, or even too muscular is not attractive to me. Thus I'm not attracted to anything man-ly so the chances of me being "surprised" when the action gets going is very slim. The fact the guy had a sexual encounter and din't know it was male, is completely funny to me.

I find spotting the masculine women, or the men who want to be women, easy enough when you pay attention, and easier to avoid once you spotted them.

You may want to avoid the glory hole. I've heard from a reliable source (bartender) it is sometimes a guy there. Personally I never partook because I enjoy the visuals even more than the sensation so a GH wouldn't be enjoyable. But if that doesn't bug you, enjoy!

[MaximusKahn]

I just have to respond because your post if funny.

It can be tough to identify some, but once you're in a sexual situation, if you can't tell male from female, then you either like it, don't care, or need to pay closer attention or cut back on the booze.

Personally I like feminine women, so anything that looks masculine, or even too muscular is not attractive to me. Thus I'm not attracted to anything man-ly so the chances of me being "surprised" when the action gets going is very slim. The fact the guy had a sexual encounter and din't know it was male, is completely funny to me.

I find spotting the masculine women, or the men who want to be women, easy enough when you pay attention, and easier to avoid once you spotted them.

The evening started off okay. I was hanging out by the bar and a "lady" walked by. One of the guys at the bar said, "Is that I dude?

I answered that I didn't think so. "She" had kind of meaty arms and shoulders but nothing that screamed "man. " We are in San Diego so a woman could get arms and shoulders like that if she did a lot of swimming or surfing. I then passed by "her" and said "Hello" to which "she" replied with a warm smile. At this point I though "she" was a she.

Then I saw "her" sit down. Guys, if you want to be well liked by the ladies in your life, tell 'them that you know that are real ladies because their thighs flare out when they sit down. On second thought don't do that. Well, when "she" sat down, "her" thighs didn't flare out but "her" belly did. Guys tend to put the extra weight on their bellies and ladies on their thighs.

As the night progressed, "she" did a train at the side room where there used to be chairs and people would congregate to smoke and tell stories. I was standing outside with the guy from the bar watching this as if watching a car wreck (or maybe train wreck, haha) in slow motion. One of the guys who just finished joined us. He was a young guy, maybe 19 or so. The guy from the bar told him, "You just got with a dude. " He had a look of absolute horror on his face. I felt really awful for the guy, he might be traumatized for life. I told the dude from the bar that maybe he shoulda kept that to himself but he seemed to think it was funny.

Anyways, as the negative experiences seemed to outweigh the positive, I have since moved on from going to Thad's. I may revisit if word on the street is it's a cool place but I haven't been back since the pandemic.

[MaximusKahn]

From your posts here and in the Gangbang thread no doubt you've been disappointed with Jolar and Thads.

Adult Theaters and Swingers clubs are generally not good hunting grounds for Mongers who expect guaranteed great sex from attractive women.

Sorry to hear you've not been lucky in either place, but as we always say your Mileage will Vary.

I can't speak to the Adult Theaters but I can say at Thads I've only noticed two "gender-jumpers" as you call them in my many visits, and found them easy to avoid.

As mentioned in my previous posts, if older, or heavier women are not your thing, and the competition from numerous single guys bothers you, then accept the fact Thads is not for you and don't go. I've enjoyed some amazing nights that have encouraged me to go back, but every night isn't amazing and I accept the bad with the good.

Stick to our wonderful providers at the Agencies, or AMPs and enjoy the pay to play guarantee for your sexual pleasures. When you solicit the right places to your tastes, you won't be disappointed.

At least she had a real pussy to be eaten! Given that Thad's is now getting over-run with gender-jumpers (the men who "think" they are women, and dress as such! It's nice to see you found an "accommodating" Real woman! They are becoming few and far between at Thad's. There are still the obscenely OBSESE women (who have no business being naked! And those only there for the black guys. Makes for very "slim pickings" for single males to get pleasured by (and give pleasure to!

[NudeBeachPerv]

At least she had a real pussy to be eaten! Given that Thad's is now getting over-run with gender-jumpers (the men who "think" they are women, and dress as such! It's nice to see you found an "accommodating" Real woman! They are becoming few and far between at Thad's. There are still the obscenely OBSESE women (who have no business being naked! And those only there for the black guys. Makes for very "slim pickings" for single males to get pleasured by (and give pleasure to!

The evening started off okay. I was hanging out by the bar and a "lady" walked by. One of the guys at the bar said, "Is that I dude?

I answered that I didn't think so. "She" had kind of meaty arms and shoulders but nothing that screamed "man. " We are in San Diego so a woman could get arms and shoulders like that if she did a lot of swimming or surfing. I then passed by "her" and said "Hello" to which "she" replied with a warm smile. At this point I though "she" was a she.

Then I saw "her" sit down. Guys, if you want to be well liked by the ladies in your life, tell 'them that you know that are real ladies because their thighs flare out when they sit down. On second thought don't do that. Well, when "she" sat down, "her" thighs didn't flare out but "her" belly did. Guys tend to put the extra weight on their bellies and ladies on their thighs.

As the night progressed, "she" did a train at the side room where there used to be chairs and people would congregate to smoke and tell stories. I was standing outside with the guy from the bar watching this as if watching a car wreck (or maybe train wreck, haha) in slow motion. One of the guys who just finished joined us. He was a young guy, maybe 19 or so. The guy from the bar told him, "You just got with a dude. " He had a look of absolute horror on his face. I felt really awful for the guy, he might be traumatized for life. I told the dude from the bar that maybe he shoulda kept that to himself but he seemed to think it was funny.

Anyways, as the negative experiences seemed to outweigh the positive, I have since moved on from going to Thad's. I may revisit if word on the street is it's a cool place but I haven't been back since the pandemic.