NoVA SugarBabies

**Jost815** · 01-01-23 23:41

She has been off and on the site for a long time now. I met her for lunch a couple years ago. Very pretty and epic all natural tits but we didn't hit it off and she is apparently looking for a "good connection".

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-0e1458843f9f#x.

**Jost815** · 01-01-23 23:38

Search the forum for "LifeofLexi" and you will see some results. I messaged with her a couple years ago and she was underage at the time so I ended communication immediately. I would imagine she is 18-19 now but who knows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-dc35fb6c1dd6

Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]

This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-dc35fb6c1dd6.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-01-23 17:47

Originally Posted by ChiefQueef [View Original Post]

What's up with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-98ea3f5b3014

I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.

Texted this one on her older page. She wanted to be paid for the meet and greet. I refused, so we didn't meet.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-01-23 17:37

Originally Posted by ChiefQueef [View Original Post]

What's up with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-98ea3f5b3014

I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.

Texted this one on her older page. She wanted to be paid for the meet and greet. I refused, so we didn't meet.

**CuriousVaMan** · 01-01-23 13:54

Yea, I don't know if she's real. I;'m in contact with her via text. Wanted to meetup that night, sent some nudes pics, then comms went sporadic.

Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]

This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-dc35fb6c1dd6.

**Member #7156** · 01-01-23 13:14

Originally Posted by ChiefQueef [View Original Post]

What's up with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-98ea3f5b3014

I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.

Real or not, just based on the profile, it would be a hard pass for me. I don't like dealing with entitled SBs.

**ChiefQueef** · 01-01-23 12:45

What's up with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-98ea3f5b3014

I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.

**Member #7156** · 01-01-23 03:01

This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-dc35fb6c1dd6.

**GMarts018** · 12-31-22 17:22

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

I've been in the bowl for over a decade. Have a few SBs who I've been seeing for years now. SBs who have been in rotation for years are more than friends, but less than an SO.

Hard to not have an emotional connection with someone you've been banging for months or years.

The trick is to figure out which of the girls are stage 5 clingers and cut them early, and which ones have the capacity to understand boundaries. The latter are extremely hard to find, but worth keeping around.

And of course there are plenty of men who will also confuse the chemical release that comes when you meet a PYT for the first time and hit it off with her; and believe that they are in love. Once you bang enough of them, its easier to compartmentalize your sugar life with your real one.

Finally, if you're playing in the bowl because you hate your SO or real life, then the issue isn't that you've allowed yourself to become emotionally attached to your SB, it's that you're looking for an escape from your real life.

I had one SB that I would've definitely wifed up. I don't even care how we met or who else she was with LOL. It's only happened once tho.

**ProCatHunter** · 12-31-22 10:19

I've been in the bowl for over a decade. Have a few SBs who I've been seeing for years now. SBs who have been in rotation for years are more than friends, but less than an SO.

Hard to not have an emotional connection with someone you've been banging for months or years.

The trick is to figure out which of the girls are stage 5 clingers and cut them early, and which ones have the capacity to understand boundaries. The latter are extremely hard to find, but worth keeping around.

And of course there are plenty of men who will also confuse the chemical release that comes when you meet a PYT for the first time and hit it off with her; and believe that they are in love. Once you bang enough of them, its easier to compartmentalize your sugar life with your real one.

Finally, if you're playing in the bowl because you hate your SO or real life, then the issue isn't that you've allowed yourself to become emotionally attached to your SB, it's that you're looking for an escape from your real life.

Originally Posted by JackRyan1 [View Original Post]

That is spot on accurate. That's how I operated also.

Warning. Don't cross the emotional boundary, especially if married. It's a deep dark hole.

**AnonDemon69** · 12-31-22 01:15

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".

-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.

-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.

-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.

-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.

-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.

-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.

Good Luck.

Thank you for the response. It's exactly how I was thinking of operating. I am getting bombarded with messages, which is expected and shows how much in control we are in this arrangement. In other apps, the girls are the ones in control. There are also a few that are from way out of town, seems like they are fishing for online arrangements or a trip, I am just going to assume that I should stay from that. I have connected with someone that wants to meet next week, will let you guys know how it goes. She has already implied in PPM if I like her, perhaps during the same meeting.

**Dimples572** · 12-30-22 22:54

Nice chick, seemed cool and I'm pretty sure she's real. Sent me a pic with my name on it (could've been fake, who knows) but was adamant about sending half up front. Wouldn't budge and neither would I so we ended at a stalemate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-4ed752af8f85

**JackRyan1** · 12-30-22 19:06

That is spot on accurate. That's how I operated also.

Warning. Don't cross the emotional boundary, especially if married. It's a deep dark hole.

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".

-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.

-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.

-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.

-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.

-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.

-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.

Good Luck.

**Rudy Wellz** · 12-30-22 18:57

Originally Posted by AnonDemon69 [View Original Post]

New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.

Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".

-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.

-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.

-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.

-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.

-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.

-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.

Good Luck.

**Tyrex2** · 12-30-22 18:45

So I'm just guessing this might be a violation of TOS on seeking. But may also explain why some of this shit lately seems a bit odd in the chats. Apparently somebody is trying to monetize a SD screening service.