Arrangement Reports

**Baggio57** · 12-01-22 20:21

First time posting, enjoyed reading all the informative posts. I've been SB off an on for a couple years. Have chatted with but not actually met anyone yet, usually because I make it clear what I'm looking for, which is not being an ATM. I had one lady tell me she is looking to be supported financially, $50 k and an apartment that I can stay in with her and she will "give me whatever I want. " I told her that I appreciated the straightforwardness, but I couldn't help her. I'm not going to meet someone in person until we're clear on what the terms are going to be. Half the profiles seem fake too. Anyway, thought I'd contribute my two cents.

**HershelS** · 12-01-22 15:38

In the last 2 weeks, I had several experiences. I can kiss and tell with all the lousy news and get nothing back for it. On the other hand, I can trade for a potential good lead. You want free info after I dumped funds out there to boost the economy?

Originally Posted by HershelS [View Original Post]

Met another one on Seeking. Cash & Dash.

Be careful out there. Inbox for details and trade of info. Need better prospects than the ones I've been pursuing.

**Pau Ford** · 11-30-22 22:49

Thats a par 5 hole in 1! Haha.

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

No money was discussed because she just wants to get bent over. They always say that one great shot in golf keeps you coming back, well this might be my par 5 eagle.

**DynoJr** · 11-30-22 22:08

Originally Posted by TheArgent [View Original Post]

When this happens to me, I reply like so: "I understand why you'd like to get all you can from a relationship. But mutually beneficial relationships involve *mutual benefits*. I'm getting dinner with you because I like and respect you and it's a pleasure, but if this is the kind of benefit I'm getting out of the relationship I'm lucky to be in a situation where I don't need to settle."

Best alternative to no agreement.

My alternative is a hot bi sexual model that I just met today. No money was discussed because she just wants to get bent over. They always say that one great shot in golf keeps you coming back, well this might be my par 5 eagle.

**TheArgent** · 11-30-22 12:28

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

Had a good casual meet yesterday with one I met on SB. Good girl, nice body but a little green. Now the negotiations have already started. What's the phrase, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate? Well I'm getting asked for 4 bills and she wants it on even casual meets. I'll probably get through this but I fear I'll have same experience as you.

When this happens to me, I reply like so: "I understand why you'd like to get all you can from a relationship. But mutually beneficial relationships involve *mutual benefits*. I'm getting dinner with you because I like and respect you and it's a pleasure, but if this is the kind of benefit I'm getting out of the relationship I'm lucky to be in a situation where I don't need to settle."

**ChewChad** · 11-30-22 12:02

Originally Posted by HershelS [View Original Post]

Met another one on Seeking. Cash & Dash.

Be careful out there. Inbox for details and trade of info. Need better prospects than the ones I've been pursuing.

If you got robbed you should tell us by who, keeping that as info to trade doesn't feel very much in a helping each other spirit. We need to know who the scammers and even worse the robbers are.

**StanKost** · 11-30-22 01:24

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

She did the exact same w / me. Message first, right to text, called me hun, LOL. I started to push a bit to get past the small talk and got this (canned I'm sure) reply:

"Looking for a good connection, good sex and lots of spoiling. Would prefer someone that's going to be able to support me financially (nails, hair, emergency bills). And we can be short term, long term or NSA, it's up to you! And if you can't meet this time around, I'd rather not waste my time and do some online play / get paid for nudes and videos to make up for lost time. Always down to travel / fly to you any given weekend. My PPM is usually 4-500 when we meet and have fun. No overnight stays unless you're willing to pay double the price, or until we form a solid and trusting connection. ".

I played along just for kicks and she said she was babysitting today with family but is available Thurs. Sun. Safe IMO to say she's either a pro, or a scammer laying the groundwork for a later deposit scam attempt.

She is consistent about the time frame. She told me she is babysitting on Wednesday but can meet Thursday- Saturday and flying to her "college" town on Sunday. I feel she is a pic and video seller or a scammer of some sort.

**Pau Ford** · 11-30-22 00:35

She did the exact same w / me. Message first, right to text, called me hun, LOL. I started to push a bit to get past the small talk and got this (canned I'm sure) reply:

"Looking for a good connection, good sex and lots of spoiling. Would prefer someone that's going to be able to support me financially (nails, hair, emergency bills). And we can be short term, long term or NSA, it's up to you! And if you can't meet this time around, I'd rather not waste my time and do some online play / get paid for nudes and videos to make up for lost time. Always down to travel / fly to you any given weekend. My PPM is usually 4-500 when we meet and have fun. No overnight stays unless you're willing to pay double the price, or until we form a solid and trusting connection. ".

I played along just for kicks and she said she was babysitting today with family but is available Thurs. Sun. Safe IMO to say she's either a pro, or a scammer laying the groundwork for a later deposit scam attempt.

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2355358d8952

This one looks good, may be TGTBT. She messaged me first, moved to text right away, favorited me and called me "hun". All signs of a pro which I don't mind but wonder if she is a scammer. Anyone seen her?

**MongolMonger** · 11-30-22 00:34

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2355358d8952

This one looks good, may be TGTBT. She messaged me first, moved to text right away, favorited me and called me "hun". All signs of a pro which I don't mind but wonder if she is a scammer. Anyone seen her?

Haven't met yet but she quoted me 5 for PPM, almost guaranteed she's a pro but texts seem nice enough and pictures definitely enticing. Want to find more out about the menu before I commit, but if I end up seeing her I'll report back.

**HershelS** · 11-29-22 22:49

Met another one on Seeking. Cash & Dash.

Be careful out there. Inbox for details and trade of info. Need better prospects than the ones I've been pursuing.

**HershelS** · 11-29-22 22:45

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2355358d8952

This one looks good, may be TGTBT. She messaged me first, moved to text right away, favorited me and called me "hun". All signs of a pro which I don't mind but wonder if she is a scammer. Anyone seen her?

She failed her photo verification request.

**StanKost** · 11-29-22 22:27

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2355358d8952

This one looks good, may be TGTBT. She messaged me first, moved to text right away, favorited me and called me "hun". All signs of a pro which I don't mind but wonder if she is a scammer. Anyone seen her?

**Halcyanon** · 11-29-22 21:26

Anyone know if it's possible to change the setting that automatically purges messages after 180 days? Or know a quick way to archive all messages without clicking into each convo 1 by 1?

**DMichaels69** · 11-29-22 20:38

And hopefully the lesson you taught them is not lost to them.

Originally Posted by BaltoMan66 [View Original Post]

Of course, people have asked me for money for social meetings. I explain to them that I bet they have friends. I then say that you are here because you want something more than what your friends give you. You want the talk, the fun, the vibes, but you want extra. You want a financial benefit too. Then I ask them to explain why I should give extra (money) when I'm not getting my extra. I explain that I have people to have dinner with, etc. So why would / should I pay you to pay for dinner too. I also explain that if you aren't willing to invest the time to see if we have a vibe then for some reason you think your time is more valuable than mine. Which frankly is ironic since I'm the one with the money here. Lots of these ladies disappear after that back and forth, but at least I teach them a bit about how this works. Too many newbys read about guys giving them thousands of dollars to have a drink with them. I tell them, maybe that guy is out there, but it's not me. I'm not desperate for company to the point of paying you to sit with me. I reward action.

If she disappears on you, at least give her a lesson on how it works. That way she can think it over, and when she comes back she will understand that to receive, you have to give.

Good luck!

**BaltoMan66** · 11-29-22 20:25

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

Had a good casual meet yesterday with one I met on SB. Good girl, nice body but a little green. Now the negotiations have already started. What's the phrase, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate? Well I'm getting asked for 4 bills and she wants it on even casual meets. I'll probably get through this but I fear I'll have same experience as you.

Of course, people have asked me for money for social meetings. I explain to them that I bet they have friends. I then say that you are here because you want something more than what your friends give you. You want the talk, the fun, the vibes, but you want extra. You want a financial benefit too. Then I ask them to explain why I should give extra (money) when I'm not getting my extra. I explain that I have people to have dinner with, etc. So why would / should I pay you to pay for dinner too. I also explain that if you aren't willing to invest the time to see if we have a vibe then for some reason you think your time is more valuable than mine. Which frankly is ironic since I'm the one with the money here. Lots of these ladies disappear after that back and forth, but at least I teach them a bit about how this works. Too many newbys read about guys giving them thousands of dollars to have a drink with them. I tell them, maybe that guy is out there, but it's not me. I'm not desperate for company to the point of paying you to sit with me. I reward action.

If she disappears on you, at least give her a lesson on how it works. That way she can think it over, and when she comes back she will understand that to receive, you have to give.

Good luck!