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**Twisted69** · 05-26-22 20:12

Originally Posted by CincyShawn513 [View Original Post]

That's my take as well. It is such a weird flex. I mean I worked security at diamonds for years. I've also had next to fwbs relationships with alot of "working girls". I can tell the "big spenders". It doesn't get you any added respect. With most of these girls the more you're willing to spend the more pathetic they think you are. I think some guys think it works the other way around. But it doesn't. Sometimes I think guys who have that kind of money to blow enjoy doing so as a signalling thing. And it backfires in this hobby. You're seen as a mark. An easy target. If some of these big spenders could only hear the way these girls talk about them behind their backs. No hole is worth 1,000 dollars. To me it's not worth half that. But it's never been hard for me to get it for free. I just don't like seeing guys get taken advantage of. But if spending that kind of money isn't hurting them, and they're happy to do so, then it's their decision I guess.

The scariest thing is that if the provider would spiral downhill, they know you are a mark for a grand and an easy target for a pimp.

**CincyShawn513** · 05-26-22 17:54

Originally Posted by MarblesKyle [View Original Post]

I actually think discussing outrageous pricing is incredibly helpful. You caving in to pay ladies what they think they are worth is not. It must be nice to have that kind of money to throw around. What a weird flex.

I will be one of the men that finds a reasonable middle ground between what a lady is actually worth and what she thinks she is worth. If I can't find that I'll jerk off or bang my SO. No hole is worth 1 k an hour, but it's your money my guy.

That's my take as well. It is such a weird flex. I mean I worked security at diamonds for years. I've also had next to fwbs relationships with alot of "working girls". I can tell the "big spenders". It doesn't get you any added respect. With most of these girls the more you're willing to spend the more pathetic they think you are. I think some guys think it works the other way around. But it doesn't. Sometimes I think guys who have that kind of money to blow enjoy doing so as a signalling thing. And it backfires in this hobby. You're seen as a mark. An easy target. If some of these big spenders could only hear the way these girls talk about them behind their backs. No hole is worth 1,000 dollars. To me it's not worth half that. But it's never been hard for me to get it for free. I just don't like seeing guys get taken advantage of. But if spending that kind of money isn't hurting them, and they're happy to do so, then it's their decision I guess.

**WanderingAbout** · 05-26-22 13:56

Originally Posted by MikeJones1313 [View Original Post]

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**MarblesKyle** · 05-26-22 11:30

Originally Posted by LuckyNutz [View Original Post]

Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.

I actually think discussing outrageous pricing is incredibly helpful. You caving in to pay ladies what they think they are worth is not. It must be nice to have that kind of money to throw around. What a weird flex.

I will be one of the men that finds a reasonable middle ground between what a lady is actually worth and what she thinks she is worth. If I can't find that I'll jerk off or bang my SO. No hole is worth 1 k an hour, but it's your money my guy.

**MikeJones1313** · 05-26-22 10:45

Originally Posted by BTBear [View Original Post]

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**MikeJones1313** · 05-26-22 09:54

Originally Posted by DrDave39 [View Original Post]

"All-American"- they hate tall, blond, handsome guys with small peni and lots of dinero!

Or maybe "African-Ameican"? I get confused sometimes.

Well, good thing I am none of those I guess LOL.

**Numbnutts** · 05-26-22 09:40

Originally Posted by BobbyLinn [View Original Post]

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Definitely African American. The funny thing is on some of their posted ad photos they are riding BBC and even BB quite often.

**Bobby Linn** · 05-26-22 09:26

Originally Posted by MikeJones1313 [View Original Post]

I see this a lot in ads, "no AA guys" what does this mean? Its not in the abbreviations tab.

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**DrDave39** · 05-26-22 06:47

Originally Posted by MikeJones1313 [View Original Post]

I see this a lot in ads, "no AA guys" what does this mean? Its not in the abbreviations tab.

"All-American"- they hate tall, blond, handsome guys with small peni and lots of dinero!

Or maybe "African-Ameican"? I get confused sometimes.

**CincyShawn513** · 05-25-22 21:26

Originally Posted by LuckyNutz [View Original Post]

Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.

Save up a grand a week to see that special lady lolol. Some guys, and providers are so disconnected with how few and far between the men are who have more than a few hundred bucks a month. Also. Most the men who have a g to blow, probably don't have to pay for it directly like that. I mean you're free to spend whatever you like. I think some guys like spending that much as a status symbol or they think the girl will fall in love with them or something. If it's worth that to you, I'm happy for you. I wouldn't spend a grand on any woman. I wouldn't spend half that. I'm more a hundred or less kinda guy. That's what I can spend, and still respect myself. But everyone is different, and although I think guys who are willing to overpay are ruining the market. It is your right.

**Todd Cincy** · 05-25-22 18:27

Originally Posted by LuckyNutz [View Original Post]

Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.

There is a long history of collective consumer action to bring about changes in a market. Not just in the hobby, but in other sectors as well. As long as it's done on a peaceful, voluntary basis, there is no ethical conflict.

I'm glad that you're happy about paying inflated prices. (You must be absolutely giddy about gas prices.).

You're free to keep paying them. Why stop at $1 K, though? Why not go to $5 K? Imagine how good the lady will feel then!

Meanwhile, the rest of us will stop rewarding price gouging (or rewarding it less). That might help the gullible hold on to more of their money.

**Kenal1** · 05-25-22 12:06

Originally Posted by MikeJones1313 [View Original Post]

I see this a lot in ads, "no AA guys" what does this mean? Its not in the abbreviations tab.

AA stands for African Americans.

**JimLastLong1** · 05-25-22 11:52

Originally Posted by MikeJones1313 [View Original Post]

I see this a lot in ads, "no AA guys" what does this mean? Its not in the abbreviations tab.

Should mean, African Americans. AA.

**LuckyNutz** · 05-25-22 11:09

Originally Posted by ToddCincy [View Original Post]

Right now, restaurants are still paying $500 signing bonuses. Anyone who wants a vanilla job can get it, and probably make twice what they could have made prior to the pandemic.

This is why most of the escorts you see on Tryst are ones who have been around for years, from Taylor Nikole (more than 10 years, if you count her 'Delicious Dawn' days) to Ryann, Carmen, and Jessiek. You are not seeing any new faces because they are all working at restaurants and making what stockbrokers made in 2019. (Slight tongue-in-cheek, but you get the point.) Or they're still living on banked COVID relief money.

At some point, the demand for labor in the private sector will bottom out. Those 47 million who quit their jobs last year may have trouble finding new ones, when the COVID relief money runs out. There are also signs that the pent-up consumer demand from the pandemic months may be flattening out, as well. That will decrease the demand for labor.

When that happens, the mediocre girls who are charging $450 on Tryst will get some competition. When supply goes up, and demand holds constant, prices decrease.

You can't do anything about the supply. But you *can* do something about demand. Less demand also = lower prices, all things being equal ("ceteris paribus", as an economist would say).

This is why you're part of the problem if you're paying $500 for this:

https://tryst.link/escort/lilredrideithood

Or $400 for this:

https://tryst.link/escort/dawn-bristow

Either of those two girls is a $200 girl by pre-pandemic standards.

Likewise, I really want to see Ivy Fleur:

https://theivyfleur.com/gallery/

But Ivy Fleur is a longtime veteran of the industry (another face that is definitely not "new") and she's charging $1,000 per appointment. I could come up with the money. But I'm just not going to do that. I don't want to reward blatant price-gouging.

Experience tells me that the economy, and the supply / demand equation in the hobby market will change. I started dabbling in the hobby in the 1990's, and I've seen many cycles of good and bad markets. Right now, I am going to hold on to my money, and wait for a better market. It will come. In the meantime, don't pay $400 for an overweight 40-year-old who was seeing guys for $150 a few years ago.

Highly disagree on many of the aspects. Continuously complaining about what ladies feel they are worth is not helpful. You can choose to see someone who is cheap or you can save up and spend money on someone you see once a week. The last time I was in Cincy which was two weeks, I spent nearly $1 k on a lady that didn't want to be reviewed. I will be one of the men that is willing to pay a lady what she feels is worth. You can swipe next and move on.