Stupid Shit In San Diego

[RChangDatyKing]

I agree with both. There are guys on here that don't post much at all and I exchange information with them daily because I know their intel are solid. We all have to start somewhere with our first post so why not review a beauty from a top spa. I'm not going to a granny shop and post about that for my first review. We just need to see if these first time posters continue contributing or if they are just fakes. The fakes are probably senior members with multiple handles going at once. These are the yahoos I'm more suspicious about because they have agendas. You can see it in their reviews (how they write, make certain references) how they take slight jabs at other spas when reviewing a certain establishment or girl.

Maybe some reviews are written by the girls or MMS, but if it stops after just one review then we'll know. If reviews continue to flow in like for Petra, Kimberly6969, Mina, Eva, Mia then we know the girls are real.

It's not the name of the spa that makes me frequent an establishment. I will go where my favorites are or where I know the hotties are going. It's also how I'm treated as a client. Does the establishment do bait and switch, short me on time, etc.

I just ignore the drama!

I agree it's ridiculous. I feel like it's very hard to tell what's real and what's not anymore. I get where you're coming from with limiting posts but at the same time don't. Not all of us are acting a fool on here. Yes I haven't contributed a ton but I also don't partake very often.

Fellas can we agree that the drama between the various FS spas is insane? The constant shilling on here by users with 1-2 posts is ridiculous- in some cases it's clearly a massage girl or MMS making the posts under new accounts. Now we have screenshots in the massage forum of people reporting Spas to the police!? What the fuck is going on? Is there some way we can limit the posting ability of new members or something because it's getting out of control.

[ADwightSchrute]

Agreed. I must have missed the pics calling out spas but the shill first time posters with limited English are a dead give away. Its actually working against them in my opinion. When I see a post like that, I now know what provider to avoid.

Exactly. Couldn't have said it better.

[RolfTorren]

Agreed. I must have missed the pics calling out spas but the shill first time posters with limited English are a dead give away. Its actually working against them in my opinion. When I see a post like that, I now know what provider to avoid.

Fellas can we agree that the drama between the various FS spas is insane? The constant shilling on here by users with 1-2 posts is ridiculous- in some cases it's clearly a massage girl or MMS making the posts under new accounts. Now we have screenshots in the massage forum of people reporting Spas to the police!? What the fuck is going on? Is there some way we can limit the posting ability of new members or something because it's getting out of control.

[MilfLoverr]

Fellas can we agree that the drama between the various FS spas is insane? The constant shilling on here by users with 1-2 posts is ridiculous- in some cases it's clearly a massage girl or MMS making the posts under new accounts. Now we have screenshots in the massage forum of people reporting Spas to the police!? What the fuck is going on? Is there some way we can limit the posting ability of new members or something because it's getting out of control.

I agree it's ridiculous. I feel like it's very hard to tell what's real and what's not anymore. I get where you're coming from with limiting posts but at the same time don't. Not all of us are acting a fool on here. Yes I haven't contributed a ton but I also don't partake very often.

[Waylay]

Fellas can we agree that the drama between the various FS spas is insane? The constant shilling on here by users with 1-2 posts is ridiculous- in some cases it's clearly a massage girl or MMS making the posts under new accounts. Now we have screenshots in the massage forum of people reporting Spas to the police!? What the fuck is going on? Is there some way we can limit the posting ability of new members or something because it's getting out of control.

[Dwykz619]

According to the Urban Dictionary, being pussy whipped is when a man loses his testicles to a woman.

A situation where he allows her to walk all over him, and control every aspect of his life.

Liking, enjoying, and seeking pussy doesn't make a man Pussy whipped.

Just being a Monger or Hobbiest is evidence enough you are not pussy whipped.

Anytime I see the term pussy whooped, I imaging being surrounded by beautiful women's vaginas, and these women air humping my face. Then I get angry at myself for having 1 tongue!

Sorry. Moving on.

[MaximusKahn]

According to the Urban Dictionary, being pussy whipped is when a man loses his testicles to a woman.

A situation where he allows her to walk all over him, and control every aspect of his life.

Liking, enjoying, and seeking pussy doesn't make a man Pussy whipped.

Just being a Monger or Hobbiest is evidence enough you are not pussy whipped.

[Ryan1979]

I learned this lesson the hard way, way back in the day w / strippers. Never loan them money based on almost certainly empty promises. If they want to earn it right away, then let's talk, otherwise GTFO w / that nonsense.

With any girl in the sex industry, that I see outside of their work environment, I make it clear that I am not a sugar daddy. This usually leads to fun conversation, but if not the red flags start waving and that girl becomes history or strictly a pleasurable business relationship. BTW I never do loans for family, friends and especially girls I hardly know. Loans break many relationships so best not to "loan" anyone you care about money.

With both spa girls or civies, if they "expect" money or luxuries from me, our friendship ends. Before anyone starts chiming in that's what all girls are looking for, I've made many long lasting friendships with both working girls and civies that insist on paying for dining, buying me things, exchanging red envelopes, etc. Just like regular friends that treat and care for each other, because we are true friends or FWB's (Friends with benefits) as I like to think of them.

On the sly side, it depends on the girl. If I sense a girl is waving their pussy carrot in front of me, I can wave that cash carrot in front of them taking advantage of their charms while never actually spending any real cash. Tit for tat.

[DragonWolf]

First lesson in hobbying- Never loan money to an escort, especially one that gives promises that next time will be better; let's get dinner, etc.

I did say my new friend is an UTR nonFS masseuse and not a GPS escort. LOL. Yeah this hottie didn't even want the tip the second appointment that I gave her a massage so she's not a GPS want-to-be escort. She's definitely an UTR candidate. LOL.

I learned this lesson the hard way, way back in the day w / strippers. Never loan them money based on almost certainly empty promises. If they want to earn it right away, then let's talk, otherwise GTFO w / that nonsense.

[Ryan1979]

No baby, but if you're ever lonely and need some good loving, I'm always here for you. Booyah!

BTW: "No" in Mandarin is pronounced Bu or Boo.

Baby steps til she pops the question batting her eyes at you!

"Baby" or "Honey" can I borrow $500?

Than she whispers we go all the way next time, than never getting all the way?

Are you going to do it?

[Ryan1979]

It takes a real man to admit they're pussy whipped. LOL! JK bro. But seriously, some of the posts are obvious who's who.

Personally I do date civi's but love women and variety. From my perspective I'm not paying these working girls to be my 1 hour or more girlfriend. I'm paying them so I can walk away no strings attached.

Stay thirsty my friend!

Hell yeah, I like to think I'm their boyfriends when we are passionately making love; and they continue to think of me even days after our sessions. Thanks for all the I miss you texts ladies. LOL.

Pussy whipped- I think we all are, otherwise why would we be paying so much money when we all can be dating a civi girl. Also I believed some of us are probably married or in relationships. Yes, Im a little pussy whipped. Lol

[AeroStartC]

First lesson in hobbying- Never loan money to an escort, especially one that gives promises that next time will be better; let's get dinner, etc.

We learn it, we teach it, and we preach it. Then wham, a few good times with a nice looking, down on her luck girl, and we do it again.

Meeting a nice looking gal outside one of the local hotel chains, led to her phone number. Shortly after that, voice and text started flowing, and our first "date" was set up. It went perfectly, and she mentioned that it was her first time going to a hotel with a guy that she had just met who was able to help her out. I found that hard to believe, but accepted. A second meeting followed, and this was better than the first.

I was out of town for a few days, and she wanted me to send her some cash via Venmo or CashApp. Red Flag. I told her that I did not use either, and was unable. She thanked me anyway. After my return, we had plans to meet again. She came up with a need for the cash that I would have paid her, needing it right away. She promised a friend was going to join us the next day in return for my advancing the cash to her. So I advanced (gave) her the cash, and immediately had a bad feeling about all of this. She never did show up, and does not answer her texts or phone now.

As in all endeavors that take years to perfect, mistakes will be made along the way. Many endeavors are very successful, but if you forget the basics, you can be hurt. The only difference between a novice and an experienced veteran, is that the vet knows how to cover up his mistakes better. LOL. Enjoy the journey gentlemen, it is a great ride.

[MaximusKahn]

The providers are in the business to make money.

If you visit a lot, it probably follows that you spend a lot, and if you also treat them very nicely they are very likely going to give you special privileges.

They'll be happy to play girl friend, and let you play boyfriend. You are a good steady source of money, and you treat them right, what's not to like about you?

If you visit them so much and treat them so well that they won't take your money, or give you money back because you tipped "too much" well I say good for you.

If you share contact information, it would only follow that they would want to have you come back and would send you texts to bring you back. Wouldn't you call a good customer back who brings money to your business?

It would not be a surprise to learn that many of the women are searching for their American White Knight, so watch out for the ones who get too close.

What ever your impression of your relationship with the girls, thanks to all the mongers who spend their time and money with the girls and share their experience in these forums.

[ADwightSchrute]

Hell yeah, I like to think I'm their boyfriends when we are passionately making love; and they continue to think of me even days after our sessions. Thanks for all the I miss you texts ladies. LOL.

Pussy whipped- I think we all are, otherwise why would we be paying so much money when we all can be dating a civi girl. Also I believed some of us are probably married or in relationships. Yes, Im a little pussy whipped. Lol

Civi pussy can have lots of baggage with it. Sometimes it's the thrill of an AMP girl that helps get you off. You get to do things you normally wouldn't do and won't be judge for it per day. Sometimes we all just want a different flavor, like a kid at ice cream store "I just want to try different flavors out. ".

[RChangDatyKing]

Baby steps til she pops the question batting her eyes at you!

"Baby" or "Honey" can I borrow $500?

Than she whispers we go all the way next time, than never getting all the way?

Are you going to do it?

First lesson in hobbying- Never loan money to an escort, especially one that gives promises that next time will be better; let's get dinner, etc.

I did say my new friend is an UTR nonFS masseuse and not a GPS escort. LOL. Yeah this hottie didn't even want the tip the second appointment that I gave her a massage so she's not a GPS want-to-be escort. She's definitely an UTR candidate. LOL.