NoVA SugarBabies

[Jbunk]

No, but I think she will definitely meet. She just came blaming covid at the time last year! I see she has put on some weight maybe though seeing through her ig. She's got a big ass I know that. I'm hoping to hear if anyone smashes it! She's def a nice person.

Did you ever get any where with this one?

[TheYoungMonger]

Did you ever get any where with this one?

Colombian au pair living in DC. Wants $300 per fuck. Never pulled the trigger, can do better for that price.

[HeyDuhman]

I'm coming up on my three month subscription on SA next week. I feel like I've met with and fucked with all the real ones who are both within my budget (up to $500 ppm) and who I'm interested in (and who are interested in me). I refuse to entertain the GPS girls no matter how hot they are. LOL and I also feel like I have standards and I'm definitely not interested much in the 6's and 7's, curvy girls or anyone older than mid-20's.

Now for several weeks every time I search SA it seems like the same 2-300 girls are active at whatever time of the day (based on my filters), most of the new ones never log in a second time and I still haven't figured out a good messaging strategy with the newbies (hardly ever get any responses from newbies). SA seems to be very much diminishing returns.

I feel like I have a decent rotation of girls right now but I can see them slowly but surely dropping off (as none of them I would consider my real long-term sugar baby. Just a NSA / PPM / FWB).

For all you long-term SA subscribers. Is it worth it? What is your long-term SA strategy like?

[Shinshi]

I've managed to find a couple gems on Seeking this month, as well as some bad ones / busts. I'm keeping one of those good times in my back pocket for now (as well as two developing leads for next week), but here's some of what I've uncovered this April. Hope this is helpful:

Nicolely88 (https://www.seeking.com/member/ad7c6...d-9e77d0185af4) - Arlington, VA.

Without repeating what's already been shared by KevinC & others (she's indeed a good time overall & really loves sex), I will add a couple observations. First, I don't recommend that anybody meets her revised asking price of 500-600. I had her for much less, so it might be dependent on how good-looking & nice you are, as well as your "game" so to speak. She doesn't seem to be hurting for money like most college kids--which leads me to believe she's on Seeking more for fun rather than supplementing her income (though doing both clearly doesn't hurt). And secondly, her personality can be off-putting to some. Her mannerisms & speech reminded me of an annoying "valley girl. " My assumption before meeting was that her extensive travels would make for some interesting conversation. But she kinda comes across as an immature, ditzy half the time. I still played nice, and it ultimately paid off in the end (both in allowance & fun in the sheets). Anyway, that's just my two cents. Haven't made up my mind yet if I'll repeat, even for the same lower allowance.

Victoria-something? (https://www.seeking.com/member/85067...c-4d9c1f08d8db) - somewhere in VA.

Really bummed when I saw this account got deactivated yesterday. 20 yo college girl with slim figure, auburn-like hair, very much girl-next-door-type with a sweet & engaging personality. Her location was listed as DC because of her fam, but she goes to school a couple hours away. Really great dialogue and a very promising lead that I looked forward to meeting. Wonder if someone else had swooped in during the two weeks trying to arrange a date, but ah well. Nature of the game.

callmeprincessava (https://www.seeking.com/member/bfaa8...8-70be402509f1) - Sterling, VA.

I had high hopes for this one, but Persian girls always seem to be the most difficult to set something up. Her location says Arlington, but she's actually in Sterling. Seems very sweet and is a major foodie. She asked for our 1st meet to be dinner closer to her place, and I readily agreed. But after three re-schedules and not wanting to talk outside of Seeking (meaning no number swap), I've just about thrown in the towel. Best of luck to whoever manages to meet!

Snowstormx (https://www.seeking.com/member/8114e...c-4aeff2853631) - DC.

This one very readily offers her cell in the first message; however, she also expressed an interest in getting to know one another over drinks at her club first. Generally, that's not a good sign: either she just wants you to buy a couple dances & that's that, or she's a pro. I didn't want to TOFTT since I had other dates arranged, so I never bothered to find out.

wallyra7890 (https://www.seeking.com/member/a5df7...a-b9d5a169a7da) - Aspen Hill, MD.

She's gotten a few semi-decent reviews in the past. Unfortunately, she told me she's "not looking for intimacy. " Could be I'm not her type, didn't like my profile, who knows? As always, YMMV--particularly on Seeking. I wished her well & moved on.

Hurricane-Sunshine (https://www.seeking.com/member/e33d5...d-0df309b17595) - Rockville, MD.

Definitely interested to hear about others' experiences with this one. I've always had a weakness for Asians, and this girl must have visited my page 7-8 x's over as many months. I shared my private photos & sent three messages, but I believe she blocked me after the most recent one. Okey-doke.

YoungOne99 (https://www.seeking.com/member/4c21b...7-8af1c10b75a8) - Glen Burnie, MD.

Another who's been positively reviewed by others. My one message was left on read sometime back, so I might try one more time once summer rolls around. If she's indeed looking for something serious though (as ProCatHunter reported), then I'll probably avoid that nonsense. Kinda curious if she's aware of this forum's existence?

Koefff3 (https://www.seeking.com/member/18df9...9-d6552b320f0a) - Manassas, VA.

I suspect this one's fake, but I'm not 100%. We had some fun banter earlier on her first profile (https://www.seeking.com/member/0a686...b-b012f1b06cca), but then that account got deactivated. When I asked her new profile what was up, she simply affirmed that she'd taken it down & didn't elaborate. We tentatively agreed to a general date & time to meet, but she ghosted the day of. Not a big deal, I figured it was TGTBT and had already set up other dates that day.

hayhay100 (https://www.seeking.com/member/be586...8-6a4308cf046d) - DC, VA, CA, who knows.

Like Koefff3, I suspect she's either fake--or possibly being selective about who she meets. The difference here was that her replies in the convo were limited to 3-4 words apiece. Despite her initially expressing interest, I wasn't getting that vibe and soon gave up.

[ShortMan22]

Anyone ever meet this one. I've been trying for months but she keeps playing the covid card but I know she's been going out and about.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d40eb...2-3ea495dcd421

Did you ever get any where with this one?

[Max #01]

That seems to be the main sub-Reddit. Others include are / SugarBABYonlyforum, are / SugarDatingForum, are / TheSugarBowlForum. One of the posts in one of these mentioned "moving over to the Discord" so the Discord might be where the discussion is taking place. About the only way to get into the Discord would be to create a new Reddit account, make a few weeks of posts and comments as an SB (so you have a post history), and then start trying to get an invite to the Discord. A lot of work, but it might pay off.

It would be interesting to get inside Discord for nothing else than to find out who are the members of the SB cabal.

[FogHorn1]

https://www.seeking.com/member/837d4...6-ae70f69f13e7

So talk to this one on Sunday. I had the day off ask if she wanted to do a M&G that day for lunch. She said no so we schedule for later in the week.

Then she hits me up for lunch money that Sunday. I told her that I don't sent money to someone I haven't met yet, and I would be happy to sent a little something after she was my Sugar. If she really want I was free to meetup within 30 mins for lunch. She started complaining that I was making her go hungry. Told her I been scam before for $30 for uber, that why I make it a rule not to sent money to anyone who I haven't met. She kept trying to push for lunch money. At this point I didn't care, if she was real or not. Told her I wasn't interested in her as a sugar anymore, if she didn't understand me wanting to wait till after the M&G to cover her lunch.

Concur that this is her MO.

Her: Do I get to order my breakfast now hun?

Me: you don't make your own breakfast?

She: want to get my favorite ordered today. What's wrong?

Me: what seems off putting is that you seem to be into making a fast buck rather than seriously exploring an arrangement.

Her: That's not it OK, I only felt I could had my favorite for breakfast.

I just stopped communicating.

She tried something similar with me. Wanted me to send her "lunch money". Told her I wasn't about to send any money EVER electronically, especially to someone I hadn't met and who refused to send a verification selfie. She kept on with the asking, almost like a guilt trip and an obvious scam. I finally just told her that having no money resulting in a few missed meals might do her some good as she was already on the heavier side of my taste anyway. I'm not normally a dick like that, and that was for sure a dick move, but the normal courtesy I go out of my way to extend to everyone I come into contact with goes out the window when someone is trying to steal from me.

[LikItFun]

Yes, are / sugarlifestyleforum is very popular.

That seems to be the main sub-Reddit. Others include are / SugarBABYonlyforum, are / SugarDatingForum, are / TheSugarBowlForum. One of the posts in one of these mentioned "moving over to the Discord" so the Discord might be where the discussion is taking place. About the only way to get into the Discord would be to create a new Reddit account, make a few weeks of posts and comments as an SB (so you have a post history), and then start trying to get an invite to the Discord. A lot of work, but it might pay off.

[Tyrex2]

One of my friends little sisters. I messaged her, but she didn't respond and went inactive pretty soon after. Would have been a real dilemma if she had haha. Also saw my best friends ex-hookup from college on there.

Was at an office for a meeting, getting coffee. In comes a cute blonde. Do a double take. I've met her as an SB a while back. A one and done but still there was a moment of recognition. She's there for an interview and shoots me back a "oh please don't say anything" look as she gets escorted down to another office. We moved to our meeting in a conference room to discuss our business. Didn't see her again. Hoping I didn't knock her off her game on the interview, LOL.

[JonFisher]

https://www.seeking.com/member/837d4...6-ae70f69f13e7

So talk to this one on Sunday. I had the day off ask if she wanted to do a M&G that day for lunch. She said no so we schedule for later in the week.

Then she hits me up for lunch money that Sunday. I told her that I don't sent money to someone I haven't met yet, and I would be happy to sent a little something after she was my Sugar. If she really want I was free to meetup within 30 mins for lunch. She started complaining that I was making her go hungry. Told her I been scam before for $30 for uber, that why I make it a rule not to sent money to anyone who I haven't met. She kept trying to push for lunch money. At this point I didn't care, if she was real or not. Told her I wasn't interested in her as a sugar anymore, if she didn't understand me wanting to wait till after the M&G to cover her lunch.

Concur that this is her MO.

Her: Do I get to order my breakfast now hun?

Me: you don't make your own breakfast?

She: want to get my favorite ordered today. What's wrong?

Me: what seems off putting is that you seem to be into making a fast buck rather than seriously exploring an arrangement.

Her: That's not it OK, I only felt I could had my favorite for breakfast.

I just stopped communicating.

[Pyty11]

Don't know about a prior thread but if it's helpful all four of these do host:

https://www.seeking.com/member/02cd2...0-bc658260d0c5

https://www.seeking.com/member/f1b3b...c-3c20d24834ec

https://www.seeking.com/member/b6004...7-a7a28a0250c2

https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8...6-2d4eb2bea8a6

NovaDaddy, sent you a DM about number 4.

[Lobsid]

https://www.seeking.com/member/837d4...6-ae70f69f13e7

So talk to this one on Sunday. I had the day off ask if she wanted to do a M&G that day for lunch. She said no so we schedule for later in the week.

Then she hits me up for lunch money that Sunday. I told her that I don't sent money to someone I haven't met yet, and I would be happy to sent a little something after she was my Sugar. If she really want I was free to meetup within 30 mins for lunch. She started complaining that I was making her go hungry. Told her I been scam before for $30 for uber, that why I make it a rule not to sent money to anyone who I haven't met. She kept trying to push for lunch money. At this point I didn't care, if she was real or not. Told her I wasn't interested in her as a sugar anymore, if she didn't understand me wanting to wait till after the M&G to cover her lunch.

[Lobsid]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc9f4...d-3d98219be1ab

Sadly, another one trying to sell me nudes and video.

[DWinthrop]

Alright guys. What has been your "oh shi, I know that girl" moment and what if anything has come from it?

One of my friends little sisters. I messaged her, but she didn't respond and went inactive pretty soon after. Would have been a real dilemma if she had haha. Also saw my best friends ex-hookup from college on there.

[FogHorn1]

In my opinion, the only reason someone who is married and looking for someone else that is married and doesn't want to text "a burner phone" is blackmailing.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...c-248e72d45087

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