Seeking Arrangements

**Rome400** · 08-27-20 09:18

Originally Posted by OtherPerson [View Original Post]

She looks like a great find for someone.
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While I would not spend 500 for a hour with any female, I know others would. Its all a numbers game and maybe 20 percent of the time my offer of 300 for 3 hours would have been accepted. You just have to put in the time. There is no new normal, there is no union, but all of these girls will ask for as much as they can get, and we will try to get it for as little as we can. Your style, is not my style we all have different styles and then some have no style and are clueless. If you are a single / divorced guy spend 600 for a plane ticket to Medellin (travel light on spirit for 300) , 300-500 for a hotel / airbnb for a week. You can bang 8's,9's all day long for 60, and you can bang 5's to 7's for as low as 12.00 for 20 minutes. My point is for 2000-2500 can fuck 25 chicks in a week that are as good looking as flowerbloom. All the info is on this boards sister site.

**Joe1223** · 08-27-20 03:21

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85...e-a4926d58e3fa

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.

My opinion. 600 for a 40+ year old is a crazy but if you are into that OK. If you want to spend that you can easily get a college girl who will be much more open to a regular thing without the wine and dining stuff. Meet her and buy the drink. Tell her you can only hang out for a short time so she isn't sitting there and getting hammered on your dime. You may realize she is not for you at 600 once you meet her but if you are doing an Incall just be careful on the first one or offer an outcall with a reduced amount to cover the room. One drink meeting can save you a lot if she isn't what she says what she is. Don't give her any money until the deed is done.

**Bran001** · 08-26-20 22:06

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85...e-a4926d58e3fa

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.

You should figure out if she wants just drinks, or drinks and go to a hotel etc if there is chemistry. You should offer to pay for her drinks, but if it's just drinks then don't pay for more than the drinks; no allowance for just a drinks date.

**SpicyPrince** · 08-26-20 20:45

Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85...e-a4926d58e3fa

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.

**Chuchunga** · 08-26-20 19:03

Originally Posted by Chuchunga [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d46b6...c-a64245f1751a

Between 400-600 ppm. Will go bare. Not bad looking for pictures are a little better put together than she is in person. Good personality. May meet again.

Actually found out has a bf. So I'd be careful of this one. Also tries to get money before meeting.

**Bran001** · 08-26-20 10:14

Originally Posted by JDogInMA [View Original Post]

I would avoid such drama in general,

No question. Ignore, and block, immediately. Some women try to prey on the 'white knight' psychology of some guys who want to "help" them. I am happy to help the ones I have an arrangement with; I help by giving them a nice donation for our time together. An extra donation when I know it's their birthday, or Christmas. But that's it. And someone I've never met in person?? NOTHING.

**JDogInMA** · 08-26-20 07:38

Originally Posted by NHMontecristo [View Original Post]

She messaged me and after I responded she gave me the exact same line, word for word.

I would avoid such drama in general, but with the same scam story cut-and-pasted, you know whoever is on the other end is trying to steal your money. Maybe you get ghosted after the transfer to "help her out" (which was plan B, plan A was taking your money for pics), or worse you get drawn in, you get milked (figuratively only) for more cash and if there's ever an in-person meet planned: She's already got the "stalking ex" storyline all set up, so don't be surprised if you are springing for the hotel ahead of time and I'd guess that the only pounding to take place will be on the hotel door scaring the sh*t out of you with some type of shakedown before any fun is had.

**KingOfFours** · 08-26-20 06:16

Originally Posted by Shyzai [View Original Post]

in my experience, more money does not equal better services.

Amen! Truer words were never spoken!

**NHMontecristo** · 08-26-20 06:13

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

This one reached out to me and I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to work. I checked her location and she way up in Vermont. She sent me multiple texts then I finally answered her. Yep exactly what Thought. She wanted to sale me Pictures and videos. . I said I passed and 2 hours later she sent me that text:

So I've had such a bad night. My abusive ex that I thought I got away from found me tonight. He had no clue where I was and somehow someone told him. So now I'm sitting with my kids in a parking lot trying to figure out how to get 105 $ to stay in a hotel room for the night so we are safe. Is there any way you might be able to help me?? My ex is very scary and I don't want my children or I hurt. ".

This could be true. I just found the timing too good to be true. Nevertheless I didn't send any money.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0cfda...6-fd71dc9ba59b

She messaged me and after I responded she gave me the exact same line, word for word.

**Patriarchist** · 08-25-20 22:27

Saw this one recently. Very friendly over text. Agreed I'd go to her place the same day when her kids would not be there. She lives in a remote town about 15 miles away from exit 31 off 495. It was a multi-bedroom unit in a smaller sized apartment building. Pretty messy but nothing disgusting; just kids toys & arts and crafts all over the place.

She has a wicked weed habit so we smoked a bit before heading to the bedroom. The other habit she has is not shutting the fuck up. She is all hopped up on adderol. Seriously I don't think there was a pause longer than 2 seconds in conversation the whole time I was there which was roughly 2 hours. She told me her life story, tons of messed up, sad shit that I didn't really want to hear, but oh well. At least most of that was after we had finished in the bedroom and I was high.

She does have a pretty face but lots of baby damage she manages to hide in her pics. After I showed her recent test papers she did BBBJ and we went BBFS with CIP. I hit her IUD a few times which was quite unpleasant. Also from the moment we got to it she whipped out a vibrator and was using that throughout. Turnoff for me. She was willing to do MSOG although she said she does not with her other SD so after reluctantly agreeing to more BJ action, we went again doggy and mish where I thought this girl was having a damn seizure when she orgasmed.

Damage was 200. There is some other dude who sees her that pays her 300. I can't imagine paying that much for her and especially having to wear a hat and only have one pop. If I do see her again I'm going to offer less LOL. She hinted she might accept less because she likes getting pounded so much.

https://www.seeking.com/member/51531...4-6ad384c57506

**PaulRew** · 08-25-20 19:14

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

Totally agree, the platinum pussy syndrome is real (in Boston area at least) on SA. I wonder if they have a board like we do.

300 is now the standard set point and girls even scoff at 400/500 when I've offered it. Will also add the constant ask of "cashapp" requests is going up from some girls after I see them (wherein I immediately cut them off) as supposed to a few years ago. The only ones who don't are the semi-pros (who ask once but don't pester after, or not at all, as they know how to "keep the potential sale" down the road).

I didn't find a UTR this time around. I will add from the amount of likes I got, maybe I should move to Colombia or Venezuela. Seems to have a lot of "girls" fav my profile from there LOL.

My VIP expired last week and everything H420 wrote happened to me. I have been on SA for 6 years, by far my least productive VIP month ever. One bright note is I did find a young, kind of UTR, that was awesome but going back to school next week. Oh well.

**Fun0410** · 08-25-20 18:04

I have been off and on SA for a few years. Some hits, many misses. My question to all, do you mention the amount of time you are expecting up front? I know there is no set way that works for everyone. Personally I have always stated that I am not looking for an hour wham bam, and to many I have stated I am expecting a few hours of their time. I guess its my use of the escort profession that has steered me in that direction of mentioning it up front. Am I wrong in my ways??

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Agreed. Unless you run into one of the professional escorts advertising on SA, all the girls I've met from the site assume it will be a multi-hour encounter behind closed doors. By asking the question, you give them the opportunity to time limit you up front. There are many other ways to determine whether she's a pro than asking "how long".

**Hobbyist420** · 08-25-20 14:17

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

I agree that her profile is screaming "pro" and knowing that then offering her 300 for 3 hours you should expect the response you received. The good ole days of 150-200 for quality over the typical STG or SW girls are gone and may never return. The higher end pros have moved into SA hoping to grab some guy who just wants to get something. If you have deep pockets you can have very good luck on SA but if you set a limit than it takes a lot more effort to find and keep a girl. I set mine at 300 and work hard to keep just 2 girls entertained. They always think they are worth more so once they get a taste of the cash they start looking for the bigger numbers. Unfortunately it appears the higher quality ones are getting more because the 500 number seems like a standard ask now. Hopefully Canada opens up soon so the Montreal trips can commence once again.

Totally agree, the platinum pussy syndrome is real (in Boston area at least) on SA. I wonder if they have a board like we do.

300 is now the standard set point and girls even scoff at 400/500 when I've offered it. Will also add the constant ask of "cashapp" requests is going up from some girls after I see them (wherein I immediately cut them off) as supposed to a few years ago. The only ones who don't are the semi-pros (who ask once but don't pester after, or not at all, as they know how to "keep the potential sale" down the road).

I didn't find a UTR this time around. I will add from the amount of likes I got, maybe I should move to Colombia or Venezuela. Seems to have a lot of "girls" fav my profile from there LOL.

**OtherPerson** · 08-25-20 11:41

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

If the pics are accurate, she's a 500 girl on SA right now.

She looks like a great find for someone.

As noted already, her profile reads direct and straight forward, looking for shorter dates. That will appeal to a certain market segment, along with her asking rate. Just a question of supply and demand, how that will stand up. 500 does seem the current standard asking on SA for her looks. Depends on the perceived quality of the encounter, I guess. The shorter date discussion reminds me of what Jill of Room Service fame would tell her girls. Get them in, get them off, get them out.

**OtherPerson** · 08-25-20 11:29

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

This one reached out to me and I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to work. I checked her location and she way up in Vermont. She sent me multiple texts then I finally answered her. Yep exactly what Thought. She wanted to sale me Pictures and videos. . I said I passed and 2 hours later she sent me that text:

So I've had such a bad night. My abusive ex that I thought I got away from found me tonight. He had no clue where I was and somehow someone told him. So now I'm sitting with my kids in a parking lot trying to figure out how to get 105 $ to stay in a hotel room for the night so we are safe. Is there any way you might be able to help me?? My ex is very scary and I don't want my children or I hurt. ".

This could be true. I just found the timing too good to be true. Nevertheless I didn't send any money.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0cfda...6-fd71dc9ba59b

She's been hitting my inbox every day for several days now, probably along with everyone else that is online in a 250 mile radius.