Seeking Arrangements

[PaulRew]

She just recently re-activated her account.

I met this girl 2 or three years for lunch. Probably the hottest girl I ever met off the site, a 9 all day long. We got along great and at the time she could host. Donation was maybe in the $3-400 range if I recall.

Following week we try to align schedules and she says that she is sorry but she can't, she is getting back together with her BF (I had her FB at the time and surprisingly she was telling the truth). I have been reluctant to join until the online nonsense is over but she is very tempting. Sorry guys, this is all the info I have so please don't ask for digits, FB, etc, long gone on my end.

https://www.seeking.com/member/81270...4-caba596b9ba7

[Bran001]

I am looking for the quality that was there my first go last fall at a reasonable ppm. I did not have the same experience this time and I probably spent 10 times the amount of time all thirty days. I bagged one but she was a semi pro and not very attractive. All the others were time wasters, had gps or fleecers.

Just an honest account of my experiences.

My belief is that it's just a numbers game. Finding someone who's looking for what you're looking for, and has the time at that time (not 3 other guys ahead of you), etc. It probably all averages out over time. In the past 2 months I found 2; out of messaging almost 100 at least once. It's a very low rate of return, but if I do this in front of the tv at night its not exactly 'wasted time' for me and some of the profiles / responses are entertaining in and of themselves. But the return is 2 young women (late 20's), great bodies, great sex drive, who want to keep seeing me. I prefer this to pro's. Others have different preferences.

[JDeller]

I am looking for the quality that was there my first go last fall at a reasonable ppm. I did not have the same experience this time and I probably spent 10 times the amount of time all thirty days. I bagged one but she was a semi pro and not very attractive. All the others were time wasters, had gps or fleecers.

Just an honest account of my experiences.

I'm ignoring the undergrads right now. They aren't in Boston (they're all home), they all try to "start online" which is a hard no and should be from all you guys, and none of them are likely to be back in Boston in August or Sept anyway.

There are plenty of girls out there who need or want the money. It's just a matter of finding one who'll do what we want in exchange for it. They are out there.

[Bran001]

I agree. My experience was so much better last fall. I have a couple of numbers to follow up on but so far I have struck out. I thought with covid dying down things would pick up. However I think many girls are enjoying the $600/ wk unemployment in addition to the state UI. If they extend that, then the drought will continue and if the colleges don't open up it will really suck.

I'm ignoring the undergrads right now. They aren't in Boston (they're all home), they all try to "start online" which is a hard no and should be from all you guys, and none of them are likely to be back in Boston in August or Sept anyway.

There are plenty of girls out there who need or want the money. It's just a matter of finding one who'll do what we want in exchange for it. They are out there.

[JDeller]

I agree. My experience was so much better last fall. I have a couple of numbers to follow up on but so far I have struck out. I thought with covid dying down things would pick up. However I think many girls are enjoying the $600/ wk unemployment in addition to the state UI. If they extend that, then the drought will continue and if the colleges don't open up it will really suck.

Thus far site has been a complete waste of time. Have found jack! Lots of do not want to meet, want to be paid for meet and greet, want 500 to meet, want weekly / monthly arrangement from the first day.

Been ghosted and blown off more than usual. Complete and total shit show.

[Canadalover]

I've done SA successfully on and off for the last 4 years or so. Spent the last month or so lining up new SB.

Reporting on Terixta.

Thought she might be a unicorn. A very attractive tall, mid-20's SBF that could actually host at her own place and a reasonable allowance.

Took her out for dinner at a nice place, we had a great time. I was not expecting to do the deed the first night, I'm really not looking for a pro, Dropped her off afterwards, we were making out in the car outside her place. It was kind of late and I needed to get home so I didn't press it. She however expected the PPM for the dinner date, which we did not discuss ahead of time and I wouldn't have agreed to. I politely told her that I wasn't expecting to do that, but decided to send her the $ as a gesture of good faith and to let her know I was serious. We made a date to get together for private time the following week.

Scheduling took a while. I went to her place, she gave me an above average BBBJTC, It was the equivalent of a pro QV in a very nice setting, but it was a rush job. I decided to cut my losses and move on. She's got some GPS but YMMV I suppose. Her attitude on the second date was very different from the first, and that was before we started taking clothes off. I can provide more details in PM if anyone is interested, have left some of the specifics out on purpose.

Happy hunting.

[JoelBen77]

Anyone seen or had fun the this one before?? PM me.

Profile is long gone no need to ask for link.

Only interested people who have seen her before.

[JohnTies]

Thus far site has been a complete waste of time. Have found jack! Lots of do not want to meet, want to be paid for meet and greet, want 500 to meet, want weekly / monthly arrangement from the first day.

Been ghosted and blown off more than usual. Complete and total shit show.

[Patriarchist]

I've paid off and on for a few years, and to me nothing's changed other than, during covid, way more women wanting to do "online only. " Can't blame them. For me it's still the same percentages; I look for something pretty specific, and have to weed out a lot to find it. But I have 2 women from there I can see any week I want to. Both host. And both hold my interest. But it's hard to find that. You just have to keep at it. Which I suppose is why so many just go the escort / pro route; don't have to put in this amount of time and effort. (It's not really effort to text someone. It's just the process of texting for a few days and realizing it's either not going to happen, or they are a bit "off", or whatever.).

Since the pandemic I've been working remotely so often times I have Seeking open on my personal computer and will search for girls and send messages in between work duties. In that respect covid has been positive for me. I don't need to put in a ton of effort after working hours on girls; I do most of it during the day when I'm already working. Two birds with one stone. I also have found two go-to girls off the site but like you said it did take about a month and a half to find exactly what I wanted.

[Bran001]

When I posted about Amandla17 (scroll down) my intent was not to complain about SA. I thought her reply might give some a laugh. Yes there are scammers on SA as with any site but I'm quite satisfied. I'm not complaining. I have two regulars in my rotation and was considering adding a third until my premium membership expired. I may not renew for now because I'm happy with these two, not due to any negative conditions on the site such as increase in scammers and increase in online only.

As to getting booted off, a lot of seemingly innocuous words such as incall, outcall, allowance, ppm, hotel (maybe), host, hosting, etc, can get you booted. Even if used in old messages. Remember, the internet lives forever. You need to be creative when you write and move to text or a messaging app as soon as possible.

I've paid off and on for a few years, and to me nothing's changed other than, during covid, way more women wanting to do "online only. " Can't blame them. For me it's still the same percentages; I look for something pretty specific, and have to weed out a lot to find it. But I have 2 women from there I can see any week I want to. Both host. And both hold my interest. But it's hard to find that. You just have to keep at it. Which I suppose is why so many just go the escort / pro route; don't have to put in this amount of time and effort. (It's not really effort to text someone. It's just the process of texting for a few days and realizing it's either not going to happen, or they are a bit "off", or whatever.).

[Sounds]

Or just go to Montreal and do it for cheaper (when we are allowed to go back to Canada LOL).

Well. If you have a reason to be there. More expensive to travel, get a hotel, spend money on meals, etc.

But the girls themselves are better and cheaper for sure!

[Hobbyist420]

I like a good 3 some as much as the next guy, but BE WARY. Don't get into a hotel room or go to an apartment, for the first time, with 2 women. Way too easy a scene to end up robbed. There are so many 20-somethings who will play with women; find one and then add the 2nd. It's really easy to do.

Or just go to Montreal and do it for cheaper (when we are allowed to go back to Canada LOL).

[HounDog3]

I'm pretty sure the answer is yes -- they can't tell who viewed them when it's an incomplete profile.

Not so sure about that. I can see profile views on my account from woman with no user name, no pic, and incomplete information. I expect the reverse would be true as well.

[HounDog3]

Dude its a scam site at best IMO. I was a premium member for months and 2 weeks ago my membership ended and I didn't renew seeing I have alot of contacts from there now. Now I've been on for months chatting up woman no problem, now I'm not a member and can't message anyone. So about 14 days later I'm banned for trying to solicit sex. So I sent them an email saying its fucking impossible for me to solicit sex because I'm not premium and can't talk to nobody. They replied back with some bullshit and didn't release the ban so I just made a new profile. Sites a joke and theres a scam somewhere in it but who knows but I find it ridiculous that I'm messaging woman non stop for months paying them without a problem then I decide not to renew and all of a sudden of soliciting sex.

When I posted about Amandla17 (scroll down) my intent was not to complain about SA. I thought her reply might give some a laugh. Yes there are scammers on SA as with any site but I'm quite satisfied. I'm not complaining. I have two regulars in my rotation and was considering adding a third until my premium membership expired. I may not renew for now because I'm happy with these two, not due to any negative conditions on the site such as increase in scammers and increase in online only.

As to getting booted off, a lot of seemingly innocuous words such as incall, outcall, allowance, ppm, hotel (maybe), host, hosting, etc, can get you booted. Even if used in old messages. Remember, the internet lives forever. You need to be creative when you write and move to text or a messaging app as soon as possible.

[Bran001]

So I have a secondary account to see if girls have blocked me etc. When I set it up I left out User Name, pics, heading etc. This allows me to view profiles but when I go to "favorited me " or "Viewed me" tabs it says "Your profile cannot be discovered yet". However I can view profiles and also have a favorites list.

So my question is does this mean I am invisible ieI can view profiles but they don't know I viewed them?

I'm pretty sure the answer is yes -- they can't tell who viewed them when it's an incomplete profile.