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[Member #6465]

I was seeing her months ago before I had to cut her off after cops were asking about her in my office because her BF and roomates were drawing heat. After a brutal cut off, she contacted me a couple of days ago randomly after months of no contact, trying to get me to pay for her new apartment. I check SA and find she is back. She was last active back in September and had 5 daddies at the same time plus a BF, said to each of us we were exclusive. Be Careful with this one. She is a pathological liar and pretty sure suffers from Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She lied about only have one SD, She lied about having a BF, Wanted one guy to meet her BF and lie to his face about fucking, She lies about never having money and tries to guilt you into giving more, She lies about not doing drugs, Everything with her is a lie. She will meet you, love bomb you, take you for everything you got, then leave and move on to the next sucker. Everything is passive aggressive and its more about power than money. She will try and get you to take her on shopping dates, trips, car shopping, other shit, on top of the allowance. This is all done passive aggressively and sometimes even when your already balls deep. She got the last SD to buy her boobs. Got one guy to divorce his wife. ETC. Sex is good, you can tell she is faking it but good. She will hang with you for hours, wine, dine, get you to buy her stuff, fuck you for 10 minutes, then roll out real quick. Its like having a dramatic nightmare GF or WIFE. Allowance starts off kind of reasonable but before you know it, your out thousands, you stand up for yourself and she treats you like shit, and then she is gone on to the next sucker. She looks good but put on a little weight since her pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3f55b...6-f785894d4d11

No offense but she sounds like she is good at this. You spent a bunch of money on her and so did a bunch of other dudes. Last I checked that was a sb's goal. She makes dudes feel like king of fuck mountain for 10 minutes and they empty their wallets.

[DickLongwood]

Anyone have intel on Mapi007?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5399...8-ea25a12084b7

[FunGuy570]

See Attached she lives in South Bmore Riverside area. Had daddies in VA, DC, and MD.

Have a pic of her? Profile not coming up.

[Forddiesel06]

I was seeing her months ago before I had to cut her off after cops were asking about her in my office because her BF and roomates were drawing heat. After a brutal cut off, she contacted me a couple of days ago randomly after months of no contact, trying to get me to pay for her new apartment. I check SA and find she is back. She was last active back in September and had 5 daddies at the same time plus a BF, said to each of us we were exclusive. Be Careful with this one. She is a pathological liar and pretty sure suffers from Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She lied about only have one SD, She lied about having a BF, Wanted one guy to meet her BF and lie to his face about fucking, She lies about never having money and tries to guilt you into giving more, She lies about not doing drugs, Everything with her is a lie. She will meet you, love bomb you, take you for everything you got, then leave and move on to the next sucker. Everything is passive aggressive and its more about power than money. She will try and get you to take her on shopping dates, trips, car shopping, other shit, on top of the allowance. This is all done passive aggressively and sometimes even when your already balls deep. She got the last SD to buy her boobs. Got one guy to divorce his wife. ETC. Sex is good, you can tell she is faking it but good. She will hang with you for hours, wine, dine, get you to buy her stuff, fuck you for 10 minutes, then roll out real quick. Its like having a dramatic nightmare GF or WIFE. Allowance starts off kind of reasonable but before you know it, your out thousands, you stand up for yourself and she treats you like shit, and then she is gone on to the next sucker. She looks good but put on a little weight since her pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3f55b...6-f785894d4d11

Have a pic of her? Profile not coming up.

[BaltoMan66]

Realizing that we are all different, and that what works for one will not work for another, I have always found that stating exactly what I am offering and what I need upfront, before meeting, has been the best strategy for me. The SB can accept or not at that point, and I do not waste my time or theirs. I learnt that the hard way at the beginning of my adventures. Of course there is always the chance that when you meet you don't vibe anyway, but I have never found that to be the case. Just my humble opinion.

There a plenty of ways to do this. We all have to figure out what works for us.

My posts are about my experiences, and are not intended to imply that my way is the only correct way to do anything.

Have fun out there.

[WestLain1]

I'm not a fan of negotiating details before meeting in person. I always tell them that chemistry will make both of us try to find something that works. She wanted more, of course. But after meeting for drinks and talking we both felt a vibe. We got to a reasonable number quickly, and frankly I got a bargain!

Realizing that we are all different, and that what works for one will not work for another, I have always found that stating exactly what I am offering and what I need upfront, before meeting, has been the best strategy for me. The SB can accept or not at that point, and I do not waste my time or theirs. I learnt that the hard way at the beginning of my adventures. Of course there is always the chance that when you meet you don't vibe anyway, but I have never found that to be the case. Just my humble opinion.

[BaltoMan66]

Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?

I'm not a fan of negotiating details before meeting in person. I always tell them that chemistry will make both of us try to find something that works. She wanted more, of course. But after meeting for drinks and talking we both felt a vibe. We got to a reasonable number quickly, and frankly I got a bargain!

[FairFight]

Looks like I'm going to need some element of good dating skills. I wouldn't be turning to SB's if I had any of that. I do enjoy the stories posted here.

[Baltmonger69]

Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?

There is definitely gold out there but it takes a lot of work to find just the right nugget and also a lot of patience.

Last February I started chatting with this real beauty and she initially ask for 800! I told her there's no way I could do that. I thought that would be the end of it with her but she still kept texting with me and sending nice cute pics now and then (non-nude) and we found out we shared some common interests. She offered nude pics and videos for reasonable rates and possibly even meet in person at some point for kissing and companionship and maybe a BJ but no sex unless she gets 800. I was really attracted to her so I figured why not, gave her some $ for pics and vids. She asked if I had any interest in any specific outfits and such that I would want to see her in so I told her and she asked if I could send her some more $ for what I want to see her in and she sent me a shopping list (with prices) of what she was thinking based on what I told her. Again I figured why not. She wasn't asking for more than what the items cost. She got them and we did a video chat where she modeled the stuff for me and later on sent me more pics and a video.

Just before April I got a bonus at work and decided I wanted to splurge and treat myself. I had a week long camping trip coming up and I knew based on our chats that she liked camping so I asked her if she would like to join me for at least one night on my camping trip. I offered her 1 k. She didn't jump at the offer right away but eventually agreed to it. We met in public for coffee just to actually meet in person for the first time. 3 days later she drove herself the whole 2 and a half hours to the park where I was staying and we had a great time. The following morning I gave her the 1 k and told her she could stay longer if she wanted. She ended up staying for 3 days and she didn't ask for anything more.

After that once I was back to normal she told me she wanted to see me again. I told her I want to see her too but I couldn't give her money like that again. It was a one time splurge because I got a bonus. She said she completely understood.

She continued to text a lot and then one day a month later she was like you have needs and so do I. If you can give me something to help me out now and then we can help each other. I offered 200 each time and she was ok with that. We ended up seeing each other usually for at least 2 hours or more every 2 weeks or so. She had a somewhat normal day job and also did some modeling. With the amount she was texting me and occasionally calling I was fairly certain she wasn't seeing anyone else. End of July she stopped taking money from me but by then we were doing stuff together on weekends and even going away on trips together. She eventually broke it off in December because she wanted to pursue a real relationship. We're still in touch and see each other for a bite now and then but the sex has ended.

There's definitely good ones out there! It took a lot more than I originally imagined to get into her pants but in the long run it was well worth it!

[FunGuy570]

Mileage varies depending on lots of factors. You really need to treat AS more as a dating site than as an escort site. Alot of these girls complain about the guys being "creepy, desperate, shady, poor hygiene, etc" . If you have good social skills, are respectful, laid back, and take care of yourself the more you will get and the less you will have to pay. Some will not even want anything money wise, some will want to date, some will fall in love, some will lie and manipulate.

Take time to get to know the girl, dont be needy, and take care of yourself. IF you do this what your looking for is very possible.

Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?

[FairFight]

I have a SB Take your time and be reasonable. $600 seems a bit much. Just sayin.

Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?

[FunGuy570]

I was seeing her months ago before I had to cut her off after cops were asking about her in my office because her BF and roomates were drawing heat. After a brutal cut off, she contacted me a couple of days ago randomly after months of no contact, trying to get me to pay for her new apartment. I check SA and find she is back. She was last active back in September and had 5 daddies at the same time plus a BF, said to each of us we were exclusive. Be Careful with this one. She is a pathological liar and pretty sure suffers from Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She lied about only have one SD, She lied about having a BF, Wanted one guy to meet her BF and lie to his face about fucking, She lies about never having money and tries to guilt you into giving more, She lies about not doing drugs, Everything with her is a lie. She will meet you, love bomb you, take you for everything you got, then leave and move on to the next sucker. Everything is passive aggressive and its more about power than money. She will try and get you to take her on shopping dates, trips, car shopping, other shit, on top of the allowance. This is all done passive aggressively and sometimes even when your already balls deep. She got the last SD to buy her boobs. Got one guy to divorce his wife. ETC. Sex is good, you can tell she is faking it but good. She will hang with you for hours, wine, dine, get you to buy her stuff, fuck you for 10 minutes, then roll out real quick. Its like having a dramatic nightmare GF or WIFE. Allowance starts off kind of reasonable but before you know it, your out thousands, you stand up for yourself and she treats you like shit, and then she is gone on to the next sucker. She looks good but put on a little weight since her pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3f55b...6-f785894d4d11

[BaltoMan66]

I ask the same question on the VA forum, but would like to hear from here too. What is a good rate for ppm BBFS / CIP. Is 600 reasonable?

I have a SB that I have seen for several months. Body 9+, Face 7, personality 9. I have access to all holes BB. I can spend as long as I want with her. (I normally have to leave and she is hoping that I can stay longer, but I have had 5 hour dates). I can get as creative as I want (blowjobs in the parking lot, reaching under her skirt in a bar). I know that I am very lucky right now. It's going to end soon, but I'll enjoy it as long as I can.

It's Baltimore area. I pay $300 plus get a hotel.

Take your time and be reasonable. $600 seems a bit much. Just sayin.

[Jt1896]

Nova allowances are higher. Being closer to DC with big tech and big law jobs drives up amounts. I've found the closer you get to larger metros, the higher the expectation.

I've also found that the discussion of what a lady will do btwn the sheets is often more quickly brought up by pros or semipros. If that's what your looking for, I've found SA is a lot more work.

I've also found that after time, once a SB gets comfortable with you BBFS cip is often on the table, just like irl dating. I once forgot condoms after being with a young lady for a month. When I told her I forgot them, she just hopped on and was like eff it. My current main Sb went on the pill last week. I had been cimfs after bbip but she says she wants me to cum inside her, and so I told her that I'm cool with that. My side chick has been bbfscip from day 1.

Allowances for all 3 range btwn 250-350 but the key is that they all treat it like irl dating.

I love it.

[Flyers17]

Nova allowances are higher. Being closer to DC with big tech and big law jobs drives up amounts. I've found the closer you get to larger metros, the higher the expectation.

I've also found that the discussion of what a lady will do btwn the sheets is often more quickly brought up by pros or semipros. If that's what your looking for, I've found SA is a lot more work.

I've also found that after time, once a SB gets comfortable with you BBFS cip is often on the table, just like irl dating. I once forgot condoms after being with a young lady for a month. When I told her I forgot them, she just hopped on and was like eff it. My current main Sb went on the pill last week. I had been cimfs after bbip but she says she wants me to cum inside her, and so I told her that I'm cool with that. My side chick has been bbfscip from day 1.

Allowances for all 3 range btwn 250-350 but the key is that they all treat it like irl dating.

I don't know if this link is allowed here but all this talk of money, thought you guys would get a kick out of this. Didn't know financial domination was a thing. Who even agrees to this? She's in DC, btw.

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