"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[EvilTmp]

Met a pot recently for a drink just to see the chemistry. She only had two pics that were not particularly telling. Not close range and also cutting half her body (you know where this is going). She was ok in person but nothing to get me excited and not really feeling it. When I asked her she'd met anyone off the site she proceeds to tell me she met one guy for lunch (she's new on SA). She insists they did nothing and afterwards the guy went on to tell her he doesn't feel comfortable with the whole idea of a SB and needs to work on his relationship with his wife, blah blah found my morale compass blah blah. I didn't have the heart to tell her that the poor guy is probably deep in some other young girl right now, he's just not into you.

Anyone here likes to go out of their way to burst a girl's bubble? Me, I just nod and act like I'm a clueless idiot while laughing deep down.

[YayaGogo]

I just book a room online with whatever method works and use a separate CC used exclusively for my hobby (hotels, restaurants, shopping, etc) that my SO doesn't know about. Online billing only of course so no statements mailed to the house. While checking in I always arrive a bit early with a briefcase, computer bag etc so nobody gives me a second look.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

Yaya.

That's a good point.

So since making my first outcall, I was wondering if.

Using Hotwire is okay since I need to provide name and address as it appears on DL and a valid CC. CC is okay as I don't have SO looking at that.

OR.

Should I just book the room on site and provide my DL and CC? In this case, the girl is in my car, so I'll need to remove all paperwork from glove compartment.

Still thinking what's the best way to book the room so that apart from the above I can leave without having to checkout at desk.

Anything else I should look for as I go about my first outcall. .

[DWinthrop]

Any feedback on this SB, says she travels to vbeach often from Charlottesville, maybe she checks out the RVA too! Thought I check and see if anyone has enjoyed!

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...9-7b9c7eec9291

That's your inbox.

[BStreet]

Any feedback on this SB, says she travels to vbeach often from Charlottesville, maybe she checks out the RVA too! Thought I check and see if anyone has enjoyed!

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...9-7b9c7eec9291

[RegularJoe1985]

What I don't like about such rooms is that there is much more opportunity for people to see who is going in and out. What I usually do in hotels with interior rooms is to check in, go out to my car and park it on the appropriate end of the hotel, and then use my room key to get through a side door. That way, I don't have to walk past the desk to get to the room. I am usually carrying a messenger bag and a large briefcase, so they can't tell what I have with me anyway.

That's a good point.

So since making my first outcall, I was wondering if.

Using Hotwire is okay since I need to provide name and address as it appears on DL and a valid CC. CC is okay as I don't have SO looking at that.

OR.

Should I just book the room on site and provide my DL and CC? In this case, the girl is in my car, so I'll need to remove all paperwork from glove compartment.

Still thinking what's the best way to book the room so that apart from the above I can leave without having to checkout at desk.

Anything else I should look for as I go about my first outcall. .

[DoggieFan]

They all have to ask for photo I'd of the person checking in, so don't check in with the girl. Ideally do so ahead of time. I like to check in ahead of time and then slide the girl the key while at lunch or drinks so she can go up before me and freshen up / change into her fuck clothes. Big caveat -- the nicer the hotel, the more likely they are to have video check out, which means if she turns on the TV, she can see your name. Take the batteries out of the remote and hide them.

Ideally, you find out her real name and book it in her name and have her check in (will need a credit or debit card for incidentals, but won't cost her a penny if you don't order pay per view or raid the mini bar).

If a front desk agent gives out guest information, you can sue them senseless. Just ask Erin Andrews, so I would not worry about that too much.

Seems like way too much trouble. My main concern with my LTSB was to make it easy for her to get up to my room & avoiding the front desk.

I stayed in the same hotel in a resort town, mid range hotel with a great suite, kitchen, sitting room with gas fireplace, king size separate bed room & bath. He named it our honeymoon suite!

I had a great relationship with the front desk. They'd let me check in as early as 8:30 am. My Baby was a coed with a live in BF so we'd meet for 3-8 hours during the day. We couldn't go out in public. I didn't want her parading her gorgeous little ass by the front desk. Then they'd check the cameras out of curiosity to see where she was going. I wasn't worried about her knowing who I was because we literally knew everything about each other.

Also, she appreciated having a key to come on the back door & avoiding thevwalk of shame when coming & especially going.

My pick up has a shelf in the front bumper, just above the license plate. Perfect place to leave her a room key.

An added bonus would be the anticipation when hearing her insert the key, open the door than literally hop over to the couch I was sitting on. She'd jump in my lap and plant a big kiss on me & say "what ya been doing" my answer was always the same, "not much, just thinking about you!" I'd always have a bottle or two of her favorite wine & lunch with dessert.

Miss her tons. We knew it had to eventually end. Still sucks though:

[LoVecchio]

I like the motels that have rooms accessible from outside so I don't need to bring any luggage in while checking whereas that looks strange when one is going inside a closed wall hotel without any luggage
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What I don't like about such rooms is that there is much more opportunity for people to see who is going in and out. What I usually do in hotels with interior rooms is to check in, go out to my car and park it on the appropriate end of the hotel, and then use my room key to get through a side door. That way, I don't have to walk past the desk to get to the room. I am usually carrying a messenger bag and a large briefcase, so they can't tell what I have with me anyway.

[DWinthrop]

OK, many of you SDs presumably have a reputation you care about, now and in the hereafter. What provisions have you made to have everything associated w / the bowl purged should you meet your maker in an untimely and unexpected way. I have a trusted colleague who has received a sealed envelope from me, w / instructions to open it and do what it says if I buy the farm.

I could care less what people think of me when I'm dead but I am curious what you have that needs a second person to get rid of? Pics and vids are encrypted and hidden so nobody accessing my computer would find them unless they knew where to look and I don't pay with anything traceable.

[FarFarAway]

OK, many of you SDs presumably have a reputation you care about, now and in the hereafter. What provisions have you made to have everything associated w / the bowl purged should you meet your maker in an untimely and unexpected way. I have a trusted colleague who has received a sealed envelope from me, w / instructions to open it and do what it says if I buy the farm.

[Ernest Ll]

Is there a way to ensure that TV can be turned on without name appearing on screen?

No. It either does or doesn't. I use my spotify on my phone to muffle screams and set mood music.

How do I get her to check in without her using her own credit / debit card?

A) Ideally she would have one. My ATF SB would book the room herself and I would include reimbursement in my allowance B) You still need her real name to put the room in her name since they will check her I'd, but I've done it where I'; ve called the hotel, said I was bringing someone in for an interview or a meeting and booked the room in her name, then I'd swing by the hotel and say I wanted to pay for the room for my "employee" or consultant. That way all she has to do is pick up the key.

[ThunderStick46]

I have been reading the posts on this site for a short while now and finally decided to jump in. I have been in the bowl in Detroit for a few years and have plenty to add here from my experiences. Currently, I have a small rotation of gals that I chat with and one that I see regularly. I go on and off SA depending on my mood and my wallet. One of the reasons that I decided now to speak up here (other than to add value to the site) is that I finally landed a unicorn. She is mid 30's single, busty, hot, has her own apartment and believe it or not no longer requires sugar from me. It's amazed me to no end but she loves to spend private time two or three times a week and she is financially independent. I now gift her stuff whenever I can. She doesn't want the obligations of a traditional relationship and is not into guys her age. More details to follow.

[RegularJoe1985]

They all have to ask for photo I'd of the person checking in, so don't check in with the girl. Ideally do so ahead of time. I like to check in ahead of time and then slide the girl the key while at lunch or drinks so she can go up before me and freshen up / change into her fuck clothes. Big caveat -- the nicer the hotel, the more likely they are to have video check out, which means if she turns on the TV, she can see your name. Take the batteries out of the remote and hide them.

Ideally, you find out her real name and book it in her name and have her check in (will need a credit or debit card for incidentals, but won't cost her a penny if you don't order pay per view or raid the mini bar).

If a front desk agent gives out guest information, you can sue them senseless. Just ask Erin Andrews, so I would not worry about that too much.

That is a nice information to take batteries out of remote. I was thinking of turning on the TV to muffle sound. Perhaps turn it on and then hide the batteries. Is there a way to ensure that TV can be turned on without name appearing on screen?

How do I get her to check in without her using her own credit / debit card?

I guess I've been going to incalls all this time I have no idea on how to do an outcall.

I like the motels that have rooms accessible from outside so I don't need to bring any luggage in while checking whereas that looks strange when one is going inside a closed wall hotel without any luggage.

Hotwire is good but it does not always have room at those kind of motels.

If I book myself on Hotwire, I have to give all details, but can use a vanilla card to pay for it. Do I not have to show that card while checking in? I don't have a problem of card statements etc. No S. O. Issues etc. But don't want all PII to be available at all places.

[Ernest Ll]

Any of you use PELOTON?

I've been using my wife's Peloton a few days a week. Seen a few hotties in the background on the classes, but am really curious about the social connection aspect.

You can see the profiles of who is in the class with you online or anyone who has taken the class -- and about half the profiles have a head shot and some clever user name. Then you have about 50 characters to display your age range, Gender, location and a short message -- lots of hashtag stuff.

As you can imagine, high % of hotties come up in the feed of current or past participants. You can "High five" anyone who is online when you are and they can high five you back.

Today some woman just high fived me out of the blue. Nice looking blonde in her 30's from my state. I avoid initiating any high fives in case my wife pops in to see what class I'm on -- can alwasy say I hgh five them back out of courtesy. I got to think a high % of single women -- and even some married ones -- would be up for some sugar adventures. You know they are fit and decent looking in advance.

Would love to do an experiment to use a user name something like "SugarDaddySpins" and see how many high fives I get. Maybe include a unique hashtag -- or even a google voice number --that would allow them to find and contact you
Bet it would be pretty epic results.

[Ernest Ll]

So finally decided to test SA waters and see.

One point that keeps popping is hosting. How does one host with minimal chance of staff / girl finding out.

Don't care about any SO etc.

But don't want a girl to flirt with front desk and get any info. Yes true, it should not be done but shit happens all the time.

If one uses Hotwire etc. Then what is the risk?

Thanks,

They all have to ask for photo I'd of the person checking in, so don't check in with the girl. Ideally do so ahead of time. I like to check in ahead of time and then slide the girl the key while at lunch or drinks so she can go up before me and freshen up / change into her fuck clothes. Big caveat -- the nicer the hotel, the more likely they are to have video check out, which means if she turns on the TV, she can see your name. Take the batteries out of the remote and hide them.

Ideally, you find out her real name and book it in her name and have her check in (will need a credit or debit card for incidentals, but won't cost her a penny if you don't order pay per view or raid the mini bar).

If a front desk agent gives out guest information, you can sue them senseless. Just ask Erin Andrews, so I would not worry about that too much.

[RegularJoe1985]

So finally decided to test SA waters and see.

One point that keeps popping is hosting. How does one host with minimal chance of staff / girl finding out.

Don't care about any SO etc.

But don't want a girl to flirt with front desk and get any info. Yes true, it should not be done but shit happens all the time.

If one uses Hotwire etc. Then what is the risk?

Thanks,