"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**BStreet** · 11-04-18 00:54

Is a scammer. Tried to get me to send her 3 Amazon gift cards online to purchase oils and toys for our sexual activities next week with her bi- friend Tara. Looking for a man to join them now. Seemed legit for a bit in our texting but TGTBT. I offered to buy or reimburse and she sends the exact same text in response.

**Walruscl** · 11-03-18 20:11

Originally Posted by Madaboutmax [View Original Post]

I've had a great experience in the Sugar World. I've enjoyed a great variety of beautiful young women and a few long term "real life relationships" with women half my age.

I've found the more variety I've had the more variety I've craved. Somehow, that's made me more of a lifetime partner candidate for some. I've found that as a successful, in shape, reasonably attractive, middle aged man, not desperately seeking a partner and maybe overly confident because of my bowl success I am now in hi demand. I've had 6 women, who are half my age, discuss wanting marriage and children with me.

Maybe it is an indictment of younger men today, but more likely plays to a need many women have to be talen care of by a dominant type a personality male.

I'm much more successful with women now that I'm in my 50's than I was in my 20's.

Totally same deal here with my 20-something past vs my 50-something present. Being personable and in shape goes a long way. I'm sure many 20-something SB's have this really negative mental image of a 50-something dude (remember how impossibly old that seemed to us), and blowing that stereotype to bits certainly doesn't hurt.

While I've not been a dance-card-always-full SD, I've accumulated enough experience that I can see where that makes me more attractive. Being able to confidently and casually talk about previous experiences with POTS definitely has an effect on how they see you.

For now I'm tired of the chase, so holding onto this catch and experiencing her from a LTR angle is pretty appealing. I know that it will inevitably end, and am prepared for it to be sooner than later, because you never know what curveball will come your way (or for that matter, hers). Maybe then I'll try shifting gears a bit, as my life situation and personal needs will likely have evolved.

But for now, I'm good.

**Madaboutmax** · 11-03-18 19:54

I've had a great experience in the Sugar World. I've enjoyed a great variety of beautiful young women and a few long term "real life relationships" with women half my age.

I've found the more variety I've had the more variety I've craved. Somehow, that's made me more of a lifetime partner candidate for some. I've found that as a successful, in shape, reasonably attractive, middle aged man, not desperately seeking a partner and maybe overly confident because of my bowl success I am now in hi demand. I've had 6 women, who are half my age, discuss wanting marriage and children with me.

Maybe it is an indictment of younger men today, but more likely plays to a need many women have to be talen care of by a dominant type a personality male.

I'm much more successful with women now that I'm in my 50's than I was in my 20's.

I have a few drinking buddies that know my success with younger women, but none that I've shared my whole bowl experience with.

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

Now I know that there's a lot of SD's here that are focused on and looking to maximize time in the FC, often with a variety of SB's. With my first LTR SB, things were definitely oriented towards FC time, both quality and quantity. That morphed into something a little too real, and not entirely in a good way.

Different life situation now, and I find myself buying into the notion that it can be "the whole package". Certainly my current SB is in that category. Since we can spend evenings and overnights, we spend a lot of time just enjoying each other's company, and when planning dates that is the main focus. My place? Her place? Eat out? Cook for each other? Binge watch or take in a movie? While we usually cuddle and tease a bit, sex doesn't happen every date. And frankly, just like an IRL relationship, we're still working on getting on each other's wavelength when it does happen. And my past self would be out the door by now given the latter, but we're going into our third month and I'm willing to work on that given everything else is going so well.

I've had just such a great experience so far, it's a little frustrating that the social stigma is such that I basically have to keep this all to myself. No drinking buddy to share how she is pretty but in an unglamorous way, which makes her all the more attractive. How, in contrast, her body is a work of art. Sharing how I had almost a schoolboy crush on her for the first few weeks. How right it felt when it clicked, right down to the paint colors she used in her apartment. How effortless conversations are. How it gets better every time we are together, and we open up to each other a little more. How exciting it is that we have our first weekend trip together soon. How, despite all this NRE ("New Relationship Energy") I am fully aware that this is not an IRL relationship, and am careful to keep some emotional distance.

So am I the only one with this problem? There is, of course, this forum as an outlet. But there's the oversharing problem (which I'm doing a little bit in this post) that limits how much can be said in confidence.

Who do you turn to when your SB just rocks your world and all you want to do is share the experience with someone?

**LikItFun** · 11-03-18 15:32

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

Who do you turn to when your SB just rocks your world and all you want to do is share the experience with someone?

Here, I guess. The SB I'm seeing right now is definitely in the "too good to be true" category. I'm going to enjoy her as long as I can!

Last summer, I was talking to a friend and he brought up that he had a lady friend on the side. So I said, "hey me too!" So, we compared pics and stories and that was that. Other than that one conversation, I haven't talked to anyone about my SA habit.

Also, it's fun to swap SD / SB stories with your SB. There sure are some great stories out there, ranging from the horror stories to the happily ever after (at least for one SB any way).

Likit.

**MacSpazSpam** · 11-02-18 23:31

It's definitely what prevents me from partaking. It's intriguing to read the tales shared here and want to take some action, but very concerned about what it would be like to actually take action. I'm not the happiest with my SO and wish I had an opportunity to do things in real life but the other costs are too big (at least in my mind now).

**Walruscl** · 11-02-18 23:05

Now I know that there's a lot of SD's here that are focused on and looking to maximize time in the FC, often with a variety of SB's. With my first LTR SB, things were definitely oriented towards FC time, both quality and quantity. That morphed into something a little too real, and not entirely in a good way.

Different life situation now, and I find myself buying into the notion that it can be "the whole package". Certainly my current SB is in that category. Since we can spend evenings and overnights, we spend a lot of time just enjoying each other's company, and when planning dates that is the main focus. My place? Her place? Eat out? Cook for each other? Binge watch or take in a movie? While we usually cuddle and tease a bit, sex doesn't happen every date. And frankly, just like an IRL relationship, we're still working on getting on each other's wavelength when it does happen. And my past self would be out the door by now given the latter, but we're going into our third month and I'm willing to work on that given everything else is going so well.

I've had just such a great experience so far, it's a little frustrating that the social stigma is such that I basically have to keep this all to myself. No drinking buddy to share how she is pretty but in an unglamorous way, which makes her all the more attractive. How, in contrast, her body is a work of art. Sharing how I had almost a schoolboy crush on her for the first few weeks. How right it felt when it clicked, right down to the paint colors she used in her apartment. How effortless conversations are. How it gets better every time we are together, and we open up to each other a little more. How exciting it is that we have our first weekend trip together soon. How, despite all this NRE ("New Relationship Energy") I am fully aware that this is not an IRL relationship, and am careful to keep some emotional distance.

So am I the only one with this problem? There is, of course, this forum as an outlet. But there's the oversharing problem (which I'm doing a little bit in this post) that limits how much can be said in confidence.

Who do you turn to when your SB just rocks your world and all you want to do is share the experience with someone?

**BrazzerToFive** · 11-01-18 15:20

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

Definite GPS and agree that one could say she's worth it, within reason.

**Unassuming2018** · 11-01-18 14:20

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

Appreciate all the backup. I shall tread carefully.

**CantWinLosin** · 11-01-18 13:54

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

She's had a few profiles on SA, and I've exchanged msgs with her twice over the last 3 or so years she's been around. She has major GPS (some might say she should, considering her stunning looks) and an attitude to go with it.

**BagIt** · 11-01-18 10:04

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

I was having the issue but it has cleared up now.

**GolfMan57** · 11-01-18 09:59

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

I am having the same problem and thought the same thing. I did submit a help ticket also. So it looks like it is their problem,.

**LoriTruck** · 11-01-18 09:20

I am a premium member. I can search profiles. The moment I click on a profile it takes me to the login screen. This issue also happens when I click on a message in my inbox. As soon as I click on a message, it logs me out and takes me to the login screen. Anyone else experience this issue? Have I been reported? Has my account been suspended? I have submitted a support ticket.

**RVASpider** · 10-31-18 23:34

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

When are you meeting with her? By the time I would bring up an allowance, she would have a new account and disappear for a while. Let us know what she wants for an allowance. Thanks!

**RVASpider** · 10-31-18 23:33

Originally Posted by MrBobDobalina [View Original Post]

I'll be in Richmond for business and have been messaging a couple potentials about meeting. I've texted with her and an "allowance" has not been negotiated. She seems ready to go right to the FC. Any intel from the Richmond forum brothers is appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4464c...4-5dc8230d5658

Let me know what you find out. I just started talking to her on the site.

**Tidad** · 10-30-18 21:44

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Hey all. Got a meet set up with this one. Kinda feeling there is going to be some GPS involved. Anyone have any information perhaps?

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf351...a-fe85ea0df1cd

Of course there is gps:

She's a stripper turning tricks; every day at work dudes tell her how hot she is in the only way that counts, with their wallets. Now she is offering the hot wet goodness; its going to cost.