"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Peter Johnson]

I've been talking with lady going back to October. For various reasons we didn't get to actually meet until recently. It looks like she's put on a fair amount of weight since the pics were taken or she just takes great pics. Most women have an unbelievable ability to choose the most flattering positions, etc to make themselves look their best. Anyway, the difference was such that I decided not to proceed and I honestly don't mind a little weight on a woman.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ab4095650d11

I was talking to her off and on too and may have to bail on that project.

I was just texting with one who looks good but wants $200 up front on first lunch date and then $600 per visit. Nope, not for me.

[CatchNGo]

Thanks much. Very detailed and helpful review and some wise words in there as well.

Some guys get carried away sometimes.

[CatchNGo]

She's got to be 3 months behind in MOST cases, and even then it takes at least 30 days from the day the court signs the eviction notice. If she's going to be evicted I might want to know where she's living, for $333.00 a month, I could save a enough on my rent to afford the commute from Athens and still have some left to play with. Sounds like she should have been asking for help a lot sooner, or at least have a better excuse for needing a $1000.

Side note:

Don't you just love it when they move into these $1800+/ month apartments in Buckhead / Midtown etc. And can't afford the rent the 3rd month into a 12 month lease.

I chatted with her months ago. She quoted 400 per meet. So I told her I don't think that would work. I told her I would give her 200. She said that was too low. Fast forward two months I get a text out the blue saying she needs money by the 5th for her rent. Can we meet asap she will take 200. I told her I would think about it. Because at the time I had another new chic lined up. Asked her how long would we have together since I would have to drive all the way to Athens, rent a room, pick her up, handle biz, take her back home then drive back. She says 45 min-1 hr. I told her I would need more time and multiple pops since I had a long drive and had to play chauffeur. She seemed to not want to play for more than an hour for 200. I told her if I were closer I could probably understand, but it just wouldn't be worth all the hassle. That was in December, I see she is still using the same story.

[Harley32]

I've been talking with lady going back to October. For various reasons we didn't get to actually meet until recently. It looks like she's put on a fair amount of weight since the pics were taken or she just takes great pics. Most women have an unbelievable ability to choose the most flattering positions, etc to make themselves look their best. Anyway, the difference was such that I decided not to proceed and I honestly don't mind a little weight on a woman.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ab4095650d11

[Peter Johnson]

I guess I'm jaded, but I get so many requests like this daily from girls on SA. I generally block them if they even hint at wanting money upfront, no matter how sad their story is. EVERY time I've declined but offered to meet and then provide money they have quit responding. I know it's that time of the month when rent is due and they come out of the woodwork, but asking for money like that is a big red flag for me.

You aren't jaded. You just live in the real world and the overwhelming majority of times, that is a scam and the chicks are trying to steal from you. Sometimes it's worth taking a risk if it's a small amount, but generally it's not even a good idea to meet a girl who begs like that. They are trouble and could steal from you or who knows. I would only send money to someone upfront if it was my idea and then it sure wouldn't be much. Maybe $20 or $30 max.

Anyway I'm continuing my western NC / eastern TN "SA tour" and definitely frustrating to get these girls to meet up, but I've gotten four in nine days, so I guess should not complain. Atlanta was always shit for me with CL and I fear will be the same for me with SA, at least compared to these other areas. I guess it's partly because I like fair skinned white girls the best and there are a lot of those out in the country. But they also seem to have less of an attitude than ATL chicks. However, there are still some good local ones and I will just have to look harder for them when I return home.

[2me4Looking2]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-2f9690bd33b3

Emergency, guys! We have a Sugar Baby in need. This chic just text me out of the blue stating that she needs just $1,000 bucks to stop from getting evicted. She said she would repay with a couple of sesssions. Any of you fat pockets willing to lend a helping hand? I told her she should probably do it in $200 increments. She wanted to know if I knew anyone that can help, so here you guys go. She really seems sincere, guys. I think. Says she needs the money in a couple days before she gets evicted.

I guess I'm jaded, but I get so many requests like this daily from girls on SA. I generally block them if they even hint at wanting money upfront, no matter how sad their story is. EVERY time I've declined but offered to meet and then provide money they have quit responding. I know it's that time of the month when rent is due and they come out of the woodwork, but asking for money like that is a big red flag for me.

[2me4Looking2]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

Assuming you did the deed on that second meetup, I'd say you scored a nice free hookup and you should take the win and move on. Just be sure you don't give her any kind of personal info, because she is Kraykray. If you didn't bang her, cut your losses and run.

[Peter Johnson]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

Dude, I know the pussy is good and can be addictive, but you need to be strong and disciplined and break it off with that chick. She is probably a black widow type. We all know how a woman can wreck your entire life with any kind of baseless accusation. She is either insane or an evil c*nt, so in both cases, you need to get far away and hope she forgets about you ASAP. You got in there once and had those DDs in your face, so just be thankful about that. Don't fall in love with a crazy psychobitch.

And I say this all from a supportive place and most of us have fallen into the same traps. So just trying to help you not make the same mistakes and avoid a potential disaster.

And also thanks for the review and letting us know who she is, so we can avoid. At least I'm going to avoid that one for sure.

[Harley32]

My advice, just leave her alone, she has given you all the warning signs that she is loko and yet you still want to see her again. Seriously?

Lilbitbabygirl.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-6c1d453cd017

She's a little north of Atlanta in Cartersville. Her pics don't really do her justice. Natural DDs on that small frame. It was fun till it all went to shit.

[Airmantroy]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-2f9690bd33b3

Emergency, guys! We have a Sugar Baby in need. This chic just text me out of the blue stating that she needs just $1,000 bucks to stop from getting evicted. She said she would repay with a couple of sesssions. Any of you fat pockets willing to lend a helping hand? I told her she should probably do it in $200 increments. She wanted to know if I knew anyone that can help, so here you guys go. She really seems sincere, guys. I think. Says she needs the money in a couple days before she gets evicted.

She's got to be 3 months behind in MOST cases, and even then it takes at least 30 days from the day the court signs the eviction notice. If she's going to be evicted I might want to know where she's living, for $333.00 a month, I could save a enough on my rent to afford the commute from Athens and still have some left to play with. Sounds like she should have been asking for help a lot sooner, or at least have a better excuse for needing a $1000.

Side note:

Don't you just love it when they move into these $1800+/ month apartments in Buckhead / Midtown etc. And can't afford the rent the 3rd month into a 12 month lease.

[JeffInnAtlanta]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

Where is the link for her profile or her SA name? This forum is to identify and review SBs, good or bad. You need to post her info and forget about her.

[JustMikey]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

I've run across a couple of bunny boilers on SA. Best to just ignore her. There are people on SA, just as in the general population, that are mentally disturbed. Some of them are beautiful and articulate, but still disturbed. Nothing good will come of pursuing her. She could have a good boyfriend waiting, a camera and plans of blackmail, even just a girlfriend outside to key your car. How do I know this? Yeah.

[Sgt Soros]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

My advice, just leave her alone, she has given you all the warning signs that she is loko and yet you still want to see her again. Seriously?

[Harley32]

I just had a very awkward experience with a new to me SB. Met her the other day for dinner and drinks to see if we clicked. Everything went great and we made plans to meet again. We'd spoken of the support ahead of time and I'm quite honestly on the bargain side most of the time. She was fine with it. We met and had a great time until right at the end. We were talking about meeting up again and the subject of the support came up and she suddenly started talking about expecting $$$$ for that night. I was flabbergasted. We'd NEVER spoken of anything remotely like that. Needless to say things went downhill really quickly. I had such a good time and wanted to see her again, so I tried to come up with something that was a good bit more than I'd planned on or we'd talked about. She didn't want to have anything to do with that and literally refused to take anything from me. I left and later got a text from her. She threatened to give me a terrible review. Is there a SB counterpart to this website? Is there a feedback mechanism on SA itself? I'm just curious. I'm going to try reaching out to her tomorrow after she's had a chance to think things over. I'd still love to figure a way to see her again.

[Peter Johnson]

Saw this chick a couple months ago several times. She is a cute mixed chic.
When we post these quotes and experiences do not go back and tell these chicks or whine because you can't get these chicks to duplicate what they did for another guy. As we always say YMMV. A lot of times the experience is based on connection and that is why some guys get "special treatment" sometimes.

This is her SA link.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-80883a67b441

Thanks much. Very detailed and helpful review and some wise words in there as well.