"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[StudMonquie]

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...d-63f2a87fda40

She keeps hitting me up via text and I haven't had a chance to clear my schedule, but one text out of the blue wanted me to come over to spend the night with her and her bff. Wish I was single again.

[Peter Johnson]

Ok just scored my first one from SA. Mid 30's and up in NC area. I won't give out her name, because she wouldn't want that. But really sweet girl and we didn't even discuss the "arrangement" beforehand. She is in her 30's and chunky, so I was thinking maybe 1. 2 tops beforehand, but she was such a sweetheart and did BBFS and BBBJTCWS, plus she let me take pics and vid so I gave her about 3. 0 (but not in cash). Just gift cards and such. I'm definitely up for helping a single mom out if she makes me feel good and this girl definitely earned it.

This is the kind of girl I could probably get on a dating site for "free", although she might not have wanted to talk to me because I'm so much older than she is. So SA just lets you cut through the nonsense and also find women who aren't going to want to date for weeks before allowing you in those panties. It is more efficient, and again, time is money, so I think it's really going to be a good fit for me. Also Cash is King and I don't like to part with my cash, so if I can find girls who I can give Amazon gc to or whatever, it just works better for me. Most BP girls aren't going to go for that.

I was going to meet up with some more SA prospects on this trip, but this girl drained me pretty good, so may have to wait until another visit. I'm sure I could perform adequately, but I need to be backed up to have it be mind-blowing. And at this age, that takes a few days at least. It's frustrating though, and I have some really good prospects in this area, including a 20 why / o spinner who sent me topless pics and she looks incredible.

So this was an excellent start to my SA activities. Not an incredible score, but incredible sex and I'll take the latter over the former, but of course to have them both together is the best. Anyway, thanks for all the help and advice in this thread and I'll try to make more solid contributions in the future.

[PeteAppleSeed]

This "girl" (I'm trying not to call her names) is asking for 2. 5 K to "help her mom get out of jail" which she will repay you in get-togethers.

For the first time I laughed angry.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...9-0b4df07c087c

By the way she's a profile switcher. So I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of the young asian girls in there would be only her.

[Peter Johnson]

I started by saying hi and if she wanted to get together and she replied yeah if your real, so I continue to talk to prove I'm real and when I start proposing arrengements to meet she freaks out sayin "this isn't that" so I ask what is it?

And trust me, it's not that I approached her the wrong way, I've been on SA for about six months and I have bagged countless girls and some of them still call me even though they're long gone from there.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-ca1fa2ce2a05

There are quite a few of them on there like that, and often the better looking ones and just figure guys will pay them just to have the privilege of looking at them and talking some. And some of them don't even want to meet in person.

I guess there's nothing inherently wrong with that and maybe some rich billionaires like to help pretty young women, with nothing in return. I suppose it is similar to camgirls who just get naked online and guys give them money.

Of course, I'm not going for that. Out of principle, if nothing else, they aren't getting my hard earned $ without making me feel good, somehow. And if they make me feel really good, then I am very generous.

But once I see a profile that is looking for "platonic", I just hide that person and block them.

I recently met up with a lady who told me the first guy she met gave her $1 k to help her out with no expectations in return. But there are guys out there willing to give these ladies a lot money without doing much or anything.

Yes exactly...it's just like giving to charity and I can see how some rich, old dudes would do that, even though it makes things more difficult for the non obscenely wealthy mongers out here.

[Harley32]

I started by saying hi and if she wanted to get together and she replied yeah if your real, so I continue to talk to prove I'm real and when I start proposing arrengements to meet she freaks out sayin "this isn't that" so I ask what is it?

She asks did you not read my profile? Which I did.

Then she asked how can she be assured that I will be at the location that I propose that we meet and I say well because this is an arrangement we both have something to gain from each other and she's like I'm not here for that so I ask her OK so you get financial aid for me and I get what exactly? And she says oh no This isn't BP have a nice day.

So another words this girl wants financial aid and mentorship for exactly not one goddamn thing from her other than attitude.

And trust me, it's not that I approached her the wrong way, I've been on SA for about six months and I have bagged countless girls and some of them still call me even though they're long gone from there.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-ca1fa2ce2a05

I recently met up with a lady who told me the first guy she met gave her $1 k to help her out with no expectations in return. I obviously told her that wasn't something I could do or was even interested in. We ended up meeting and having a car date. Got naked, gave me a BJ to completion and a few minutes later told me this wasn't something she wanted to continue. We had planned on going several times, dinner, etc. I took her back and gave her part of what we'd agreed and she said it wasn't necessary. She deleted her profile and I guess got out of the game. But there are guys out there willing to give these ladies a lot money without doing much or anything. That's why you see the scammers on SA.

[P Connoisseur]

She stays in long stay motel in Dallas. About to head her way for my second time.

Can she host? Any of you guys aware of SA gals that can host? I know its not commonplace but any that you know of that can please share. Thanks.

[PeteAppleSeed]

I started by saying hi and if she wanted to get together and she replied yeah if your real, so I continue to talk to prove I'm real and when I start proposing arrengements to meet she freaks out sayin "this isn't that" so I ask what is it?

She asks did you not read my profile? Which I did.

Then she asked how can she be assured that I will be at the location that I propose that we meet and I say well because this is an arrangement we both have something to gain from each other and she's like I'm not here for that so I ask her OK so you get financial aid for me and I get what exactly? And she says oh no This isn't BP have a nice day.

So another words this girl wants financial aid and mentorship for exactly not one goddamn thing from her other than attitude.

And trust me, it's not that I approached her the wrong way, I've been on SA for about six months and I have bagged countless girls and some of them still call me even though they're long gone from there.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-ca1fa2ce2a05

[PeteAppleSeed]

I started by saying hi and if she wanted to get together and she replied yeah if your real, so I continue to talk to prove I'm real and when I start proposing arrengements to meet she freaks out sayin "this isn't that" so I ask what is it?

She asks did you not read my profile? Which I did.

Then she asked how can she be assured that I will be at the location that I propose that we meet and I say well because this is an arrangement we both have something to gain from each other and she's like I'm not here for that so I ask her OK so you get financial aid for me and I get what exactly? And she says oh no This isn't BP have a nice day.

So another words this girl wants financial aid and mentorship for exactly not one goddamn thing from her other than attitude.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...d-ca1fa2ce2a05

[WheresMyMule]

Can she host? Any of you guys aware of SA gals that can host? I know its not commonplace but any that you know of that can please share. Thanks.

[Peter Johnson]

More about SD. I am starting to realize that there is a pretty good amount of fake profiles on there. I don't doubt that SA puts them up there to keep guys interested.

But they usually have one head shot photo of the woman, often sort of off kilter in the frame..and usually quasi modeling short or at least not totally amateur. No additional photos and very little text in the profile. Usually just one generic line in About me and What they are looking for. You know women like to talk about themselves, so just seems fake.

I wrote a couple of these and got a short reply back, but also very possible that SA does this just to keep the carrot dangling out there on the stick. It's not a huge drawback, because there are enough real women to keep me busy for awhile, but maybe not the goldmine that I first envisioned. However, headed north today and have a couple of prospects to meet up with tomorrow, if they don't flake on me. Not hot college girls, but I'm attracted to them and they seem fun. And won't be a huge expense, even if all goes according to plan.

[TheJasonator]

Damn she must be getting a lot of attention and cash flow from guys in this thread, but sounds like she deserves it. Good service should be rewarded with $$ I talked to her today as well, but just didn't work out to get together but going to try again soon.

Just like the other post she is a little big, mostly open with what you'd like as long as she is taken care of since she is needing a bit of help. Just hope that the more traffic going thru doesn't make them get the GPS.

[Teninchthri]

Thanks for the pointers after I balance my budget for next month I think I might partake! Stay tuned.

I just got on there but can tell it is incredible. Best invention in human history. Well maybe #2 behind GPS, but it's up there.

It allows regular girls to feel good about whoring themselves out. It makes it socially acceptable. And of course it should be and no reason to feel bad about, but we know that many people can't think for themselves. Plus I guess if they are posting on a public site, it does need to be ok with their peer group.

I can't believe it took me so long to find the site and I was just plain dumb for not signing up earlier. It's a game changer.

And you can use Vanilla prepaid mc to pay for it. Get the orange $100 oe at Walmart and works fine. I think you can set the zip code and just put any name for what's supposedly on the card. But worked for me and will get another card every month. Well worth it if you do hardly any hobbying at all.

[Peter Johnson]

You guys in this thread until you post some pictures of these babes I think I will roll dice in the real world rather than a maintenance fee just to play.

Somebody give me some insight on a viable prepaid credit card and I might partake. I would like to stop being so envious.

LOL.

I just got on there but can tell it is incredible. Best invention in human history. Well maybe #2 behind GPS, but it's up there.

It allows regular girls to feel good about whoring themselves out. It makes it socially acceptable. And of course it should be and no reason to feel bad about, but we know that many people can't think for themselves. Plus I guess if they are posting on a public site, it does need to be ok with their peer group.

I can't believe it took me so long to find the site and I was just plain dumb for not signing up earlier. It's a game changer.

And you can use Vanilla prepaid mc to pay for it. Get the orange $100 oe at Walmart and works fine. I think you can set the zip code and just put any name for what's supposedly on the card. But worked for me and will get another card every month. Well worth it if you do hardly any hobbying at all.

[P Connoisseur]

You sound so much like me. I wish you well in your endeavors. I will share with you for sure. My fave is Twilight_Kiss. Her profile shows PA but she is in NW GA. She will squirt if you treat her right. My second is a younger woman but very hot sarbearxxx. Both are very sexual and for me BBFS which I so like.

Take care dude.

PC.

Also, for me, a lot of it is how backed up I am, what time of day it is, etc. I've learned my best times for action are 11 am to 3 pm. Late at night, I just don't enjoy as much and of course don't enjoy if I just busted a few hours before. So when everything comes together and you are in the mood and you get a woman who is in the mood and even if she isn't smoking hot, it can be one of the best experiences. Somehow the stakes are not as high with the average / homely ones too and that lets me relax more and I often enjoy. But not downplaying the power of a hot, young, firm young woman. That can take you to another planet if it's good but often times it just falls far shot of the potential.

BTW, I talked to Mamichula31 and sounds like she could be fun but wants 3. 0 and seems all about business. She has four kids, so I get it but I doubt going to go there with all the more promising prospects I have lined up.

[Peter Johnson]

Peter.

I so agree with your thinking here. I go for the experience not the hotness. My best on SA have been older and less perfect bodies but real women who just want to fuck. I have had an awesome 5 month run on SA and plan to continue. I will respond to another post on my experience I had today.

PC.

Also, for me, a lot of it is how backed up I am, what time of day it is, etc. I've learned my best times for action are 11 am to 3 pm. Late at night, I just don't enjoy as much and of course don't enjoy if I just busted a few hours before. So when everything comes together and you are in the mood and you get a woman who is in the mood and even if she isn't smoking hot, it can be one of the best experiences. Somehow the stakes are not as high with the average / homely ones too and that lets me relax more and I often enjoy. But not downplaying the power of a hot, young, firm young woman. That can take you to another planet if it's good but often times it just falls far shot of the potential.

BTW, I talked to Mamichula31 and sounds like she could be fun but wants 3. 0 and seems all about business. She has four kids, so I get it, but I doubt going to go there with all these more promising prospects I have lined up.