"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Leep12]

Hey all!

First time posting. Just wanted to start off by saying thank you! I've learned a lot from this page. So I decided to give SA a try. This one girl messages me her number and we start to text. She goes right to business. She offers FS. I ask her how much. She wants $300. I offer $200 bc I also need to book a room. She says she is ok with $300. I'm ok with that bc from her pics she is pretty smoking. She has sent me another pic through text. A red flag goes off in my head bc I'm thinking this is TGTBT. So I ask her to send me a pic with something on the today's date. I'm scared she is going to bait and switch me. She never returns my text. Did I do the right thing? I'm really trying to message a lot of girls but no luck so far. They all give sob stories or just want to take it slow. Any help would be appreciated!

Sillygirlllll https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...e-c9b2eb939db3.

IDK, nothing ventured, nothing gained. I'm new at this SA stuff also just one week in. I say if the two pics are pretty close, meet for a drink or coffee before you book the room then decide if possible. These girls seem to be big on the vibes they get, so not shocked she bailed out. All the texting bs these days doesn't help, that seems to be a skill in itself. This isn't BP where you just show up with money and start stoking.

[Eustisflman]

Yep, she wanted to drive from Smyrna to my area. I was getting super excited but glad my big head stepped in. I feel good about my decision.

If you follow the rules for SB SD. Always meet out for drinks, coffee or food. Then you have no commitment and can check everything out before pulling the trigger. If you want a show up and fuck. That's not a SD. If they want a show up and fuck. They are a not a SB. Yes both are for sex. One is a drop and fuck, the other is let me work my way into your 21 year old panties and we can both savor the fun.

EFM.

[Member #6396]

I'm not sure about her but she used to go by the name ilovegucci. She wanted me to come to her place in Smyrna for a quick BJ. I passed due to price and distance.

Yep, she wanted to drive from Smyrna to my area. I was getting super excited but glad my big head stepped in. I feel good about my decision.

[GA400]

Hey all!

First time posting. Just wanted to start off by saying thank you! I've learned a lot from this page. So I decided to give SA a try. This one girl messages me her number and we start to text. She goes right to business. She offers FS. I ask her how much. She wants $300. I offer $200 bc I also need to book a room. She says she is ok with $300. I'm ok with that bc from her pics she is pretty smoking. She has sent me another pic through text. A red flag goes off in my head bc I'm thinking this is TGTBT. So I ask her to send me a pic with something on the today's date. I'm scared she is going to bait and switch me. She never returns my text. Did I do the right thing? I'm really trying to message a lot of girls but no luck so far. They all give sob stories or just want to take it slow. Any help would be appreciated!

Sillygirlllll https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...e-c9b2eb939db3.

I'm not sure about her but she used to go by the name ilovegucci. She wanted me to come to her place in Smyrna for a quick BJ. I passed due to price and distance.

[Member #6396]

Hey all!

First time posting. Just wanted to start off by saying thank you! I've learned a lot from this page. So I decided to give SA a try. This one girl messages me her number and we start to text. She goes right to business. She offers FS. I ask her how much. She wants $300. I offer $200 bc I also need to book a room. She says she is ok with $300. I'm ok with that bc from her pics she is pretty smoking. She has sent me another pic through text. A red flag goes off in my head bc I'm thinking this is TGTBT. So I ask her to send me a pic with something on the today's date. I'm scared she is going to bait and switch me. She never returns my text. Did I do the right thing? I'm really trying to message a lot of girls but no luck so far. They all give sob stories or just want to take it slow. Any help would be appreciated!

Sillygirlllll https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...e-c9b2eb939db3.

[Airmantroy]

This one asked for $500 per meet. I offered $200 and she said ok. I am still on the fence because she is not flirty in messages, all business.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-80534ce78b0d

I'd wager that she isn't flirty because she's Asian and quite possibly very shy, you might want to give that one a hard look and see if she matches her pics. She has that "shy girl who'll fuck you senseless" look.

[AtlGent]

This one asked for $500 per meet. I offered $200 and she said ok. I am still on the fence because she is not flirty in messages, all business.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-80534ce78b0d

[Leep12]

[ . She was however fine with bare. Since I can get that on BP without having to get a room I'm passing.

Yea, I was shocked the SB I was with went to jump on bare. Had to stop her. Mine are still swimming, just what I need a prego SB. Talk about an expensive date.

[Leep12]

No, there's a wide variety of expectations on SA, everything from 10 k / month to 100 per meeting. The more you're willing to pay, the easier it is to get what you're looking for. Want a young coed, no problem. But you can still find lots of desirable SBs at more reasonable rates if you're willing to do a little more work. And there's really no comparison between a true SB and BP.

Thanks for the info and input here. I'm just getting started on this, but I think its going to be fun. From the one girl I've gotten with so far. I know she was DTF and wold have gone till the next morning. Most the BP girls just want to you to nut quick and get to the next guy.

[MrMalik750]

We were supposed to meet say 2 days ago but trying to be cautious, I asked if I could hear her voice to rule out any possibility that she could be a TS. She made an excuse that she couldn't talk about our arrangement because she was with her friend, whom she later let me know was a female and the fact that her friend won't be watching or joining in. I asked her to still call and we can talk about food or some other random topic just so I could put a voice to her pics.

Bad timing on my part, she called when I was at home with the game warden so of course I didn't answer. She called 3 more times and all I could do was watch it ring in silent mode. I made the lame excuse via text that my phone wouldn't allow me to swipe over and answer.

The next day I apologized on behalf of my phone and our conversation went like this after my apology and her notifying me that it wasn't going to work anyway because her car broke down.

Me: What's wrong with your car?

Her: It's one of my axles messing up my transmission won't go into gearover $400 fix that I just don't have. I just replaced my alternator, battery and tires last week. If I don't figure something out going to have to quit working and idk if I told you but I have a daughter. I can't go without a job I'm so frustrated.

Me: Wow!.

I know her personally she is a good girl she use to live in Atlanta. Met her off of CL few years ago she will take care if you. She actually came to my house and was waiting for on some guy to call her back. She fell asleep in my driveway LOL. I don't post on her I'm a big time lurker but there are some people on here that know me.

[2me4Looking2]

I have been chatting with her and I was fairly certain based on her pictures that she was a BP girl. She sent me some pics and I can confirm she is / was, but I don't think she still posts. She was based on Conyers. She has had numerous SA profiles and I actually contacted her when I first signed up a couple of years ago and she went off on me when I wanted to first meet her in public and called me all kinds of names. She has changed her tune and is adhering more to the conduct of a sugar baby, but once we started talking money she was all business. Wanted a $400 allowance and is only available in the evenings. When I countered with 150, she said OK, but only sex, no oral and no kissing on the mouth. She was however fine with bare. Since I can get that on BP without having to get a room I'm passing.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...6-a06bdcc9e674

I actually don't have an issue with BP girls being on there, but I'm not going to pay triple the price just because I contacted them on SA rather than their BP add.

[Harley32]

Maybe you look for the older and ugly ones for a deal. But you might as well go back to CL or BP at that point.

No, there's a wide variety of expectations on SA, everything from 10 k / month to 100 per meeting. The more you're willing to pay, the easier it is to get what you're looking for. Want a young coed, no problem. But you can still find lots of desirable SBs at more reasonable rates if you're willing to do a little more work. And there's really no comparison between a true SB and BP.

[LaidLow17]

So I just saw the "Shelby" that a couple others have posted about. It was a weird one for me. Communication was a little spotty when I went to pick her up. Gave me an address then texts me from a different number saying she's in an Uber on the way to some other place. Definitely sketchy I think, but I roll with it because I'm horny. I get to the chick fil a she said to meet her at, and it's definitely her. She's the same girl in the pics, looks just as good. Get in the car and start talking, she's buzzed a little but still coherent (though she kept trying to ask me the same questions and tell me the same stories all night). On the way to the room she's rubbing my dick through my pants, and talks dirty. We get there and she starts feeling up on me and undressing immediately. She's definitely hot, and definitely energetic, but I just didn't click sexually with her. I'd describe her as thinking she's better than she is. Not in a GPS way, more like she and I just weren't on the same page. Anyway it was BBBJ, cfs, little daty, hit it, cum and I'm done. She gave me another BBBJ after, and I could have gone again I just didn't want to tbh. Drop her back at her place and I'm done. All told 1 hr 1. 5, down from 2. Idk whether to recommend or not. She's hot, fair, energetic, and not a rusher I just didn't click. Give her a shot if you want.

[AtlGent]

This one has the best sexting game I have met so far. I haven't gotten to the negotiations yet, but if you are into sexting, check her out.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...1-c2b21c9442fd

[Leep12]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-92b519ae95c8

I talked with this lovely lady a few days ago and she was just out of the range I'm comfortable in. I always discuss support expectation before getting into other details so I can't tell you what all is or isn't' on the table service wise. She initially asked for 400 per meet but was willing to accept 200. I know that many of you wouldn't balk at that.

I new on SA also, but this seems to be a hybrid cross between true dating and escort service. You were lucky to get that price from her upfront, she was cute and at least you know if you showed up with 2 bones you likely get laid. Most of these girls aren't going to discuss money and for what I gather $200 or so is pretty standard but no one size fits all.

I'm thinking you work your way in and if they like you and your dick game you put some package deals together and you take care of each other in time of need. But you have to put in some Schooze time so they don't feel like working girls and you have a relationship of sorts.

Maybe you look for the older and ugly ones for a deal. But you might as well go back to CL or BP at that point.