"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Leep12]

So I read several pages back on the SA forum here and was impressed with what a lot of folks have said. So I set up my profile and started searching. Am I missing something? I figured there would be a huge amount of women in our area. Looks like maybe 50 active women and half of them are welfare momas??

Am I correct in assuming that if they have not been active in the past month it is probably not worth contacting them?

Not saying there is nothing I would be interested in, but damn.

[Airmantroy]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-373e72de0b45

She has several posts on CL in the past 12 hours, she must be needing cash. She's on the eastside.

[JeffInnAtlanta]

Kane2017 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-a2a5f67c1a27.

This one is in a huge hurry. She wants to lunch and hotel in the same afternoon. I think she's desperate for money. She's cute, and may be a lot of fun. Good luck.

[AtlGent]

I have only been on the site for a week, but I have already been on three dates. My date yesterday was so good, I agreed to an allowance. She asked for $300 per week, but I talked her down to $200 per week for 2-3 visits per week. The date lasted almost five hours, everything bare, and both of us had several orgasms. It took a lot of texting to get her out, but it was fun-most girls want to get to know you before they meet. I usually read their profile and ask them questions based on what they wrote. As others have stated, this site is well worth the money and effort. I am not wasting my time on escorts anymore. These girls behave like they are your girlfriend, they really want to please you so that you keep coming back. I have several more dates lined up this week, this week is going to be a lot of fun!

[JeffInnAtlanta]

Kane2017 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...c-a2a5f67c1a27.

Candyapple1798 - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-0f1387cad6fb.

They both seem like time wasters to me. Anyone have any contact with them?

[John HandCock]

I swear I should offer a class "How to approach a girl on SA 101" .

It's simple, just approach these girls like you are meeting them in Kroger, no stupid code words, acronyms, slang. If they are pros, they'll be obvious in their reply and you can either pounce or bounce. With a couple of rare exceptions I have never discussed specific acts with any of them prior to them crawling in my bed. ALMOST all of them know it's about getting laid, if they don't they are on the wrong site. And NEVER EVER discuss a specific amount of time with them, regardless if they are a pro or not.

Some people have no social skill that's why the sex industry exist. If everyone had the skills to pick a girl up in krogers most wouldn't be here.

[Airmantroy]

I swear I should offer a class "How to approach a girl on SA 101" .

It's simple, just approach these girls like you are meeting them in Kroger, no stupid code words, acronyms, slang. If they are pros, they'll be obvious in their reply and you can either pounce or bounce. With a couple of rare exceptions I have never discussed specific acts with any of them prior to them crawling in my bed. ALMOST all of them know it's about getting laid, if they don't they are on the wrong site. And NEVER EVER discuss a specific amount of time with them, regardless if they are a pro or not.

[John HandCock]

I had a few emails back and forth with them today and they are in agreement with me that me stating what I wanted in my exchanges with some of the women on there that I should not have been banned for a day. Told me that they are going to consider things I said for future reference too.

Alot of problems can be avoided by who you are contacting and selection of words. If you send a message asking how much per hour, specfic sex acts to a civy girl then your going to get reported. The first time you might get warned but there is usually a history of that before getting suspended. The message sent to one girl might be all right while same message to the next girl will offend.

[Zipper34]

I chatted with this one and she wanted to meet, but I couldn't ever make it work. She never mentioned me giving her anything upfront. I can't really vouch for her, I can only say that she seemed legitimately interested in meeting me and never mentioned an upfront gift. That being said, I'd say hell no to anyone wanting anything before meeting. If they back down then fine, but if not, good riddance.

CCAT was a scammer. Only had been on there for so long because nobody reported her I guess. Talked to her on Facebook after she got kicked and told me she paid 80 for a membership and that is a lie. Unless she is a sugar mommy. Too bad.

[Zipper34]

I chatted with this one and she wanted to meet, but I couldn't ever make it work. She never mentioned me giving her anything upfront. I can't really vouch for her, I can only say that she seemed legitimately interested in meeting me and never mentioned an upfront gift. That being said, I'd say hell no to anyone wanting anything before meeting. If they back down then fine, but if not, good riddance.

CCAT was a scammer. Only had been on there for so long because nobody reported her I guess. Talked to her on Facebook after she got kicked and told me she paid 80 for a membership and that is a lie. Unless she is a sugar mommy. Too bad.

[Zipper34]

For that reason I never discuss any $$ or expectations on SA. If the POT is serious she will give you her text#. I just tell them that I don't discuss those issues on here, we need to take the conversation offline. If she's serious you will know immediately. SA does enforce their rules, especially when reported and some of these * who think you will give them $500 to buy them will turn you in.

Get them off of the internal messaging app asap and onto text or an offline messaging program.

I had a few emails back and forth with them today and they are in agreement with me that me stating what I wanted in my exchanges with some of the women on there that I should not have been banned for a day. Told me that they are going to consider things I said for future reference too.

[KingSlayer22]

SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.

Get them off of the internal messaging app asap and onto text or an offline messaging program.

[CletePurcell]

SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.

For that reason I never discuss any $$ or expectations on SA. If the POT is serious she will give you her text#. I just tell them that I don't discuss those issues on here, we need to take the conversation offline. If she's serious you will know immediately. SA does enforce their rules, especially when reported and some of these * who think you will give them $500 to buy them will turn you in.

[Johnny Mapalo]

[Deleted by Admin]Dude, you can't go around approaching those gals like you approach those hoes on BP. I can see your text now, "Hi, how much for an hour of GFE, multi-pop, with anal? Does $200 sound good ". LOL.

[blu]Really? Why not? They are prostitutes and the sooner you can weed out the 50% who think they aren't the better.

If a woman won't fuck you without getting paid regardless of what you call her she's a prostitute. Sugar babies are hookers end of story.

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[Zipper34]

SA just kicked me off the site for a day because of me being reported for wanting sex in my arrangements too many times. Trying to see what's up on that.