"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Readytogetonit]

What I propose is:

1) We make posts about HOW it was a success. Share some insights about your ways of approach and game.

2) Share your failures and bad experiences, so the stronger players can give advice.

3) Rants?

1. I achieved success staying AWAY from the exact same types of women I would stay away from in real life. If you look like someone I would hesitate to approach in real life, I avoid on SA. In real life, I avoid chicks who look "too hot". It screams high maintenance (which means high sugar), late for dates because of time for putting on warpaint (eh, makeup).

2. Fail #1. (All of this in 3 weeks!) Didn't M&G a chick, and only had face, pussy / thigh, and ass / leg shots. Our first meeting was at her house at 10:00 at night. She was cute, but bigger than her pics. If it was a proper M&G before I committed, I wouldn't have moved forward to FC. Nowhere to bail out, and the little head had been doing the thinking all day, so I was stuck.

Fail #2. Spent too much time texting what turned out to be a bat shit crazy chick who lived so far away, that I wasn't ever going to close escrow with anyway. Figure out how far you're willing to travel for SB time, and figure out if they're within proximity QUICKLY!

Fail #3. Almost blew an opportunity with a chick because I spent TOO MUCH time messaging, and then texting. These chicks have a lot of dudes on their phone and chat window, and most of them are full of shit, and won't come through. They are on SA for a reason. They need something, and they have already resigned themselves to giving something to get something! So, strike while the iron is HOT! Just met her for lunch, and she's much happier, and I have memories that will last me for hours. Until I need another nut.

Rant:

Young chicks that hit me up are usually dangerous. While they're smoking hot, 98.7% of them have GPS, and I don't have the patience to weed through them, so I don't bother.

Why is it that these chicks are on a SB / SD website, but still want to act like they're on match.com and do conventional dating stuff? Oh wait. They're all having a crisis of conscience. They're further along in the understanding that all women prostitute themselves in some fashion, but they're not ready to fully digest the reality of said fact.

[P Connoisseur]

All,

Been watching this thread for a while and decided to take the plunge. I started this past Sunday. Since then I have had an all three hole session with a mature bbw which was amazing and just finished a super snuggling session in her car outside the restaurant we had lunch at. We are already scheduled for our next meet at her place. Based on how far I got in her car in the parking lot I am looking forward to some good lovin. She is in her 40's and looks great. All of this and I was out of town for part of the week too. When I view profiles on SA I start getting messages back. I'm mostly interested in 30 and 40's year old. I will read up on all the advice I see below. It should only get better and better. Glad this thread is active.

PC.

[RipperMagoo]

This is exactly how people got outed with Ashley Madison. You have no way of knowing how secure their site is and these sites are prime targets for a hack because every guy is blackmail material or some so called social justice cause. I'd strongly advise that you use a prepaid visa and a fake name. I did that and had no issues.

If Ashley Madison didn't clue people in, then I don't know what will. Always pay with a pre-paid cad. If you do PayPal, fund it with prepaid cards. ALWAYS. And use an email address that never is used for anything but SA. Don't even give the password reset email to a legit email address. NEVER.

[LazaroRosales]

I second this. You can also just link a credit card to the dummy PayPal account and pay using that. The charge will appear as W8 Tech Limited on your PayPal statement and as PayPal *W8TECH.COM on your CC statement.

Make a dummy PayPal account then send money to that account using your PayPal account you use regularly. And Pay with dummy.

[2me4Looking2]

I've always paid with my personal AMEX card, never a problem. They even have it stored for quick renewal. The item on your bill says something else. NOT SA.

This is exactly how people got outed with Ashley Madison. You have no way of knowing how secure their site is and these sites are prime targets for a hack because every guy is blackmail material or some so called social justice cause. I'd strongly advise that you use a prepaid visa and a fake name. I did that and had no issues.

[RipperMagoo]

I am not going to use my credit card to sign up for SA site. Wanted to ask the team what cards did you use to pay for SA premium and anything to watch out for?

Buy a prepaid Visa with cash. It will cost you an extra 5. 99 or thereabouts, but it works.

[JShelly]

Recently joined SA on advice of seniors. Did have luck in finding but the price is too much like 350. And is only 5/10. Problem is I am getting the question asking to name the price and later they are adding 50-100 based on additions. I know a good sales person would know how to sell. But I am very new to this, appreciate inputs and go easy on me guys.

[Novalimber2]

An immediate red flag to me is that she's only 19 but has had this SA account for 2 years and 7 months. Hmmm, that doesn't add up to me!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

If you follow Vegas Wrap all through the threads, you will see that he met with them and hit a jackpot. In one post, he placed some pictures. He said they are pricey, but definitely model material. He rate one 10/10 and another as 9/10. I am not on SA, but I sure would like to hook if I had all the contact info.

[Durtybirds]

Hey guys, I've now cleared some Inbox space; sorry for the confusion.

One of my SA favorites has a room Friday night just south of Atlanta and is taking appointments. DM me and I'll get you details. Young, white, thin, great ass, bare.

Your box is full again.

Thanks.

[RWarNmsn69]

Has anyone had sensualkitty97 ?

They want a crazy allowance but they look TGTBT. Claiming to be 20 year old models. Some of these girls don't look enough like their pics when you meet them. This one seems legit enough.

Anyone have a review?

An immediate red flag to me is that she's only 19 but has had this SA account for 2 years and 7 months. Hmmm, that doesn't add up to me!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[Firm Offer]

I am not going to use my credit card to sign up for SA site. Wanted to ask the team what cards did you use to pay for SA premium and anything to watch out for?

I've always paid with my personal AMEX card, never a problem. They even have it stored for quick renewal. The item on your bill says something else. NOT SA.

[Grizzly383]

Make a dummy PayPal account then send money to that account using your PayPal account you use regularly. And Pay with dummy.

I am not going to use my credit card to sign up for SA site. Wanted to ask the team what cards did you use to pay for SA premium and anything to watch out for?

[Manzanito]

I am not going to use my credit card to sign up for SA site. Wanted to ask the team what cards did you use to pay for SA premium and anything to watch out for?

[Jaybirds]

Hey guys, I've now cleared some Inbox space; sorry for the confusion.

One of my SA favorites has a room Friday night just south of Atlanta and is taking appointments. DM me and I'll get you details. Young, white, thin, great ass, bare.

[Bigsqueeze]

I'm just passing on a good thing someone from the Virginia bunch worked up one day. Hop to their Virginia Board search these post# and go straight to the topic. Enjoy.

05-19-15 23:46 #9200.

USA SB Thread Highlights Part 2 - Contacting and Profiles.

Posts on how to handle contacting girls, setting up profiles, and handling initial negotiations. Note that these are in the order I found them, not chronological order:

John G Smith post #2285: red / green / pro flags in profiles.

F Scott post #2288: more red flags.

GuyWoodson post #1687: general SA guidelines / approach.

John G Smith post #1898: getting additional info via FB profiles, and unequal identity concerns.

HollywoodGuy post #2088: First version of his stock contact message.

John G Smith post #2233: screening guidelines and approaches.

HollywoodGuy post #2246: direct approach and what girls want.

John G Smith post #2250: caution with message wording.

SubCmdr post #2409: blunt approach to intentions.

Obx Fun post #15: general approach.

ThudPucker post #24: honesty in intentions.

Literal2 post #75: filtering time wasters.

Literal2 post #233: general approach.

Literal2 post #294: more approaches.

F Scott post #300: thoughts after posting a fake SB profile.

BigTigger post #405: approach for using the AM site.

Literal2 post #914: getting an agreement.

Coolhand2 post #918: first-time meetings right at the FC.

F Scott post #941: contact using words from their profile.

HollywoodGuy post #3320: approaching sugar as a salesperson.

HollywoodGuy post #4222: looking for a "friendly handshake" on the sale.

Revvo post #4711: adjusting your approach to match their expectations.

F Scott post #5015: polishing your profile and first message.

Revvo post #5116: being patient with an "abundance mentality".

Pats Fan1 post #5340: confidence and contacts.

UKnowWho post #5583: avoid "spoiled" and "pampered".

John G Smith post #5997: asking for pics to help filter prospects.

JeezLizard post #6101: organizing and tracking prospects.

DirtyDeeds38 post #6189: filtering and contacting approach.

DirtyDeeds38 post #6395: mentioning sugar and handling expectations.

FredMoore post #6396: making expectations clear.

John G Smith post #6397: caution with negotiating money.

FotoGuy1970 post #6693: answers to approach questions.

HollywoodGuy post #6956: Second version of his stock contact message.

ThirdCoaster post #6974: consistency between profile and message.

F Scott post #7787: quickly contacting new additions to the site.

JeezLizard post #8243: explanation for girls saying "I won't do. " in their profiles.

HollywoodGuy post #8252: Third version of his 5 Steps message.

HollywoodGuy post #8296: templates for mentioning donations.

HollywoodGuy post #8850: selectiveness and negotiating.

HollywoodGuy post #8978: Responding to a GPS request.