Streetwalker Reports

[JamesGlia]

Hey, thanks for the report! I dunno dude, some of the things you state are such that I would NEVER seek her out if this is the case. But several things here are instructive as ways to look at risk, so no offense intended - just some comments.

the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event

Eh, this is bad but NOT totally fatal. However, if you gave her money up front so she could get her drugs, then that is a problem. I have done that before and the girl disappears, never to return. I would NEVER allow a girl to buy dope (or any drugs) in my presence. Period. Drug charges are felonies that don't go away easily and being there puts you at risk of getting arrested too. Doesn't matter if you didn't hand any money to a dealer, Cops CAN and will arrest you and let the courts sort it out. That amigo is just too risky for me personally.

The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from.

WTF! For me this is a BIG red flag! HUGE! Any time I monger I realize I am the only one able to watch my back, so I always have a free & clear escape route. I never go into a situation where there is no easy exit and if that means not doing a date, then so be it. Safety to me is more important than any nut.

There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact.

OMG! Adding any dude or dudes into the mix, is for me a non-starter. A girl I can usually control, but a third party, especially a guy can mean serious trouble. But guys I can not make eye contact with? For me that is like a dog showing its belly- it demonstrates I am looking down in their presence and as such suggesting their superiority and my weakness. Now I know my limitations when it comes to street smarts, but that seems like something I wouldn't do. If I can't look a dude in the eye and give a head nod of mutual acceptance, I am out! If I had seen that I would have bounced, immediately.

So here you have two different styles of managing risk. Point is that I wasn't there, but to me it looks like more risk than I would want to take. Each monger needs to recognize potential risk and evaluate their ability to and willingness to handle situations if "things go bad. " Clearly this dude has a different risk tolerance structure than I do.

I'm just sayin'.


maybe there are methods for managing the risks I noted? methods or techniques that I am missing? I'd be interested to learn anything, as we are constantly learning in this hobby.

Now that I read all your comments, I am thinking to myself. WTF was I thinking. I clearly was just wanting to get off but screwed up in more ways than 1. I still feel new to this and I know I probably got caught up in the moment because the third time, she was not my intention, she was a hopeful fallback. I don't know the area well but was looking for the punk rock gal, after about 45 minutes of not finding her, or really anyone and seeing way too many LEO's. I texted Nikki. She was ready, I was a few minutes away and needed some relief but I did totally screw up on many fronts. IN FACT, her location is really a trap of all traps if anyone has ever been there. I guess if I meet her again, I will ask for car fun and see if she obliges. She told me she already had a paid vacation of sorts so maybe she does not want to go away again. I appreciate your comments, it has awakened me to my stupidity.

[NvrStlPhilly]

I did try to be as careful as possible and I could see a real difference in her and that was only about after a 4 week period. In fact, the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event. That is the first time someone did that in front of me, freaked me out but I could not leave. The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from. Does the mom work the crowd too? There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact. I would agree, her addiction is more rampant and that is just based on her change in appearance and change in her disregard for the money she would take.

Way to crazy. She has be seen seen yelling and screaming in public at others in BROAD daylight. Heavily addicted at the moment. Does BB with almost anyone. I doubt she will be on the street much longer. Stay Away.

[Cephlapod Love]

I did try to be as careful as possible and I could see a real difference in her and that was only about after a 4 week period. In fact, the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event. That is the first time someone did that in front of me, freaked me out but I could not leave. The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from. Does the mom work the crowd too? There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact. I would agree, her addiction is more rampant and that is just based on her change in appearance and change in her disregard for the money she would take.

Hey, thanks for the report! I dunno dude, some of the things you state are such that I would NEVER seek her out if this is the case. But several things here are instructive as ways to look at risk, so no offense intended - just some comments.

the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event

Eh, this is bad but NOT totally fatal. However, if you gave her money up front so she could get her drugs, then that is a problem. I have done that before and the girl disappears, never to return. I would NEVER allow a girl to buy dope (or any drugs) in my presence. Period. Drug charges are felonies that don't go away easily and being there puts you at risk of getting arrested too. Doesn't matter if you didn't hand any money to a dealer, Cops CAN and will arrest you and let the courts sort it out. That amigo is just too risky for me personally.

The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from.

WTF! For me this is a BIG red flag! HUGE! Any time I monger I realize I am the only one able to watch my back, so I always have a free & clear escape route. I never go into a situation where there is no easy exit and if that means not doing a date, then so be it. Safety to me is more important than any nut.

There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact.

OMG! Adding any dude or dudes into the mix, is for me a non-starter. A girl I can usually control, but a third party, especially a guy can mean serious trouble. But guys I can not make eye contact with? For me that is like a dog showing its belly- it demonstrates I am looking down in their presence and as such suggesting their superiority and my weakness. Now I know my limitations when it comes to street smarts, but that seems like something I wouldn't do. If I can't look a dude in the eye and give a head nod of mutual acceptance, I am out! If I had seen that I would have bounced, immediately.

So here you have two different styles of managing risk. Point is that I wasn't there, but to me it looks like more risk than I would want to take. Each monger needs to recognize potential risk and evaluate their ability to and willingness to handle situations if "things go bad. " Clearly this dude has a different risk tolerance structure than I do.

I'm just sayin'.


maybe there are methods for managing the risks I noted? methods or techniques that I am missing? I'd be interested to learn anything, as we are constantly learning in this hobby.

[Cephlapod Love]

Her addiction in high gear, keep a hand on your wallet!

EXACTLY! Rules #17 and #18 should be ingrained in every monger.

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/cu...MongeringRules

[JamesGlia]

Her addiction in high gear, keep a hand on your wallet!

I did try to be as careful as possible and I could see a real difference in her and that was only about after a 4 week period. In fact, the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event. That is the first time someone did that in front of me, freaked me out but I could not leave. The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from. Does the mom work the crowd too? There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact. I would agree, her addiction is more rampant and that is just based on her change in appearance and change in her disregard for the money she would take.

[Bond 007]

Her addiction in high gear, keep a hand on your wallet!

I had met this girl first off backpage (she is the girl in the pics) just not as refined in real life as her pics. I think she has slipped a little but is still a nice find. Then I also found her walking as well on the street that runs parallel to Kensington (I think its Jasper). Initial fee when I met her off BP was 60 for 30 minutes. Then when I picked her up off the street it was a down and dirty 20 for bbjcim with spit. However, she took me back to her place each time, where her mom lives. She has a nice body, small a cup tits and nice ass. I did see her a third time and she is still fun to see. http://philadelphia.backpage.com/Fem...emale/29814457 This is her latest ad. In the pics, she is very sweet, in real life she is not as kept up. I will see her again as she is fun but I am not a fan of going into her place as her moms boyfriends were there and I was not expecting that the third time I saw her but at least I was not in my car having fun. I think her real name is Nicole. This dream happened this past weekend and prior. Sorry for not reporting timely . Anyone else see her before?

[Gator145]

Good for you! You found a girl on the street and instead of paying BP rates, paid street rates!

Now that said. I guess I have been around this game too long, but looking at those pictures I would have pegged that girl as a SW from the get-go. She just has that "look." Would not be surprised if she isn't in CJ's gallery either.

But hey that is the game, some dude sees a girl on the street has a nice time with her, and tells her she doesn't charge enough and should go on BP. Of course then he never sees the girl again, after her has scr*wed over his fellow mongers.

Hey, did you a favor, here is her BP advert and a pic. This will preserve her in the record her in case the BP advert gets taken down. Perhaps others will recognize her?

Of course Cooky did a shoot with her. Her name is Nikki on the street. She's a very nice girl. I have not been with her Though. CookyJar did her pics not to long ago. I would say probably around September or October of this past year. It's good to see guys getting out there and handling their own affairs.

So now on to bigger and better adventures. Good job. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.

[Cephlapod Love]

I had met this girl first off backpage (she is the girl in the pics) just not as refined in real life as her pics. I think she has slipped a little but is still a nice find. Then I also found her walking as well on the street that runs parallel to Kensington (I think its Jasper). Initial fee when I met her off BP was 60 for 30 minutes. Then when I picked her up off the street it was a down and dirty 20 for bbjcim with spit. However, she took me back to her place each time, where her mom lives. She has a nice body, small a cup tits and nice ass. I did see her a third time and she is still fun to see. http://philadelphia.backpage.com/Fem...emale/29814457 This is her latest ad. In the pics, she is very sweet, in real life she is not as kept up. I will see her again as she is fun but I am not a fan of going into her place as her moms boyfriends were there and I was not expecting that the third time I saw her but at least I was not in my car having fun. I think her real name is Nicole. This dream happened this past weekend and prior. Sorry for not reporting timely . Anyone else see her before?

Good for you! You found a girl on the street and instead of paying BP rates, paid street rates!

Now that said. I guess I have been around this game too long, but looking at those pictures I would have pegged that girl as a SW from the get-go. She just has that "look." Would not be surprised if she isn't in CJ's gallery either.

But hey that is the game, some dude sees a girl on the street has a nice time with her, and tells her she doesn't charge enough and should go on BP. Of course then he never sees the girl again, after her has scr*wed over his fellow mongers.

Hey, did you a favor, here is her BP advert and a pic. This will preserve her in the record her in case the BP advert gets taken down. Perhaps others will recognize her?

[JamesGlia]

I had met this girl first off backpage (she is the girl in the pics) just not as refined in real life as her pics. I think she has slipped a little but is still a nice find. Then I also found her walking as well on the street that runs parallel to Kensington (I think its Jasper). Initial fee when I met her off BP was 60 for 30 minutes. Then when I picked her up off the street it was a down and dirty 20 for bbjcim with spit. However, she took me back to her place each time, where her mom lives. She has a nice body, small a cup tits and nice ass. I did see her a third time and she is still fun to see. http://philadelphia.backpage.com/Fem...emale/29814457 This is her latest ad. In the pics, she is very sweet, in real life she is not as kept up. I will see her again as she is fun but I am not a fan of going into her place as her moms boyfriends were there and I was not expecting that the third time I saw her but at least I was not in my car having fun. I think her real name is Nicole. This dream happened this past weekend and prior. Sorry for not reporting timely . Anyone else see her before?

[Cephlapod Love]

Also yeah I've got the 22 rules and flexyourrights also Gator texting your second phone smart I would never have thought of that.

Glad you have those two resources under your belt! When I say INTERNALIZE the Flex Your Rights stuff I mean have it cold so it is second nature. When stopped with a girl or under pressure is no time to try to recall any technique.

Second, kudos to you for posting here and being willing to learn. As Gator demonstrates, there is a lot of knowledge around these parts, so don't be afraid to ask questions about techniques.

I know when I started, and was in my "learning phase" (driving & looking & NOT scooping) I came to these boards and asked a BUNCH of dumb rookie questions. One of the reasons I post advice is to payback all of that kindness that helped me as a pup.

So good luck and you learn! Stay safe.

[NikkiNine]

Yeah for me the roads and driving are going to take a while to develop its not exactly covered in the DMV book.

Also yeah I've got the 22 rules and flexyourrights also Gator texting your second phone smart I would never have thought of that.

[Gator145]

Hey, hate to sound harsh. But good mongering looks easy, consistent safe mongering is anything but easy?

Have you read and memorized the 22 Rules?

Have you internalized the strategies for dealing with LE as laid out in the first 20-minutes of the "Busted: A citizen's Guide to. " video?

When I started out, I drove the strolls for several months to get my eye trained, understand the traffic and figure out where LE was likely "hiding. " Anything worth doing takes a little time to learn. Can you take short cuts? Sure! But ignorance (lack of education) and thinking with the little head aren't good ways in my opinion of managing the risk of this hobby. Many don't heed the advice others would give here and many wander through the Court System too!

So have patience with yourself as you learn the traffic patterns, learn how to spot the girls, learn how to find LE, learn how to get the look, learn how to scoop a girl.Good luck & stay safe!

That's some excellent advice from someone that knows his way to the candy store and back home again without getting into any trouble.

It is the guys like CL that have done it all and seen it all that you will learn the most from. These are the guys that have cut through all the underbrush and found the rose. Seriously.

Sometimes I myself will go home empty handed. That's a choice I make. Because every and I mean every time I hit the asphalt jungle I do see some girls. They aren't all jumping up and down saying here I am. There is a fair share of those out there also. So they are there. Girls you may think don't even know what a monger is are sometimes your best bet. One needs to find their own comfort zone in which to work. Finding out what works for them and sticking with it is the best way to find and get girls. Watch whats going on with others that are doing what you are doing. Whether they make mistakes and what the consequences might be.
Not bragging, but I constantly get asked where I find the girls I do. It's because I don't get intimidated with my approach. As some of you know I am handicapped. If I told the rest of you what my handicap is you wouldn't believe that I still get almost any girl I want. So, truth be told, if I can do it so can you. Never be afraid to get shot down. There are worse things that can happen. Especially down the way.


As CL says above, have patients, learn from your mistakes. Go with the flow and lay low. Hang loose and be full of juice.

It has been my constant habit when driving the Ave to scan the sidewalks and upcoming streets about 4-5 cars ahead. Yes I try to be mindful of my immediate surroundings. But if you train your eyes to scan ahead there are a few benefits. First you see what interests you before you are right on top of her. Also mentally you can pull off to the side without causing an accident or a scene. I don't know how many times I've been driving on the Ave and someone right in front of me sees the same girl I see. He goes ass over teakettle to pull over. Making it totally obvious what he's doing. Usually the girl sees the blatant approach and knows if there is LEO close by. If there is she won't even bother with him. I've also seen LEO pull right in behind stops like that and then the guy has a compounded problem.

This is just my way of doing a nonchalant stop. First thing after I stop I cut the lights. I keep my dome light in the off position always. That way if LEO is down the street he can't see if my vehicle door opens. Then I take my phone out and immediately place a text to my second phone. I wont get a response. So I immediately follow it up with this text. Hey Ralph, tried to roust you tonight. Guess you are busy. TTYL. That way if I am approached by LEO I can prove I stopped to place a phone text. Perfectly legal. There are many things one can do to remain safe. One never knows how important this advice is until they need to use it. The biggest thing and most important is to remain alert. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.

[Cephlapod Love]

So I drove along the Kensington for the first time today from around 6-7 didn't see anyone or at least not that I noticed.

Of course I was slightly preoccupied with the driving aspect of it all. I may try again in the near future.

Not as exciting as your guys posts but there you are.

Hey, hate to sound harsh. But good mongering looks easy, consistent safe mongering is anything but easy?

Have you read and memorized the 22 Rules?

Have you internalized the strategies for dealing with LE as laid out in the first 20-minutes of the "Busted: A citizen's Guide to. " video?

When I started out, I drove the strolls for several months to get my eye trained, understand the traffic and figure out where LE was likely "hiding. " Anything worth doing takes a little time to learn. Can you take short cuts? Sure! But ignorance (lack of education) and thinking with the little head aren't good ways in my opinion of managing the risk of this hobby. Many don't heed the advice others would give here and many wander through the Court System too!

So have patience with yourself as you learn the traffic patterns, learn how to spot the girls, learn how to find LE, learn how to get the look, learn how to scoop a girl.

Good luck & stay safe!

[Heehaightmee]

Took a stroll down the K earlier tonight. Saw a brunette named Kristi walking towards Lehigh. About 5'7/5'8. Nice body. Thin. About be cups. I made eye contact and then drove down the K till I turned off a couple of streets after Lehigh. She crossed Lehigh and looked down the alley and saw my car. Got in. Exchanged pleasantries. Did LEO check. Proceeded to a spot of hers off the track. BBBJ at. 3. Then off into the wild world. Didn't get digits or anything. She lost her phone so she's working on getting numbers back. Lots of LEO out (per usual on a sat. Night). If you plan on taking a stroll, be careful out there. Stay safe, fellow mongers.

[NikkiNine]

So I drove along the Kensington for the first time today from around 6-7 didn't see anyone or at least not that I noticed.

Of course I was slightly preoccupied with the driving aspect of it all. I may try again in the near future.

Not as exciting as your guys posts but there you are.