Cuddle Comforts?

[JoeJoesph]

Cuddle companion.

Anyone use this website yet? How was it? Really just tryina see. Just want to see Daniella 🤣.

[Whosthatfreak]

Has anyone seen Lucy2000?

[Qstyle904]

Yeah, maybe. Though it wasn't a pro, just an enthusiast. And I wasn't hammer texting her.

Yeah this has happened before especially with the ones that aren't straight up escorts LOL. It sucks because you think you're getting a consistent fuck buddy LOL I feel you bro.

[RyanE36]

Possibly scared her off with multiple texts. Personally I would have waited until I wanted to book her again before any type of text. Sometimes they will reach out and I am cordial, but I am not saying hi, or checking in on them until I want to book.

Yeah, maybe. Though it wasn't a pro, just an enthusiast. And I wasn't hammer texting her.

[Blackfin]

I had one experience where we had been chatting and we both were into massage and we both agreed to massage prior to cuddles. Which we did, and then while cuddling I kept kind of tracing my fingers over her curves and sniffing her hair a little. I actually wasn't trying to do anything since she gave me very platonic vibes through out all our conversations. And then she told me I was making her horny. At which point I started to tease a little bit, and she seemed into it. And things progressed to just hand and oral for both of us. She sure seemed like she had a good time, said it had been 8 months or so since she got out of a relationship. And she really wanted to cuddle after, so I assume she got off (at least a couple times).

But the next day she didn't respond to my texts. Or the next few days. Finally, after a couple weeks I message her again and say I'm sorry, I'm not sure what I did to upset you, I enjoyed our time together, and thought you did too. But if not, I'm sorry. And she finally responded and said that we were only supposed to massage and cuddle and I lied to her, and stuff. And suddenly I was like "oh shit, what if she pulls a "#metoo" moment and claims I did stuff that wasn't consensual. ".

Luckily nothing happened. But just be careful if you're going to take a bold approach. They can argue that they were scared that if they didn't do what you wanted, they were in your home, and you could have hurt them or something.

Possibly scared her off with multiple texts. Personally I would have waited until I wanted to book her again before any type of text. Sometimes they will reach out and I am cordial, but I am not saying hi, or checking in on them until I want to book.

[AmgPhilly63]

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[JoeJoesph]

I had one experience where we had been chatting and we both were into massage and we both agreed to massage prior to cuddles. Which we did, and then while cuddling I kept kind of tracing my fingers over her curves and sniffing her hair a little. I actually wasn't trying to do anything since she gave me very platonic vibes through out all our conversations. And then she told me I was making her horny. At which point I started to tease a little bit, and she seemed into it. And things progressed to just hand and oral for both of us. She sure seemed like she had a good time, said it had been 8 months or so since she got out of a relationship. And she really wanted to cuddle after, so I assume she got off (at least a couple times).

But the next day she didn't respond to my texts. Or the next few days. Finally, after a couple weeks I message her again and say I'm sorry, I'm not sure what I did to upset you, I enjoyed our time together, and thought you did too. But if not, I'm sorry. And she finally responded and said that we were only supposed to massage and cuddle and I lied to her, and stuff. And suddenly I was like "oh shit, what if she pulls a "#metoo" moment and claims I did stuff that wasn't consensual. ".

Luckily nothing happened. But just be careful if you're going to take a bold approach. They can argue that they were scared that if they didn't do what you wanted, they were in your home, and you could have hurt them or something.

Happens. You may get lucky the first time and sometimes thet don't reply to future inquiries LOL.

[RyanE36]

I had one experience where we had been chatting and we both were into massage and we both agreed to massage prior to cuddles. Which we did, and then while cuddling I kept kind of tracing my fingers over her curves and sniffing her hair a little. I actually wasn't trying to do anything since she gave me very platonic vibes through out all our conversations. And then she told me I was making her horny. At which point I started to tease a little bit, and she seemed into it. And things progressed to just hand and oral for both of us. She sure seemed like she had a good time, said it had been 8 months or so since she got out of a relationship. And she really wanted to cuddle after, so I assume she got off (at least a couple times).

But the next day she didn't respond to my texts. Or the next few days. Finally, after a couple weeks I message her again and say I'm sorry, I'm not sure what I did to upset you, I enjoyed our time together, and thought you did too. But if not, I'm sorry. And she finally responded and said that we were only supposed to massage and cuddle and I lied to her, and stuff. And suddenly I was like "oh shit, what if she pulls a "#metoo" moment and claims I did stuff that wasn't consensual. ".

Luckily nothing happened. But just be careful if you're going to take a bold approach. They can argue that they were scared that if they didn't do what you wanted, they were in your home, and you could have hurt them or something.

[Qstyle904]

Free game from blackfin.

my typical playbook.

Mention you get a little nervous and would they mind getting a drink / chat for 30 minutes.

To the bedroom. I wear lose fitting shorts, no underwear.


Have the girl face away from you, massage her back and neck above the clothes, slowly touch her ass and under the shirt, but still professional. Ask if she likes her head massaged.

I look for a response.

Then switch to her head on my chest, i tell her i like my chest and stomach lightly touched.

She now sees that i am turned on, if really turned on, with the help of viagra, i may be sticking out the top of my shorts.

What does she do?

I am rubbing the back of her head, slight hair pull, pulling her head close to mine.

It either continues to more from here or i tell her to roll back over for another massage, ask her to take her shirt off so i can really get her back, will start to rub on her and hope for more.

We have either hooked up to some extent, chemistry and i think another session would help, or my tricks did not work and i move on.

[SDJaziKing]

This guy gets it. Never let them feel like you are only there for their pussy. Let THEM crave for your dick.

However, there are strictly platonic girls who wouldn't do ANY shit with you, but such is life. Move on, find another one.

Yes. It would absolutely be viewed as weird & scare the hoes away if aint congruent with your personality / lifestyle / aura & (again being captain obvious) if you don't pull baddies irl LOL.

If you're some mid 40's-60 why / o dude, who's overweight & your primary source of pussy is paid pussy- then yes. You're going to come off scary & weird trying to copy this approach.

Newbies / Youngbucks who are just getting their feet wet in the cuddle game- don't be discouraged by dudes who prefers vanilla approaches.

Imagine going into Baskin&robbins & telling the workers there "I feel like you offering anything other than regular chocolate&vanilla is weird&scary. Offering stuff like rocky road / mint chip / choc chip cookie dough is likely to scare away potential customers" LOL.

Be adventurous. Try new shit. Trial & error is the best teacher. Fuck playing it safe. Fortune favors the bold.

[PekWrecker]

Yes. It would absolutely be viewed as weird & scare the hoes away if aint congruent with your personality / lifestyle / aura & (again being captain obvious) if you don't pull baddies irl LOL.

If you're some mid 40's-60 why / o dude, who's overweight & your primary source of pussy is paid pussy- then yes. You're going to come off scary & weird trying to copy this approach.

Newbies / Youngbucks who are just getting their feet wet in the cuddle game- don't be discouraged by dudes who prefers vanilla approaches.

Imagine going into Baskin&robbins & telling the workers there "I feel like you offering anything other than regular chocolate&vanilla is weird&scary. Offering stuff like rocky road / mint chip / choc chip cookie dough is likely to scare away potential customers" LOL.

Be adventurous. Try new shit. Trial & error is the best teacher. Fuck playing it safe. Fortune favors the bold.

I feel like doing this much (sensual vibe incense, essential oils for massage etc.) during a normal cuddle session would be perceived as weird. Also, you have to be very careful in testing the waters in terms of where you can massage her. The linked youtube video assumes the woman is naked, is ok with you touching her butt and the side of her breasts. These might not be true for the cuddler.

I've had my fair share of successes from CC, sometimes with massage and sometimes without, but setting up the room in this way would likely scare a regular CC provider instead of comforting her. All my massage turned extras on CC have been regular massages without any oils or extra music (just the fact that your partner asks you to massage her is generally a good sign).

[Blackfin]

I feel like doing this much (sensual vibe incense, essential oils for massage etc.) during a normal cuddle session would be perceived as weird. Also, you have to be very careful in testing the waters in terms of where you can massage her. The linked youtube video assumes the woman is naked, is ok with you touching her butt and the side of her breasts. These might not be true for the cuddler.

I've had my fair share of successes from CC, sometimes with massage and sometimes without, but setting up the room in this way would likely scare a regular CC provider instead of comforting her. All my massage turned extras on CC have been regular massages without any oils or extra music (just the fact that your partner asks you to massage her is generally a good sign).

My typical playbook.

Mention you get a little nervous and would they mind getting a drink / chat for 30 minutes.

To the bedroom. I wear lose fitting shorts, no underwear.


Have the girl face away from you, massage her back and neck above the clothes, slowly touch her ass and under the shirt, but still professional. Ask if she likes her head massaged.

I look for a response.

Then switch to her head on my chest, I tell her I like my chest and stomach lightly touched.

She now sees that I am turned on, if really turned on, with the help of Viagra, I may be sticking out the top of my shorts.

What does she do?

I am rubbing the back of her head, slight hair pull, pulling her head close to mine.

It either continues to more from here or I tell her to roll back over for another massage, ask her to take her shirt off so I can really get her back, will start to rub on her and hope for more.

We have either hooked up to some extent, chemistry and I think another session would help, or my tricks did not work and I move on.

[AngryMan420]

Blackfin hit the nail on the head. Too many of why'all go into sessions, bent on getting the same positive results other dudes post of & end up butthurt with blueballs after no nuts got busted LOL.

Going to be Captain obvious for this. But If you don't pull attractive / semi attractive non sexworker women irl your chances of scoring extras from a cc pro are highly unlikely.

Offering a massage will 100% increase your chances of having fun, Yet you got to genuinely enjoy massaging women. Set the mood right, burn some incense (superhit is a good one that gives off sensual vibes) or have some essential oils being diffused to relax her like lavender+peppermint / eucalyptus (put a shit ton of lavender if you want her in a semi sedative state).

Have some dim mood lighting to match the energy of a soulful / sensual playlist with songs you hand picked.

Treat the session like a tinder / bumble date & you're halfway there.

I get it we're all just trying to bust a nut. But sincere effort matters.

If you're going to test out the waters with a cc pro using massage, keep these moves in your toolbox. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLLZwWn3qnI.

I feel like doing this much (sensual vibe incense, essential oils for massage etc.) during a normal cuddle session would be perceived as weird. Also, you have to be very careful in testing the waters in terms of where you can massage her. The linked youtube video assumes the woman is naked, is ok with you touching her butt and the side of her breasts. These might not be true for the cuddler.

I've had my fair share of successes from CC, sometimes with massage and sometimes without, but setting up the room in this way would likely scare a regular CC provider instead of comforting her. All my massage turned extras on CC have been regular massages without any oils or extra music (just the fact that your partner asks you to massage her is generally a good sign).

[Blackfin]

Great advice. I would say just enjoy legitimate cuddling, focus on making her feel relaxed and safe, and let her feel comfortable enough to open up. Either by her making the first move, or making it obvious she wants you to make the first move. Listen to her breathing, see where she guides your hands, notice where she rests her crotch, or if she's getting hot, etc. I have gotten lucky many times. Sometimes the first cuddle was very vanilla, but made her feel comfortable enough for a second cuddle, and that's where things got spicy.

Exactly right. The breath, slightly grinding on you, moans. All good signs. CC is a fun game for sure. But for God sake, take a shower and brush your teeth. The stories i have heard....

[RyanE36]

Blackfin hit the nail on the head. Too many of why'all go into sessions, bent on getting the same positive results other dudes post of & end up butthurt with blueballs after no nuts got busted LOL.

Going to be Captain obvious for this. But If you don't pull attractive / semi attractive non sexworker women irl your chances of scoring extras from a cc pro are highly unlikely.

Offering a massage will 100% increase your chances of having fun, Yet you got to genuinely enjoy massaging women. Set the mood right, burn some incense (superhit is a good one that gives off sensual vibes) or have some essential oils being diffused to relax her like lavender+peppermint / eucalyptus (put a shit ton of lavender if you want her in a semi sedative state).

Have some dim mood lighting to match the energy of a soulful / sensual playlist with songs you hand picked.

Treat the session like a tinder / bumble date & you're halfway there.

I get it we're all just trying to bust a nut. But sincere effort matters.

If you're going to test out the waters with a cc pro using massage, keep these moves in your toolbox. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLLZwWn3qnI.

Great advice. I would say just enjoy legitimate cuddling, focus on making her feel relaxed and safe, and let her feel comfortable enough to open up. Either by her making the first move, or making it obvious she wants you to make the first move. Listen to her breathing, see where she guides your hands, notice where she rests her crotch, or if she's getting hot, etc. I have gotten lucky many times. Sometimes the first cuddle was very vanilla, but made her feel comfortable enough for a second cuddle, and that's where things got spicy.