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**Passport4** · 10-24-24 23:53

I arranged to meet a lady who I see occasionally that I originally met years ago on Seeking. She booked a room on Dayuse dot com a couple weeks ago for today, with an arrival time of between 11 and 12. Upon arrival at 11:30, she was told that they were not taking early arrivals and that they had no rooms. She told them she had a reservation. Upon looking it up, she was then told that their day use rooms are on a first come first served basis, and they had no rooms. No where does it say this on the site. This is just a FYI post.

**LuvNHookers** · 10-24-24 23:14

Originally Posted by FatherGlucose [View Original Post]

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service agreed to via text

Discuss specifics over phone or text. Don't make LEO's job any easier.

**Father Glucose** · 10-24-24 08:53

I prefer independent ladies without the middle man, but lately I've come across a few (both in the area and out of the area) that I've realized had a handler and it was too late by the time I realized it. Basic things like not knowing details we discussed like length of service or not offering a service agreed to via text. As I think back on it there are a few clues early that can help make a decision if I use the big head just for a minute.

1. Text responses are too fast. Usually these 304's are in the middle of "something" and will take 5-10 minutes to respond or more. Had one that from the first contact all the way til I saw her about 90 min later always responded within 60-120 seconds. Even when I asked for a photo, which leads me to the next one:

2. Sends a photo that doesn't really match the one in the ad. Could be some similarities, but nothing definite. This is also a clue that its an "agency" or several women in the stable (or looming scam). If you ask for a pic, ask for something specific like fully clothed certain fingers up or something.

3. Way too agreeable to services not listed in the ad. Got bit by this a couple times that when I get there the girl doesn't do bbj or whatever, because the handler is saying whatever he needs to get you to the door.

4. The dude can be seen hanging outside the room close by. Could be several factors. Could just ge a coincidence and not related to the chick. Could be her "security," but also the handler making sure she's good. Proceed with extreme caution because this could also be a setup for robbery, etc.

These are just a few, and of course it's not 100% but please add if you've got some other clues.

**Turbo99** · 10-22-24 13:54

Originally Posted by MisterNova [View Original Post]

Yeah I think too many girls hooked on drugs is major issue effecting the game.

I just end up settling for whatever I can get.

If the price is low I will look past the shortcomings.

Whatever wins you can get in this area, get them. Honestly, I just check these boards and STG every once in a while for new info, providers, etc. , and not everyday like I used to. Back then, it was difficult to keep up with every bit of info from mongers that got posted here, and now it's mostly the same varying reports of the same providers in this area.

**MisterNova** · 10-19-24 13:04

Yeah I think too many girls hooked on drugs is major issue effecting the game.

I just end up settling for whatever I can get.

If the price is low I will look past the shortcomings.

Originally Posted by LuvNHookers [View Original Post]

There are too many naive boys in the area who are eager to play the role of Capt. Save-A-Ho. Plus the main site to find girls, skipthegames, is full of nothing but. This brings out the scammers, rip-off girls, and thieves, both subtle and strong arm.

STG is full of fake ads, which doesn't help. I travel a lot and I see lots of the same girls advertising in Norfolk, Miami, and Knoxville on the same day; same pics and number and everything. This makes it super hard to know which number to call to get off.

There are some women at the end of their rope who can do nothing else and are trying to make some kind of living but they aren't holding up very well. They charge what they charge but the looks and / or service islet's say less than stellar.

Then you have the young, somewhat decent looking ones who think if someone who advertises as a busted up 38 year old charges $X, I'll charge 3*$X but that doesn't go over very well with the clientele so they dance, or OF, or just find a SD and make it work with him, or just get a regular 9-5, or they adjust their rates and adopt a pet monkey and don't last long.

I'm sure I left out a lot of things and people will fill in the blanks. But you're right, this area is bad for sex workers and their customers. It's debatable how good that is for so-called polite society.

**LuvNHookers** · 10-18-24 18:18

Originally Posted by Turbo99 [View Original Post]

Lately when I come on this board, I see Richmond is sort of active a lot more in reports. I wonder why everything is shifting in that direction all of a sudden and the 757 has continued to drop off in the last decade or so? For the last 2 years or so, it's been the same locals and almost the same traveling providers here with little to no new providers coming in. I think I may just hop out of this scene here for good if it keeps trending in this direction at least in the 757.

There are too many naive boys in the area who are eager to play the role of Capt. Save-A-Ho. Plus the main site to find girls, skipthegames, is full of nothing but. This brings out the scammers, rip-off girls, and thieves, both subtle and strong arm.

STG is full of fake ads, which doesn't help. I travel a lot and I see lots of the same girls advertising in Norfolk, Miami, and Knoxville on the same day; same pics and number and everything. This makes it super hard to know which number to call to get off.

There are some women at the end of their rope who can do nothing else and are trying to make some kind of living but they aren't holding up very well. They charge what they charge but the looks and / or service islet's say less than stellar.

Then you have the young, somewhat decent looking ones who think if someone who advertises as a busted up 38 year old charges $X, I'll charge 3*$X but that doesn't go over very well with the clientele so they dance, or OF, or just find a SD and make it work with him, or just get a regular 9-5, or they adjust their rates and adopt a pet monkey and don't last long.

I'm sure I left out a lot of things and people will fill in the blanks. But you're right, this area is bad for sex workers and their customers. It's debatable how good that is for so-called polite society.

**Turbo99** · 10-18-24 13:01

Lately when I come on this board, I see Richmond is sort of active a lot more in reports. I wonder why everything is shifting in that direction all of a sudden and the 757 has continued to drop off in the last decade or so? For the last 2 years or so, it's been the same locals and almost the same traveling providers here with little to no new providers coming in. I think I may just hop out of this scene here for good if it keeps trending in this direction at least in the 757.

**Father Glucose** · 09-23-24 16:53

Originally Posted by Robinhood757 [View Original Post]

Is Backpage and 2 backpage anything?

https://virginia-beach.2backpage.com...s/6666762.html and others.

Everybody communicates fine until the payment and if they say cash payment they ask for deposit and if no deposit then they ask for gift card payment!! What's up with that!! Have any of you met with BP ladies? FYI some KILLER bodies on this site.

Can anybody clear this up for me?

Also since contacting girls on backpage, I am getting threatening texts from some "boss" who says I am wasting his girls time and I have to pay a fine or he will contact / mess with my family. No family here to mess with but still!! I'm collecting phone numbers of texts and threats off line.

Yeah, the payment thing is probably a scam. I mesn, BP tells you that much in the middle of the page.

As for the extortion scam. Thats a scam too. I hope you use a burner or app (just in case). But they are typically just trying to get money out of you by threatening. Block them and / or change your number and move on.

**Robinhood757** · 09-23-24 14:29

Is Backpage and 2 backpage anything?

https://virginia-beach.2backpage.com...s/6666762.html and others.

Everybody communicates fine until the payment and if they say cash payment they ask for deposit and if no deposit then they ask for gift card payment!! What's up with that!! Have any of you met with BP ladies? FYI some KILLER bodies on this site.

Can anybody clear this up for me?

Also since contacting girls on backpage, I am getting threatening texts from some "boss" who says I am wasting his girls time and I have to pay a fine or he will contact / mess with my family. No family here to mess with but still!! I'm collecting phone numbers of texts and threats off line.

**Crsfitlvr** · 09-12-24 10:29

True, I should've clarified that 99% of the ladies using PSE to mean BBFS are Asian agencies (I first noticed when traveling out west that's what they meant) with Very few Caucasian ladies using PSE to mean BBFS (typically their ads require recent testing results).

Originally Posted by LuvNHookers [View Original Post]

It used to mean a more "nasty" experience. More intense, harder action, any position you could think of, maybe multiple pops, maybe sexy name-calling, pretty much like how you describe it. But it was VERY unusual for it to mean BBFS. I remember a thread on an escort forum on that avenue way back that providers who advertised PSE were upset that guys thought it meant BBFS. I can't remember the last time I saw a lady advertise PSE. The only ones now are those Asian ads that I filter out since they all look like ripoff ads.

**DaVinciB1** · 09-11-24 11:04

Originally Posted by FatherGlucose [View Original Post]

Damn-it! Every time I cave in on the "BBBJ is extra" or "daty is more" (which I haven't paid more to get her off in a while, I end up regretting it. I mean, most of the time the head is underwhelming from the nickel-and-dimers. I mean, I'm cool w covered BJ, but if given the option imma chose uncovered, then they drop a price tag on it? Damn nevermind. Smh. Next time, I'm thinking w the big head (I hope. Ha!

Just give the flat rate!

Bruh, add-ons are such a fucking turn off! I hate these a la carte mfs. And this the 2nd or 3rd time she been in the area, so somebody's paying up for that shit.

**UsaWaw** · 09-11-24 09:02

Originally Posted by JjrSki [View Original Post]

What happened to Amy VB? She was just gone one day.

Man I wish I knew, she was awesome. To this day she was probably the most enthusiastic provider I have ever seen. She was really smart about money so I would guess she made a shitload, invested it, and retired. Most girls only want designer shit and wanted real estate and stocks!

**JjrSki** · 09-10-24 17:50

Originally Posted by UsaWaw [View Original Post]

For real, especially for something simple like BBBJ. I don't mind an upcharge for greek since there is prep and starvation involved if they do it right, within reason. AmyVB used to charge $100 for it for any session and it was SO worth it.

What happened to Amy VB? She was just gone one day.

**UsaWaw** · 09-10-24 12:17

Originally Posted by FatherGlucose [View Original Post]

Damn-it! Every time I cave in on the "BBBJ is extra" or "daty is more" (which I haven't paid more to get her off in a while, I end up regretting it. I mean, most of the time the head is underwhelming from the nickel-and-dimers. I mean, I'm cool w covered BJ, but if given the option imma chose uncovered, then they drop a price tag on it? Damn nevermind. Smh. Next time, I'm thinking w the big head (I hope. Ha!

Just give the flat rate!

For real, especially for something simple like BBBJ. I don't mind an upcharge for greek since there is prep and starvation involved if they do it right, within reason. AmyVB used to charge $100 for it for any session and it was SO worth it.

**Father Glucose** · 09-10-24 12:07

Damn-it! Every time I cave in on the "BBBJ is extra" or "daty is more" (which I haven't paid more to get her off in a while, I end up regretting it. I mean, most of the time the head is underwhelming from the nickel-and-dimers. I mean, I'm cool w covered BJ, but if given the option imma chose uncovered, then they drop a price tag on it? Damn nevermind. Smh. Next time, I'm thinking w the big head (I hope. Ha!

Just give the flat rate!