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I thought I would try out an ad here in Indianapolis off of Backpage for a girl called Rosie. Here is the URL: [url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem...6000hr/2140100[/url]
It sounded legit, as I heard children playing and crying in the background when I called. However, the lady who showed up to my hotel was an hour late and looked nothing like the photos. She also said that "they" had sent her. She was a very large girl. She then pulled down her top and started to dance, and that was it. After a few minutes of this, (and her answering her phone a half dozen times) someone started banging on the door. I did not answer but looked outside. Someone was obscuring the view hole. Of course this would concern any of us greatly, as the odds of a cash & dash, or a shakedown, or even LE. I called the front desk and let them know someone was at my door, and I didn't know who it was. I then went to the door and said that hotel security was on their way. I had the girl pull her top back up and she said it was probably her friend. I asked who it was, and a female voice said it was a friend of the lady inside. I opened the door and had my guest (who was again, NOT Rosie) exit. I then closed the door and called the number to see what was up.
The lady who answered this time was an older and nasty lady, who liked to swear, and said that prostitution is illegal, her girls only dance, and that guys should keep their &^%$# in their pants. And that nobody ever puts their real pictures on Backpage. I've used a few ladies from BP, and I know that this is not the truth.
So, if you see any ads out there with the phone number: 317-222-8278 this is definitely number you do not want to call.
Just FYI gentlemen. I just checked, and they have pulled down this ad, but here is a pic that I got before they just removed it.
[QUOTE=Rickhunter67]Greetings Gentlemen.
I thought I would try out an ad here in Indianapolis off of Backpage for a girl called Rosie. Here is the URL: [url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem...6000hr/2140100[/url]
It sounded legit, as I heard children playing and crying in the background when I called. However, the lady who showed up to my hotel was an hour late and looked nothing like the photos. She also said that "they" had sent her. She was a very large girl. She then pulled down her top and started to dance, and that was it. After a few minutes of this, (and her answering her phone a half dozen times) someone started banging on the door. I did not answer but looked outside. Someone was obscuring the view hole. Of course this would concern any of us greatly, as the odds of a cash & dash, or a shakedown, or even LE. I called the front desk and let them know someone was at my door, and I didn't know who it was. I then went to the door and said that hotel security was on their way. I had the girl pull her top back up and she said it was probably her friend. I asked who it was, and a female voice said it was a friend of the lady inside. I opened the door and had my guest (who was again, NOT Rosie) exit. I then closed the door and called the number to see what was up.
The lady who answered this time was an older and nasty lady, who liked to swear, and said that prostitution is illegal, her girls only dance, and that guys should keep their &^%$# in their pants. And that nobody ever puts their real pictures on Backpage. I've used a few ladies from BP, and I know that this is not the truth.
So, if you see any ads out there with the phone number: 317-222-8278 this is definitely number you do not want to call.
Just FYI gentlemen. I just checked, and they have pulled down this ad, but here is a pic that I got before they just removed it.[/QUOTE]I saw that photo, looked too good to be true. This is the kind of crap that you have to wade through on BP and CL. I try to avoid it, and only hit them if they have been reviewed.
Thanks for taking one for the team.
[QUOTE=Handfulofwheel]I saw that photo, looked too good to be true. This is the kind of crap that you have to wade through on BP and CL. I try to avoid it, and only hit them if they have been reviewed.
Thanks for taking one for the team.[/QUOTE]
With a TGTBT pic and the name Rosie-- I thought it was probably a joke, looks like I got the Rosie part of the joke right anyway. I am right brained so personally Louise strikes my fancy, but those two always get so jealous.
[QUOTE=Rickhunter67]Greetings Gentlemen.
I thought I would try out an ad here in Indianapolis off of Backpage for a girl called Rosie. Here is the URL: [url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem...6000hr/2140100[/url]
It sounded legit, as I heard children playing and crying in the background when I called. However, the lady who showed up to my hotel was an hour late and looked nothing like the photos. She also said that "they" had sent her. She was a very large girl. She then pulled down her top and started to dance, and that was it. After a few minutes of this, (and her answering her phone a half dozen times) someone started banging on the door. I did not answer but looked outside. Someone was obscuring the view hole. Of course this would concern any of us greatly, as the odds of a cash & dash, or a shakedown, or even LE. I called the front desk and let them know someone was at my door, and I didn't know who it was. I then went to the door and said that hotel security was on their way. I had the girl pull her top back up and she said it was probably her friend. I asked who it was, and a female voice said it was a friend of the lady inside. I opened the door and had my guest (who was again, NOT Rosie) exit. I then closed the door and called the number to see what was up.
The lady who answered this time was an older and nasty lady, who liked to swear, and said that prostitution is illegal, her girls only dance, and that guys should keep their &^%$# in their pants. And that nobody ever puts their real pictures on Backpage. I've used a few ladies from BP, and I know that this is not the truth.
So, if you see any ads out there with the phone number: 317-222-8278 this is definitely number you do not want to call.
Just FYI gentlemen. I just checked, and they have pulled down this ad, but here is a pic that I got before they just removed it.[/QUOTE]This didn't even have to happen Rick. A simple Google search of the number would have told you everything. And watch BP.com from time to time because I've seen men post about THAT number and others warning you it's an agency or scammer.
Be safe and use the three tools.
1.The board here
2. Google
3. Your eyes. To watch for postings On BP.com
[url]http://www.yellowbook.com/profile/sinful-desires_1821851689.html?addressId=1[/url]
[QUOTE=Handfulofwheel]I saw that photo, looked too good to be true. This is the kind of crap that you have to wade through on BP and CL. I try to avoid it, and only hit them if they have been reviewed.
Thanks for taking one for the team.[/QUOTE]No use taking one for the team. The guy needs to say, "You're not the girl in the pic." "I'm not the guy on the phone with money."
[QUOTE=Golfcart]No use taking one for the team. The guy needs to say, "You're not the girl in the pic." "I'm not the guy on the phone with money."[/QUOTE]Nice. Very direct. I'll be using that one, I'm sure.
I had a simlar thing happen to me earlier this year. Your pic looks similar to the girl who came to my room.here is the number I called [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue]
[QUOTE=Rollamale]I had a simlar thing happen to me earlier this year. Your pic looks similar to the girl who came to my room.here is the number I called [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue][/QUOTE][blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue] Sure it wasn't [blue][Telephone Number deleted by Admin][/blue]
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Gee here is the same girl I believe she shows up the only thing I got was to see her fat tits and a half finger nail rub . Here is the url [url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/specials-15000/2140100[/url] Here is her telephone and name call 317-222-8278 ROSIE Your Place Only!!!!
[QUOTE=Golfcart]317-702-0287. Sure it wasn't 317-702-0278?[/QUOTE]It might be, I copied it from my post in Feb under.
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/r-e-l-a-x-e-d-_-n-e-v-e-r-_-r-u-sh-ed/1979508[/url]
I see she is still runing a scam, look at previous post.
[QUOTE=Rollamale][url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/r-e-l-a-x-e-d-_-n-e-v-e-r-_-r-u-sh-ed/1979508[/url]
I see she is still runing a scam, look at previous post.[/QUOTE]The girl Rollamale was talking about earlier (and today) has a phone of 317 702-0287. I knew 317 702-0278 was a bad number or at least one that involved some controversy in the past. So not the same girl (apparently). But the same problem (apparently).
By the way the second pic in 317 702-0287 is Tin Eye positive to a foreign discussion board. Also, highlight several lines of the text in the ad in 317 702-0287, right click and do an exact phrase search on Google. That text comes up in various ads all over the place.
[QUOTE=Golfcart]The girl Rollamale was talking about earlier (and today) has a phone of 317 702-0287. I knew 317 702-0278 was a bad number or at least one that involved some controversy in the past. So not the same girl (apparently). But the same problem (apparently).
By the way the second pic in 317 702-0287 is Tin Eye positive to a foreign discussion board. Also, highlight several lines of the text in the ad in 317 702-0287, right click and do an exact phrase search on Google. That text comes up in various ads all over the place.[/QUOTE]I've got to pay more attention. I just got taken by this one. She goes by Rachel now.
[QUOTE=Wings317]I've got to pay more attention. I just got taken by this one. She goes by Rachel now.[/QUOTE]
So how did it happen?
Long story short to the story below, and believe me I've learned from experience, if they are not the girl from the picture or the pictures are misrepresenting of their age and weight simply send them away.
Personally with new girls I usually do incall first. I tell myself if they do not look like the girl in the photo to turn around. This method saved me with a girl down in Bloomington called April. She looked relatively thin and young in the photo but when I got to her incall apartment she was significantly overweight and had these weird bruises and acne on her face. She also dressed sloppy and was unsure about her hygiene. Everything was wrong including the place reeking like smoke. I thought with the head on my shoulders and told her I changed my mind and walked out. This is what all Hobbyist should do which would get rid of 90% of the scammers.
Also I try this if at all possible to pay at the end of the session not before. If they aren't going to scam you this should not be a big problem. Actually the last 9 out of 10 escorts took the money at the end not the beginning. You can also do a half hour and bump up to the hour. You tell them if you are happy you'll upgrade. Most of my experiences has been good save April this year as most of lasts years too (had to walk away once) because I learned from my mistakes. Do yourself a favor and learn from mine as learning the hard way sucks.
BTW the advice about going with reviewed girls is spot on. I do take a chance once and a while but it is fairly calculated and usually do incall so I can leave before paying if things seem off.
Finally if you are going to take a chance spend some time talking with the girl on the phone. There have been several providers I knew without a doubt they were going to be good because we had a good 10 minute conversation in which I could tell they really opened up.
Ok time to let go my worst vice advice, besides hobbying of coarse.
Hope your next experiences goes better for you.
[QUOTE=Rickhunter67; 1004012]Greetings Gentlemen.
I thought I would try out an ad here in Indianapolis off of Backpage for a girl called Rosie. Here is the URL:
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem...6000hr/2140100[/url]
It sounded legit, as I heard children playing and crying in the background when I called. However, the lady who showed up to my hotel was an hour late and looked nothing like the photos. She also said that "they" had sent her. She was a very large girl. She then pulled down her top and started to dance, and that was it. After a few minutes of this, (and her answering her phone a half dozen times) someone started banging on the door. I did not answer but looked outside. Someone was obscuring the view hole. Of course this would concern any of us greatly, as the odds of a cash & dash, or a shakedown, or even LE. I called the front desk and let them know someone was at my door, and I didn't know who it was. I then went to the door and said that hotel security was on their way. I had the girl pull her top back up and she said it was probably her friend. I asked who it was, and a female voice said it was a friend of the lady inside. I opened the door and had my guest (who was again, NOT Rosie) exit. I then closed the door and called the number to see what was up.
The lady who answered this time was an older and nasty lady, who liked to swear, and said that prostitution is illegal, her girls only dance, and that guys should keep their &$# in their pants. And that nobody ever puts their real pictures on Backpage. I've used a few ladies from BP, and I know that this is not the truth.
So, if you see any ads out there with the phone number: 317-222-8278 this is definitely number you do not want to call.
Just FYI gentlemen. I just checked, and they have pulled down this ad, but here is a pic that I got before they just removed it. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Luchi; 1149260]Long story short to the story below, and believe me I've learned from experience, if they are not the girl from the picture or the pictures are misrepresenting of their age and weight simply send them away.
Personally with new girls I usually do incall first. I tell myself if they do not look like the girl in the photo to turn around. This method saved me with a girl down in Bloomington called April. She looked relatively thin and young in the photo but when I got to her incall apartment she was significantly overweight and had these weird bruises and acne on her face. She also dressed sloppy and was unsure about her hygiene. Everything was wrong including the place reeking like smoke. I thought with the head on my shoulders and told her I changed my mind and walked out. This is what all Hobbyist should do which would get rid of 90% of the scammers.
Also I try this if at all possible to pay at the end of the session not before. If they aren't going to scam you this should not be a big problem. Actually the last 9 out of 10 escorts took the money at the end not the beginning. You can also do a half hour and bump up to the hour. You tell them if you are happy you'll upgrade. Most of my experiences has been good save April this year as most of lasts years too (had to walk away once) because I learned from my mistakes. Do yourself a favor and learn from mine as learning the hard way sucks.
BTW the advice about going with reviewed girls is spot on. I do take a chance once and a while but it is fairly calculated and usually do incall so I can leave before paying if things seem off.
Finally if you are going to take a chance spend some time talking with the girl on the phone. There have been several providers I knew without a doubt they were going to be good because we had a good 10 minute conversation in which I could tell they really opened up.
Ok time to let go my worst vice advice, besides hobbying of coarse.
Hope your next experiences goes better for you. [/QUOTE]You know, it's funny, I was trying to think of a case, and I'm not sure I have ever paid at the beginning of a session. No matter what goofy instructions they have put on their profile ("put in plain white envelope, lay it in the bathroom","put in envelope marked 'gift'" etc) I haven't bothered and never get any complaints. Of course I really try to only see girls I can research thoroughly, maybe that's the best advice I can give. As Luchi says, the experienced ones will know if you're legit once you get there.
PS: Luchi, I also sent you a PM by the way.
[QUOTE=Johnny Z; 1149397]You know, it's funny, I was trying to think of a case, and I'm not sure I have ever paid at the beginning of a session. No matter what goofy instructions they have put on their profile ("put in plain white envelope, lay it in the bathroom","put in envelope marked 'gift'" etc) I haven't bothered and never get any complaints. Of course I really try to only see girls I can research thoroughly, maybe that's the best advice I can give. As Luchi says, the experienced ones will know if you're legit once you get there.
PS: Luchi, I also sent you a PM by the way.[/QUOTE]I agree, the only time I got ripped of was when I paid up front. And she was a referal from a board member that spoke very highly of her.
[QUOTE=Rst2000;1149574]I agree, the only time I got ripped of was when I paid up front. And she was a referal from a board member that spoke very highly of her.[/QUOTE]It looks like a number of you have adopted the habit of the paying at the end, to lower the probability of getting ripped off and all, but after getting some feedback, I wanted to clarify that what I was getting at was more the point that the strict rules don't seem to matter so much if the situation is comfortable.
Many of you use the word respect, but in this context I would say confidence. That is, I try to do enough research so I have confidence the lady is good and I'm not going to get ripped off. Not taking chances may make me miss some nice opportunities, but there are LOTS of opportunities out there.
And for her, the ladies I like to see are ones who know enough to be confident about meeting me. And once they meet me in person, I hope it reinforces their confidence, in fact I know it usually does, because I am a good guy, I'd say.
So in that context, I'm not worried about whether I have the right envelope and she's not worried that the money's not in an envelope, and so on. And I can't recall a case where she seemed concerned I hadn't paid her, while we were playing around.
Bottom line, having confidence and keeping safe is more important than trying to follow some procedure. I just find it hard to remember those little rules, when I'm there.
[QUOTE=Johnny Z; 1150736]It looks like a number of you have adopted the habit of the paying at the end, to lower the probability of getting ripped off and all, but after getting some feedback, I wanted to clarify that what I was getting at was more the point that the strict rules don't seem to matter so much if the situation is comfortable.
Many of you use the word respect, but in this context I would say confidence. That is, I try to do enough research so I have confidence the lady is good and I'm not going to get ripped off. Not taking chances may make me miss some nice opportunities, but there are LOTS of opportunities out there.
And for her, the ladies I like to see are ones who know enough to be confident about meeting me. And once they meet me in person, I hope it reinforces their confidence, in fact I know it usually does, because I am a good guy, I'd say.
So in that context, I'm not worried about whether I have the right envelope and she's not worried that the money's not in an envelope, and so on. And I can't recall a case where she seemed concerned I hadn't paid her, while we were playing around.
Bottom line, having confidence and keeping safe is more important than trying to follow some procedure. I just find it hard to remember those little rules, when I'm there. [/QUOTE]I'm not sure I can make my point effectively.
Paying at the front, paying at the end, has more to do with the girl's comfort level with the guy than anything else. Her comfort level is driven by their interaction beginning with his first contact, how the set up was handled, and those first few minutes of their first meeting. She won't worry about it when she is comfortable with him. Actually, she is very uncomfortable with the whole idea of sex for money in the first place, so if she is comfortable with him she does not want to be paid first. I've seen this so many times I believe it to be true.
I've laid the envelope down at the initial contact just because it was on my mind and other times not because it wasn't. Only once has the girl counted it out first thing in front of me. Any number of times I have laid it down (or not laid it down) and nothing was said either way; no attention was given to that circumstance.
One time a girl wanted to see that I had the money. She didn't want me to give it to her, and specifically said she wasn't asking to have it (as though she thought I might object); she just wanted to see that I had it in the room; so I handed her the money which took care of that.
Another time I gave her the money, a full service donation, and she suddenly became a dancer in a change-your-own-oil situation. That's the only time I have been burned. What got me is I wouldn't play ball and sent her away. She wanted to charge me an additional rejection fee and got mad when I wouldn't pay it. Takes all kinds.
I think there are more dishonest hobbyists than there are dishonest girls when it comes to paying for services.
And, again, like in all my posts, I want to be clear that I am not trying to be offensive to anyone. My belief that a trust or comfort level is established during the screening process, if the provider actually goes through one. Most of the time it involves something that has to do with work, like a work phone number with ext, or a work e-mail address sent to the provider. Then a conversation between the hobbyist and provider usually takes place shortly thereafter. I'm not sure it matters when the donation is actually given, and a lot of times that's a procedure which is explained during the screening process. And I say donation because I think this should always be about companionship provided by a provider for a hobbyist. If you see someone who generally talks about paying for specific services, and in this case a rejection fee? (I actually laughed till my bawls ached when I read that). Then I assume you found a provider on BP. Unless you are a lucky chap like Ilapp, who seemed to find a nugget of gold in a coal mine the other day (an excellent writeup on the BP reviews board, and yes, I do consider most of the ads I have seen on BP to be lumps of coal) , then it seems a ripoff may be unavoidable in your case. Just my. 02. . Except now please bring your finest meats and cheeses for my men, and don't forget the water for our horses. We must eat and get some rest for we have to pick up Ilapp in the morning. Thar's gold in them thar hills!
I always wanted to write that.
BFDeal.
[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1176937]I'm not sure I can make my point effectively.
Paying at the front, paying at the end, has more to do with the girl's comfort level with the guy than anything else. Her comfort level is driven by their interaction beginning with his first contact, how the set up was handled, and those first few minutes of their first meeting. She won't worry about it when she is comfortable with him. Actually, she is very uncomfortable with the whole idea of sex for money in the first place, so if she is comfortable with him she does not want to be paid first. I've seen this so many times I believe it to be true.
I've laid the envelope down at the initial contact just because it was on my mind and other times not because it wasn't. Only once has the girl counted it out first thing in front of me. Any number of times I have laid it down (or not laid it down) and nothing was said either way; no attention was given to that circumstance.
One time a girl wanted to see that I had the money. She didn't want me to give it to her, and specifically said she wasn't asking to have it (as though she thought I might object) ; she just wanted to see that I had it in the room; so I handed her the money which took care of that.
Another time I gave her the money, a full service donation, and she suddenly became a dancer in a change-your-own-oil situation. That's the only time I have been burned. What got me is I wouldn't play ball and sent her away. She wanted to charge me an additional rejection fee and got mad when I wouldn't pay it. Takes all kinds.
I think there are more dishonest hobbyists than there are dishonest girls when it comes to paying for services. [/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Golfcart;1176937]I think there are more dishonest hobbyists than there are dishonest girls when it comes to paying for services.[/QUOTE]I think you make the point very effectively.
I put down an envelope, plain sight, first thing, and I've never had it mentioned (counted, once, by a really awful provider). I do so with women I've seen a dozen times. I do so with women who've told me I can skip the envelope, or pay at the end. I do so because it's the way it's always been done, because it gets that out of the way before the fun begins, and because, as you say, it's the woman who's at real risk.
I know that Johnny Z just meant that where things are casual he acts casually. I know because I asked him. He didn't mean to imply anyone should ignore stated instructions. Newbies out there should understand that this takes advantage of a woman's natural disinclination to incriminate herself by asking. It's way beyond a little faux pas, and *it's not your choice.
The other thing about it is I'm not sure how paying at the end is supposed to prevent ripoffs. It might prevent cash-and-dash, but if cash-and-dash is in the cards I suppose the woman's going to ask about the donation up front, or ask for the money for the room first, etc. 90% of avoiding cash-and-dash is not putting yourself in that position in the first place. It sounds more to me like an open invitation to object to paying *after* services have been provided, in which case you got to ask who's ripping off who.
[QUOTE=B Beall; 1177048] (edit delete)
I put down an envelope, plain sight, first thing, and I've never had it mentioned (counted, once, by a really awful provider). I do so with women I've seen a dozen times. I do so with women who've told me I can skip the envelope, or pay at the end. I do so because it's the way it's always been done, because it gets that out of the way before the fun begins, and because, as you say, it's the woman who's at real risk. (edit delete) [/QUOTE]We refer to it as paying up front or paying when things have concluded, but it is really an issue of power. Power can raise it's head at every step and no matter who raises it, it is ugly. Asking menu questions and insisting on detail answers is another frequent example of power being asserted or deflected.
The funniest post I ever read on this board was by Kid Cisco in Atlanta. Too bad the link won't work any longer; it was prior to the upgrade. Here it is in case anyone knows how to chase it down: [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=1010373&postcount=2836[/url] Another way, Atlanta > Escort Reports, 06-19-2010.
The short is the location was an establishment with several women, a parking lot and a gate to get out of the parking lot and through the front door. The gate had a gate code and each guy was given his own code so management knew who was coming in; power to management. Kid Cisco paid his money up front; power to management. Kid Cisco's time started when he punched that gate code; more power to management. But Kid Cisco had his own power tool, a stop watch he started when the girl got into bed. Talk about a blister ready to pop. We know what happened. The girl popped out of bed when management's time was up. How that was ultimately resolved, of course, we really don't know, hearing only one side.
Everything is all about power. Some guys have to hold it and some don't, in our world and in the real one. And everyone's results vary. Each of us thinks our way is the best. Who knows.
P. S. I happen to think our world is the real one. I know more girls here better than I have ever known in the other one.
[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1179783]We refer to it as paying up front or paying when things have concluded, but it is really an issue of power. Power can raise it's head at every step and no matter who raises it, it is ugly. Asking menu questions and insisting on detail answers is another frequent example of power being asserted or deflected.
The funniest post I ever read on this board was by Kid Cisco in Atlanta. Too bad the link won't work any longer; it was prior to the upgrade. Here it is in case anyone knows how to chase it down:
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=1010373&postcount=2836[/url]
Another way, Atlanta Escort Reports. 06-19-2010.
The short is the location was an establishment with several women, a parking lot and a gate to get out of the parking lot and through the front door. The gate had a gate code and each guy was given his own code so management knew who was coming in; power to management. Kid Cisco paid his money up front; power to management. Kid Cisco's time started when he punched that gate code; more power to management. But Kid Cisco had his own power tool, a stop watch he started when the girl got into bed. Talk about a blister ready to pop. We know what happened. The girl popped out of bed when management's time was up. How that was ultimately resolved, of course, we really don't know, hearing only one side.
Everything is all about power. Some guys have to hold it and some don't, in our world and in the real one. And everyone's results vary. Each of us thinks our way is the best. Who knows.
P. S. I happen to think our world is the real one. I know more girls here better than I have ever known in the other one. [/QUOTE]I remember that post. Of course an establishment has the right to set any rules it wants to, consistent with other people's rights and the laws of merchantability; it was only "wrong" if it promised a precise 60 minutes with the provider (I don't recall if it did or not.) It brings up something I find interesting, or curious: you often read hobbyists who want to "teach providers about marketing". Who'd "have them earning high-five figures" once they "learned about customer service". Funny, then, how you never hear hobbyists granting providers the same right to conduct their business as they see fit which we give the local grocer, electrician, or musician as a matter of course. Providers are supposed to answer the phone at all hours, be ready at a half-hour's notice, perfectly accommodate to the client's every demand (and smile while doing so) , then *charge only what the client thinks is fair. And, of course, be as attractive as the client imagined her to be when he talked to her over the phone.
Y'know, *try this stuff at the drug store next time you're there* Tell 'them this beer you're buying gave you an upset stomach once, so you're going to take it home, and if you like it you'll be back to pay what you think it was worth. Tell 'them some other store lets you pay for six and take eighteen. Tell 'them they already make enough money. Better yet, tell your bookie.
There is usually an imbalance of power in any transaction, and often it's inherent. I was talking with someone about the old days of US 40 west the other day; if you'd announced you were planning to pay afterwards, so you wouldn't get ripped off, you'd probably have found yourself in the parking lot. Possibly without having gone back down the stairs first. The internets may have given some people the idea that they're ordering from Amazon, or low-balling a Craigslister with a used toaster oven for sale, but it's a facile and self-serving idea. The power equation here is *obvious. There's no hobbying without providers. Hungry customers, on the other hand, are a dime a bushel.
[QUOTE=B Beall; 1179903]I remember that post. Of course an establishment has the right to set any rules it wants to, consistent with other people's rights and the laws of merchantability; it was only "wrong" if it promised a precise 60 minutes with the provider (I don't recall if it did or not.) It brings up something I find interesting, or curious: you often read hobbyists who want to "teach providers about marketing". Who'd "have them earning high-five figures" once they "learned about customer service". Funny, then, how you never hear hobbyists granting providers the same right to conduct their business as they see fit which we give the local grocer, electrician, or musician as a matter of course. Providers are supposed to answer the phone at all hours, be ready at a half-hour's notice, perfectly accommodate to the client's every demand (and smile while doing so) , then *charge only what the client thinks is fair. And, of course, be as attractive as the client imagined her to be when he talked to her over the phone.
Y'know, *try this stuff at the drug store next time you're there* Tell 'them this beer you're buying gave you an upset stomach once, so you're going to take it home, and if you like it you'll be back to pay what you think it was worth. Tell 'them some other store lets you pay for six and take eighteen. Tell 'them they already make enough money. Better yet, tell your bookie.
There is usually an imbalance of power in any transaction, and often it's inherent. I was talking with someone about the old days of US 40 west the other day; if you'd announced you were planning to pay afterwards, so you wouldn't get ripped off, you'd probably have found yourself in the parking lot. Possibly without having gone back down the stairs first. The internets may have given some people the idea that they're ordering from Amazon, or low-balling a Craigslister with a used toaster oven for sale, but it's a facile and self-serving idea. The power equation here is *obvious. There's no hobbying without providers. Hungry customers, on the other hand, are a dime a bushel. [/QUOTE]Excellent post. But I think that The power is 50/50. It has to be. If the power swayed to much to either side the industry would collapse. I think that if you take all of the women providing in the Indy from CL, BP, E. Com, BD. Net, another site, to the UTR in Strip clubs that none of us even know about. Also the Providers that go just on word of mouth in circles none of us run in. I think the Number is 2 maybe 3 hobbyist to 1 provider. If that many men were into this hobby in this area then it would be legal. Just my 2 cents.
[QUOTE=B Beall; 1177048]I put down an envelope, plain sight, first thing, and I've never had it mentioned (counted, once, by a really awful provider). I do so with women I've seen a dozen times. I do so with women who've told me I can skip the envelope, or pay at the end. I do so because it's the way it's always been done, because it gets that out of the way before the fun begins, and because, as you say, it's the woman who's at real risk.[/QUOTE]I guess I've been lucky but this is the way I've always done it (except once when I was nervous and forgot LOL) , and I think it works well.
As I stated in a post in the Tampa forum, I came across this add from Ally but then I remember seeing another ad using the same pics as Ally's in Tampa. So who is the real provider? Ally of Indianapolis or Jamie of Tampa? Stay safe guys.
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ally-beautifil-caucasion-and-hispanic-long-hair-dd-cup-call-anytime-23/4449542[/url]
[url]http://tampa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/x-wanna-frost-these-new-cupcakes-21/5397309[/url]
[QUOTE=Jiat2001; 1236229]As I stated in a post in the Tampa forum, I came across this add from Ally but then I remember seeing another ad using the same pics as Ally's in Tampa. So who is the real provider? Ally of Indianapolis or Jamie of Tampa? Stay safe guys.
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ally-beautifil-caucasion-and-hispanic-long-hair-dd-cup-call-anytime-23/4449542[/url]
[url]http://tampa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/x-wanna-frost-these-new-cupcakes-21/5397309[/url][/QUOTE]She reminds me of a lady who went by the handle of Peaches. She spent time in Indy with so so reviews.
Picked up an older blonde thin small chested WSW that lived at Skyline Motel. Had a dog in the room. For BBBJ it was. 2 upfront. Took a sec to start and within a few seconds came up for air saying if I was close then a few seconds later did the same thing but said odor / smell want to gag. Said to J / O while she showed skin. I was ticked. We ended it there. I had picked her up just out of frustration of not finding any wsws out there for the previous hour and had not been hunting for 6. 8 months I think. I would definitely recommend Plenty of Fish or Collarme dot com if you're into B / D and S / M stuff. Have had whirlwinds of success on the Fish site.
As an afterthought, this occurred in the neighborhood of 4AM Saturday night / Sunday morning.
Indy Cruiser
Someone else told me of Plenty of Fish do that really work? Has anyone else had luck with that site? Sorry wrong area I know but it was mentioned.
[QUOTE=Indy Cruiser; 1242656]Picked up an older blonde thin small chested WSW that lived at Skyline Motel. Had a dog in the room. For BBBJ it was. 2 upfront. Took a sec to start and within a few seconds came up for air saying if I was close then a few seconds later did the same thing but said odor / smell want to gag. Said to J / O while she showed skin. I was ticked. We ended it there. I had picked her up just out of frustration of not finding any wsws out there for the previous hour and had not been hunting for 6. 8 months I think. I would definitely recommend Plenty of Fish or Collarme dot com if you're into B / D and S / M stuff. Have had whirlwinds of success on the Fish site.
As an afterthought, this occurred in the neighborhood of 4AM Saturday night / Sunday morning.
Indy Cruiser[/QUOTE]
Someone else told me of Plenty of Fish do that really work? Has anyone else had luck with that site? Sorry wrong area I know but it was mentioned.
[QUOTE=Indy Cruiser; 1242656]Picked up an older blonde thin small chested WSW that lived at Skyline Motel. Had a dog in the room. For BBBJ it was. 2 upfront. Took a sec to start and within a few seconds came up for air saying if I was close then a few seconds later did the same thing but said odor / smell want to gag. Said to J / O while she showed skin. I was ticked. We ended it there. I had picked her up just out of frustration of not finding any wsws out there for the previous hour and had not been hunting for 6. 8 months I think. I would definitely recommend Plenty of Fish or Collarme dot com if you're into B / D and S / M stuff. Have had whirlwinds of success on the Fish site.
As an afterthought, this occurred in the neighborhood of 4AM Saturday night / Sunday morning.
Indy Cruiser[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rickhunter67; 1004012]Greetings Gentlemen.
I thought I would try out an ad here in Indianapolis off of Backpage for a girl called Rosie. Here is the URL:
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/Fem.6000hr/2140100[/url][/QUOTE]FYI. I have seen that same pic of "Rosie" used on the Detroit BP.
[QUOTE=Jiat2001; 1236229]As I stated in a post in the Tampa forum, I came across this add from Ally but then I remember seeing another ad using the same pics as Ally's in Tampa. So who is the real provider? Ally of Indianapolis or Jamie of Tampa? Stay safe guys.
[url]http://indianapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ally-beautifil-caucasion-and-hispanic-long-hair-dd-cup-call-anytime-23/4449542[/url]
[url]http://tampa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/x-wanna-frost-these-new-cupcakes-21/5397309[/url][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Fudge1;1242584]She reminds me of a lady who went by the handle of Peaches. She spent time in Indy with so so reviews.[/QUOTE]
This girl Ally of Indianapolis / Jamie of Tampa is not Peaches of or formerly of Indianapolis. At least the pics are not of Peaches.
The Indy Star reports: "Massage appointment ends with robbery, gunfire on 86th Street".
[url]http://www.indystar.com/article/20111209/NEWS02/112090393/1001/NEWS[/url]
Sounds like the guy is down over $5, 000 and lucky to have not been hurt. Scary.
I got a chuckle out of this line, though:
"The victim said he was startled because the women who greeted him at the door did not match the picture he'd seen on the website."
LOL
Anyone know what ad that guy below responded to?
Serious ripoff.
Lisa and bf. Worked over, Chicago, Lansing at 173rd, and NW I real good. Usually stays several days, in mid Jan. She was at Merriville at LaQuinta Inn. Gets money and excuses herself to leave room for something goes to bf's room and your money is gone. She uses different names. 5' 6".127.
Phones: 708-XXX-9362, 219-XXX-1143, 219-XXX-2248.
Please contact your local Crimestoppers immediately if she or anyone else robs you.
Serious ripoff.
Lisa and bf. Worked over, Chicago, Lansing at 173rd, and NW I real good. Usually stays several days, in mid Jan. She was at Merriville at LaQuinta Inn. Gets money and excuses herself to leave room for something goes to bf's room and your money is gone. She uses different names. 5' 6".127.
Phones: 708-XXX-9362, 219-XXX-1143, 219-XXX-2248.
Please contact your local Crimestoppers immediately if she or anyone else robs you.
[QUOTE=Davidonecall;1242677]Someone else told me of Plenty of Fish do that really work? Has anyone else had luck with that site? Sorry wrong area I know but it was mentioned.[/QUOTE]I've had decent luck with POF over the last 3 years. This pix on the profiles are usually accurate.
Its something I had to put a little extra effort into. However, it was usually worth the effort.
Stay Safe Out There.
I got ripped off in Bloomington by a provider using 812-369-5696.
[url]http://www.**************.com/escorts/jessica-bloomington-white-female-0[/url]
I post a rip off review on there and it was up 1 day then they took it down. I know this part is Indy, just want to let everyone know that you can't trust the reviews there. My I'd on there is youareontop and I'm pissed that they are helping a ripoff.
I for one would like this thread to be made a sticky; we should be using this more often I think.
I'll start. I'd like to report a ripoff on the drink prices at BBF.