Any experiences with Cuddle Comforts in the San Diego area?
I see quite a few postings near my home and wondering if CC is worth the effort when I'm visiting SD next month.
TIA!
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Any experiences with Cuddle Comforts in the San Diego area?
I see quite a few postings near my home and wondering if CC is worth the effort when I'm visiting SD next month.
TIA!
[QUOTE=Barney58;6518194]Any experiences with Cuddle Comforts in the San Diego area?
I see quite a few postings near my home and wondering if CC is worth the effort when I'm visiting SD next month.
TIA![/QUOTE]Never heard of it until you mentioned. Looks interesting. Have you been successful with more than cuddling? Is there a secret language I should know?
I've cuddled with a handle full of different ladies in there. Most were legit and allow booty rubs. The only naughty one semi active was Kittyluna. I got to suck her tits and daty for a crazy upcharge. She's a known local fbsm.
[QUOTE=DarkKnight619;6524251]I've cuddled with a handle full of different ladies in there. Most were legit and allow booty rubs. The only naughty one semi active was Kittyluna. I got to suck her tits and daty for a crazy upcharge. She's a known local fbsm.[/QUOTE]What was the cost of the upgrade? Do you have the link for the massage?
[QUOTE=DarkKnight619;6524251]I've cuddled with a handle full of different ladies in there. Most were legit and allow booty rubs. The only naughty one semi active was Kittyluna. I got to suck her tits and daty for a crazy upcharge. She's a known local fbsm.[/QUOTE]But to meet is free right?
[QUOTE=WhoreMaster91;6525768]But to meet is free right?[/QUOTE]I created an account yesterday out of curiosity, after reading this thread. I saw hourly rates ranging from about $80 to $1000. That's not a typo. One girl was asking one THOUSAND dollars for an hour of cuddling.
-TJNiko.
[QUOTE=WhoreMaster91;6525768]But to meet is free right?[/QUOTE]If you hide pros you will find people not charging. YMMV if you are trying to hook up. Typically if you see they are willing to host and give off lonely vibes, you probably have a good chance at having some fun depending on your charm. I have never used pro services, I met up with someone from a Reddit Community and it was a unicorn experience. She ghosted me after, but it was before Valentine's Day. She was petite and super submissive, probably my favorite experience in the "cuddle" realm.
[QUOTE=Tijuaniko;6526140]I created an account yesterday out of curiosity, after reading this thread. I saw hourly rates ranging from about $80 to $1000. That's not a typo. One girl was asking one THOUSAND dollars for an hour of cuddling.
-TJNiko.[/QUOTE]Yeah forget it ill rather spend my dough on a real *****.
I've banged a ton of girls on there. Not in SD area but OC. PM me if you want details.
[QUOTE=AmgPhilly63;6529050]I've banged a ton of girls on there. Not in SD area but OC. PM me if you want details.[/QUOTE]What's up bro. So what are the details on the cuddle thing? LOL.
Lots of legwork and you're getting no where. In all seriousness I used cc just after the pandemic for a while. I'd meet a girl for an hour cuddle as an appetizer before calling up my regular for a quick bang.
I met about 6 girls off cc total. Of those 6, 4 allowed me to touch butt and light (and I mean light) kissing.
One of those girls I kept seeing for years. And little by little our cuddling became more intense. Towards the end she offered HJs during the session for an upcharge. I ended up paying 2 bills for an hour of cuddling, edging, and dfk. Definite unicorn. I wouldn't recommend using the site to try for extras.
IMO, if someone says that, they are a pimp. I'll tell all my Eskimo brothers all the details right up front. They are big adults, they can take it from there. So SD salvi wants to know, now I do, what's up?
[QUOTE=SDSalvi;6529340]What's up bro. So what are the details on the cuddle thing? LOL.[/QUOTE]
It's possible to find someone, but it is a lot of work. Like I said before, hide pros. I like to search for people willing to host, that is usually a big indicator that the person is open to things going further. Obviously you have to look at their profile and not be a complete scumbag. Have a conversation with them, don't lead with anything sexual. I had a recent experience where I was driving out somewhere and didn't want to rent a room, person popped up in the search area, timing lined up. I wasn't looking for anything, but to cuddle and fall asleep. The profile and pics swapped weren't too great tbh, but when I got there I found a petite little brunette with curves. She opened the door in a long shirt and booty shorts. I had told her I usually sleep in just undies, but didn't mind wearing pj's or something to bed. As I was going to lay in bed she said it was ok to strip down. Put on Hulu and I snuggled up behind her, instantly hard with her ass pushing against me, but she didn't say anything. I wrapped my arms around her, one over her shoulder holding her hand above head and one under her breasts.
Super comfortable and I was exhausted, started falling asleep and as I stirred I groped accidentally and grinded into her as I adjusted. She let out a little moan which woke me up instantly. From there I slowly started groping and grinding and then she started rubbing her ass on me. I slipped my hand under her shirt and started grabbing her tits. She moaned even more so I let my hand slip to her panties and could feel the heat. I hovered over and asked if it was ok and she whispered "please" so then it turned into some of the hottest sex I have had in awhile. I told her I didn't have a condom and she said she was on birth control. She turned into a huge submissive sl*t after 2 hours of this. I was pretty tired and raw, but she was more than happy to suck me off. I had to head out early in the morning, but she made me breakfast naked. She said she had just gotten divorced and wanted a FWB situation for now. She lives pretty far from me, but she is definitely worth it. It's about 3 hours one way, so I will probably do weekends with her for now until things fizzle out. Don't let your dreams be dreams hahaha, if you put enough effort in and are genuine, you too can have an amazing time.
Honestly I didn't even know this was a thing until about 3 years ago when I had a google voice number provided to me by a company I did some contract work for over about 3-4 months. Last person who had that google voice number was apparently a cuddle provider, and I would get mongers hitting me up to cuddle 2-3 times a week (some of those fuckers were straight-up weird, tbh). After about the 3rd or 4th one I received, I started researching the number and ended up down the rabbit hole.
Never partook in this niche, but I wouldn't mind checking it out at least once because I love a good spoon. But I'm pretty sure that I would end up wanting to grope too much. It seems like groping, making out, or full on sex is definitely the exception and not the rule. Any of you guys with the experience break it down? And / or provide a go-to website for it? Maybe some hidden signs in posts that signal open-ness to extra. Thanks!
Ok, here is my San Diego cuddle scorecard. I've met 3 from SD. One strictly by the book. Cuddle, no tease etc. Cool girl, but nothing extra. The other two are now inactive on the site. One was a HE experience on meet 1, and then she dropped from the site, very pricey though. One was FS. I had a room, for work, and this one was Reasonable, also not on the site anymore. My overall experience is 60% go beyond the site guidleines, but not much beyond guidelines. Hope this helps. Plus most of the girls are fat, and that's not my thing.
[QUOTE=AmgPhilly63;6529050]I've banged a ton of girls on there. Not in SD area but OC. PM me if you want details.[/QUOTE]Please share the details.
I am still trying to get my first session from Cuddle Comfort site.
What's your trick / secret you having fun time with happy ending?
Do you look for specific profiles and what they say in their profiles?
Do you negotiate happy ending through text / talk before meeting up for the session?
Very interested in learning about this site and how to make it work, since SA / Seeking is becoming a huge time waster.
Please share tips!
[QUOTE=TopGun9;6542516]Please share the details.
I am still trying to get my first session from Cuddle Comfort site.
What's your trick / secret you having fun time with happy ending?
Do you look for specific profiles and what they say in their profiles?
Do you negotiate happy ending through text / talk before meeting up for the session?
Very interested in learning about this site and how to make it work, since SA / Seeking is becoming a huge time waster.[/QUOTE]
After doing some searching found the below tips. I do have a few appointments set for the next week and will see how that goes. Lets share some info.
"I hope you enjoy: I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps!
[QUOTE=JDome;6542772]Please share tips![/QUOTE]I don't have any tips to share yet.
I am just starting out with CC and no success at the moment.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;6547253]I don't have any tips to share yet.
I am just starting out with CC and no success at the moment.[/QUOTE]I agree with the really long post. I'm cool with hanging out, but the success rate can be lower than 50%. If you need a guarantee about getting your swerve on, this is probably not the best bet.
I did have a good ratio and it dropped from2/3 to 2/5 in SD.
Had my first session in OC. Cleavage in pics, thought what the hell.
She was super cute, not skinny. We talked a lot while cuddled, and just generally got on great. Nothing sexual happened, but I thoroughly enjoyed it and thought about her all the next day. That's the dangerous part about this LOL.
So the thing is, I'm kind of overly respectful. She put her leg between mine right away. She could tell I was hard, didn't say anything. She never said no to anywhere my hands went. I didn't grope her, but I did touch her butt and tits in a passive way, and lightly kissed her neck. She didn't indicate to stop, but wasn't telling me to go for it.
So if course now I'm thinking I was too respectful, and she might have been down for lots more. Hmmm.
Even if she wasn't. I'd repeat. I think I may be a fan of this, which is not where I expected to be.
[QUOTE=FiveYearPlan;6548165]Had my first session in OC. Cleavage in pics, thought what the hell.
She was super cute, not skinny. We talked a lot while cuddled, and just generally got on great. Nothing sexual happened, but I thoroughly enjoyed it and thought about her all the next day. That's the dangerous part about this LOL.
So the thing is, I'm kind of overly respectful. She put her leg between mine right away. She could tell I was hard, didn't say anything. She never said no to anywhere my hands went. I didn't grope her, but I did touch her butt and tits in a passive way, and lightly kissed her neck. She didn't indicate to stop, but wasn't telling me to go for it.
So if course now I'm thinking I was too respectful, and she might have been down for lots more. Hmmm.
Even if she wasn't. I'd repeat. I think I may be a fan of this, which is not where I expected to be.[/QUOTE]I cuddled yesterday and when we spooned I lay my hard wiener between the crack of her butt. She had leggings on. Cuddling always gives me this high after and you lowkey fall in love. LOL. After she left I had blue balls. I could have gotten a quickie somewhere mission valley for what I paid oh well. Cuddling is different.
[QUOTE=FiveYearPlan;6548165]Had my first session in OC. Cleavage in pics, thought what the hell.
She was super cute, not skinny. We talked a lot while cuddled, and just generally got on great. Nothing sexual happened, but I thoroughly enjoyed it and thought about her all the next day. That's the dangerous part about this LOL.
So the thing is, I'm kind of overly respectful. She put her leg between mine right away. She could tell I was hard, didn't say anything. She never said no to anywhere my hands went. I didn't grope her, but I did touch her butt and tits in a passive way, and lightly kissed her neck. She didn't indicate to stop, but wasn't telling me to go for it.
So if course now I'm thinking I was too respectful, and she might have been down for lots more. Hmmm.
Even if she wasn't. I'd repeat. I think I may be a fan of this, which is not where I expected to be.[/QUOTE]I'm curious if cleavage is the only criteria you used when selecting your first session. If you applied additional criteria, I was wondering if you'd share what it was.
I've been lurking on the site for about 2 weeks now and have started to get a lot of messages, mostly from Pro Cuddlers and I'm in the process of setting up sessions with 2 of them for next week. One has been very direct about wanting to hang out but has not been sexual at all. However, she does seem to be putting just enough pressure on that I suspect there may be extras available. I don't know how to pinpoint exactly what is giving me that feeling but I've got alarm bells going off. The second one outright said she wants my cuddling "virginity" and she just looks like a freak in her pictures. I'm keeping and open mind and will probably just go with the flow until I see a sign or an opening. I'll report back if there's anything worth sharing.
Until then, good luck to you all.
-TJNiko.
[QUOTE=Tijuaniko;6548326]I'm curious if cleavage is the only criteria you used when selecting your first session. If you applied additional criteria, I was wondering if you'd share what it was..[/QUOTE]Kinda yeah. Thought process is, if you're all about platonic soulful nourishment, why you advertising them titties?
I've been on CC for about a month now, and I am 2/2 on going all the way with providers from this site.
Both have been on work trips when I am able to host (I've found it pretty difficult to find a girl able to host during daytime hours around here).
To me, there is something entirely different about fucking a girl who you know is into it. Maybe it's the thrill of the uncertainty and the chase? I don't know, but it's seemed to sap all the excitement I would get from contacting traditional escorts.
I've kept in touch with both girls and one is even sending me pics on occasion. Both have asked me to keep in touch for next time I'm in town.
There is certainly fun to be had on cuddling sites, just tread lightly.
[QUOTE=Boltastic;6590651]I've been on CC for about a month now, and I am 2/2 on going all the way with providers from this site.
Both have been on work trips when I am able to host (I've found it pretty difficult to find a girl able to host during daytime hours around here).
To me, there is something entirely different about fucking a girl who you know is into it. Maybe it's the thrill of the uncertainty and the chase? I don't know, but it's seemed to sap all the excitement I would get from contacting traditional escorts.
I've kept in touch with both girls and one is even sending me pics on occasion. Both have asked me to keep in touch for next time I'm in town.
There is certainly fun to be had on cuddling sites, just tread lightly.[/QUOTE]Nice. I've just recently joined the site, but have not pulled the trigger yet. Did you let them make the first move?
[QUOTE=Boltastic;6590651]I've been on CC for about a month now, and I am 2/2 on going all the way with providers from this site.
Both have been on work trips when I am able to host (I've found it pretty difficult to find a girl able to host during daytime hours around here).
To me, there is something entirely different about fucking a girl who you know is into it. Maybe it's the thrill of the uncertainty and the chase? I don't know, but it's seemed to sap all the excitement I would get from contacting traditional escorts.
I've kept in touch with both girls and one is even sending me pics on occasion. Both have asked me to keep in touch for next time I'm in town.
There is certainly fun to be had on cuddling sites, just tread lightly.[/QUOTE]Very nice! Haha yes, this is like an in-between from dating / FWB / paid companionship. You will sometimes find people who will delete profiles after doing it once. A lot of the women I have met on there have had recent break ups and are actually quite kind. They aren't the type to hook up, but secretly want a good pounding. You should be a gentleman and be able to read the room, but I have found that if a woman is ok with me grinding my hard member on their ass, they are usually primed and ready. It is all about the foreplay. Go in slow and sensual. I had to end things with one recently because she was getting too attached. We had a FWB discussion and I told her I was not interested in anything more. We would have 4 hour fuck sessions and then she started to get really kinky which was great. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I had to end things. Still kind of regretting it, but oh well it happens. One of my favorite girls I met up with would pay for expensive rooms and we would go at it before work, on lunch and after work. Lasted about 6 months, but I grew a conscience after realizing she was probably married. I asked her about it and she dodged the question, so I had to end things.
Happy hunting!
[QUOTE=TheseDelights;6592073]A lot of the women I have met on there have had recent break ups and are actually quite kind. They aren't the type to hook up, but secretly want a good pounding. You should be a gentleman and be able to read the room, but I have found that if a woman is ok with me grinding my hard member on their ass, they are usually primed and ready. It is all about the foreplay. Go in slow and sensual.[/QUOTE]Good to know.
I found a couple on CC that were on pd and hx. Hehe.
[QUOTE=TheseDelights;6592073]Very nice! Haha yes, this is like an in-between from dating / FWB / paid companionship. You will sometimes find people who will delete profiles after doing it once. A lot of the women I have met on there have had recent break ups and are actually quite kind. They aren't the type to hook up, but secretly want a good pounding. You should be a gentleman and be able to read the room, but I have found that if a woman is ok with me grinding my hard member on their ass, they are usually primed and ready. It is all about the foreplay. Go in slow and sensual. I had to end things with one recently because she was getting too attached. We had a FWB discussion and I told her I was not interested in anything more. We would have 4 hour fuck sessions and then she started to get really kinky which was great. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I had to end things. Still kind of regretting it, but oh well it happens. One of my favorite girls I met up with would pay for expensive rooms and we would go at it before work, on lunch and after work. Lasted about 6 months, but I grew a conscience after realizing she was probably married. I asked her about it and she dodged the question, so I had to end things.
Happy hunting![/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice. Any chance you can provide some tips on how you select potential companions from CC? I have joined and intrigued, but a lot of "pro's" cuddlers or statements of nothing sexual.
How many did you go through before hitting the jackpot? Did you have to repeat several times before hitting it? If so, was it a big investment—- wise. Average donation?
Sorry for all the questions am a newbie and will invest the time to research and give a few a try.
Thanks,
PJ.
[QUOTE=PJuice;6594561]Thanks for the advice. Any chance you can provide some tips on how you select potential companions from CC? I have joined and intrigued, but a lot of "pro's" cuddlers or statements of nothing sexual.
How many did you go through before hitting the jackpot? Did you have to repeat several times before hitting it? If so, was it a big investment- wise. Average donation?
Sorry for all the questions am a newbie and will invest the time to research and give a few a try.
Thanks,
PJ.[/QUOTE]Filter out pros. Search for women willing to host, that right there says A LOT. Otherwise you will get providers pretending not to charge and then do a bait and switch. I did not spend a single penny on CC and have had a few successful encounters. Some on Reddit before the pandemic. What got me into the whole thing initially was when I passed out on the couch at a friend's house party. Got woken up by some girl slowly grinding into Jr with her panties down. It is pretty hot and heavy usually.
[QUOTE=TheseDelights;6596463]Filter out pros. Search for women willing to host, that right there says A LOT. Otherwise you will get providers pretending not to charge and then do a bait and switch. I did not spend a single penny on CC and have had a few successful encounters. Some on Reddit before the pandemic. What got me into the whole thing initially was when I passed out on the couch at a friend's house party. Got woken up by some girl slowly grinding into Jr with her panties down. It is pretty hot and heavy usually.[/QUOTE]Thanks TD, going to give it a try. Appreciate the answers and those willing to host. Crazy how you got into it, may have to elaborate on that story. Will report out once I give it a roll.
PJ.
Hey has anyone tried any of these two providers? Pro section, recently online. I know pros give lower odds of getting lucky but something gives me the feeling it could be good.
Or can anyone recommend a cuddler in the area? Thanks.
[QUOTE=PJuice;6596520]Thanks TD, going to give it a try. Appreciate the answers and those willing to host. Crazy how you got into it, may have to elaborate on that story. Will report out once I give it a roll.
PJ.[/QUOTE]The pickings will be slim when you filter like that, but you will find people. If you extend the search area and are willing to drive, you may be surprised in what you can find.
This friend of a friend came to visit and was very pretty, average build long hair. I came after work and the party had died down for the most part. I had never met this girl and she acted stuck up right from the get go which is a huge turn off for me. My friends gf made a comment trying to hook us up together and I basically said she wasn't my type, that girl then kept pushing after that and I told her she wasn't that pretty. I hate women who play games and have GPS. Well we kept drinking and I passed out on the couch, that girl was watching Netflix on the floor when I fell asleep.
Woke up to to her grinding on me with her panties down her thighs. She had unzipped me and was on my boxers. I was as hard as a diamond hahaha, was kinda of scared if I'm being honest, but then I saw she was getting my boxers all wet with her juices. Instinct took over and I pulled open my boxers to fuck her. She was basically riding me sitting up, but we laid on our side and we fucked like that with me behind her holding her neck and twisting her body to get a good angle. Came inside her, but I was so riled up that I just kept pumping and was able to dump like 3 loads in her over the next hour. The whole time she was whispering "tell me I'm ugly and fuck me daddy" it was crazy hahahaha. After that third load I slowed down and she lost a bit of the passion, tried to break away. I got on top of her prone with her ass up and fucked her as hard as I could until I got tired. I had nothing to blow and eventually I got off of her to go take a leak. She got dressed and went to sleep on the floor again by the time I came back. In the morning my friend's wife got us McDonald's for breakfast and she pretended like nothing happened.
I told my buddy what happened and he told me she had a fiance and was about to finish nursing school, so I felt pretty bad afterwards for the guy. She tried to add me on SM a few months down the line, but I just blocked her.
Crazy, risky and hot. I definitely was worried about potential pregnancy scares since I had no clue if she was on birth control.
[QUOTE=TheseDelights;6598715]The pickings will be slim when you filter like that, but you will find people. If you extend the search area and are willing to drive, you may be surprised in what you can find.
This friend of a friend came to visit and was very pretty, average build long hair. I came after work and the party had died down for the most part. I had never met this girl and she acted stuck up right from the get go which is a huge turn off for me. My friends gf made a comment trying to hook us up together and I basically said she wasn't my type, that girl then kept pushing after that and I told her she wasn't that pretty. I hate women who play games and have GPS. Well we kept drinking and I passed out on the couch, that girl was watching Netflix on the floor when I fell asleep.
Woke up to to her grinding on me with her panties down her thighs. She had unzipped me and was on my boxers. I was as hard as a diamond hahaha, was kinda of scared if I'm being honest, but then I saw she was getting my boxers all wet with her juices. Instinct took over and I pulled open my boxers to fuck her. She was basically riding me sitting up, but we laid on our side and we fucked like that with me behind her holding her neck and twisting her body to get a good angle. Came inside her, but I was so riled up that I just kept pumping and was able to dump like 3 loads in her over the next hour. The whole time she was whispering "tell me I'm ugly and fuck me daddy" it was crazy hahahaha. After that third load I slowed down and she lost a bit of the passion, tried to break away. I got on top of her prone with her ass up and fucked her as hard as I could until I got tired. I had nothing to blow and eventually I got off of her to go take a leak. She got dressed and went to sleep on the floor again by the time I came back. In the morning my friend's wife got us McDonald's for breakfast and she pretended like nothing happened.
I told my buddy what happened and he told me she had a fiance and was about to finish nursing school, so I felt pretty bad afterwards for the guy. She tried to add me on SM a few months down the line, but I just blocked her.
Crazy, risky and hot. I definitely was worried about potential pregnancy scares since I had no clue if she was on birth control.[/QUOTE]TD that is a dream story. Way to stay strong on staying away. Hopefully no little "Delight' running around. Haha.
PJ.
[QUOTE=PJuice;6594561]Thanks for the advice. Any chance you can provide some tips on how you select potential companions from CC? I have joined and intrigued, but a lot of "pro's" cuddlers or statements of nothing sexual.
How many did you go through before hitting the jackpot? Did you have to repeat several times before hitting it? If so, was it a big investment- wise. Average donation?
Sorry for all the questions am a newbie and will invest the time to research and give a few a try.
Thanks,
PJ.[/QUOTE]So I was curious. About this whole cuddling thing so I signed up and have had two sessions. Here's my advice.
If you are looking for guranteed action this may not be for you. You need to go into this with the mindset that you may just get a cuddle session. I got more both of my sessions but I didn't go into it thinking I would.
When looking at profiles I would stay clear of profiles that mention platonic and strictly following the sites terms of service (for the most part see comment below). Look for profiles that mention tipping for extra etc.
Obviously never mention any extras in your correspondence.
Make sure you are hygienic, smell good, look presentable (clean clothes).
Be a gentleman. Let them take the lead. My first session we went all the way. We tried different cuddling positions but it was face to face cuddling with her leg straddling mine that she started rubbing my face and head then she leaned in to kiss me and it was over from there. I tipped. Her at the end because it was hella good.
The second session I didn't go all the way but went way further than expected. This one actually you agree to terms of the site prior. To the session and provide a picture. So prior to the start of cuddling she ask could she take off her pants. I say sure get as comfortable as you want. LOL! Few minutes into the the cuddling session she offers a massage and I accept. Then she takes her shirt off and ask me to take off my shirt. She gives me a nice massage then we go to face to cuddling and she starts to kiss me. She then gives me a nice HJ to finish me off. This one I think will go all the way the more I am willing to see her.
Overall I will keep my account open and play around some more but will stick to the more guaranteed sites more frequently.
[QUOTE=NewHobby13;6603101]So I was curious. About this whole cuddling thing so I signed up and have had two sessions. Here's my advice.
If you are looking for guranteed action this may not be for you. You need to go into this with the mindset that you may just get a cuddle session. I got more both of my sessions but I didn't go into it thinking I would.
When looking at profiles I would stay clear of profiles that mention platonic and strictly following the sites terms of service (for the most part see comment below). Look for profiles that mention tipping for extra etc.
Obviously never mention any extras in your correspondence.
Make sure you are hygienic, smell good, look presentable (clean clothes).
Be a gentleman. Let them take the lead. My first session we went all the way. We tried different cuddling positions but it was face to face cuddling with her leg straddling mine that she started rubbing my face and head then she leaned in to kiss me and it was over from there. I tipped. Her at the end because it was hella good.
The second session I didn't go all the way but went way further than expected. This one actually you agree to terms of the site prior. To the session and provide a picture. So prior to the start of cuddling she ask could she take off her pants..[/QUOTE]Damn dude you're killing it! I've done 4 sessions and nothing extra. Although I went with all ladies that are "Pros" were any of these ladies Pros? Maybe I should just filter that option out and keep trying LOL.
I've been checking out the girls on CC but honestly San Diego doesn't really have good looking girls, hell we don't even have that many girls to choose from in the first place LOL. There ARE some good looking girls out there, but profile looks way too legit to even bother.
My question is, whoever scored on CC in San Diego, did why'all really pay those overweight girls? Because the way I see it, I feel like I should get paid to cuddle with THEM.
[QUOTE=NewHobby13;6603101]So I was curious. About this whole cuddling thing so I signed up and have had two sessions. Here's my advice.
If you are looking for guranteed action this may not be for you. You need to go into this with the mindset that you may just get a cuddle session. I got more both of my sessions but I didn't go into it thinking I would.
When looking at profiles I would stay clear of profiles that mention platonic and strictly following the sites terms of service (for the most part see comment below). Look for profiles that mention tipping for extra etc.
Obviously never mention any extras in your correspondence.
Make sure you are hygienic, smell good, look presentable (clean clothes).
Be a gentleman. Let them take the lead. My first session we went all the way. We tried different cuddling positions but it was face to face cuddling with her leg straddling mine that she started rubbing my face and head then she leaned in to kiss me and it was over from there. I tipped. Her at the end because it was hella good.
The second session I didn't go all the way but went way further than expected. This one actually you agree to terms of the site prior. To the session and provide a picture. So prior to the start of cuddling she ask could she take off her pants. I say sure get as comfortable as you want. LOL! Few minutes into the the cuddling session she offers a massage and I accept. Then she takes her shirt off and ask me to take off my shirt. She gives me a nice massage then we go to face to cuddling and she starts to kiss me. She then gives me a nice HJ to finish me off. This one I think will go all the way the more I am willing to see her.
Overall I will keep my account open and play around some more but will stick to the more guaranteed sites more frequently.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Snaxychax;6603644]Damn dude you're killing it! I've done 4 sessions and nothing extra. Although I went with all ladies that are "Pros" were any of these ladies Pros? Maybe I should just filter that option out and keep trying LOL.[/QUOTE]They were both from the "Pros" section. Maybe I lucked out. Now I will say they weren't supermodels but I personally don't need or look for the hottest girl. I do have a standard but I prefer quality service over anything. Like I said I looked for vague profiles. For example there is one profile on there who is 200 hr which I wouldn't pay for cuddling alone but it's almost a guarantee you can get extras because she says in her profile that "add-ons available all tip based". She also has her instagram username in her profile. If you go to her instagram you will see she has a OF page. So you do the math that you may be able to get more than cuddling from her but at what cost? I mean she is starting at 200. I also have a secret benefits and seeking arrangements profile and have seen some of the same women on all three sites so you know what's up with them then.
[QUOTE=NewHobby13;6603897]They were both from the "Pros" section. Maybe I lucked out. Now I will say they weren't supermodels but I personally don't need or look for the hottest girl. I do have a standard but I prefer quality service over anything. Like I said I looked for vague profiles. For example there is one profile on there who is 200 hr which I wouldn't pay for cuddling alone but it's almost a guarantee you can get extras because she says in her profile that "add-ons available all tip based". She also has her instagram username in her profile. If you go to her instagram you will see she has a OF page. So you do the math that you may be able to get more than cuddling from her but at what cost? I mean she is starting at 200. I also have a secret benefits and seeking arrangements profile and have seen some of the same women on all three sites so you know what's up with them then.[/QUOTE]I also just made a CC account. I will jump into and try one or two out this week. I agree, read between the lines for either the obvious "extras", silent as to the "platonic only", or look for a will make you happy. I see a couple of prospects. And if it only ends up with the hugging, that is not bad for a couple of hundred. But if that is how it goes, I will ask about repeat and getting "closer".