First post. Let's see how active we can make this.
First post. Let's see how active we can make this.
Stella is StellaLilly97 on SB, 25, Batavia area, 1 kid, unlisted Verizon, messaged me first. Said she was dtf but only after a public meeting. Switched to text and agreed to 300ppm but wanted full allowance at the first platonic MnG. Promise of more later. Maybe. Never pay for a MnG it is 'rinsing' pure and simple.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/56f346e9cc1e0a9a[/URL]
BAM.
I know its probably been mentioned in the other sugar threads, but since this is a new thread maybe we can make a guide on how to avoid fakes on SB and WYP. Admittedly I have not yet spent credits, although I intend to soon, but it seems like I have a lot of messages already from just posting a profile pic. Do you guys usually see if they viewed your profile first before paying to unlock?
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;6415092]I know its probably been mentioned in the other sugar threads, but since this is a new thread maybe we can make a guide on how to avoid fakes on SB and WYP. Admittedly I have not yet spent credits, although I intend to soon, but it seems like I have a lot of messages already from just posting a profile pic. Do you guys usually see if they viewed your profile first before paying to unlock?[/QUOTE]I know for WYP you can turn off the feature the lets someone see you viewed their profile. I assume it works for the girls too. To evaluate fakes on there I usually look at the pics. Are they on the beach? Does it look like they are from Ohio are the types of questions I ask myself. You can tell if the pic looks too good or too staged that could indicate fake or at least raise the chances. I also look at their profile descriptions. How unique is what they are writing compared to other profiles? Are they using broken English? How much effort was put in? Again this doesn't %100 determine fake or only lessens the chances. I also have been honing in on wishlists. Though I haven't really found if this is helpful or not, but a wishlist they created might indicate a real person vs bot. $100 is usually the bar to get a girl to accept although there are very attractive girls and pros that seek much more. Point being if you are haggling back in forth that could also mean real person vs bot because I've seen girls with really attractive pics accepting 5 $ offers and no way an overly attractive girl in this market would do that. Hope this helps.
This profile sent me the following message on SB:
"I'm actually looking for some one who's available to meet today for a pay per meet arrangement and then possibly if the sexual chemistry is right maybe discuss a allowance."
I need to plan my meetings several days in advance and she is not quite my type. Probably heavier than her pictures. No rate was discussed. Someone here ought to check her out and report back.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/bwoaV92O5KQalXNAkBzevjlr[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/770cc1a03377f153[/URL]
BAM
I met this one a while back. I told her I wasn't paying for the initial meet and she said that was fine. We met for dinner and she got pushy and said I should pay her gas money. I told her no and that was that. Someone may have gotten further, but she keeps making new profiles so I'm guessing her rinsing has met resistance.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/eQwL3daOJLX1w8vJVWNXKjk6[/URL]
Where did she drive from, Chicago? Here's five bucks, *****. STFU.
[QUOTE=BaddenBoy2020;6416392]I met this one a while back. I told her I wasn't paying for the initial meet and she said that was fine. We met for dinner and she got pushy and said I should pay her gas money. I told her no and that was that. Someone may have gotten further, but she keeps making new profiles so I'm guessing her rinsing has met resistance.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/eQwL3daOJLX1w8vJVWNXKjk6[/URL][/QUOTE]
I remember her from last year. Met on SA and we set up a MNG. She actually hit me up for the gas money before the meeting and I cut it off there so you got a little further than I did.
[QUOTE=BaddenBoy2020;6416392]I met this one a while back. I told her I wasn't paying for the initial meet and she said that was fine. We met for dinner and she got pushy and said I should pay her gas money. I told her no and that was that. Someone may have gotten further, but she keeps making new profiles so I'm guessing her rinsing has met resistance.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/eQwL3daOJLX1w8vJVWNXKjk6[/URL][/QUOTE]
She's very much my type so I'll pursue and report back.
[QUOTE=BamBam;6416361]This profile sent me the following message on SB:
"I'm actually looking for some one who's available to meet today for a pay per meet arrangement and then possibly if the sexual chemistry is right maybe discuss a allowance."
I need to plan my meetings several days in advance and she is not quite my type. Probably heavier than her pictures. No rate was discussed. Someone here ought to check her out and report back.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/bwoaV92O5KQalXNAkBzevjlr[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/770cc1a03377f153[/URL]
BAM[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cf6df9a657b6ae60[/URL]
This one just hit me up this morning after viewing and liking my profile. She messaged me but I haven't opened it yet. I have a current project on a beautiful little MILF in her early to mid thirties. I am supposed to meet with her for an entire evening of overnight fun while she is off work this weekend. Anyway, the one in the link might be something that someone would pursue.
Happy Hunting.
BTS.
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;6418674][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cf6df9a657b6ae60[/URL]
This one just hit me up this morning after viewing and liking my profile. She messaged me but I haven't opened it yet. I have a current project on a beautiful little MILF in her early to mid thirties. I am supposed to meet with her for an entire evening of overnight fun while she is off work this weekend. Anyway, the one in the link might be something that someone would pursue.
Happy Hunting.
BTS.[/QUOTE]She also message me. Have not unlocked conversation. But she dose look hot.
[QUOTE=Tyler4178;6418774]She also message me. Have not unlocked conversation. But she dose look hot.[/QUOTE]She has seen my private photos and my profile which is pretty direct about what I am looking for (discreet intimate affair) and then messaged me so not a bot. But no guarantee not a poser. Ad reads okay.
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;6418674][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cf6df9a657b6ae60[/URL]
This one just hit me up this morning after viewing and liking my profile. She messaged me but I haven't opened it yet. I have a current project on a beautiful little MILF in her early to mid thirties. I am supposed to meet with her for an entire evening of overnight fun while she is off work this weekend. Anyway, the one in the link might be something that someone would pursue.
Happy Hunting.
BTS.[/QUOTE]She did all the same for me and I opened the message. She is taking me straight to text using a NoVa area code with no PII. Based on her language, she is either a full on pro or a scammer. She is offering to send me sexy pics and videos. No $ ask - yet. I suggest you all wait before spending any credits on her messages. I will report back however it progresses.
BAM.
Don't waste your time on this one. She is using stolen pictures of a pron star.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/jEwkR6MnA8BKd9w5yWeGx7dQ[/URL]
[URL]https://www.twpornstars.com/NISSXUOFFICIAL?sort=likes&page=4[/URL]
[URL]https://twitter.com/nissxuofficial[/URL]
BAM.
These are ones that did all the same, viewed my profile, liked my profile and reached out to me. I opened their messages and replied and usually wait 24 hours for a response. They have been online since my response but have not replied back. My method is not full proof, but does cut back on some. Time will tell.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/77ed8c685822cb94[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1c3866ddad783322[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/26108e1adbd0b6c2[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5fb0f22e3b80d1ee[/URL]
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5532e4cf14ad0dc1
[QUOTE=BamBam;6419178]She did all the same for me and I opened the message. She is taking me straight to text using a NoVa area code with no PII. Based on her language, she is either a full on pro or a scammer. She is offering to send me sexy pics and videos. No $ ask - yet. I suggest you all wait before spending any credits on her messages. I will report back however it progresses.
BAM.[/QUOTE]Yeah, waiting on your repot.
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/ohio/cincinnati/129214370[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3eba90c1e55af9d1[/URL]
Same girl, had something set up with her then crickets. Just seen this in the escort thread.
LOL, this is not the MILF I spoke of earlier.
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;6419238]These are ones that did all the same, viewed my profile, liked my profile and reached out to me. I opened their messages and replied and usually wait 24 hours for a response. They have been online since my response but have not replied back. My method is not full proof, but does cut back on some. Time will tell.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/77ed8c685822cb94[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1c3866ddad783322[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/26108e1adbd0b6c2[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5fb0f22e3b80d1ee[/URL]
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5532e4cf14ad0dc1[/QUOTE]The first and third links show no longer active for me. I have several similar experiences I will post when I get some time.
BAM.
I posted this in response to a question on the Philly thread. I thought I would cross-post here.
I am still temporarily banned from SA. I have to create an entirely new identity to get back on and I am taking my time. Meanwhile, I have been playing with the three other sites to see how they perform. There is a petty long learning curve on SB. You have to take your time and spend your credits very, very carefully. If you are cautious and only spend credits for messaging, it can be cheaper than SA. However, the yield is much, much lower. And even with experience and wariness, there are still more than a few NPC / bots, that will waste your money. These are profiles that meet all the normal selection criteria but only give you one message or answer then ghost. In my experience, I can get 2-3 MnG's per month. Of those only about one in four is going to be ready for the FC and the quality will be equally lower. (Meaning I decline.) On SA, I could do 2-4 MnG's per week and find 1-2 new SB's per month. Others report higher results on SA but they are also seeing the pros, semi-pros, serial SB's and non-HWP girls which do not interest me.
My rules for finding real people on SB are: 1) Can I find PII? 2) Do they have more than a few pictures? 3) Does their About Me have more than 3-4 items? 4) Finally, have they bothered to look at my profile? The latter item is the most decisive one. Of course, none of these criteria work if you do not already have credits. If you do not have credits, the site will bombard you with messages, profile views, favorites and everything else they can think of. They will use real profiles to do this without the profile owners having a clue. All this is to get you thinking with the little head. As soon as you buy some credits, they turn off the program and girls you message will have no idea what you are talking about or will be the NPC's.
I hope this helps!
BAM.
Not my usual type but she sent me a message and I answered. Her number traces to an escort.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4a29e75e350deda0[/URL]
[URL]https://callescort.org/513-596-1943[/URL]
No need to waste credits if you are interested.
BAM.
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;6416568]I remember her from last year. Met on SA and we set up a MNG. She actually hit me up for the gas money before the meeting and I cut it off there so you got a little further than I did.[/QUOTE]She listed herself as working as a receptionist at a "luxury car" dealership and in a later one she was wearing an Acura polo.
Narrows down where you might want to go in order to check her out without paying for a MnG.
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;6420507]She listed herself as working as a receptionist at a "luxury car" dealership and in a later one she was wearing an Acura polo.
Narrows down where you might want to go in order to check her out without paying for a MnG.[/QUOTE]Was all DTF and smiles with me until we got set to meet. When she heard I only offer a token amount of $20-40, she ghosted. She is a time-wasting rinser.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/eQwL3daOJLX1w8vJVWNXKjk6[/URL]
BAM.
Don't waste your credits. Came at me by viewing my profile, being green, and accepting my offer of $50. From messaging quickly agreed to text using a number with a Phoenix AC. The number traces to escort sites all over the country. Some close in time: 480-275-1449.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/okY13bKlJlG4V7NAneVE27Ma[/URL]
BAM.
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;6420507]She listed herself as working as a receptionist at a "luxury car" dealership and in a later one she was wearing an Acura polo.
Narrows down where you might want to go in order to check her out without paying for a MnG.[/QUOTE]Pro tip: Never show up at a woman's work uninvited.
[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6421053]Pro tip: Never show up at a woman's work uninvited.[/QUOTE]Pretty sure he's talking about showing up and picking her up there, not showing up at a girls work you already know. She told me where she worked, but she knows me so not doing that.
[QUOTE=BaddenBoy2020;6421057]Pretty sure he's talking about showing up and picking her up there, not showing up at a girls work you already know. She told me where she worked, but she knows me so not doing that.[/QUOTE]Yeah, if you approach then, that would work. But, if you check her out at her work, then try to arrange something online. Eh? Don't do that.
[QUOTE=Ginzo666;6421062]Yeah, if you approach then, that would work. But, if you check her out at her work, then try to arrange something online. Eh? Don't do that.[/QUOTE]As a general rule all of this is good advice. However, in the case of Lola, we already know she is flirty rinser who is unlikely to put out. Why waste your time?
BAM.
[QUOTE=BaddenBoy2020;6421057]Pretty sure he's talking about showing up and picking her up there, not showing up at a girls work you already know. She told me where she worked, but she knows me so not doing that.[/QUOTE]I was referring to doing a recon as a prospective new car buyer and seeing what she actually looked like before making an offer or contact.
Either side even with an arrangement in place should not be showing up at one's place of employment once contact has been initiated.
I accepted a chat with this lady this morning. Conversation started out nice, got her cell and started chatting. When I started to get suspicious. So I did a Google search on her number. Came up as KittyKathy and the pics wanted to make me run. Looks like she is based out of Phoenix and worked in chicago. So I ask for a pic. OMG georgious pic. Did a tineye search no hits, unless I'm doing something wrong.
Pic looks like her list ad pic. So unless she got a new phone number, no way this can be her.
WYP listing. [URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/okY13bKlJlG4V7NAneVE27Ma[/URL].
Sorry can't figure out how to post the pic she sent in text.
Just saw BAMs post later in this tread
Started off wanting to send pics and videos. I flat out told her I would not be sending money prior to a meet and crickets ever since. I know Bam said to hold off, but I don't get back to the thread daily so I didn't see until after I spent the credits.
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;6416572]She's very much my type so I'll pursue and report back.[/QUOTE]
Doesn't fit the typical scammer profile in that she has lots of pictures but they are almost TGTBT. Location was Cincinnati yesterday but St. Louis today.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/715a0763f288b60d[/URL]
BAM.
Conversation started off nice. I asked if she could visit me and she said no, because she does not have a car. I asked where she lived and she said Avondale. Asked what she expected and she said $250 per meet. To me, if you have no car and you live in Avondale, you are a SW.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/f1d3760c07c5b94d[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bbea82feaa10c7ac[/URL]
Not going to be in Cincinnati. This one is using photos of Lily Kawaii. Porno star from Miami.
I keep seeing her active and I posted about her a year or so ago. She's a rinser, you cannot believe anything she says and makes every cent from the site trying to extract money from guys. Will not go to the FC no matter what she may say.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/mz6PW1dL0kOlGyy0qEbwMDy8[/URL]
Open conversation with her on the site. Lead to me getting her contact to text. The last two time was wanting me to cashapp her for gas money. Van stranded along side if the highway, and the last to get a babysitter. Explained, no transfer of money till we meet. It took her a few time to get that. Has not returned text. Wasted time on this one.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57L296W06jWqempk[/URL]
[QUOTE=BaddenBoy2020;6423265]I keep seeing her active and I posted about her a year or so ago. She's a rinser, you cannot believe anything she says and makes every cent from the site trying to extract money from guys. Will not go to the FC no matter what she may say.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/mz6PW1dL0kOlGyy0qEbwMDy8[/URL][/QUOTE]Same profile on SB. She messaged me then crickets. Sounds like I got off easy with just the cost of message credits.
Happy Hunting.
BTS.
P.S. The young MILF that I mentioned a short while back met me for coffee, now we are negotiating playtime. No charge for meeting, cost me the startbucks coffee. Talked for an hour, last part about each others kinks, LOL. The goodbye kiss she gave me left me hard for an hour. Have a MnG with a potential out of Dayton area this weekend. If she's real and matches pics / profile, smoking hot little 25 year old blonde. Conversation started pretty innocent, I asked to take it to text. Exchanged selfies, talked about different arrangements, an each others kinks. So far all is a go, but the proof for me is at the MnG. She hasn't asked for money for the MnG, just the dinner so far. Yet. To be continued.
So on this thread, we talk about WYP and Secret B. The other thread is just SA? What if I wanted to make a post about the sugar baby lifestyle experience? Which thread? BAM, anyone?
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;6424290]So on this thread, we talk about WYP and Secret B. The other thread is just SA? What if I wanted to make a post about the sugar baby lifestyle experience? Which thread? BAM, anyone?[/QUOTE]I think you could go several ways. I still regard the SA thread as the main thread so my first inclination would be to post a general comment there. You could actually post on either thread and get a reaction. I would be very surprised if most guys are not reading both of them. Finally you could post on both. I frequently cross-post on more than one thread if I think they appeal to different audiences.
Net, just make the post and don't sweat the location.
BAM.
[QUOTE=Joe999;6424053]Open conversation with her on the site. Lead to me getting her contact to text. The last two time was wanting me to cashapp her for gas money. Van stranded along side if the highway, and the last to get a babysitter. Explained, no transfer of money till we meet. It took her a few time to get that. Has not returned text. Wasted time on this one.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/nDEo2v9r57L296W06jWqempk[/URL][/QUOTE]Sob story === insta-block from me.
Met for a MnG. No car and living with grandfather. I had to pick her up. Not as thick as her pictures but still very rough looking. Teeth are horrible (but not meth teeth.) Cannot host and no visible means of support other than mom and G-pa. Pleasant girl and would likely be available for a very reasonable donation but not for me.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/EgkDdnNPJD9BONM5Z8XaowWM[/URL]
BAM.