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Sb / sd
After about one month on SDM, I would like to share my experiences and start a new thread. It's time this thread begins because there is ample opportunity around the area and for those who either have to travel or don't mind driving a bit, this is a great way for some of you to have fun.
Over the last month I have talked to many and they vary dramatically. Some are interested in just a genuine connection, some are basically escorts and then you have everything in between. Some are gorgeous and have GPS, some are not attractive and most are average to above average. Some say they either want an allowance and just one SD, while the vast majority are willing to do ppm. Overall it's basically like a dating site full of women who don't want to be on STG or Eros and they understand what we want.
Usually you're going to have to spend money, but isn't that always the case with any woman anyway? For those of you who are somewhat attractive, have the ability to talk to women effectively or know your way around a womans body, I can assure you that you'll pay less than the men who are not desirable so YMMV significantly. One thing I really like about SDM is you can send pics privately without having ANY on your profile. Once they see you're not a slob, they will be more interested. Once you talk to them respectfully and effectively they will become more interested.
My first encounter was an early 40's chick near Brandon. Took her to lunch, spent. 5, went back to her place and had fun. She was cool but not sure if I'd repeat. Wasn't overly attracted to her.
Next encounter was a 32 why / o from Fort Myers. Had to get a hotel for. 8, spent 3-4 hrs with her and gave her $. 5. She then drove to me, spent the night, I spent. 5 on groceries etc and gave her $. Had 2 great experiences but I think she was expecting more money so she got moody. Not sure if I'll repeat bc I don't do moods but she was pretty hot.
Today's encounter was with a 27 why / o ebony spinner in Lakeland. Had to get a hotel for. 8 and paid her $$. Good looking chick, killer body. May repeat if a lower rate is offered.
Senior members who would like the ad for the Lakeland spinner can DM me but she told me not to post it in the blog. She's a very nice girl and must be treated as such.
I'm just over the drama and issues we have with many of the other avenues available plus they usually aren't any cheaper and as we know they are far higher volume. This is like dating with an understanding. I'm not sure how SB and SA work with the ability to send pics without having them on your profile so maybe some of you can enlighten us on that or with any other experiences or advice on those sites. My only suggestion is, try to keep money out of the conversation on the sites and limit that to texting / talking off site. Treat them like women, not escorts and enjoy. After 30+ years of experience, this is definitely a great opportunity for those who want better quality women overall.
Good luck and stay safe.
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Sb / sd
[QUOTE=Rfk891;6966397]After about one month on SDM, I would like to share my experiences and start a new thread. It's time this thread begins because there is ample opportunity around the area and for those who either have to travel or don't mind driving a bit, this is a great way for some of you to have fun.
Over the last month I have talked to many and they vary dramatically. Some are interested in just a genuine connection, some are basically escorts and then you have everything in between. Some are gorgeous and have GPS, some are not attractive and most are average to above average. Some say they either want an allowance and just one SD, while the vast majority are willing to do ppm. Overall it's basically like a dating site full of women who don't want to be on STG or Eros and they understand what we want.[/QUOTE]Thank you for this post brother.
Lakelander here so really appreciate the work you put into this.
Sending you a PM with questions / guidance if that's ok.
Hope that's ok.
Cheers.
J. Out.
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[QUOTE=JjNewTampa;6966518]Thank you for this post brother.
Lakelander here so really appreciate the work you put into this.
Sending you a PM with questions / guidance if that's ok.
Hope that's ok.
Cheers.
J. Out.[/QUOTE]You should have a response now.
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Seeking
[QUOTE=Rfk891;6966397]After about one month on SDM, I would like to share my experiences and start a new thread. It's time this thread begins because there is ample opportunity around the area and for those who either have to travel or don't mind driving a bit, this is a great way for some of you to have fun.
Over the last month I have talked to many and they vary dramatically. Some are interested in just a genuine connection, some are basically escorts and then you have everything in between. Some are gorgeous and have GPS, some are not attractive and most are average to above average. Some say they either want an allowance and just one SD, while the vast majority are willing to do ppm. Overall it's basically like a dating site full of women who don't want to be on STG or Eros and they understand what we want.
Usually you're going to have to spend money, but isn't that always the case with any woman anyway? For those of you who are somewhat attractive, have the ability to talk to women effectively or know your way around a womans body, I can assure you that you'll pay less than the men who are not desirable so YMMV significantly. One thing I really like about SDM is you can send pics privately without having ANY on your profile. Once they see you're not a slob, they will be more interested. Once you talk to them respectfully and effectively they will become more interested.
My first encounter was an early 40's chick near Brandon. Took her to lunch, spent. 5, went back to her place and had fun. She was cool but not sure if I'd repeat. Wasn't overly attracted to her.
Next encounter was a 32 why / o from Fort Myers. Had to get a hotel for. 8, spent 3-4 hrs with her and gave her $. 5. She then drove to me, spent the night, I spent. 5 on groceries etc and gave her $. Had 2 great experiences but I think she was expecting more money so she got moody. Not sure if I'll repeat bc I don't do moods but she was pretty hot.
Today's encounter was with a 27 why / o ebony spinner in Lakeland. Had to get a hotel for. 8 and paid her $$. Good looking chick, killer body. May repeat if a lower rate is offered.
Senior members who would like the ad for the Lakeland spinner can DM me but she told me not to post it in the blog. She's a very nice girl and must be treated as such.
I'm just over the drama and issues we have with many of the other avenues available plus they usually aren't any cheaper and as we know they are far higher volume. This is like dating with an understanding. I'm not sure how SB and SA work with the ability to send pics without having them on your profile so maybe some of you can enlighten us on that or with any other experiences or advice on those sites. My only suggestion is, try to keep money out of the conversation on the sites and limit that to texting / talking off site. Treat them like women, not escorts and enjoy. After 30+ years of experience, this is definitely a great opportunity for those who want better quality women overall.
Good luck and stay safe.[/QUOTE]It's tough being on that site if you're married but you can have some success. However, if I was single it can be a goldmine and a lot of fun. I'm curious did you ever reach out to the 34 yr old blonde in the Sebring area on seeking? I don't remember her handle but she was a lot of fun the couple of times I visited with her. I'm sure she had a rotation and unfortunately at my age now I had to take a back seat.
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Driver's License
[QUOTE=Rfk891;6966397]Good luck and stay safe.[/QUOTE]I do not want to supply the site with my drivers license picture. Really leaves your ass hanging out there.
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[QUOTE=TomThumb12;6968497]I do not want to supply the site with my drivers license picture. Really leaves your ass hanging out there.[/QUOTE]I don't remember having to do that on SDM and I have non-paid member accounts on the other two and haven't had to give a DL pic. Which site was this on and was it required?
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[QUOTE=Hawkeye49;6968079]It's tough being on that site if you're married but you can have some success. However, if I was single it can be a goldmine and a lot of fun. I'm curious did you ever reach out to the 34 yr old blonde in the Sebring area on seeking? I don't remember her handle but she was a lot of fun the couple of times I visited with her. I'm sure she had a rotation and unfortunately at my age now I had to take a back seat.[/QUOTE]Not sure who you're talking about. I've scanned through seeking for a long time but have never had a subscription.
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[QUOTE=Rfk891;6969659]Not sure who you're talking about. I've scanned through seeking for a long time but have never had a subscription.[/QUOTE]My last stint ended mid July and was only marginally successful. However, it is a bit more challenging for someone with an SO, especially since many of them don't host.
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[QUOTE=Rfk891;6969656]I don't remember having to do that on SDM and I have non-paid member accounts on the other two and haven't had to give a DL pic. Which site was this on and was it required?[/QUOTE][URL]sugardaddymeet.com[/URL]
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[QUOTE=TomThumb12;6970316][URL]sugardaddymeet.com[/URL][/QUOTE]Personally, the second time I signed up for [URL=https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/afflandingpage/sugar-baby.html/?tid=af100011222-m&lan=1]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/[/URL] it, they asked me to verify with a driver's license, but they were okay with you blocking out some info. I think the thing that might have caused a red flag was I'd cancelled an account and then tried rejoining with a new email the same night. Maybe it was the same IP address or something like that.
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Sdm
I made an account on SDM in an incognito browser using an email address I use on SA and CC. They wanted a face picture and a video of a certain pose. No thanks. I used a different email address and normal browser and had no security issues.
I paid for a month and have had two meets with two more planed this week. All SB sites take a lot more work than escorts, but the payoff is usually lower mileage women offering a higher ROI. Just takes patience.
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[QUOTE=RecycleBin;6971584]I made an account on SDM in an incognito browser using an email address I use on SA and CC. They wanted a face picture and a video of a certain pose. No thanks. I used a different email address and normal browser and had no security issues.
I paid for a month and have had two meets with two more planed this week. All SB sites take a lot more work than escorts, but the payoff is usually lower mileage women offering a higher ROI. Just takes patience.[/QUOTE]Agree, it takes a bit more work to find a good sugar baby, but the value is much better than with escorts or even massage spots now. I saw one 20 yo skinny mixed girl this Friday. I got her contact info from SDM about a month ago; she stayed over for 3 hours, had sex 3 times all raw and paid $300 plus Uber to my place and back. Slept like a baby after she left. Can't beat that.
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Blonde SB
I got a good one for you boys today. Was browsing on the seeking site in hopes to find a new UTR. Came across a blonde tatted 30 year old spinner. No, I don't have a membership, but I was able to find her on the book.
Hit her up we talked a little bit. She was hesitant till I said where I found her from then she opened up fast. I offered extras and she agreed. We agreed to 300 roses nothing off limits even greek. I don't normally pay this much but because of her background I said screw it.
Her room is located near that famous building blocks park hint hint.
I get to the room and we introduce ourselves. She is super sweet and kind. She loves to talk.
Here's the weird thing. She started using candy in front of me. She told me she just started and she knows itll be a problem soon and she is embarrassed. It was brand new equipment and only a little bit of candy so I kinda believed her. It took her 10 seconds to hit and then onto the dream.
I had her undress. She has a sexy ass body since she used to model. No baby damage no signs of candy at all. Tits are man made, but not huge so they were perfect for me.
She gave ok head. After 10 minutes I told her go on all fours. That ass from behind is amazing. She got really into it and I'm not a big dude so I rarely believe it, but this was a first. Eventually, I filled her up. She said she's not on the pill so she will have to head to walgreens woops. She asked if I wanted to chill or go for round 2. I declined. I am not a good looking dude so I think she is just that nice.
This whole time she never asked about the donation. When I pulled it out and started counting she asked that I didn't do it in front of her.
Would I repeat? Probably not. My other UTRs are more my type. I am willing to share her though.
Seniors only pm me. I will share seeking profile not her name or her book so don't ask. If you find it that's on you. She is NOT aware of this review or the board so don't mention me. I been snitched on once already don't ruin it.
Honestly it was so easy to get with her. She claims she is new to this but Idk.
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Hope this helps
I apologize my brothers I made this post wayy too late. There are 3 girls I have and still see but their profiles are no longer on seeking. One of them was mentioned in the post before this one. She says she is no longer interested in doing "dates" but still sees me so idk.
I have Helen 22 who also deleted her profile but I'm pretty sure she would be more open to you all so I will try.
I did want to mention my recent interactions. I hope this post makes it easier for anyone who is looking.
Brooklynnn 33.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9997ec75-40db-813c-ae5b-dae3a052fd0a[/URL]
She looks amazing almost too good to be true. She wanted 600 for fun but I told her it was too much. She got offended and showed me her work. Turns out she is an ex porn star. I was still cautious and did some digging. She is real and I found her real name and fb (I won't share don't ask). I can share porn star name but not sure if I can on this post so pm me.
I still won't do 600 though.
Krystal, 33.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f50a3786-ff4c-4372-b62f-0b02bfde8da4[/URL]
I was desperate one night and this little thing hit me up. She gave me her number and we got straight to the point. $ for BBFS had to pull out. Nice little body but I wouldn't repeat.
Diana, 21.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ba3918f-8ad5-4008-b9b1-43de35d7d1c7[/URL]
Wants $$ but she has too many rules. Passed.
Aemelia, 24.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cef4b7a2-20fa-4e01-81ac-b28101ec1d43[/URL]
She messaged me and I gave her my number then crickets.
CaptainaliA, 35.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a94585ae-50c9-47bf-960b-7daf0c43f719[/URL]
Talked her down to $$$ but wasnt worth it for me. She did verify through text and sent me content. Profile says Brooksville but she is in lake alfed.
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3 photos
December update
Helen.
She is back.
Saw her a couple more times for 150 BBFS.
She is fun and sexy but I lost interest.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c035b657-578b-4b75-8150-8bbe1c4f85a3[/URL]
Sierra.
Recently chatted and we got straight to the point. She wanted 600 FS I lowered her down to 300 but ill pass. This girl is FINE but I rather save my $. I have a specific type if I'm spending a lot.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e561ff06-c3a5-4a49-97bd-601f847604a4[/URL]