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[QUOTE=Roscoe65;5452860]Does anyone have experience with her? Asian went to IU?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b694e161-75cd-407c-9314-96a3fa982d2b[/URL]
Chatted with her for a while but never met. As you can see her profile says platonic. Definitely get the impression that intimacy will take a lot of work if ever. I didn't think the effort would be worth it.
[QUOTE=CenturyRider;5453187]This is a general inquiry / conversation starter. Say you want to travel someplace nice, thinking Costa Rica, Belize, Hawaii etc. And want to take a SB for company. Beyond paying for their flight, the hotel, meals and incidentals, what kind of additional gifts for a week long trip is normal. I know that everyone is different, so I'm just wanting to get some fellow monger's experience and thoughts. On the one hand, you are giving the SB a great vacation experience totally for free which is a nice gift on its own, on the other you are expecting them to be your bed partner the entire trip. Anyone care to share opinions, thoughts, experiences with this sort of arrangement?[/QUOTE]I am not sure why you would want to do that. Being single has so many advantages.
Like not having to explain why we do things. Would you really want to put up with that crap from someone on a vacation / trip? Why are you on your phone so much? We already had sex today, why do you want sex so much? Why do you put so much ketchup on your eggs? Why did you look at her that way? Why can't we eat at the 5 star restaurant again? Why do we have to do everything together? On and on.
Enjoy being single and don't wish you weren't.
[QUOTE=Roscoe65;5452860]Does anyone have experience with her? Asian went to IU?[/QUOTE]I had a M&G with her last year, I think someone on this board throated her before. She wanted to meet a few times before intimacy is exchanged. She's petite, standoffish, you'll waste a lot of time with her. If you want to take your time and wait 1-2 months before hitting it, she's the right girl.
I had review her last year, you can go through my post or search her name.
[QUOTE=DuckRep;5453317][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b694e161-75cd-407c-9314-96a3fa982d2b[/URL]
Chatted with her for a while but never met. As you can see her profile says platonic. Definitely get the impression that intimacy will take a lot of work if ever. I didn't think the effort would be worth it.[/QUOTE]She requires paid platonic dates to start which is against the rules. To those who break that rule, please stop.
[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5453806]She requires paid platonic dates to start which is against the rules. To those who break that rule, please stop.[/QUOTE]Well said Zakk Wylde!
[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5453806]She requires paid platonic dates to start which is against the rules. To those who break that rule, please stop.[/QUOTE]I have a platonic friend who always wants money for no sex, my ex wife.
[QUOTE=DuckRep;5452898]So this girl was advertising on arrows last year under the name Lindsay Hill I believe.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e2588a86-acdd-439a-a9e7-c95c7f046c9f.[/URL]
I think at the time she wanted 450 or $500 an hour for a visit on Eros. Just saw that she popped up on seeking arrangements again. Has anyone seen her recently and if so what kind of allowance is she looking for. A friend of mine had seen her a couple years back and he said she was definitely a fun time and had a definite kinky side.[/QUOTE]I've met up with her multiple times and she's definitely fun, but now is living with her new bf and not playing on the side.
I had some weird chats with her that left me suspicious so I blocked her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06a03a59-d4cb-42b5-a9e4-5bf04cbfdfea[/URL]
Forgive me for stating the obvious but never ask a sugar baby to lunch for a meet and greet as she could be hideous and a total waste of time and lunch money. Coffee or a drink is the only play so you can get out quickly if necessary. I got cocky and stupid but never again.
[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5456461]Forgive me for stating the obvious but never ask a sugar baby to lunch for a meet and greet as she could be hideous and a total waste of time and lunch money. Coffee or a drink is the only play so you can get out quickly if necessary. I got cocky and stupid but never again.[/QUOTE]Been there myself, but it never hurts to hear it again.
[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5456461]Forgive me for stating the obvious but never ask a sugar baby to lunch for a meet and greet as she could be hideous and a total waste of time and lunch money. Coffee or a drink is the only play so you can get out quickly if necessary. I got cocky and stupid but never again.[/QUOTE]And always have an exit strategy.
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5457878]And always have an exit strategy.[/QUOTE]Never ever get too close. You both are there for a reason. If you want a relationship, SA is not the place.
I haven't taken the plunge yet on Seeking and am wondering if everybody pays the premium or if any of you have had success with the basic membership (public picture with the face blurred / pixelated)? Do the SBs care, or will they simply scroll past your messages if they see you're a basic member? Or will they be more likely to respond when they see you're not Jabba the Hut?
[QUOTE=Zman511;5458946]I haven't taken the plunge yet on Seeking and am wondering if everybody pays the premium or if any of you have had success with the basic membership (public picture with the face blurred / pixelated)? Do the SBs care, or will they simply scroll past your messages if they see you're a basic member? Or will they be more likely to respond when they see you're not Jabba the Hut?[/QUOTE]I don't think guys can message without premium. At least I never have been able to.
[QUOTE=Zman511;5458946]I haven't taken the plunge yet on Seeking and am wondering if everybody pays the premium or if any of you have had success with the basic membership (public picture with the face blurred / pixelated)? Do the SBs care, or will they simply scroll past your messages if they see you're a basic member? Or will they be more likely to respond when they see you're not Jabba the Hut?[/QUOTE]The biggest issue with not being at least a gold member is that you cannot see messages that sugar babies may send you, nor can you send messages to them. Typically, I'll pay the $90+ for only a month, collect plenty of contact info, and work those until I've exhausted them for various reasons. Then a few months later, I'll re-up for another 30 days. You can get plenty of prospects in a month's time if you work it right. Happy hunting!
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5459063]The biggest issue with not being at least a gold member is that you cannot see messages that sugar babies may send you, nor can you send messages to them. Typically, I'll pay the $90+ for only a month, collect plenty of contact info, and work those until I've exhausted them for various reasons. Then a few months later, I'll re-up for another 30 days. You can get plenty of prospects in a month's time if you work it right. Happy hunting![/QUOTE]I've had a profile on there for probably 7-8 yrs, in that time I have maybe purchased 7-8 individual months. I'm on one now because of the special they ran. As Spin says, If you can't get enough working over a 30 day period of time you probably need to just stick to services like Eros and DI.
TB.
I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]There's a wide range of what SBs are looking for. Decide what you want and present it as that. Be upfront and you'll have a better chance of finding an SB that is looking for the same things that you are.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]I've had a SB I saw once a week and I've had a "regular" where I just saw the same escort once a week. The literal only difference was money. The escort I paid 3 bills for a date at an hour of her time (usually closer to 90, but you get the idea). The SB I paid 3 bills for a date at 4 to 6 hours of her time. Dinner, movies, shopping, whatever. I could have had the exact same thing with the "escort" but it would have cost a grand a week. In truth I had just as good a connection with the escort. No drama with either situation.
In the end I chose variety.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]I think it was Charlie Sheen who said "I don't pay women for sex, I pay them to leave afterwards".
Your opinion on that statement might be an indicator of whether or not a "real" sugar relationship is right for you or not. It does take a near "dating" level of maintenance for some SBs, others are solely there for the sex and the cash (older guys are better at both usually), still others are only after the cash. I like variety along with a level of personal intimacy and have found it possible to find both through SBs. But I have also found bored women with no support structure limited friends that will try to be your best friend and bother the crap out of you especially around the times of the month when their bills are due and their "facilities" are of limited sexual interest.
[QUOTE=IndyRelaxed;5459426]There's a wide range of what SBs are looking for. Decide what you want and present it as that. Be upfront and you'll have a better chance of finding an SB that is looking for the same things that you are.[/QUOTE]Agreed completely, also you can sample to some degree while still searching for perfect SB.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]I know different guys like different things but cmon man. I'll take the smoking hot college girls all day thank you.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]I've banged about 50+ SB's the last 2 years, for about $. 5 to $$ max, got some free and some didn't want to throw $$. Some of the Seniors can vow to my statements as they know I'm not making this up. If you want a lay down, go to DI. If you want to be stimulate and have fun, get blown in the car on the way to dinner and then Greek some of the 19 year old by the airport hotels, SB's are the way to go. Most don't give you attitude or start watching the clock per se. I had 3 shots in two hours and she wanted to go some more, I had to cut it short because I ran out of gas.
Look, membership fees is less than a Benjamin, but that gets you 10-15 girls digits to round robin after and able to dump a few DNA in them how ever you want, without any rules.
Been chatting with this one recently, have a meet set up. Does anyone have any experience or info on her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bae8b4c0-bbf1-4ca4-91fb-2074cae2170c[/URL]
[QUOTE=OnlyBlondes;5459867]I've banged about 50+ SB's the last 2 years, for about $. 5 to $$ max, got some free and some didn't want to throw $$. Some of the Seniors can vow to my statements as they know I'm not making this up. If you want a lay down, go to DI. If you want to be stimulate and have fun, get blown in the car on the way to dinner and then Greek some of the 19 year old by the airport hotels, SB's are the way to go. Most don't give you attitude or start watching the clock per se. I had 3 shots in two hours and she wanted to go some more, I had to cut it short because I ran out of gas.
Look, membership fees is less than a Benjamin, but that gets you 10-15 girls digits to round robin after and able to dump a few DNA in them how ever you want, without any rules.[/QUOTE]This game is no different than the game we've all played since we were young. Totally agree and can validate OB's comments. This has been my experience exactly over the 7-8 yrs I've been on SA. But, I also understand that if you've got some game, you're better looking than some, you might be able to navigate the SB waters differently than others. It's truly YMMV! These are basically chicks that won't admit to themselves that they are hookers even though they discovered they're sitting on a goldmine. It's like the old joke about asking a woman, "would you suck his dick for a million dollars", she replies "yes" and you come back with, "well we've determined what you are, now we just need to negotiate the price".
Just My Take.
TB.
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;5454316]I had some weird chats with her that left me suspicious so I blocked her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06a03a59-d4cb-42b5-a9e4-5bf04cbfdfea[/URL][/QUOTE]She wanted $3 k a month allowance. Next!
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;5454316]I had some weird chats with her that left me suspicious so I blocked her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06a03a59-d4cb-42b5-a9e4-5bf04cbfdfea[/URL][/QUOTE]She wanted $3 k a month allowance. Next!
Hey guys. This one contacted me and immediately wanted to meet. Seems nice and is well spoken, but very anxious. She offered 300 for a meet. I offered 200. Instantly accepted. I eventually questioned her about her eagerness, and she said she is in Indy and from Milwaukee, and it is her last night here. She was going to come here, then decided she wanted me to come there after we had agreed. Then, she wanted to know how much. After we had agreed. Anyway, I bailed, but she gave me permission to post her info here. Maybe one of you can rescue her and let me know if she is the real deal! LOL. Enjoy!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1446ffa3-129a-46d0-91ea-c51814d66426[/URL]
I have a number to text if you Seniors would like. This chick has me curious! She is a cutie, but I am an hour from Indy, and not driving there without a sure thing.
Be safe out there!
[QUOTE=TVDinner;5462726]She wanted $3 k a month allowance. Next![/QUOTE]I'm not surprised given her attitude in my exchanges with her.
[QUOTE=MiscGuy;5463606]Hey guys. This one contacted me and immediately wanted to meet. Seems nice and is well spoken, but very anxious.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1446ffa3-129a-46d0-91ea-c51814d66426[/URL]
I have a number to text if you Seniors would like. This chick has me curious! She is a cutie, but I am an hour from Indy, and not driving there without a sure thing.
Be safe out there![/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/599d18c1-b966-4d04-8714-8f66f96f718e[/URL]
She has at least 2 active profiles. She messaged me using both. Seems a bit over eager.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5459329]I posted awhile back asking about expectations with SB. I got some good info but still didn't pull the trigger. I have a lot of fun just seeing the girls from DI, what sounds appealing is having a more interpersonal relationship. And I suspect that's the appeal for most of you as well. What I observe here is that it seems like a lot of work to maintain SB. Am I just focusing on the negative? With escorts. I just leave and no drama. Perhaps I want my cake and eat it too.[/QUOTE]Responses to this post have been awesome and I'm mostly just saying "ditto", but IMO SB's are the way to go. As many have said, sign up for a month on Seeking and I think you'll find it very beneficial. If you're at all attractive you won't have trouble getting numbers. The chase adds to the excitement for me, and getting to know a SB through regular texting and meetups usually provides excellent experiences. Don't get me wrong, DI girls are amazing and I will continue to support that occasionally, but it's hard to beat finding a young college hottie with minimal experience you can break in over time, or a 30/40-something MILF that needs a boy toy to go crazy on for a while.
Another benefit IMO is the safety. You'll still come across scammers on Seeking or other sites but the dangers of LEO's are basically non-existent compared to STG or something similar. Not to mention you're one of hundreds of rides for an escort and I haven't found that to be the case with SB's.
Take it easy fellas.
[QUOTE=Slayter9;5464450][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/599d18c1-b966-4d04-8714-8f66f96f718e[/URL]
She has at least 2 active profiles. She messaged me using both. Seems a bit over eager.[/QUOTE]Her profile picture looks nice. I asked for additional photos, which she sent right away.
Sorry but I wasn't interested. Pretty bad actually.
On a good note, I was able to hook up with a 22 yr old blonde on the NS from out West. 5'10", beautiful, and built really well. She lost her credit card and is staying at an upscale hotel through her job. Picked her up and took her home for several hours. Absolutely perfect in every way. So they are out there. It's been almost 4 months since I've connected with something decent on SA. Last night changed that. She wants to get together again tonight and Tuesday. Since its been a long drought, I'm on it! SA has picked up this past week.
Rad.
Hey all,
I met this one yesterday in Anderson: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6fdb31de-a10e-4b28-b28d-700e08904003.[/URL].
I don't want to say anything bad, as she is a very nice young lady. She may not be everyone's cup of tea, but I plan to repeat.
She is a little rougher than her pics, but attractive. She was very clean, and hosts in a safe place.
She is not a fan of receiving DATY, but is happy to provide for BBBJ for you. And there is some baby damage, but the CFS felt nice to me. .
The worst part is that she smoke 420, and the place smelled of that. I bet she would try to clear it out before your arrival, if you ask though.
YMMV, and your arrangement may vary, but it was fair for me. And she is local to me, so that is a bonus.
Please be nice to her, and no need to share exactly what I have said about her here.
She said that I can share her number with Seniors, and I will be happy to do that.
Be safe out there!
Hey guys,
I'm a Sr. Member from Atlanta about to spend several weeks in your area. Been texting with this one and initially looks like a good bet to get together. I've searched this thread looking for any feedback on her with no luck. Anyone have any experience? Or any other suggestions for an out of towner? Reply or DM's appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/36af3ab6-909a-45f5-a64d-475c9300b998[/URL]
[QUOTE=DuckRep;5419869][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd1a7a5d-dde9-4ef8-b78b-8525e55a68c5[/URL]
Chatted with her a bunch. Agrees to meet then crickets. Has been on site for a long time but says she never had a SD which is definitely not a good sign. I get the strong feeling she is a complete time waster. Anyone have a different experience with her?[/QUOTE]So this girl reached out again to me out of the blue via text. Wanted stupid money, closer to 1 K, I messed with her and got her down a little just to mess with her. She agreed to meet today and then got side ways, blaming car, rent, grandma and work. Of course she never held her end as she said she'll give me her location to her address before we meet and long behold, no address.
True time waster and messed up in her brains, beware. She did this a few times to me last year, I wanted to play along and reported back as I already had plan and no intention to meet her.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee31fb40-503a-4d37-94da-8e4ab82596ec[/URL]
Chatted with this one. A bit delusional. Wants to start a business but doesn't want to work just wants to make money. Hmmmm!! Wanted $600 ppm and I countered with $300. Was very offended because all her SD give her $600 and are her best friends. Well if you are looking for a best friend and have $600 to spare she is your girl.
Her profile kind of says she is a pro which doesn't bother me. Does anyone know if she is worth a ride? Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b8063d7-5007-4ce5-b91e-63afc88403aa[/URL]
Her and 4 of her friends will be downtown having an orgy. You send her $100 beforehand and she'll send you the hotel info. You get to watch and join in, then give her $200 when you leave. LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/43a66f41-5bce-41ff-b92a-21bd26f1ce3e[/URL]
She tries to play the mind game of lots of men claim to be wealthy but won't send $100. She didn't like that I explained most people don't get rich by being stupid.
[QUOTE=DuckRep;5471464][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee31fb40-503a-4d37-94da-8e4ab82596ec[/URL]
Chatted with this one. A bit delusional. Wants to start a business but doesn't want to work just wants to make money. Hmmmm!! Wanted $600 ppm and I countered with $300. Was very offended because all her SD give her $600 and are her best friends. Well if you are looking for a best friend and have $600 to spare she is your girl.[/QUOTE]She's a dancer, works at Dancers and a couple other places and is very impressed with herself.
Had several convo's with Classyco. Seems real. She comes and goes. Seems picky. Not sure about the European angle. Has anyone else experienced her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c33ecb76-b767-4479-8ae0-73224e8b07eb[/URL]