I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?
I've had latinas, lebaneses, Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese, Thai, VIetnamese.
Not yet a Filipino in the states.
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I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?
I've had latinas, lebaneses, Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese, Thai, VIetnamese.
Not yet a Filipino in the states.
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5826692]I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?
I've had latinas, lebaneses, Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese, Thai, VIetnamese.
Not yet a Filipino in the states.[/QUOTE]I'd recommend her. She's recently just returned with new upgrade on top. Though inflation hit her current rates, but still the same sweet provider nonetheless.
[URL]https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/MIA619Filipina[/URL]
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5826692]I'd like to collect them all as well, anyone know of Filipinos in the area that are great providers?[/QUOTE]Mia has already been mentioned. She's a true sweetheart and loved every time I've met up with her on many occassions. She dissappeard, but saw her last year with another provider I follow on IG, and mentioned to her to that I miss her. We keep distance because of mutual civi friendships. Think I might have to hit her up sometime.
There's also Vanessa. Limited menu, but she was always worth my time. She doesn't host down where I'm at that often anymore, but I have made to trip towards the Kearny area and have had multiple hours with her many times.
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/vanessaxo27[/URL]
Those are the only 2 that I know of, and some others I've met through HX have been just meh or outright bullshit, and was just available to scratch an itch, and was much cause of dissappointment or rage.
EDIT: I lied there's 4...my bad!
Grace...she's a looker, just haven't reached out to book. very very tempting though...on tour, but SD is home...Has an apt Downtown that she hosts out of.
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Texas/Dallas/miograce[/URL]
then there's Rosie....Gorgeous smile...met her and was like old friends with benefits...on tour a lot, but does make stops in SD often...
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/Eastvale/Rosealie143[/URL]
I heard there were a lot of Filipina women that would hang out at Mr. D's in Chula Vista at night looking for Mr. Goodbar or their soulmate. Can anyone confirm?
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5827212]Mia has already been mentioned. She's a true sweetheart and loved every time I've met up with her on many occassions. She dissappeard, but saw her last year with another provider I follow on IG, and mentioned to her to that I miss her. We keep distance because of mutual civi friendships. Think I might have to hit her up sometime.
There's also Vanessa. Limited menu, but she was always worth my time. She doesn't host down where I'm at that often anymore, but I have made to trip towards the Kearny area and have had multiple hours with her many times.
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/San-Diego/vanessaxo27[/URL]
Those are the only 2 that I know of, and some others I've met through HX have been just meh or outright bullshit, and was just available to scratch an itch, and was much cause of dissappointment or rage.
EDIT: I lied there's 4...my bad!
Grace...she's a looker, just haven't reached out to book. very very tempting though...on tour, but SD is home...Has an apt Downtown that she hosts out of.
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Texas/Dallas/miograce[/URL]
then there's Rosie....Gorgeous smile...met her and was like old friends with benefits...on tour a lot, but does make stops in SD often...
[URL]https://privatedelights.ch/USA/California/Eastvale/Rosealie143[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=AmpHunter101;5832806]So the story I got from one of the ladies who work at a parlor that is mentioned all too often on here (Daily) located in Spring Valley. On March 13th a wife came in the Parlor in tears, she says her husband has an STD and claims he does not know where he got it from? Supposedly The daughter found the parlors address on his GPS history along with websites in history on his computer that led her to the Parlor. Wife demanded too see video of date and time of GPS info. She was denied and very upset.[/QUOTE]This is a separate issue from the police raid that was a planned coordinated effort according to additional information I've been told. 3-spas with a dozen LE's storming in.
So much for the "under construction" story. Where's Poontang-J with his bogus reports when we need him?
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5832063]Actually, I heard there were multiple spas raided in Spring Valley along with a very popular spa on this forum.[/QUOTE]Is this recent? When anything is good to be true it probably is.
Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.
Your wisdom and maturity are apparent. Your way is the best way. I'll PM you some additional thoughts.
[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5836344]Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5831486]I heard there were a lot of Filipina women that would hang out at Mr. D's in Chula Vista at night looking for Mr. Goodbar or their soulmate. Can anyone confirm?[/QUOTE]Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5839889]Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.[/QUOTE]A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.
Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.
Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840680]Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DeeeezNutss;5840766]Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.[/QUOTE]Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840680]Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.[/QUOTE]Have a good time man! Maybe you'll get a chance to explore some new territory.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840776]Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.[/QUOTE]I took one of my most memorable motorcycle rides up US-1 from San Diego to Portland, then part of the 101 back south. Phenomenal roads and views! Personally, I consider that a solo trip, but more power to you if you can ride with a woman for that long. Haha!
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5840389]A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.[/QUOTE]I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).
I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe!
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5840979]I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5841084]I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe![/QUOTE]MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info.
{after I kiss the girl / s and hug MMS and thank them for their time, I put on my mask, head to my ride, and slowly leave the parking lot of the place. I turn up the car stereo, and do a slow clap build up to whatever song I have my iPod playing on the stereo, and keep singing like no one's watching}.
If the service gets me to do this (Almost EVERYTIME when I leave either VIP, or 108 with Eva. No joke, no lie, no cap), I definitely return.
Sorry this is long.
No doubt the girls at 108, VIP are more beautiful across the board along with a few other popular spas, but I do prefer the more laid back atmosphere of these less popular spas. Also, I tend to like a bit of a challenge getting a thrill by persuading a girl to push their boundaries. I'm sure a few of you can can relate to that.
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5841285]MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info. . .[/QUOTE]
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!
Excellent Tutorial!
Long live DrPornDawger the King of Cunnin Linguists!
The connoisseur of pleasing women!
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5862941]I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5862941]I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade..[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing, like your style.
Cheers.
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5862941]I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
{smile}
First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy![/QUOTE]Hey Dr! Definitely my favorite activity when I'm enjoying / being entertained by the ladies.
Excellent tutorial! Yes, you never want to assume that the ladies are enjoying themselves. Most probably are, but I want them all to enjoy it as much as I enjoy doing / performing it! ALWAYS make the ladies cum first!
So far I've had 100% success rate. Hehehe.
I always start out by giving the ladies a massage first. Massage relaxes the ladies and will get them in the mood. Similar to DATY don't assume they like soft or hard pressure. Ask what they like and if they have any areas that they would like for you to focus on. Give a true legit massage first. If the ladies immediately respond to your touches with sexual advances then you can slowly start your tease and into your DATY session. If they are enjoying the massage, then I continue with it, but tease with light kissing all over. Body, neck, ears, inner thighs, buttocks, etc. And her kitty every 5 minutes or so. When she is ready she'll start spreading her legs, raising her buttocks. That's when you focus more on the inner thighs and her kitty. Ask her to flip shortly after and resume the massage. She's probably already sexually ready so you don't need to spend too much on the massage, but a quick work on her legs, stomach and breasts then get on the table / bed between her legs and slowly start your DATY session. I go straight to her kitty to let her know what she will be experiencing. I do this for about a minute, then tease around her kitty with kissing every where around it, while using one hand to squeeze her breasts or fingering her kitty (unless you are with someone you are in a LTR with, make sure your fingernails are cut and clean- it's probably good if it's with a LTR person. It's good hygiene and they'll appreciate it).
Again not all girls like it done the same way, so ask what / how she likes it done. I also pay close attention to how they respond where my tongue goes / is. Make them cum first. Unless they are pushing your head away when they are cumming I keep my tongue on her until she is done. When / after she releases the death grip of your head with her legs then you can do it again. After her 2nd or 3rd O, I then tease her with junior with some P2 P. This will drive her crazy before the main event. I've been able to make the ladies cum during P2 P. If not go back to DATY once more until she is close to cum. When she is already ready is when I'll enter her with junior. Of course this'll have to be in at least an hour or 90 minutes session. LOL.
Yes, don't forget to let the ladies know how much you like licking her pussy.
Great topic, Dr!
Have fun fellas. I have an appointment tonight. Hehehe.
Great work from the Dr. and the King. Thanks guys.
Thai New Year is April 13th-15th. Reach out to your favorite Thai provider (s) and wish her / them HNY.
I hear people saying they're doing this to check the validity of an ad; if someone doesn't mind, could you post on here how to do this? Might be trivial but could also save a lot of us some time on questionable ads. TIA.
[QUOTE=DavDerk;5869675]I hear people saying they're doing this to check the validity of an ad; if someone doesn't mind, could you post on here how to do this? Might be trivial but could also save a lot of us some time on questionable ads. TIA.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.howtogeek.com/318012/how-to-reverse-look-up-a-phone-number/[/URL]
Happy Easter All!
Lots of ladies are texting me and inviting me over, offering specials, etc. LOL.
I know with it being Easter Sunday many mongers are probably with family, GF, SO, etc.
It's a great hobbying days for us "single guys. " I've already been to 2 nonFS AMPs today. Excellent massages and lots of fun play. Going to go see one of my favorite independent with an offer I couldn't pass up on later tonight, after meeting an UTR for some tasty Hot Pot. LOL.
Have fun and be safe all!
Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5876906]Happy Easter All!
Lots of ladies are texting me and inviting me over, offering specials, etc. LOL.
I know with it being Easter Sunday many mongers are probably with family, GF, SO, etc.
It's a great hobbying days for us "single guys. " I've already been to 2 nonFS AMPs today. Excellent massages and lots of fun play. Going to go see one of my favorite independent with an offer I couldn't pass up on later tonight, after meeting an UTR for some tasty Hot Pot. LOL.
Have fun and be safe all![/QUOTE]
It's not worth asking, Bro.
Everyone has their own individual budget and capability. You do what you can with the resources you have.
Focus on your career, keep your income stable, and see how you can improve yourself to increase the money flow. Also, look at where your spending priorities are. If you love the beautiful women enthusiastically sucking your cock, put your financial priority there. Cook for yourself, prepare your own coffee, minimize the takeout to save on expenditure.
You can ask the ladies how balling their more affluent customers can get, and some guys' spending ability will simply humble us peasants.
I am aware that there are some gentlemen who are just fucking ballers but they put a premium on discretion and don't post anything at all. The guys I am jealous of are the business travelers. I have an ATF who, after her San Diego assignment, went to work in Arizona. I am told some guys are able to do business with her there. Then I overheard she's currently working up in Sacramento. Just jealous of those with itinerant capability.
If you want beautiful women on a budget, load your wallet and go to town at HK Tijuana. Supermodel quality and affordable.
To each their own, Bro.
Cheers.
[QUOTE=JiggyPants;5885659]Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?[/QUOTE]
Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
[QUOTE=CuriousJo8;5886028]It's not worth asking, Bro.
Everyone has their own individual budget and capability. You do what you can with the resources you have.
Focus on your career, keep your income stable, and see how you can improve yourself to increase the money flow. Also, look at where your spending priorities are. If you love the beautiful women enthusiastically sucking your cock, put your financial priority there. Cook for yourself, prepare your own coffee, minimize the takeout to save on expenditure.
If you want beautiful women on a budget, load your wallet and go to town at HK Tijuana. Supermodel quality and affordable..[/QUOTE][QUOTE=JiggyPants;5885659]Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?[/QUOTE]Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you!
I appreciate the wisdom fellas. I guess I'm more interested in how you break down the wall of an AMP chick to get her on the side. I have the income to be kinda reckless haha but I seem to have a solid track record in converting independent gals to go on dates, or bare FS when I'm there for a massage. But the parlor is a different thrill and challenge.
Same tactics aren't working on the AMP girls. But I will be the first to admit I never know who the mms is so it's hard to build a rapport unless a girl is local and I know it. I'm newish to the game lots to learn.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5886261]Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5886261]Yes, I agree with CuriousJo8 that everyone has their own individual budget so do what works best for you. I spend most of my resources on non FS spas. When I can confirm there are great talents at FS spas like at 108,7, Diamond, NLBC, etc. Then I will make my visits.
Curious has some great suggestions that I also do to help with budgeting for this pricey hobby. Instead of buying coffee at Starbucks, I either go to 7-11 because their coffee is just as good and you get it for 1/3 of the cost. Plus they give you rewards. Better yet, buy a Keurig coffee maker and make your coffee at home or at the office. Prepare your own lunches for work, or find good lunches on a budget. I only do sit down lunches once a week to avoid having to pay for them sit down restaurant prices, tips, etc. I do mainly take outs and bring it back to the office. I'm single so it is easier because I just have to worry about my needs so take outs work for me. I go to happy hour here and there but we only go to places that have specials.
Yes, I've gone to Mexico when I was younger, and it's less costly but I prefer our local ladies now that I'm older.
Bro, you know I'm a huge fan of non FS spas. You and I have shared and talked about some of our favorite spots. Remembered the 20 something model like we kept a secret. LOL. Just because she moved, left the business (boyfriend) that doesn't mean she won't come back. She and I still text each other.
Another thing I do is buy 10 massages and I get one free. Some places give you a card and put a stamp on it after each visit and you get the 11th massage for free after 10 visits are complete. Instead of doing it that way some spas will (still only) charge me $400 if I pay for 10 massages in advance; other will charge me $500 for 10. I only have this arrangement with 4 - 5 spas that I like to frequent. This way I get the HF out of the way. Tips will be between $50-$100 depending on the services offered. Because I'm a regular the girls do not demand for high tips. They also all love my massages so they don't care as much for a huge tip. There are many unicorns at these non FS spas and the menu expands when becoming a regular. The initial investments can be pricey at first, but once the ladies are comfortable with you they will okay with the $50, $70/$80 or $100 tip included in the expanded menu.
There are also still many $50/ hour or $50 for 45 minutes massage places that I frequent so that helps with cost.
Find and do what's comfortable for you![/QUOTE]Agreed with RCDY.
I started taking my own lunches to work. I buy some tea bags and use my keurig at home for some hot water + tea / coffee. The money you save will add up. Also, If I'm feeling for a SDAG special then I'll work a per diem shift to make up for it.
[QUOTE=InstinctGoku;5886543]Agreed with RCDY.
I started taking my own lunches to work. I buy some tea bags and use my keurig at home for some hot water + tea / coffee. The money you save will add up. Also, If I'm feeling for a SDAG special then I'll work a per diem shift to make up for it.[/QUOTE]This hobby can definitely be addictive especially when there are great talents in our city, but it should never set us back or make us go into debt. Paying for the house fees ahead of time (buying the 10 massage offers) when I have the funds has helped with how I managed my hobbying. Because my HF is already covered, tipping $150-$200 per week is doable for me. Yes, some months I'll need the additional $1,000 to keep my HF current and get the package.
Yes, going to / using SDAG, FEC and FS spas is when I want to treat myself from my "normal. " But I am selective and will only see my ATFs when they are in town. I'm not TOFTT as much as I used to when I first started hobbying.
[QUOTE=JiggyPants;5885659]Geez I need to get to get on this level. Just curious- what is your weekly fun budget? I've gotten a few numbers from spa girls and had much better success with independent girls. With all the turnover how do you maintain those connections? You mainly sticking to the gals that stay local?[/QUOTE]Like everyone else has said focus on your career / job. Minimize where you can, less take out, less Starbucks coffee, subscriptions to Netflix, Spotify, etc. Cook at home more often, then meal prep, buy in bulk, coupon what you can. There is no shame in saving money. Also picking up an extra shift of OT so you can play is always nice. Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses. If you prioritize having this hobbie then you could make an excel sheet to see where your budget is going monthly (I know if you google excel finance sheet it'll give free) and what funds you can allocate. I myself will sometimes go 2-3 times in a month or skip a month and make it up the next month. It really depends, I skipped part of April as uncle Sam has me owing him a significant amount. I make sure all my bills and obligations are handled before I budget a visit and look for intel from fellow members on whom I should spend my money and time with. This hobby is expensive and comes with risk. Take everyone's advice with a grain of salt and only do what you feel comfortable doing, I. E. "stay in your lane. " If you can only budget once a month then that's it until you can find more income. Hope this helps and it doesn't offend you or any fellow mongers.
[QUOTE=ADwightSchrute;5886938]Like everyone else has said focus on your career / job. Minimize where you can, less take out, less Starbucks coffee, subscriptions to Netflix, Spotify, etc. Cook at home more often, then meal prep, buy in bulk, coupon what you can. There is no shame in saving money. Also picking up an extra shift of OT so you can play is always nice. Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses. If you prioritize having this hobbie then you could make an excel sheet to see where your budget is going monthly (I know if you google excel finance sheet it'll give free) and what funds you can allocate. I myself will sometimes go 2-3 times in a month or skip a month and make it up the next month. It really depends, I skipped part of April as uncle Sam has me owing him a significant amount. I make sure all my bills and obligations are handled before I budget a visit and look for intel from fellow members on whom I should spend my money and time with. This hobby is expensive and comes with risk. Take everyone's advice with a grain of salt and only do what you feel comfortable doing, I. E. "stay in your lane. " If you can only budget once a month then that's it until you can find more income. Hope this helps and it doesn't offend you or any fellow mongers.[/QUOTE]This hobby like any hobby is quite expensive.
Heck I was going out on the traditional date during the normal times (not the pandemic). Dinner and dancing (nightclubs) $60-200 meals and drinks, sometimes a ball game, theatre play or concert (upto $1000 depends if I get a deal on tickets). And that's just the date, no frigging action. Usually takes about 3-5 dates. Costing to about $3000+ to get some action.
With the escorts or AMPs 140-200/ hhr or 120-400+/ hr. Some have reported 1 k+/ hr. (The ones with deep pockets). You can also watch the 60 min australian version.
[URL]https://youtu.be/xQF7RDSjQYQ[/URL]
Golf, video games, or just plain traveling is expensive.
I know a guy, again before the pandemic, he would spend 3-4 months in Thailand, he works remote and a software engineer. Another guy lives and works in Argentina, comes to the states as a vacation, probably just to check in. Or even fly to the Philippines, Cambodia, Vietnam.
I agree with everyone, budget what you can and live on. I do get envious with others who can play more than I can, but I live vicariously through their stories.
The most inexpensive way is:
I use the imagination reading their adventures, pretend to be in their shoes and wank off.
Just like the MasterCard commercial.
Priceless and one big round number: 0 cost.
Was I taken advantage of or seduced?
Here's the situation.
Went to a ballroom dance party with my woman friend who I admire and feel very attracted to in New York. I know she likes me as a friend (the infamous friend zone). I got the courage to discuss with her about our relationship and would like to see if we become more than friends.
Politely she was clear that it wasn't going anywhere and I respected that. (Heart breaking) Our flight was later that night, but she encouraged me to stay and have fun.
Back to the party dancing with different women and (I don't want to brag, I'm a pretty good dancer) and lots of women wanted to dance with me especially one lady who kept asking me to dance.
I felt down and I was drinking with my friends, even when my dancing was not in tune and I've turned down some great dances, that certain lady kept asking me throughout the night.
As the party ended and the music stopped, I found myself too drunk to drive my car. I told my roommates that I will walk around a bit to get sober and be able to drive. As I'm walking about and enjoying the people pass by, that specific woman that was pursuing me all night came over. We started to make small talk and I told her I'm trying to sober up a bit before I drive.
She knew that I was drunk and chatted with me, probably to help me get sober.
What I remember was she was asking me questions and it went to the path of the sexual nature and flirtatiousness, of course I flirted back, why not.
She asked me," want to see my boobs. " Who would dare say no to an attractive woman (well nowadays we all have to be careful).
Heck of course I would and she exposed them right there in public. (There was hardly anyone around).
One thing led to another and we ended up in the back of my car. (I asked if I can touch them, she said yes, and then suckled on those pretty nips).
She unzipped my pants, luckily I wasn't too funky down there after all that dancing. Went down on me, and in turn I remember going under her dress and sliding her panties off.
I passed out after the intense romp and she cuddled with me until it was time for us to go.
Just intense sex. Wow did it sober me up.
And that was that. Never saw her again.
Was I used for pleasure?
[QUOTE=ADwightSchrute;5886938]Pick up a side hustle to fund your "fun" expenses.[/QUOTE]Drive Uber or Lyft. Or do Door Dash or Uber Eats. Make a few extra bucks to help fund the hobby, plus perfect excuse to get out of the house and away from the Old Hag for a few hours.
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5890584]One thing led to another and we ended up in the back of my car.
(I asked if I can touch them, she said yes, and then suckled on those pretty nips).
She unzipped my pants, luckily I wasn't too funky down there after all that dancing. Went down on me, and in turn I remember going under her dress and sliding her panties off.
I passed out after the intense romp and she cuddled with me until it was time for us to go.
Just intense sex. Wow did it sober me up.
And that was that. Never saw her again. Was I used for pleasure?[/QUOTE]You recalled the entire affair in great detail, so you weren't 'Black-Out' drunk.
And no one screamed 'Rape'.
So, I'd say that it was just two Consenting Adults enjoying each other's company (in the Biblical Sense).
I'm guessing we will hear the next chapter of ‘How I met your Mother’ in 9-months from now, Dr. PornDaddy.
[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5890584]Was I taken advantage of or seduced?
Was I used for pleasure?[/QUOTE]Yes you were seduced, yes you were used for pleasure. Not sure what the problem is here, but I'd say lucky you.
And lets not forget you seduced her with your magnificent dance moves, and used her for pleasure too.
Sounds like a great arrangement to me.