Don't make it complicated
I think you are making it too complicated, yet these are chicks even though SWs, they are indeed complicated in nature. Some value there time differently regardless of skillsets and us mongers value our hard earn dollars differently too, so we all have to meet each other in the middle.
The main things are cover, no cover. I've mentioned no condoms and they look at me like an alien and are like ok you want a condom, no I said no condom, oh ok that's an up charge, fuck. Most don't even know what a condom is and a light bulb lights up in their head. So now you're going to go into the stroll and pick up the pretty short hair brunette spinner and she pulls out a condom on you and you come back to me pist. I thought you said SWs don't use condoms, well she does that's why I never pick her up LOL. So get straight to the point, catch or spit, etc, all I got is X, no condom is even mentioned bam.
I know some mongers on here get very specific with acronyms and DTs and FIKs, look straight in my eyes and shit, multiple X with a basis point for each mark and you get "why". Then you end up with come all over your steering wheel because you just confused the shit out of them, so noI try to keep it simple.
Second important point and it's only for FS. Some still believe in condoms for that. Any thing else you mention will probably be an up charge so stick to your guns X for example CIP and etc bam, no cover even mentioned.
[QUOTE=Colsnoob;6285080]When you guys negotiate what do you say, terms and such? I've seen many reports over the years saying "negotiated X for Y"; well what do you say exactly? I haven't really said much specific (the limited times I have been able to get out) because I feel that if I don't use common lingo that they are all used to hearing then I come across as new and taken to the wringer.
Do you say "I want a bare blowjob. ", or do you use the acronym? "I want a BBBJ"? Perhaps you say it in question form? "How about a <insert terms / acronym for why plus a tip for good service?
Appreciate the discussion, just trying to understand how folks approach the deal. To be honest I haven't read the Starter Pack / Newbie tips in years so if it's all there, muh bad..[/QUOTE]
SWs can play themselves too
[QUOTE=DeezNutz33;6285906]NEVER, EVER EVER discuss anything at all besides [b]"want a ride?" "You Look Cold, want to get in?"[/b] etc. through the Window.
Once she is in the Car and you are a block or so away from scoop, then discuss whatever, but again. NEVER, EVER, EVER through the Window. Reasoning, you'll find yourself with a soliciting charge.
A UC / LEO is not going to go for a ride with you, at least I've never had it happen, not 100% about the legalities, but I do know they are wanting you to make an offer for a sex act in exchange for money.[/QUOTE]Man sometimes even the SWs don't get the hint. One time I pulled up to one and asked her "do you need a ride?" She quickly declines and is about to turn to walk away. I'm trying hard not to chuckle at this point because she doesn't get that I'm being cautious. I then reply with "Are you sure?" She straight up says "I'm out here trying to make money. " I'm about to burst out laughing at this point because I'm thinking to myself "Geez what if I was a UC?" At that point I just tell her to get in. On the way to the spot I had to explain to her why I said what I said, and how not to incriminate yourself.
Sometimes the SWs don't know how to talk to us safely either.