I agree with everything you wrote
[QUOTE=3-MinutePassion;2867265]I have had this discussion with a friend of mine and we both agree if they have a sting set up, they will find a way to bust you. I don't think that is in dispute.
The discussion originated with a question about taking one for the team, which carries the greatest amount of risk. Those women that have not yet been vetted. In a situation like this I think you have to go with your gut. You are taking a pretty big risk when you do TOFTT. There is no sure fire way to meet a new woman without getting busted, but precautions can be taken and that is what the original question was concerning. You do all that you can to make the initial meeting as safe as possible. That is all you can do.[/QUOTE]Particularly regarding actions that lower your risk surface, and I wasn't trying to dissuade anyone from TOFTT. I was pointing specifically to the belief that if you don't mention sexual activities then LE can't bust you. This is false and everyone needs to know it. I understand that if I walk into a hotel room where:
[B]1. a woman has placed an advertisement for what are clearly sexual services.[/B]
[B]2. I have a large amount of money.[/B]
[B]3. There are condoms or other types of paraphernalia indicating pay 4 play activity (This is actually optional, the first two will get you busted).[/B]
Then the cops will hook me up and take me away (or give me a citation). Not mentioning sex or anything else won't stop that from happening. There's no "check" that will prove they aren't LE, except when she starts to suck or fuck you.
That's all. We just need to know that and not kid ourselves. You can lower the risk but not the reality of what you're doing.